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Fellas.... Fear wuse 2

one thing always lead to another, and people have sex, why can't just one thing lead to another make I blow.....into a lot of money!

atiku4President:
The way some of you reason baffles me. You mean the pastor who oversees the Church should have sat down and watch what he didn't know about happen in his presence? Tommoro if anything bad happens to the relationship (but God forbid) people like you will still come out and start insulting the pastor. What a generation we are in now

What's your point exactly?

Is the pastor responsible for what happens in a relationship/marriage or the Almighty God?

keep hyping your pastor

DoubleEngine007:
Mr nice guy... It usually doesn't end well.. Be careful ,cuz a word is enough bro..

God must bless you before the end of this year!

aminu114:
its your fault mr man u paid her mothers hospital bill u fed her u paid her house rent nd u still didnt ask for sex who told u because u are a wood plank that she too is? she has a desire nd u dnt or u go around fkng girls

The painful thing is that he's even a keke rider. A struggling guy.
na wah ooo

TOPCRUISE:
So are you still petting her or you did the needful

The guy na dodo... He certainly didn't do it coz he couldn't do it. He only ran to the internet to vent his anger.

Walai:
A girl I paid her mother's hospital bill, fed and provided for her and paid her expired house rent around May with my hard earned proceeds from keke without making any effort to bed her (until marriage) have the mind to have sex with another guy in the house I paid for.

Give us details na

ePoster:
Honest replies.

How long have you been celibate? why did you choose the lifestyle? and how easy has it been so far?

one week ooo and that nonsense ends today!

I can't kome and kill myself

KiidaACE:
whorre

This is meant to be warri abi?

KiidaACE:
This is where I ignore you though but I had to point this out.. Take a look at your write up, you said "a friend".. You never specified if it was male or female or don't you think there'll be a different reaction if a spouse should find out his /her partner is sending his/her pictures to the opposite sex?..
He his being childish about it anyway, nothing a good discuss can't solve.. And if it was a male friend you sent your pictures to and it wasn't for some professional reason or service of some sort, then i suggest you desist from doing that in the future, capische??

Modified: Just realized you're probably a troll and this never happened.. Either way i recognize where I'm wrong and apologize for not seeing the "HIM" in the first place.. Learn to leave a space after a fullstop before starting a new sentence.. The major reason my eyes missed it..

I don't take anything back after this though..

brilliant brother... can you coach me?
m too dull

References:
Governor Seyi Makinde of Oyo state, on Wednesday, announced the appointment of Mrs. Julian Nwachukwu as the liaison officer for Ibadan North Local Government Area of the State.

This was made in association with the appointments of Special Advisers on Community Relations 1 and 11, Federal Liaison offices etc.

Other Liaison Officers appointed by Makinde are; Alhaji Ajibike Osuolale Lateef (Iseyin, Itesiwaju, Kajola and Iwajowa); Alhaji Salami Lukman Adisa (Saki East, Saki West and Atisbo); Alhaji Afees Tijani (Orelope, Irepo and Olorunsogo); Hon. Ganiyu Laaro (Oriire, Ogbomoso North and Ogbomoso South); Mr. Sanjo Akintola (Ogo-Oluwa and Surulere); Mr. Wale Ogunmola (Afijio, Oyo West, Oyo East and Atiba); Hon. Monsuru Oduola (Ibarapa North and Ibarapa Central).

Mr. Olumide Akinlade (Oluyole); Alhaja Kafilat Olayiwola (Ido and Ibarapa East); Alhaji Labule Ishola (Ibadan South-West/ North-West); Alhaja Yahaya Akinbile (Ibadan South-East/ North-East); Mrs. Wulemot Ibitoye (Akinyele/Lagelu) and Mr. Adegboyega Akinlolu James (Ona-Ara and Egbeda).

https://dailypost.ng/2019/12/05/kano-indigene-igbo-woman-make-makindes-new-appointment/

The sad truth is that; they will still retain their hatred for yorubaaass

matkid:
are u saying there must be blood when u Bleep a virgin? me and my friend have been arguing about it

yes sir, because the express way is covered by Hymen (mesh of blood). If the hymen is broken one is expected to bleed. unless it was broken before then through other means....

what do I even know self?
please don't take me serious.

excessmon:
What level are you in school now?

