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BigBashiru:
that development is difficult with colonists like pests/lions always looking to pounce on African countries....

but china and Russia has been helping Africa withstand such colonial forces....

Rwanda and Botswana are great African countries....

Yeah, we can keep blaming the colonial masters.

Are they responsible for the poverty in the north?
Are they responsible for inflation in Nigeria?
Are they the one sponsoring Terrorism and banditry in Nigeria? If they are, are they the one stopping us from combating these menaces?
Are they the one responsible for looting of public funds?
If they are, are they the one stopping our law from bringing looters to justice?

See ehn, Africa is not ready to develop and its the reason develop societies will never respect us.

One thing I hate about this long nails is that they easily encourage dirtiness.

IronGalaxy:
Which ones are those?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/africa.businessinsider.com/local/lifestyle/top-10-poorest-countries-in-africa-in-2021/qrsbhj9.amp

Top 10 poorest countries in Africa and Nigeria no even dey.

BigBashiru:
@ur first sentence -do you know that as we speak, France is currently trying to take over and control of Mali, Niger, and Chad? so we hv to keep blaming them IN PART.

However I agree with you that many Nigerian leaders are performing below par.

btw do you know that UK France and Germany always try to interfer in Africa elections? even the recent Anambra State elections, UK "election observers" were present.... the UK has no moral high ground at all...its an evil amoral state.

I do not say these countries have good morals, if they did they would respect AFCON in the first place.

Imagine a country like Afghanistan or Pakistan asking UK or America for respect? That's just how this is.

Let African leaders build their nations. The best way to gain respect is to develop yourself.

Annoying thing is, suffering and poverty in Africa are mostly man made.

Because they don't speak English.

BigBashiru:
it's France Britain and Germany that installs puppet leaders in African States that makes it look as if African countries don't respect themselves....those three countries are THIEVES.... they held the Berlin conference in the 1800s.... to divide up Africa for themselves and till today they haven't left Africa alone....

We can keep blaming them.

But look at Nigeria for example, look at how our leaders are making a fool of themselves and you expect any developed society to respect that?

Funny thing is, as worse as Nigeria is, she is better than a lot of countries in Africa.

Blessedofchrist:
Wharever

I'm not even arguing for any belief or non-belief system here. If you doubt me, just Google Muslim NDE.

Respect is earned. Africa does not respect herself.

The whites no dey try sha

It doesn't even baffle me one bit.

If you don't know, the civil engineering in ancient Greek and Rome is the basis for civil engineering till this present moment.

The ancient Greek and Rome were so civilized that they gave us many of the things we have today, including democracy.

If not for war and lack of proper record keeping, humans would have been 100 times more civilized than we are.

Blessedofchrist:
I also once passed out everything was gross darkness for three hours...doctors worked on me till i came back to life,years later when i gave my life to Christ,i can tell you i know what it feels like for someone to die,i was in ikeja going back home instantly it seems as if everything around me has vanished,the peace of Christ was in my heart..it literally seems as if i was walking a golden path to heaven,...so i understand that some people will go to hell and some heaven...some weaks ago,devils came into my room but night and where pulling my spirit out of my body...i was seeing my physical body until a bigger hand pushed me back into my body before i now woke up..

It will shock you that people from other religion have experienced something similar.

It's just like NDE, even atheists experience it.

heartofcity12:
Fine. But would she give him such money if he was the one that lost phone? Isn’t that one-sided friendship? Smh

Simple answer is no.

He has given you the option of divorcing him, don't disturb us again now.

That man na my G. Can't couple enjoy marriage without children?

chris4gold:
You will never appreciate what you have until you lose it. You hate your parents because they oppose the girl you are in love with.

My advice: be the source of change for your family.

E be like say this one no Sabi read! Chai! You need to have his kind of parents for a week to know what he's going through.

It's like some of you just repeat the "you will never appreciate what you have until you lose it" mantra whenever parents are involved.

Mind your business.

