₦airaland Forum

emmaodet:
Singing Fela - Palava u dey find, Palava u go see oooo

I think you have seen what you are looking for now, freedom.
Freedom, to live your life, see any man you want to see, go in and out anytime you want.
But you forgot one thing tour parent know which is the problem most youths have -
Freedom is not cheap
Freedom is not free after all
Freedom comes with Responsibilities
And the last which is the mist Important for you -
With More Freedom, comes less Commitment.

Because when you have freedom, there is No accountability to anyone which leads to people becoming more and more loose.
When under a guardian, you become accountable to them be it your parent, uncle, sister etc
You can't just go to a party or a date and come in at night without them calling you, warning you or threatening you thereby putting you in check.
Also, on average and on statistics, the average lady staying alone is more loose sexually, more promiscuous than the one under a guardian.
Most men want loose women and women staying alone for their sexual desire but will opt for a woman who is under a guardian for marriage.
And you also know it deep down that the number of sexual partners you have had as increased astronomically compared to when you were under your parent. You can deceive me and deny it but not yourself.

If you like double date or multi date, ti a ba so ada soke ni igba igba, ibi pelebe bayi ni o ma mu lele.
If you throw up a cutlass a thousand times, it will always come down and settle in the flat position one thousand times, Never the pointed area.
In other words, you will face similar challenges year in year out whether a single date or multi dating.
Call them insecure, weaklings who can't handle an independent lady staying on her own, low self esteem guys, na u sabi.
Nature is nature and won't change bcus of your opinion or your fellow ladies who are languishing is your similar state.
There are more homely grown women under their guardians who can be married so why give myself headache on a woman who is not accountable to anybody?
A very big recipe for disaster.
Am sorry, if i have a daughter, she won't stay alone and if my wife had stayed alone when we were dating, am sorry i won't have married her.
Call me uncivilized, weakling or insecure, na u sabi.
Will a woman under a guardian guarantees been faithful? Of course not but the chances of her not been faithful increases astronomically when staying alone, not that she will anyway.
If what you want is marriage, i think you made a wrong move but if what you want is independent and live your life the way you want it, then you are on the right track.

bukatyne:
@bold

Excuse mi sir?

TonyeBarcanista:
The emboldened is pure nonsense (with due respect sir)!

A strong man is the man that lives to his conviction. He is not conditioned to accept things because he needs validation of people to be called a strong and real man.

As for the OP, I believe that she is economical with the truth. There is something that is missing in her story.

She can't expect her bf to trust her blankly without earning it. I suspect that he must have seen some conversation on her chats; and this promoted him to further investigate her. I also think that her action and "friendship" with other guys fuelled his action more.

I don't care what people think but I don't see what the man does as evidence of being insecure! In fact, any action taken by any man to safeguard his mental and emotional wellbeing is welcomed as long as it doesn't infringe on the right of the other party. It is left for the woman to clear his doubt (if indeed she has nothing to hide) or ship offfffffff!

Finally, no REAL man would allow himself to be blackmailed with "Insecure" tag

yek:
What can one do with this in real life?

Mrshape:
Can Anyone In This Forum kill This?

fuckpro:
Wrong on the instrument part
After getting your ppl (private pilot licence)
You train for commercial pilot licence which involves instrument flying mainly and others

You may get a fixed wing non instrument commercial pilot licence but you won't be marketable no airline would hire you

So instrument license is not an option especially in fixed wings,I have seen commercial helicopter pilot without instrument license but not fixed wings

ATPL (Air transport pilot licence) is one earned after flying a number of thousand hours in a company and you are within reach of being a captain,you now go for both the written and flying test usually in USA

For some schools like 43rd air school in SA
You can sit for an ATPL EXAM but the licence is frozen until you get the number of hours while working or building hours

ATPL is never an initial licence is for those who have the commercial flying time and experience

Nairalandmonika:
So if u have a degree in electrical engineering, it's that an advantage?
Do it help in anyway

domido:
And in one of the topics on front page today they listen it as one of the profession one does not need to go to school for. Aaahhh!! Thank God I save that one and had it in mind to do a research on that to counter that lie oo

Thank You Explorer.

Crispels:
ON A FINAL NOTE:

Dating abroad is totally different from dating in Nigeria. There are lots of cultural differences and you must really understand these differences before shooting any shot - otherwise: you will make terrible mistakes that may ruin your reputation, mental health and growth. You may even be hated and ghosted by certain people. In America for instance, dating apps is a big deal and things happen so fast - compared to Nigeria where on the average, things take longer.

