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Political calculation in Nigeria is always done by pertisan psychophant.

The op is an educated certificates holder. It is not surprising that he didn't understand the basis of learning the alphabets A B C and the numerics 1, 2 3 etc.

It is very sad that qualified individual mistakes purpose for reason and on top of that, are convinced it is important to confidently expressed their literacy mental disorientation perhaps, thinking it's a display of smartness.

You acquired all manner of unrelated skills and you're not ashame that you understand none of them in term of applicability and your deficiency in innovative creative ideas......but because you are financially buoyant, you feel like an authority to speak on the relevance of formal education.

Reality is better

The situational relativity the lyrics connotes is the realization that other people far away from our geographical location experiences similar personal challenges as ours......

Mariangeles:
Before you confront him, send the screenshots to your phone, then delete them in his.

When confronting him, ask him how he'd feel if he found out that you've been doing the same.
Ask him how he'd feel if he found out that you've been recording all your conversations (quarrels) without his knowledge.

Women and chaos....he should delete the screenshot chat ?

sgtponzihater1:
Absolutely correct. Peace is more than money in my opinion

There is no peace without fairness and justices........that consoling

sgtponzihater1:
Nagging:

She nagged me to death. She was always rights and I was always wrong. My routine was returning home, catching up with my goons later in the evening for one or two bottles. Most times we had rosted chicken with 2-3 bottles of 1759, other nights we had peppersoup. Nothing seem better than working very hard, eating the reward of your work, and returning to your quiet calm bed afterwards.

Everything changed, I used my money to bring in a lady that shouted about how irresponsible I was. Apart from paying for power, she did no other spending, but everytime I forgot to switch a bulb off, I would be told off like a kid. There were days that she would give the cold attitude. Two adults in a house, rent and food provided by me, but yet no one to ask me how I was. Life went from good to harsh when she came in.

All the tricksters who forged me on to marriage seemed to have escaped. Very few asked how my marriage was. I nearly flunged the phone on the only one that said, "you see that marriage is sweet". The other one I tried to explain the pit I have found myself simply replied, "you see women, fear them", that was the end of our friendship, how could you deceive me to get married, and then tell me at the end that women are the same.

Out of 100 times we swept the living room, I did 80-90%, the 10% she did was with nagging. I knew it was not sustainable, but I was in a hole. She got pregnant, I can't tell how I kept digging. No one but myself to blame, but I could easily pick those asking after 1year of marriage, how far children?, as implicated in this. She got pregnant so she stopped cooking or cleaning at all, it was nausea and vomiting, what the medics called "emesis gravidarum". I was tired. Leaving home early, coming back late to prepare my own meals, yet cleaning the house. Her sisters told me that how early pregnancy was, and she will get better as the pregnancy progresses. It was a bigger scam, but I bought it, as I have never lived with a pregnant woman. Then the pregnancy progressed, and the claimed fatigue, back pain and all the problems in the world. I was in a fix. I worked hard, long, and thanklessly. She would say thank you. "were you not the one that put me in this? She screamed out, "is it not your baby I am carrying?" I felt used and abused. For the first time power had changed hands. Prior to marriage, I considered myself a ladies man. But right now, I saw the devil herself. I was in a fix!

Men not been honest with man from the onset

saphiere:
I expected this. Once you engage them in an intelligent conversation they pick race.

By your intelligence equating and rape are synonyms ?

Also Impossible and difficult?

Before you get into any debate, ensure you understand meaning of words

Flamemignon1:
It's either you are too blunt to understand the nuances of oppression or you've been living under a rock
The notion that male supremacy was “natural” was self-fulfilling, since those who wrote the laws, the poems, the religious books, the philosophy, the history, the medical treatises and the scientific texts were, very largely, men writing for the benefit of men and you said woke ideology haven't solved white supremacy, it's having conversations about it and the perpetrators are not even given breathing spaces not to talk about the sexual assault trope that the patriarchy hid for long or gender expressions or the one sided masculinity that's also affecting the mental health of most men making masculinity toxic......I don't even have to go on and on. The patriarchy is loosing it's grip, accept it or stop being a keyboard warrior and do something

Give me this generation vs the generation I grew up and I choose to this anytime anyday

Lol . you're very funny.......those that write the laws books, religion books etc are male..... rightly typed, I also heard that those that design cars are male....that is why car seat belt is in a location/position not favourable to women... especially considering average women height....also the male truck manufacturers deliberately used hard irons and designed the operation with tedious system to deprive an average women from operating it..very funny approach.....