Basic 3

Congrats321:
Will you support secession?

kikikikikiki

No sir,

stanliwise:
Computer engineering is majorly about building computer gadgets, for the educational ground, if he needs to make stride, of course he should focus on his studies and graduate with nothing less than 2.1(second class upper). on practical ground, all he need to learn this days especially during holidays is either laptop repair, fixing, coupling and maybe even programming etc.
If he don't wanna participate in such field, then he should learn during holidays IoT and embedded system, This is one of the greatest trends in the nearest future in computer engineering sector in Nigeria. Read more about IoT(internet of things).
Although learning IoT is not easy here and could be costly attimes.

Is it advisable to say he should learn web design, web development and maybe programming just to broaden his horizon and improve his chances?

stanliwise:
Don't quite your job.
A bird in the hand is better than thousands in the forest. Although this doesn't mean we shouldn't go looking for more/bigger birds because we have one at hand.

Long story short, 80k three month lecture wouldn't transform you. Anyone who tells you that you will become a productive programmer by 3 months is playing a fast one on you.
Most time investment in programming is majorly about time. Time and practice will help you understand what and what you need to know to be a good web dev.

My Advice:
Go to w3school.com and try to learn the fundamentals of the languages your friends tell you. Get pdf books and learn properly.
This will build your foundation and open your eyes but still it might not make you proficient.

From this if you're still interested, you can then tell your so-called friend to teach you what and what you need to know.

Learning web from an organization or friend etc is best when you know what and what you need to learn about.

My opinion
If your friend is planning to teach you the whole package of web dev. I must warn you of a pitfall. Web dev isn't a one man job.

I really appreciate your depth.
please I need your advice, my kid brother just got admitted into computer engineering. what words of advice can you give so he don't end up stranded.
Thanks in anticipation.

RoyalBlu:
Osu in 2019

Even the ancestors have moved on.

She'll be fine.

bad guy there! very on point

Mindfulness:
Your sister is a hero. She has my blessings too. You people should try and live in the 21st century. Kuddos to your dad as well.

And you are a hero too, for speaking freely.

chuks34:
Just do it and see

Justin bebier Is he a woman?

emmyt2:
Not only Bayelsans ,you are a father to all Nigerians ..

God forbid

Noise maker and an attention seeking slowpoke. A local champion. just look at what you turned Nigeria to. bull dog!!! Anumpama npi

Noise maker and an attention seeking slowpoke. A local champion. just look at what you turned Nigeria to. bull dog!!!

slimjohn2k5:
U are lucky it did not see u, it would have killed u first. Then u tell God u saw a snake and did not kill it

he has no choice
fear catch am

This is the true "dog"

PoliteActivist:
Exactly. There could be such a thing as destiny after all. There are Nigerians who schooled and live in Australia, Canada, US whose lives are totally messed up. You can't escape your destiny

yeah!!!
that's a Nigerian mentality

Acidosis:
Shut up please. What the fvk is the white garment supposed to do? Turn a prostitute to a saint or sanctify the marriage? Turn a nonvirgin to a virgin or turn a virgin to an incorruptible everlasting virgin?


Sometimes some Nigerian Christians can be very disgusting with their thoughts.

you certainly don't need advice. just man up to the situation.

igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

your third leg is controlling you. oga, finish what you've started, she's very on point brov. Tradition has nothing against premarital sex, it is the church that is against it. So respect her and take her to the altar.

what if she gets pregnant will she still be wedded in the church wearing white?

Mensah007:
NB: She has already broken up with me and insists that my moving over is the only thing that can change her mind. She wants d best for us nd has been supportive of me throughout our uni days and is a very good girl. She is really really serious abt this.


lalasticala , mynd44 , ishilove, , farano , Rocktation mods pls move to FP

Face your hustle oga, going to abuja will only enslave you. trust me bro you will go through this rage in peace.

fadamekus:
NO MIND THE GUY NA OTU A.K.A(TO...TO )

He's worse than that!

areee:
Dear op, I think the girl is right about you. You are not man enough certainly.

A confirmed guy spotted there....no time

YorubaNinja:
Brainwashed fellow!

pained fellow.....
reply your keypad

silencer94:
Make Ike dey think say he don get babe . Na when their show finish, he go know how va. The number of ministers and men waiting to collect some rounds are just piling

Truth; straight from the heart