If you are a Nigerian guy and you think it is the sole responsibility of your girlfriend(wife) to cook and take care of the family - then your stupi**d patriarchy mentality will fail you big time abroad.
Most Nigerian - American girls dislike some Nigerian guys (particularly those who grew up in Nigeria) due to this kind of patriarchy and “male dominance” mentality. Many Nigerian - American girls as a result of strong upbringing by their families can cook really well(even our egusi and other Naija food) but they will hate you if you make it look like it’s their responsibility to cook for you all the time. You must also get to the kitchen - do the dishes, wash the meat, clean the tables and even cook some food as well! Everything is 50-50 in America!!! Your wife(or even girlfriend) is not your slave and it’s high time most Nigerian guys(even those based in Ibadan, Uyo, Kano and Enugu) start realizing this.

WE NEED TO TREAT OUR WOMEN LIKE QUEENS, JEWELS AND SUPPORT THEM IN THE KITCHEN, THEIR CAREERS AND IN EVERY OTHER AREA.

Crispels:
ON A FINAL NOTE:

Dating abroad is totally different from dating in Nigeria. There are lots of cultural differences and you must really understand these differences before shooting any shot - otherwise: you will make terrible mistakes that may ruin your reputation, mental health and growth. You may even be hated and ghosted by certain people. In America for instance, dating apps is a big deal and things happen so fast - compared to Nigeria where on the average, things take longer.

If you are a Nigerian guy and you think it is the sole responsibility of your girlfriend(wife) to cook and take care of the family - then your stupi**d patriarchy mentality will fail you big time abroad.
Most Nigerian - American girls dislike some Nigerian guys (particularly those who grew up in Nigeria) due to this kind of patriarchy and “male dominance” mentality. Many Nigerian - American girls as a result of strong upbringing by their families can cook really well(even our egusi and other Naija food) but they will hate you if you make it look like it’s their responsibility to cook for you all the time. You must also get to the kitchen - do the dishes, wash the meat, clean the tables and even cook some food as well! Everything is 50-50 in America!!! Your wife(or even girlfriend) is not your slave and it’s high time most Nigerian guys(even those based in Ibadan, Uyo, Kano and Enugu) start realizing this.

WE NEED TO TREAT OUR WOMEN LIKE QUEENS, JEWELS AND SUPPORT THEM IN THE KITCHEN, THEIR CAREERS AND IN EVERY OTHER AREA.

JAMO84:
I am not for cheating, but if you divorce a man for cheating, what would you do if he marries another woman? would you kill him!

Ishilove:
You should take your own advice before running down someone who doesn't know you exist.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
I guess this is your first phone!

Ishilove:
She googled the picture to use to represent her baby until the time she posts her own. It was the fingernails that attracted her. Halima's delivery is genuine, not the picture she used, so kini big deal? I think she even got it on Google photos, not the woman's page.

I don't know if it is the lockdown that is making us focus on irrelevancies.

Lockdown has been extended by 7 extra days, by the way. Government will make the announcement official later today.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Nothing is wrong with the action if she got it from a public domain, it is called file pictures and we have all seen pictures used to illustrate when the original picture is not available or identify is to be hidden.
She can only be wrong if she went to upload it from the woman's page. If the picture is on Google, then a lot of persons must have used it too.

If you post about money making, you can upload money on Google to use as an illustration.

Emu4life:
Conspiracy theorist

Samunique:
You people are just delebrately being unjust.

Since the beginning of this whole thing the pastors have been at the receiving end, most especially in Nigeria. Even the Chinese who are the most affected never see it as occasion to crucify the pastors among them.

n if I may ask you people, are the pastors the cause of this epidemic ?

What would you have them do

To go from street to street and be hunting for coronavirus patients so that they could heal them?
Or, to bust into the isolation centers without formal invitations from the authorities in the name of wanting to prove the doubters wrong?

What do you want them to do exactly?

Are pastors your problems ?

The government made an order to stop large gatherings of people and these influential pastors choose to lead by example, and all you could do is to demand their heads.

Pls what is their sin excatly, bcs I don't understand ?
Bcs I'm very disturbed about the rants all over NL against the pastors most especially, on any coronavirus thread !

Pls free these people, they are not your problem, neither are they the cause of the virus.