Male supremacy or gender role is social construct or aptly typed in your words self-fulfilling in this case....there shouldn't be gender games......male heavyweight should challenges female heavyweights.....the female hurdles in track event should be at the same height as males'........and which of the genders is not giving breathing space for discussing these issues ? Like when NBA started the discussion of pay-gaps in basketball and suggested that the net height should be lowered for female to enable them to dug/slam hence would make female matches more interesting to watch and improve fan base to drive traffic to raise adequate fund to support female agitation about pay gaps....but the discussion seem like an insult to the woke people....


Come to think of it....what is the name of the male author that wrote and where was is written that female should be equipped with womb, breast and average height, six rips ovaries, clitoris etc ?

Which author wrote that majority of Nurse should be female

And which male author wrote that men should be muscular, taller than female on average, equipped with penis and testicles, facial hair etc ?

If you're confused, many of us are not.

Joe Biden said and I quote under no circumstances should a man hit a women except for self-defense

He also said all the female in his life are far more brilliant than him...these includes Naomi Biden, Camala Harris and her daughters and yet he didn't accept to be the vice while she be the president.

ButterBurger:
well I don't know about Biden and Johnson, am not even talking about them. You're just the one filling your mentality and thoughts on them.
My point is just because you don't support other ideas or policy doesn't mean you should be insulting and frustrated.
You just have to give your own point and let others give theirs
Extremism is bad for your health

If I'm an extremist, I wouldn't have responded to you because your perspective about the discourse is shallow in my opinion.
I have aired my opinion but it sounded like a frustration in your mind........your words are subset of your thoughts which by extension is what is going on within your being.

ButterBurger:
What patriarchy?
Listen different ideas makes a nation great, so just because some people don't support your idea doesn't mean you should be emotional and frustrated. Unless you don't believe in human right which am pretty sure you always yern for.
Besides both the conservatives and democrats have ruled these countries together.
So stop the hypocrisy

Real hypocrisy is the protest against Lia Thomas.
Different and complimentary ideas shaped this beautiful world that grant you the right to impose your personal feelings on others........but your myopic right is making brilliant people (Bori Johnson and Joe Biden) behaves like a slowpoke...

Flamemignon1:
Yea.... patriarchy systems entrenched in fascism bringing wars,hate and white supremacy values. Patriarchy systems that's toxic and wants to silence people for not adhering to the norms. Patriarchy systems that see women as just birthing and sex objects. Dude,the patriarchy is collapsing, accept it or hug a transformer

The liberalism ideas has not come up with anything new.....most especially ideas that will make the world better and progress faster....

The woke society is a selfish social that base norm on personal feelings (my truth and your truth) that won't lead anywhere.

Woke ideology has not solved the White supremacy, hate and war issues. Rather it is creating some wild complex Idiocracy.

ButterBurger:
take is easy, slow down, and be calming down.
The confused west is the most developed and organized in the world.

You failed to understand that it is not this woke confusion that developed and organized these supposed developed countries........

These countries were developed by the patriarchy system your gender are aggressively advocating for it's impossible eradication.

Lol so the protest against Lia Thomas is not enough...... they'll still legislate on it ?


Joe Biden is actually a compound fool.....he nominated a female judge that refuse to define women during senate confirmation......

Too bad

Shokoloko:
On top of all the "African disciplining, the average African from 12 years is corrupt.
A westerner will turn a new leaf because he wants to be a better person, an African will turn a new leaf because there is a likelihood to be caught and disgraced or jailed.

At 12 years an African child in boarding house will try to BRIBE the gate men to let them go out indiscriminately. At 12 introducing their classmates to cultism as long as they do not get caught. At 12 multiple abortions claiming to be virgins. Certified runs girl at 15.
Upon all the disciplining.

No, africans are not law- abiding, empathetic and less corrupt. It was over here I saw that on a bus younger people stand up to allow older people, pregnant women and disabled people to sit down. I never saw it in Nigeria.

Over here UPS and DHL drops your package in front of your door. The package remains there until you come home at night and pick it. It cannot happen in Nigeria. Since I started buying cars I have locked car doors less than 5 times. Sometimes I forget to lock my door.

Upon all our discipline.

Park to NY, Detroit or Florida.

You lack conceptual interpretation of ideal society.

