₦airaland Forum

Sadiqali24:
No one should talk about money, even though I'm not fantastically rich but financially, I can do the necessity without asking anyone.
The problem is, I fear women. I can't woo those I wish to be my girl and this is giving me a thing of concern.

And you no like those that woo you. This life no go ever balance

Our darling daddy is doing great, he's the only person that can make Nigeria great again.

BadRadio:
fear or guilt can trigger "Vaginismus" this fear is called "Genophobia" ... It often happens when a woman cheats especially if she had a history of pelvic trauma.

Girls are more scared during their first sex than any cheating married woman but it rarely happens to them.

BadRadio:
bros wake up na, there's no such thing as u claim. okay ? !!!

He raised a valid point for you to address. Why does it mostly happen when someone is cheating?

olabrinks:
Popping out children and doing nothing?
Do you know what it means to make a house into a home?
Do you know what it takes to do 90% of the children raising?
Do you know what it takes mentally to be the glue that sticks everyone together. There’s a reason why women detoriate and get old quick after marriage. If a woman should be contribute financially it should be less than 5%. As a married woman, please do not do try to prove that you can do the undoable.

Maybe your father only did 10% of your raising but this isn't true for all dads. Men these days are trying, we are doing better than our dads.

That aside we have house helps these days so some of these responsibilities have been reduced for women and these house helps are most times in our payroll.

In my uncle's voice: What type of this is this?

muller101:
Potential wife beater

With a potential husband beater

afinotanjnr:
I need an advise on how to go about this issue..
Please pardon my typo...

Here is its...

By God grace am OK and doing my best.
It all started that when I was still staying with my parents. There was a day my dad say something that shock me...when I was still in college of education " he said..and i quote ...when I get married, I will not take good care of them or been there for them."

That statement really hurt my feelings.. How will he be thinking of such in his heart. I have a soft heart and I simply know where am coming from and going to...

Presently ..am on my own ...working hard to actualized my dream until I met my current lady..she has been supporting, encouraging me to always know that there is a brighter days ahead. We have been dating for like a year and six months now.. I have met her parents and siblings.. They are good people with good heart. And I have always show her to my parents too..

From the day I inform my parents that I will soon get married... My dad was not in support... Indicating that I should wait until our last born to finish her studies...of which she is currently in 200 level in one of the federal university. To be Frank..I was sad for that statements and other ones my dad mention to me.

For like 2 weeks I didn't call him ...after some weeks..I call him and to hear about his health and my mum.

Fast forward.. My sister did her introduction of which was there... As tradition demands...

I call my dad about my intention of doing a formal introduction to my lady people...to get prepare for the marriage proper...

Now is the issue...
My dad call me and said that he has done his family that the lady I want to marry so will "Rule me" that is have power over me. That I will abandon him, my mum, and siblings...that a prophet told him...

I will like what...
My thought na flash back to when I was still in school when he inform that when I get married.. I will not care about them any more..

Note that before I met my lady (fiancée) I was sending him money at the end of the month and after I met my fiancée.. I still send him money because presently he is retired..

Also...am not stingy or careless not remembering my parents..deeds. Am not wicked to that extent of abandoning them.

Am so concern about welfare of which my fiancée and friends can attest to that.

In this situation I found my self...
What should I do?

Please Nairalanders...I need a good advice... Thanks...

Your father has seen that you're weak and easy to control(at least he is still controlling you to an extent even though you moved out of his house a long time ago) and as a married man, he has first hand experience of how manipulative women can be.

He fears that you will forget the family once one gets hold of you and it's possible.

You can prove to him that you are a man by marrying who you want to marry, with or without his consent but make sure the lady is worth it else you're fvcked for life.

Do your findings and do it carefully, a woman's smile is never like her character. Search her to find the woman she will become after marriage.


What you're seeing in her now may be a camouflage

Ladies don hear am for this nairaland wey we dey so.

pquaver:
Talk is cheap.. Action speak louder than words..

Abacha never stole is a opinion of Buhari on his side of Abacha. It is no where on record that he aided or abetted Abacha to steal deliberately or indeliberately.. A father can train a child well and child is a thief the father does not know.. As the child only show the father his good side many people are guilty of this and you can find that in many homes especially females.. There lots of girls their parents will tell you are virgins but omo dem be borehole.. That is the side they show their parents.. However comparing what Buhari said and Jonathan overseeing the most thiefing and corrupt government in Nigeria history show somehow you logical reasoning is poor(apologies but it just the truth), you didn't understand ratio and proportions in school and lastly you don't comprehend English well with respect to opinions, reported speech and facts.

You know, when I first read this your comment and the insults there in, I wanted to give it back to you in same way but that's akin to bring myself down to your level. I know we all still have a lot of growing up to do but I am few steps ahead of you on that ladder.

It is worrisome that the only time you and people like you remember your educational qualifications is when you want to brag or insult others just like you did.

One minute they're telling you how educated they're, the next minute they're drumming support for a corrupt, bloodthirsty, and clueless 80+ years old man who has lead this country into recession twice and closing in on third one.

I am no fan of Buhari and I don't give a shit about Jonathan, both of them can go fvck themselves for all I care but it will be outright dishonesty to say that Buhari is in anyway better than Jonathan.