If the government needs their help,they will be invited and if they refuse to show up, then that'll be a different case.......

cheango:
*Below are submissions of three professors of radiation physics in UI copied from Science Faculty platform to debunk the narratives in the trending audio on 5G*

*Dr Popoola*

The man who made this audio message can be likened to someone who is interpreting a strange language he has never studied. He does not know what he's saying.
In a simple language, the so called 5G (fifth generation) is a transmission at far higher frequency range than 4G. This feature implies transmission of greater quantum of energy (signal) per time, hence heavy data (such as images) will download faster and will be transmitted at higher resolution. Meanwhile this may require more booster antennas at closer ranges in order to travel very far because high frequency signals get attenuated faster than low frequency signals. In short 5G will be able to accommodate larger data than 4G.
Generally, people have always displayed some fear each time a new technology arose. The fear attributed to mobile technology is that the signals (waves) are injurious to humans. Meanwhile all mobile signals most fall within microwaves (extreme end of radio waves) which are non ionizing radiations. Ionizing radiations like x-rays and gamma rays have far higher frequencies and exposure to human body may be injurious. However are not used for mobile telecommunication.
The man's use of the word 'radioactive' reveals that he is completely ignorant of what he claims to be explaining. The word Radioactive is from Radioactivity which is a completely different phenomenon from radio wave. Technology is more than speculation. It is a product of basic scientific theories.

*Prof Farai:*

������I remain proud of you Tunde. Just look at the confidence with which he was talking nonsense. I was just wondering how I would present a rejoinder in a language that we will all understand and without sounding know it all. You have captured all with the appropriate words. It is now up to anybody to allow him/herself to be misled. God bless you richly, my brother.

*Prof Jibri:*
I really don't understand over stretching of a simple scientific matter. Simple basic physics which our Prof. Farai has laid to rest for us as a guru in Radiation business. Use E = hf from modern Physics and the frequencies or the wavelengths of the regions for the G's what amount of energy do you arrive at. Just like Prof. Farai said, mixing up non-ionizing radiation source to be Radioactive is a simple QED ignoramus!!


*Prof Farai*
I hope we will all understand the nonsense in this video from this simple explanation. Communication networks of whatever G, for now and in the near future, are generally in frequencies of the order of Giga Hertz (GHz or 10⁹ Hz). Thank God the video revealed this much. Meanwhile, the bulk of energy from the sun (solar radiation) is in the UV frequency range (i.e.10¹⁵ Hz). Now I ask, how can mankind, who has been bathing under the shower of UV radiation from the sun over the ages, now be under any threat of a radiation of energy over 1 million times less energy than UV radiation? That is one point.
Most importantly for us on this platform, there is no application of a technology that is not under any regulatory control by international bodies made up experts from all parts of globe. Most of us have one thing or the other to do with such bodies as WHO, ICNIRC, UNSCEAR, etc. If they are unaware of the fears expressed in this video or have been compromised, then we are all guilty. We should stop attending their programmes.

funmisticqueen2:
those are just two examples.

It's worse off if a poor man mistreats his wife and still expects her to carry his name. What legacy does he have?

sexylassie2:
but you know that money worship is common among Nigerian men

i have seen Nigerian men sell their brothers and sisters for cash,

kill their brother for cash.

i watched a video of davido telling a man to bark like a dog for cash and he did it, atleast, we women still have self respect unlike many men who will do anything for cash

Genset:
Could not have said it better. The current crop of men are extremely lazy not all though . The last set of graduands in my deoartment produced six female first class and no male. Can you imagine? Even in my class, all the possible first class graduands are females. The only some of the stupid males think about is sex, boobs and ass. Chatting with most of them has made me realise that a lot of them are very lazy and not purpose-driven . A lot of them are waiting for 'internship' money that is yet to come while me, on the otherhand, is trying hard to develop my youtube channel and some other things

Enilovesam:
I was chatting with my friends yesterday, when one shared his experience with a lady telling him to make some money before he comes to say he want to date her.

This got me thinking, is this love or stupidity?

Temmybabs12:
On this particular day, hubby wanted to make out, I was too tired for it, this has been happening frequently cause most times his demand is late at night after his return from the club; when am so fagged out and probably deep asleep. So I asked him to get a girlfriend so she can help me out in that area. People of God naa joke I Dey joke oo.
Hubby took it serious and now he is flirting with girls claiming I asked him to search for a girlfriend.
Am so hurt though, yes I said it but I was joking, Oga kuku use that opportunity; now the guy has gone far o don’t even know how to bring him back. In his words “you asked me to get myself a girlfriend” I was joking about it, which woman wants to see her man with another woman.
These men though; I asked him “So if I asked you to put your hand inside fire will you, he said woman naa fire? My husband in now in a relationship with another woman.
In other news I have lost my husband to a girlfriend. ��