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IconicR:
😭 sorry dear, just tell her that if she wants you to succeed in life and excel in whatever you are traveling for then she should stop crying and move on with her life. Tell her that's the only motivation you need from her.
Tell her that her refusal to stop crying and move on is haunting your soul and causing you depression. Tell her only a positive energy from her can help you forge ahead.
Tell her to be strong and take everything in her stride and move on with life.
Sorry for your loss

You make sense sometimes (not always). This advice is good.

MrsTwrite:
I came across a post on Facebook, what in the world is wrong with these set of generation?

Is this fashion or madness?

It’s madness.

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May each and every soul connected to Mohbad's death never know peace in their life and the life hereafter.

Talking about the name MOHBAD,
It is a street slang that actually means 'I AM GOOD'.

Examples,
Have you heard that guy's music, damn O bad gan.
Falz the bad guy also comes to mind.

Did you watched Messi's game yesterday?
That guy is just too bad, he is a beast!!
(One copy cat don steal dis post above )

Have you tasted dem MANNA Barbecue,
Damn o bad gan.
You will always go back for more!

Have you seen how dem MANNA deal with the enemies of Nigeria like kids?
Those people bad ajeh!
Their profile picture says it all,
Nothing those crazy peeps says gets to them.

The man of God does not know about street slang, so he is forgiven,
We revere him.
We will NEVER say anything bad against men of God, it is not in our character.
That's between them and God.

RIP IMOLE
Justice for you is a must.

We Rise

Your take on this issue is very mature. I respect that

This image below is so funny 😂

What an embarrassment 😔

Jennyclay:
Why are Nigerian men this evil God knows I will poison him to death.

You can’t purposely infect me with HIV and go scot free. You don’t joke with my kind of person!!

Foolish randy men everywhere!!!
Evil men everywhere!!!

Lol , this mad woman again

Nonexisting1:
Blame the man and the world will accept you and even help you as well. If Eve had her way, I'm sure she would have crawled at night to God in tears and blamed Adam for the apple but she knew better that God of the old testament was never a simp.

Lol

Abeg no kill me with laugh

ahnie:
How re you kajaard?
It's not a must he celebrate her one year birth,a simple prayer from him to his child is all that matters.
Nigeria is soft at this moment,every body dey manage.

I am good o Ahnie. How are you doing? It's nice to hear from you

megyucyautos:
Good Day sir/ma....pls I got issues with my business current ,sales is very poor. Today is my daughter's ONE YEAR birthday....I don't have cash now ,I am so cash trapped..... Pls support me even if it's 1k I will manage it ,will gather the money small small to atleast get her a cake and few drinks ,since I am unable to throw a party.plsssssss with ABEG..not easy for me this period

Here below is my account number

First bank.......3036379902

Opay...............7010213925

God bless you and ur families plenty for ur assistant...AMEN

Shame no dey catch Nigerians anymore sha

So we should help you celebrate birthday for your child by donating money to you? Does that even make sense to you at all?

You don’t have shame?

Must you celebrate her birthday when you don't have money? Did anyone put a gun to your head that you must buy her a cake? Na wah.

Gentlelox:
Do you wish to follow us there ?

If not, please contribute financially in regard to his mother

Scam.

Contribute financially? Did they tell you his mum lives in penury?

Shame no dey catch una sef?

ecolime:
RIP Hungerbad

Do you know his mother? How did you know she needs help?

This looks suspicious 😒

It's a scam.

These scammers never seize to amaze me. Pathetic.

Klass99:
Lol . No sir, I am very well o. It is you and your logical gender brothers that have issues. It is a new day, let me see which way the tide turns on this matter. I would have asked your opinion on how best to resolve the fight/issue, but like Peter, I fear that, you may only compound the issues for me. 😝

Ask joor, I could be of help you know. People say I am a deep thinker

Klass99:
A fight with a friend (Paul), because I listened to and followed the advice of another friend (Peter).

I really need to stop listening to people when their advice conflicts with what is in my heart and soul. I always end up with outcomes I don't like, when I ignore what is within me, to do what others advise. When will I learn?

This logical gender people are not as logical, as they like to think . What was in my heart to do was more logical and would have caused little to no drama. I listened to a logical gender friend and now I have issues.

Klass99 you no well at all 😂

Jennyclay:
Nobody is above mistake.

Biko, just forgive and leave everything and move on. Can’t you see how catastrophic the economy is How do you expect a nursing mother to pay you back when she also has a baby to cater for

Learn to forgive!!

May God help us.

Typical talk from a woman. Nonsense.

cococandy:
I read those comments and smh.

People have no common sense.

Murder investigation and their priority is to focus on her faithfulness or lack thereof. Did the guy tell any of them he had issues with her?

Nigerians are a bunch of busybody nonentities.