Some people who believed the lies and misinformation that helped bring Buhari into power has come out to apologize but zombiesm is like coronavirus, some survive it while some die with it.

There's nothing Jonathan did that Buhari hasn't done twice but you my man can believe whatever makes you sleep better.

Arrewa:
No tribe has the monopoly of bigotry!

Igbos have said worse and heaven didn't fall!

The joke is on you sir. That guy is actually mocking you and your people

SweetCunt97:
Please just shut it. Which dominion? With men now begging women for money.

True, they all need 2k urgently

Golan007:
A man was walked on water 2 thousand years ago.

How about that?

You believe science without asking questions and then attack religious people for doing the same thing.



How are you different?

Golan007:
It is easier for a black man to believe a tribe of people are God's chosen, a woman had a child without intercourse and the product of that birth ended up walking on water, dying and thereafter resurrecting and ascended unto to a place called heaven, than to accept that dinosaurs whose remains we see all the time ever existed.

80 million years ago?

Mraphel:
All I know is Buhari has tried his best at that age

GEJ stealing is not corruption still fresh in d memory

Abacha never stole.


This too should be fresh in your memory if you don't have selective amnesia

GateofJoy:
No source?

I get indomie hungry woman source wey I never use, you need am?

Issiijay:
I don't know, I've just really been wondering and it somehow bothers.

From real life persons to several movies. When drunk,when talking,only the truth comes out of all they say??

Is there some mystery to it or it's a crazy stuff?

There are some things used in making alcohol that the company intentionally omit when they list the ingredients.



1. Honesty
2. Grammar, big ones.
3. Courage
4. Irresistible urge to dance

pretydiva:
I think he went too far. He should have discussed it with the boys mother. Even the boy isn't happy with it from his facial expression

Did the mother discuss it with him before she decided to give a man a woman's hair?

FOLYKAZE:
The pack now is miserably small and keeping it will be difficult. I bought my sim in 2007, how do you expect I keep a pack that long?

I still have mine. I kept it where I keep important documents

I think the problem is you. Our people talk say sleep wey pass four days don be death but you dey greet one person for two weeks.



E no dey tire you?

shamsin6300:
90% of her pictures can be used as MEMES

especially this one

Uzomacharles:
This is 90% truth....
Once you start dating them they will always feel like you're there mate and I align with you...
Sometimes I Get Angry When Some Grown Up Men Capable Of Becoming A Father Will Be Befriending a Girl of 8Teen years....
E dey pain me when them come near my sister...
incase you dey do am abeg E no go well

I don't do under 25s but these things your people are saying doesn't make sense to me . If dating a girl in her teens will make her feel we are mates then dating a lady in her 30s will make her feel she's my mother.


Nobody in this life will respect you if you don't present yourself in a respectful manner, if you like date only ancestors.


Any woman who has seen your unclothedness will try to disrespect you, it has nothing to do with age.


You gotta be "manly" to earn their respect

Samsimple:
she is a minor, so it's probably a criminal offence. But the police shooting the young man is just pure wickedness. May God save us from Nigeria police. Police is your friend

She's not a minor

tobiogunboye:
"I don't like iPhone"


My brother repeat after me: I will never be Poor!!!

This has nothing to do with poverty.

If you gift me an iPhone, I will sell it and use the money to get an Android phone and I will still have some change left for other things.

This iPhone 12 that people will soon start queuing to own is just an iPhone 8 with unnecessary touches here and there.


Some of these touches usually don't matter to most users. Some don't even know that they're there.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
I said what I said bitch, you must be very asinine to think my premise is based off this post only. We see the news of the evil you lot perpetrate daily from the rape of children, toddlers, babies and animals to murder, ritual killings and other depraved and demonic acts. I stand by my words, you lots are demons in human form and should be avoided at all cost. I spit on your collective faces.

You should commit suicide then because first, you're your father's watery sperm on self assignment. He didn't plan your birth. You're a mistake he regrets making that night he was Hot and had unprotected sex with your mom.


But first you need to deactivate your account before committing suicide because this forum is a man's invention.



Funny how a gender that slept with a snake because there was just one man available at that time could talk rubbish about sleeping with animals.


Self terminate already

donbachi:
Op,stop sexuallizing women....hell is real.

How did he sexualize her?

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Nigerian men are depraved and filthy animals

Please spare us this stupid generalization okay? Nigeria men are depraved and filthy animals because of one post from a useless human? Do you have any respect for the males in your life? Starting with your father and down to your partner?


And on a more serious note, how are you different from the poster? You saw the title before opening it, you known right what the content was gonna be yet you opened it, why?

There are so many educative and informative posts on this forum but your lots are hardly seen there.

You would rather spend your e-time on romance section that is filled with kids and ex 2go users and then judge all men with what you get there.

chiommy123:
when he was acting up in the relationship he didn't know. that's his pay back

You know him personally?

Johnbestman:
This picture is also one of the olosho dat I fuk yesterday. She is just 15 yrs. Is a video but I had to screenshot it

Are you mad?

The girl take style resemble Rema

Mexyz:
Hahahaha .... This boss wan wound me with laugh..

Make she no go cook error abi

Yea oo..... And she didn't get the joke

crafteck:
This comment broke my heart

Make person no go cook concoction say nah soup