Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Up With Her Boyfriend After Training Her Through Nursing School (Pix by Kondomatic(m): 1:47pm On Nov 17, 2020 |
Zzor: Lets see this from a neutral angle, should the lady go into marriage with him just because of what he did for her? what if he's someone your soul doesn't truly accept, forget the spending part from the man, she also reciprocated one way or the other.As for me I can't go into marriage with someone my soul does not accept even if you have spent millions on me,i just can't, ladies should also learn not to be greedy sha,dont receive from someone you can't stick with except he's freely doing it without any ulterior motives because some men can do volunteer work for ladies just to prove a point I feel like planking you with a 2/8 from a neutral angle |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Up With Her Boyfriend After Training Her Through Nursing School (Pix by Kondomatic(m): 1:42pm On Nov 17, 2020*. Modified: 7:53pm On Nov 17, 2020 |
This is sufficient reason to commit murder but I personally won't kill her because killing her is a minor punishment.
If I were to be in this guy's shoes (which is not even possible because I am not stupid but assuming I am in his shoes) I will take it like it's nothing and move on.
Move to a new location and start life all over.
Then sometime in 2021, around April - June when she's now happy with whoever she's leaving me for, I will project something into her life, something that will help her see her period nonstop till forever. |
Politics › Re: EndSARS: We Need To Rebuild Trust With Citizens — Osinbajo by Kondomatic(m): 6:23am On Nov 17, 2020 |
TheRareGem1: You don't have shame, calling number two citizen, useless and your Uncles and aunts are his mate o.
If he is useless, people won't call him to address some issues even when his boss is there and there are a few instances of this. {https://www.nairaland.com/6260596/endsars-need-rebuild-trust-citizens} His uncles and aunts are not directly or indirectly responsible for the deaths, untold hardship and unbearable suffering that has befallen Nigerians. |
Crime › Re: Stepmother Allegedly Attacked Stepson With Machete In Ogun State (Graphic Pix) by Kondomatic(m): 5:36am On Nov 17, 2020 |
And single mothers keep telling men to love them and their child(ren) |
Christianity Etc › Re: Not Attending Church Every Sunday. Is It Such A Big Sin? by Kondomatic(m): 9:52pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
pocohantas: I want it to be a couple’s retreat na. At least if my Oga calls when I am there, he will be hearing woman’s voice in the background. Inukwa.... So your own oga is not coming sef. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Not Attending Church Every Sunday. Is It Such A Big Sin? by Kondomatic(m): 9:15pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
pocohantas: Alright, if you can come with your partner. So that we all drink and chat together.  So to hang out with you, one must come with a partner?
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Romance › Re: What Is So Special In Lasting Long During Sex As A Man by Kondomatic(m): 7:45pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
dogmax: I keep wondering why people keep emphasising on " Need To Last Long During Sex As A Man". Is there something I don't understand about sex that makes men take sex enhancement drug just to satisfy a woman. Not minding the negative implications of taking such drug. To me as I Hussle to cum beta Hussle to cum because I can't do otherwise. Nothing boss, absolutely nothing. Makes sex uninteresting for you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Know What This Is by Kondomatic(m): 7:42pm On Nov 16, 2020 |
I have never seen this before |
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Crime › Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Kondomatic(m): 3:33pm On Nov 15, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I'm not a lawyer ooh but I understand what he's saying perfectly. Op has admitted that on a normal day, the lady wouldn't have had sex with him so if they went clubbing and later had sex, a lawyer can argue that Op knew she didn't like him and so used alcohol as a leverage to get her to sleep with him (intent). Don't say what the OP didn't say.
Here's is what he said One thing led to the other and we both had sex that night. I’m sure this wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses He did specify why it wouldn't have happened. Could be him that is not interested in the lady.
Sixfeetbelle: Also if she's drunk, consent can be argued. If he's not drunk.
Sixfeetbelle: Facts will prove that a drunk person isn't in a state to give consent. Two drunk people had sex, always remember that.
Sixfeetbelle: However with Op saying he initiated the sex, a lawyer can argue he wasn't drunk to have able to initiate sex, no matter how drunk he claims he is. So ultimately proving he purposely got her to sleep with him without her consent AKA rape.
Omo, this is a dicey situation and a good lawyer can send him to jail for rape. You people keep talking about a smart lawyer as if she's the only person that's allowed access to one.
You can't just get up and say the guy planned everything without knowing what happened that lead to their clubbing and how she got drunk, that's who got her drunk.
She was not raped and she can't prove otherwise. |
Crime › Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Kondomatic(m): 8:16am On Nov 15, 2020 |
capitalzero: Men tolerated alcohol more than women Not every man |
Education › Re: Meet The World Most Deadliest Animal (PIC) by Kondomatic(m): 7:25pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: Malaria have millions of death but, humans seem deadly to me. Makes sense.
Humans kill humans and every other animal.
Humans are the deadliest |
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Crime › Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Kondomatic(m): 2:10pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
popsy2: My argument is in order. It matters not, whether the man was drunk during the act. It is a non-issue. The crime of rape is to protect women, who are considered the vulnerable gender. Once it is established that the woman was under the influence of alcohol or any substance, the man will be knocked for it. It may sound illogical to you, but that's the law. A smart ass lawyer can flip the case over and claim that the man didn't consent to sex because he was drunk.
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Crime › Re: Lawyers In The House, Am I Guilty Of Rape In This Situation? by Kondomatic(m): 2:08pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
popsy2: Drunkenness is not a defense to rape. You will only be nailing your own casket if you bring that argument to court. Even if you prove that you were drunk, it won't avail you.