They focus on trivial things when they should put such focus into more productive things. It's no wonder poverty pervades everywhere. Pathetic.

BOSSkesh:
The name of the village is one man??

I dey tell you

One man village

LordIsaac:
Nigeria’s Unemployment is a thing of concern!

It's a real thing of concern. There is so much hunger everywhere. Everywhere you go to, people are begging: in airports, in banking halls, restaurants etc. Haba

Very stupid unbelievable story.

Liars like the op should be banned for life on this forum

ViceGovernor:
The guy is so detailed in his description.


Since nobody wants to say it I will 😏
Op na human part you dey find for ritual

lol 😂

Go and beg the landlord. You were very wrong to destroy the pumping machine.

Violence never solves anything in this life we live in. We should learn to take a step back when in anger so we don’t do silly things.

God forbid, what if he called thugs on you and you were beaten to death or something else?

Go and settle issues with him, remove pride. Or you pack out of the house. It’s that simple.

scoobyblogspot:
Bros.. How can you be desperately looking for a job at the mortuary? I have never heard this before in my life

The story tire me I swear🤣😂🤣

This country as a whole suppose dey on Netflix as a comedy series🤣

Mohbad's father's actions was just senseless.

cococandy:
Women if you are in a position to improve yourself, don’t do it so that you don’t mistakenly surpass your man. That would be too woke and unnatural. It goes against nature.

If you’re already married and an opportunity comes your way that will make you more money but unfortunately it means your income will now be higher than your husbands income, reject the opportunity. Or get divorced. either way it will ensure you are not in a marriage where your income can exceed your man’s.

Carefully curate your life so that you can have money but never more than him. If you’re getting paid for something and it turns out it’s going to be a bigger check than what’s he’s getting on his end, refund some of the ;Dmoney. God forbid you earn more than him.

If you have a business and get a chance to expand your operations, don’t take the chance. How are we going to explain it? That you defied the natural order of things and sort to grow yourself and your career?

Y’all are so mind numbingly xtupid with these threads and responses. May God protect women from marrying their enemies. Enemies of progress

Sarcasm at it’s finest. Coco you never disappoint

IVORY2009:
What consigns UK with our issues in Nigeria, she should be extratides down to Nigeria to face the music.

It's extradited not extratides by the way

darealez:
Every action has a reaction. He beat you, you reacted by arresting him. He's reacting to the arrest, and you will have to react to his reaction. Sounds like the beginning of Armageddon but I honestly wish your home well.

Just to state the probable.., if he gets a good job today, he's likely gone forever.

You should talk to a counselor...and if you're a Christian, I'm open to introducing you to my counselor.

You said it all.

NiceUpper:
Oga, every case is not scam. I have posted the address of the compound above. There's nothing to hide to scam. I'm very real. If the person reach there, he can call me to come there and I will go and meet him and we would ask around together from if I was living in the house or not. I totally understand you guys stand. Scammers have spoilt it for genuine help seekers.

Why are you using a new nairaland account? In your predicament you should not have any shame so I expect you to use your real nairaland account to ask for assistance.

Only scammers use new accounts.

This country is a joke.

ahnie:
Marriage get stages.

The lovey-dovey stage

The why re you coming home by this time stage

The see finish stage

The banter stage

The no sex stage(na only that one dey pain me)
The no money stage.


The stage where he go dey go hang out with friends and succulent side chicks :Dyou go turn for bed tire dey anticipate his return...lolz


Then the king of them all .....The shege stage

Abi O

Persephone1:
May we not marry a boy man

Dear Op, may people have an adage it is: Aiki lo kabo ile ejo , ka tun sore. It means we don't come back from court to become friends. Arresting your husband may be right or wrong but what happens when he is released?
If you were arrested as a wife, will you be happy with your husband and let everything go back to normal when you are released?
Especially in this part of the world.

If you still want a happy marriage after a dispute, police station should not an option. In the sight of the law, you are right but culturally you are not.

Get elders to speak to him, I hope he listens. May God help you. This matter deep i can't think straight self

The only reasonable submission I completely agree with. Nice one.

IconicR:
Say it louder same you guys reprimand me each time I make silly comments

Lol

When you say sensible things I always praise you na

Likewise when you say silly things I attack you as well

Today your head is calm

IconicR:
It is very necessary to ask but apply sense to whatever story they'll tell you.
If it's a man, you should ask if his wife left or he pursued her, if it's the former run away from him but if it's the later you can give him a listening ear and try him out.
If it's a woman and her husband chased her away then ask questions and apply your sense because no man chases a good woman away from his life.
And lastly you can't hear the true stories from the individuals involved, apply sense.

Nice one.

No be Toyota Corolla I see say dey recover so?

Abi my eyes dey pain me?