My advice to introverts have always been, if being introvert is causing you so much pain that you have to report it to us, then stop being an introvert.

But they always come for my head.


Think about it, have you ever heard anyone complaining that they are extroverts?

Besides, introvertedness and teenagehood usually come with low self esteem. This is a fact that many introverts and teenagers would argue of course but, it is what it is.

What a good friend should do is to give her certain amount to add to whatever she has to buy another phone.

Keyword "friend".

Kobojunkie:
How many times has this happened to you with naija folks abeg?

*disclaimer, me sef wey I dey talk, i no be graduate .

I have seen o, although not so frequent sha. Even in midst of stark illiterates, there are still non-graduates that stand out.

Skyview01:
Honestly, it will depend on the connection i have with each of them.

Naturally, i would want to go with the one with education but occasionally, you come accross individuals are exceptional even without a formal education.

I think it will be a case by case basis consideration.

You've answered correctly!

From experience though, most graduates always feel superior to non-graduates and most non-graduates feel inferior to graduates. It validates that knowledge is power.

I for one could marry a non-graduate, provided she's ready to go back to school.

Skyview01:
On point.

Bros, let me ask you this honest question and I want you to answer sincerely ;


If you are to choose between two good ladies, these two ladies are wonderful in character, they have a good job, good life, beautiful, humble but one is a graduate and the other isn't, whom would you marry?

Skyview01:
What about we look at the big picture, we ask ourselves, why did we go to school to get a degree. Some will agree with me that the purpose is to build a successful life.

Now, for this guy is smart enough to build and run a successful business.

I wouldn't call him an illiterate because he would have to he financially literate to succeed at a business.

I have also seen a lot of degree educated folks a who are functional illiterates.

Guys. ladies. What do you think.

I don’t even call them illiterate, I prefer "not graduates" or non-graduates.

We often think the reason for going to school is to learn to read and write but there is more even if some don't agree, school especially higher institutions exposes us to a lot an average non graduate might never get to experience.


It explains why most graduates are more coordinated compared to most non-graduates. I'm not just saying it because I'm a graduate, it's what I have experienced.

Successful life and successful business isn't exactly the same thing and I believe we go to school to gain knowledge and exposure.


I said most graduates and not all graduates, there are a lot of graduates that will still marry non graduates whether rich or poor.


Of course, there are some graduates that behaves like illiterates and vice versa.

If na man do this, them go dey call her simp.

I think this lady is a simp.

Most graduates, male or female wish to and will eventually marry a graduate.

If you want to marry a graduate, try to be a graduate first. It's really important.


This is coming from, you know, a graduate.


No hard feelings. It's just how it is.

Biggie2000:
WTF? Bros, you should not be asking this question. Why will I be discussing with you about Sexual compatibility if I don't have a proper understanding of it.
You seem like a dude that created a thread simply because you're bored.

The guy is funny. Imagine asking questions like "what do you understand by sexual compatibility" like he's talking to a 9 yr old.


It's just like listening to Sunday schools teachers that has answers to every question they are asking and these answers are all within the scope of the Sunday School manual, anything else is wrong and unacceptable. Issokay.

OLAADEGBU:
Are you aware of driverless cars?

Driverless car in this case would mean those who masturbates.

Trust me, masturbation and having sex with a partner are two different things.

The only way to know if two people are sexually compatible is for them to have sex at least once, sadly it's what we Christians don't talk about because it's against our belief. But it is what it is.

Some of you really need to learn how to put your foot down. If you and your wife to be can't correct yourselves then what is my own problem?

How to be a good driver without driving a car.

Rubbish.

I have met Benue people and only one person exhibits character close to your description, the rest are very good people.

Shey Ragnarock sabi work bayi?

Ouchbabe:
I pity people that take this Op serious. Please what works for one might not work for another. So do what works for you.
There is nothing that supercede peace of mind. Bible admonishes that you should follow peace with all men.....
If little compromises like fetching water, washing dishes will bring peace in your home, please do them. It's your wife we are talking about, the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh

See them!