KanwuliaBaby:
You can say that again.
To make matters worse, the system will tell you the children are well-behaved in school, so it must be YOUR APPROACH!

Then I say to them, then let them go and live with YOUR SYSTEM OR THE SCHOOL.

I dropped one at the police station one day after I was tempted to go physical and left. The mofos called me and told me if I don’t come and get my daughter, I will be charged with CHILD ABANDONMENT AND NEGLIGENCE!

Shuuuoooo ? ? ?

LWKMD!!!

And this is a supposed progressive society ? ....it is rather a directionless society and a fool paradise.

Too stressful to get simple things done

AnonPoet:
*The Continuous Decline in Critical Thinking among Nigerian University Students and the Role of GenX*

https://www.myengineers.com.ng/2021/05/17/the-continuous-decline-in-critical-thinking-among-nigerian-university-students-and-the-role-of-genx/

I said this on a thread sometimes ago....the numerous assignments given to kids in a major concern.....like the teachers are now teaching the parents rather than the kids

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The announcement is borne out of the desire to signal home (Nigeria) that she can as well bully and intimidate civilians.


Or what else could motivate someone to announce enlistment into slavery........just after sux month training ?

Corper's lodge or NYSC camp ?

Lol

traihit:
To me, you're free to get as far as you want to get whether you're a man or a woman. The world is at your feet and you should not be denied of the benefits of being human.

However, when we allow privilege for women to override men's freedom, were creating another unequal society. Moreover, if feminism is tearing marriages apart, why don't we restrict feminism to the office space and leave it out of the home instead of creating a toxic world.

Which is better, a world where men would gladly give up their rights to honour women or a world where men would be coerced into making women higher than themselves and thereby building up anger and bitterness within?

As for marriage, I go by the school of 'whatever rocks your boat'. Shey marriage is the agreement of a man and a woman? Let them choose what's best for them. If I don't like feminism, I go far from feminists and if I like it, I go for them.

Don't feel intimidated whether feminism is supported or not. Do your own thing.

Very good point. I personally don't take feminist serious because in actual sense, the movement didn't review anything new to human relationship as they claim. The women that endure whatever they term bad in marriage knew what they were doing.....and they understand the purpose of doing such...... feminist only achieved criminalization of sacrifices in relationships/marriages.

Feminist also understand the deficiency in women against men hence, pretending to be fighting for a good cause by demanding standards be lowered for their inclusion in everything. The aftermath of the demands is that mediocrity should over-run competency. And as you can see, they won't even stop there, they're selling the idea that women are far better in decision making yet don't want to prove it by competing on a level playing ground, but want incentive and they want that to be included in the law..........feminists are simply double standard advocate.


Infact, I watch on sunrise daily on channels....the women was talking about car seatbelt was designed against women...that was on this last international woman's day.

They can't even constructively defend the movement without comparing themselves with men......and paint black virtually everything men created through blood and sweat......and they wonder why reasonable men will not support the movement.

They claimed gender roles is a social construct....but can't provide statistical proves to back the claim.......

A sport competition in the UK experimented this theory of gender makeup........this same gender equality society start crying foul that men wins women football championship.

I was watching sky news the other day....the female soldier was claiming there is no conventional war anymore, therefore rigorous soldier grilling is of no use hence, should be abolished... because it affects women biology makeup, tremendous weight loss in women, reduced the chance of getting pregnant...etc which discourages women from joining special units in the military.......

Who want to be dragged into the pronoun debate going on in the UK ? Credit to feminist.
Women will continuously demanding for handouts rather than start producing results with the one they've gotten.

They claimed leadership is not gender base however, no law prevent them from voting and be voted for in the past 60years of Nigeria independence.......

It is even amazing how they excluded women that have messed up in leadership position in the past........but focused on men..that have contributed far more positively to the society.

I don't respond to feminist.

What I have learnt is that any hotel less than 15k/night is a nightmare.


No hotel in Nigeria for common man except those 30k and above hotels.


I have lodged in bad, terrible and worst hotels in Abuja, Enugu, Owerri, Calabar, Eket, Akure, Yola, Maiduguri, Port Harcourt, Kaduna, Abeokuta, Lagos etc.

What receptionist will tell you is different from what you'll experience.

Just when the west thinks they have the monopoly of manipulation and power to sanction....


Africans should learn from this game.....


Intelligence and forethought rules over emotion and sentiments


Check mated!

