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to be continued

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The boy has probably got another girlfriend as we write

Its nothing but lust.
Most people who have been doing are usually unable to stop it even after they get married.

JJYOU:
i dont know where you live but you must be very naive to think there are old american women using young Nigerian men to satisfy their thirst for companionship

The fact that you dont know that there are western women who do this leaves me with no choice but to discontinue this. Get out a little more. Get a job or something where you meet more people and you might see a little more than you know now.

You dont know what happens and you refer to another person as naive

what happened to all the old american women using young Nigerian men to satisfy their thirst for companionship and the boys also getting into it knowing that they are only in it for the passports/greencards? Is that not a case of love 419 from both sides?

sosodat:
It cuts both ways

@ JJYOU
Stop generalizing puleaseee! It's a case of a fraudulent man and hence not equal to labelling it all Nigerian men

Thank you o.

The guy will vent his Nigerian hatred on you if you dont simmer for him

JJYOU:
you will not get the licence to continue your deception with ease from me. majority of you are frauds and criminals in the way you go leading people you should have no business with into false relationships.

get over yourself and stop trying to defend unacceptable behaviours.

I sense that you have a bitterness towards Nigerians.

busy bodi, this is nigerians for you.  mostly  bad belle people

Not really my business but you dont have to go around trying to label us all as evil simply because you were unable to achieve some things which you thought you could have achieved.

Ich bin in Vereinigtem Königreich. Ich schreibe Deutsch, weil es leicht ist,. zu schreiben, wo sind Sie in der Schweiz?

JJYOU:
you are exhibiting the problem naija men and women have with ease. how come you dont have problems with people taking advantage of others like our people do without shame

you are exhibiting the problem people who feel inferior exhibit with ease. Why is it that you dont go and find out if other men do it before you start speaking for Nigerians?

Ich wünsche Sie gut

Lebt er in Der Schweiz mit Ihnen?

JJYOU:
mr just good this is NL. what is your problem? do i have to seek your counsel before airing my opinions? this thread is about a nigerian man deceiving a woman just like the women do too how do you bring american investment fraud here>

should nigerians be playing and destroying peoples confidence becos americans are doing fraud?
what else would you like me to blame americans for?

nawa 4 u ooo

What exactly then is the problem with me also airing my opinion on your opinion?
It is not specifically about Nigerian men but you made it out to be about Nigerian men. . .it was about a man!

@ Udode, Ist Ihr Ehemann ein Nigerianer?

I know this may sound sexist if anyone choses to hear it that way.

Clubs are not necessarily for everybody. If you decide to form yourselves into an exclusive club, what is wrong with it? If some men decide that they want to have a male-only club, so be it. Why do we have to be so hung up about everything such that life becomes a bore and we have to watch for every kind of air we breathe.

There are exclusive women's clubs and I have never heard any man complain or say that they should be open to men.

If you like a club, form your own and fashion it along the same lines!

How can this be good news when we are always complaining that those who will implement the projects are nothing but thieves.

How exactly is this good news?

No Nigerian who was an adult when Badamosi Babangida was military ruler will ever wish for that kind of rulership again in their lives. . .they wont even wish it upon their enemies.

Only those who were not adults in those days can say they dont mind having Badamosi back to rule over Nigeria or anywhere for that matter. Even having Mugabe is a better option.

Badamosi is the devil's gift to Nigeria in order to keep Nigeria in the gutters.

JJYOU:
the wonders of being nigerian. God help that country of ours. everybody just tearing each other hearts as they go along.can you condemn the liar too.
i always say the naija women are as bad as the men. thank you especially when it is naija man with thier PHD in telling lies and scheming you are dealing with.
people that can easily set up churches and mosques to deceive men and God who wont they deceive? my sister was gulible so what> is she the first or last? make una go sit down jare.

So it is only Nigerians ehnn?

Where exactly do you live where everyone seems to be a saint? People break each others' hearts all over the world- not peculiar to Nigeria.
How many foreigners have you actually LIVED with to see how they also manipulate themselves?
How many churches are in America also decieving and manipulating gullible people?
How many people lost money to fraudulent investment 'gurus' in America?

My point is that Nigeria is not unique in those things. Of course Nigeria has many faults of her own but to simply put Nigeria into the equation whenever someone does something wrong is not the correct way to analyse things.

Hauwa, wetin be that?

This is just a play area for me when I'm bored at work so not hard feelings.

I just happen to feel very strongly about sexual morality in young girls. That's the reason no one is ever likely to find a son of mine believing in having sex willy nilly with girls.

Es gibt zu viele hässliche Frauen hier

why does she go and preach it here?

http://www.sunstonewomen.com/

Or here

http://www.ecademy.com/module.php?mod=club&c=6685

Or this

http://www.hub-club.co.uk/2_2574.php

They are just irresponsible.
It means that they'll sleep with all their female employees in the office.

Oh how I love epiiiiiiiiii
Oh how I love epiiiiiiiiiiiii
Oh how I love epiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
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cos she is a sensible lady

A marriage that was only concocted as a result of the need for papers?
which kind marriage be that?

@poster, make you run 440 quick quick. If na that woman no love you, she no go think twice before she report you to immigration for deportation to MMA. Use your brain and think deep jare.

You think say the woman go love you for ever? Dont decieve yourself at all

jamace:
Another religious crisis. Thank God, it is only happening with keyboards, not daggers or swords.

But if I may ask, why has our loyalty to religions not lead to a comensurate loyalty to morality?

wonderful question.

It is best directed at the religious leaders - they only preach about money and miracles now, they probably dont know what they have been called into. The bible does not call us into money grabbing lifestyles and praying for money. Children of God are supposed to have their primary focus above.

someone needs to start preaching the truth in Nigeria!

From all indications, we are going round in circles - taking one step forward and 2 steps backwards. Its the same scenarios that have been witnessed over the years that are repeating themselves, yet some people will be quick to tell you that Nigeria is progressing.

Corrupt individuals should be prosecuted irrespective of their affiliations but for many years, the Nigerian entity has been suffocated by allegations of selective justice whenever a government makes a public declaration (not necessarily a firm commitment) to pursue justice or to war against any evil.

How long will we continue this circular motion with no forward movement?

groundnut oil

meet the man and tell him he's not your type and you're not attracted to him.

chikenna

There are many girls on NL who live the same way. You can hook up with them

True people who have kids should go for those who have kids like themselves.

runs out before they come after him

Go back to Maria if she still loves you the same way jare. Afterall the so-called wife knew you had someone before. As you have both made your beds, so should you both lie on the beds. Leave the woman who did not think about the feelings of the woman waiting for you at home!

1. Your wife used you because she knew you were vulnerable and needed papers.
2. You used your wife because you needed papers
3. Maria might be a good girl but she is naive in thinking that you will not change after all the years.

Pray for wisdom to handle the situation but I will honestly advise you to leave the woman you dont love and move your life elsewhere.

did I just pick her and started raining insults? You should go and find the thread where it all started and see what she said to make me return the insults.
You want to see what she sent to me because she is a moderator?

perhaps if you can find where she rained insults on me the first time, it will give you some insight into a few things. I dont believe anyone has the right to insult another on the basis of disagreeing with their position.

I can have a disagreement with someone but I'll never insult anyone just because they disagree with me. I dont give what I dont like to recieve.

Another dumb move to sink to suck money out of the system. Why in the world would the police put forth this idea when it is yet to ensure that it can even effectively identify each citizen in the same country? Let me guess, when GSMs are registered, identification will come? ugh!

If this is not cynism at its height, I wonder what else will be regarded as cynism