My advice: don't tell the court that the lady was drunk nor you. Whatever you do, don't acknowledge that the woman was drunk. No consensual sex can be had in such a state. What you're trying to prove here is that a drunk woman consenting to sex was raped by the man because the equally drunk man had a poor control over himself and raped the woman.
Does it even make sense?
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Romance › Re: Why Are Most Yoruba Men So Heartless? by Kondomatic(m): 1:47pm On Nov 14, 2020*. Modified: 9:00pm On Nov 17, 2020 |
The reason relationship tire me these days is because of this me first mentality of many people.
People don't care about your needs as long as theirs are being met and when you get tired of trying and quit, they will start opening threads.
You want him because he was meeting your needs, he doesn't want you because you don't care about his.
Move on and stop disturbing us.
See as you're emphasizing on laughter as if he is in the relationship to laugh.
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Celebrities › Re: Photos Of Bbnaija Erica When She Was Dark Causes Confusion On Social Media. by Kondomatic(m): 1:36pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
That's why it's important to check your girlfriend's childhood pictures before things get serious make your light skinned girl no go full your house with dark skinned children |
Romance › Re: I Just Burned Down My Wife Super Market Because... by Kondomatic(m): 1:33pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
emperorAY: for arson . the man is an unwise idiot , he would have simply employ a sale girl in place of his wife and get value for investment instead of burning down the supermarket Your wisdom is another person's foolishness sir, people react to grief differently. The only person that has a case here is the landlord of the shop. He can sue him for burning his property but if the shop was built by the husband and the fire didn't spread to other people's property then it's a closed case. He should divorce her immediately because his life is in danger. |
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Romance › Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Kondomatic(m): 7:14am On Nov 14, 2020 |
pocohantas: I trust you are. Nigeria is a hard country to be nice. Sometimes I see kids trekking long distances to school, I feel like helping them, but mehn...I don’t wanna be lynched for being a ritualist or paedophile.  This reminded me of the day some kids all aged below seven confidently walked into my sitting room and asked me to put cartoons. I wanted to say NO but seeing their happy innocent faces and knowing what saying NO will do to them, I said okay and told them sit down. My dear, I switched over to kiddies channel, opened my door and went outside to stay. I was there until their moms returned. I cannot come and explained what I never imagined |
Romance › Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Kondomatic(m): 6:20am On Nov 14, 2020 |
Minjim: Lemme add this Nah the oga kpata kpata, the general overseer be this. |
Romance › Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Kondomatic(m): 11:01pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
pocohantas: I don’t blame them though, there are not many altruistic people. So, people tend to misjudge such actions. Even guys will think you are desperate or trying to lure them into marriage when you are nice to them.
I wouldn’t ask that question, but I will most likely reject the offer. Not because I don’t trust his intentions, but because my partner may not trust it. Imagine one guy carrying your babe to work everyday. You call on her way back home and as she pick, na thick bass you hear for background laughing. She will na say “It is Kondo, he is taking me home”. Ahnahnnnn! Kondo the nice guy! That offer is somehow even for a guy. You met someone just once and you're already offering her free daily ride, who you? Jesus? Her question might not be right but she meant well too. E better make them talk am as e be instead of assuming like my friend did. I am actually a nice guy  |
Romance › Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Kondomatic(m): 10:30pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
pocohantas: What do you want, Oga? From her?
Nothing biko...
Just doing what I do to satisfy my conscience..
Wasn't interested in her or anyone. I met her few years after I stopped dating |
Pets › Re: Kindly Rate My Dog And Her 6 Weeks Old Puppies by Kondomatic(m): 6:32am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Kelvin30286063: But shey you didn't understand what I mean ni? Let's relax sometimes now? This English is not our language. At least I have a degree in English language from OAU yet I still feel relaxed when I make grammatical errors. Naturally I should have changed it after the first guy pointed it out but there is something called Trite expressions in English.
Within the boundaries of correct English usage we should aim to develop individuality in our own writing style. We cannot do so if we lazily allow ourselves to continue to use the generally accepted choice of words or expressions... Abi I should start lecturing here ni?  Nah, please don't start. I am here to joke, laugh and have fun. My English is terrible, both written and spoken. |
Pets › Re: Kindly Rate My Dog And Her 6 Weeks Old Puppies by Kondomatic(m): 5:49am On Nov 13, 2020 |
I personally mate her How come none of the puppies resemble you?
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You didn't personally mate her boss, rather you personally supervised the mating. |
Politics › Re: Wike Now A Political Liability To PDP- Umahi by Kondomatic(m): 5:45am On Nov 13, 2020 |
correctyourself: They wouldn't travel from their village, they remained there causing trouble if there is opportunity to do so, attacking people who travel far come to their village to do business. Sounds like what Hausa people do to Igbo business up north |
Food › Re: Photos: I Searched For This Meal For Over 19 Years by Kondomatic(m): 5:40am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Just watch as guys that give women head will tell the OP that this is gross. |
Crime › Re: 'I Don't Regret It' - Woman Who Slaughtered Her 4 Children by Kondomatic(m): 5:33am On Nov 13, 2020 |
This woman is not mentally okay. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Is It True Jerry Rawlings Invited Ghana's Corrupt Leaders And Bombed Them All? by Kondomatic(m): 5:28am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Zzor: yes, the bombing took place in your village compound You will not find reliable answers on Google if everyone answers questions like this. Be wise |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Election: No Evidence Of Lost Or Changed Votes —officials by Kondomatic(m): 5:26am On Nov 13, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Nigeria Army's Nepotism by Kondomatic(m): 5:24am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Some idiots down south will rather blame Nnamdi Kanu for this |
Romance › Re: I Was Called A Prostitute At Federal Secretariat Abuja by Kondomatic(m): 7:48pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
That's a national honor |