WibusJaga:


& he want to dominate his own people & neighbour countries.
I hate Dictatorship. How can one man be ruling a country of millions for over 20years & possibly for a lifetime. Anyone who challenges him is dealt with. More like in a jungle where the most vicious rules.
Imagine if Abacha was still alive ruling Nigeria up till now.

You cannot hate by your own understanding without the indoctrination of the west.

Nigeria communities were ruled by traditional rulers and the heir of the king succeed him..... Nigeria was progressive then and proud of it.....the west came, captured, destroy the traditional system by imposing their own traditions and ethnic belief.

So one person rulling is not a problem per say but the structure of checks and balances that uphold justice, moral, freedom, equity and economic advancement.

The west should allow other people find their ways around their peculiar issues rather than forming the compass of the world.......

Amunaotutheory ]Nigeria atm is like hell fire, no light , no fuel to power generator. The environment has been severely degraded by oil exploration especially the south south, very high inflation, annoying people who keep supporting Buhari because he is from their tribe and their useful “suffersticated” people who still support the government because their son is VP.

Prices of everything has increased. Abeg make I ask, Nigerians how are you people surviving ? I think every Nigerian should be given an award, e no easy.

Rather.... corrupt practices and hard labour.... nobody is living on their income/salary in Nigeria........

And I think it is a deliberate act by the politician to approve #30, 000 minimum wage......so that everyone will be too busy trying to survive...........abi what is the chance of surviving on #30, 000 a month anywhere in this country ?


And that is the nucleus of our problems, if and only when Nigerians start living on their income/salary, then we would be prompted to start asking the right questions and be holding people accountable.

Without accountability from each and every Nigerian, there would never be progress....as far as there is a way to cut corners........ Nigeria will not developed.

Palema007:
Parents aren't gods, they make mistake! Even gods do. Please let's not hold the shortcomings experienced from our parents to heart. It's not safe, after all we are all striving to be better persons.

BTW deadbeat mothers are not as common as deadbeat fathers... That's a fact.

If not for the presence of fathers co-parenting alongside mothers, almost 80% of mothers would have been deadbeat mother.

TheGidRedpiller:
My post got to front page yesterday, it's still in my profile if you want to re-live it.

Let me tell you something real quick, learn to count your blessings accurately, if you come out of a very warm and functional family, you are BLESSED beyond deserved! Some of us wished we never even surfaced because it's obviously better than having to go through what we are going through on the daily basis!!

I posted yesterday out of sheer ANGER, RESENTMENT AND VENGEANCE. I was insulted yesterday, of course, what was I expecting anyways Everybody just started emphasizing on the curse she was spewing at me and the fact that I do not have a choice but to be degrade myself to her every demand simply because she is my mother, but absolutely nobody paid attention to what I have achieved, I clearly stated out where I helped my immediate younger brother to good heights with his artistic processes!!

It looked as though my mother's curse on me was more important than the impact I'm making to everyone around me simply because she is my mother, I will not hesitate to add that I know all this support is very tagged to the fact that my mother is a WOMAN!! And as such, she should be more important than every other thing I have to say! Nobody cared about ME, my wellbeing, nobody even wanted to pay attention to the awful things she has done which I clearly mentioned too though, nobody paid attention to the fact that I helped my brother gather connections in the US, UK and currently INDIA, NOBODY!!

That's exactly what the world looks like gentlemen, if you are a man reading this, you should know the take aways you should do!!

Still Typing...

I saw your previous thread but I didn't read it because of the heading.....reason being that I personally don't like to digest anything negative.

The challenges of a boy child is the fact that.......he need to grow up very fast....

Women words are written on an ice

. So therefore, take women's words/talks/attitude/behavior/actions with a pinch of salt...... because women are so dependent on male that they themselves can't understand it.

Many of male has gone through persecution from female be it mother/sisters/anties/cousins/nephews and whatever your life turn out to be, you will still have to deal with them but maturely.....nothing will surprise you anymore about women.......

Erase anything bad memory that is holding you back to the past......treat your relatives with love and care..... after all, you will somehow be good to some strangers.....that has never and would never positively impact your life in the future.

For the sake of family.... ignore and suppress any negative vibe.... especially toward you immediate family.....for your own sanity, happiness and wellbeing.

Life is a crazy ride
Accept the fact that you're all by yourself in the lonely world....then you know peace and find the meaning of life.

Is this right ?

Sense is coming to Ukraine now

Most the bills need serious work before it would be accepted