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RomanceRe: Did I Go Too Far-Woman Cuts Off Friend For Taking Banga Soup To Husband's Office by malaria(f): 3:42pm On Jan 26, 2024
1Sharon:
It's giving insecure.

If its just regular food she brought like jellof that any tribe can make, she can see it as something.

But banga soup is like novelty. I guess the 100k baited the friend to do even more for her hubby. She probably wants to use him as a client.

I wouldn't take it personally.
Yea people understands differently, but then only God knows the intentions. Ccanelling the contracts is going to far abeg , that's her means of survival .you can only apply wisdom by cautioning your husband and learning how to prepare the banga stew period . The husband could have helped by not eating the meal.or better still bring it home or even tell the woman to bring it to the house and then watch the woman's reaction . The wife in question has started acting insecure .she is protecting her interest but not in a wise way . She actually went to far .she had already started saying the things she has done for the friend when is not called for. There are ma ways to win a battle without fighting. Telling the friend jokingly to pass the food through her next time is a simple warning and message without causing much trouble.
RomanceRe: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by malaria(f): 11:22am On Jan 26, 2024
This is one reason why you open up to your future partner about you. If he or she is matured enough tohandle it then nothing can break you people. Once you start hearing stories from outsiders, problem don start be that .Marriage is not a child's play . The groom should question the lady, every angel had a past and every devil was once an angel . No one is perfect .
RomanceRe: Is This Guy's Opinion About Moses Bliss Too Extreme? by malaria(f): 11:08am On Jan 26, 2024
Nigerians will make you what you are not. That someone is a gospel artist does not make him a born again Christian. That someone does not go to church does not mean he does not worship God . Make una free this guy abeg .
Nairaland GeneralRe: How Do I Stop Lying. by malaria(f): 4:37pm On Jan 12, 2024
You do not lie , you just fake. So you keep saying things to create impression
RomanceRe: Want a vibrator from my husband by malaria(f): 8:15pm On Dec 29, 2023
Poster your man is not tired anything , may be you no longer look sexy to him . Have a heart to heart talk with him
RomanceRe: Woman Shares Chat That Made Her Block Her Close Male Friend by malaria(f): 8:11pm On Dec 29, 2023
malaria:
The thing is if you have a friend, you know their weaknesses and strength . May be the guy knows telling you will cause problems that's why he refused telling you. I personally.will prefer to.confide in a stranger that shuts his mouth than confiding in a friend that has a loose mouth. It does not mean I hate my friend.
. Reaons some married people keep having close friends outside their spouses . Some people mouth to loose, they no get secret .
RomanceRe: Woman Shares Chat That Made Her Block Her Close Male Friend by malaria(f): 8:10pm On Dec 29, 2023
The thing is if you have a friend, you know their weaknesses and strength . May be the guy knows telling you will cause problems that's why he refused telling you. I personally.will prefer to.confide in a stranger that shuts his mouth than confiding in a friend that has a loose mouth. It does not mean I hate my friend.
RomanceRe: Can A Man And A Woman Be Friends by malaria(f): 8:03pm On Dec 29, 2023
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.
RomanceRe: Relationship Nowadays by malaria(f): 7:17pm On Dec 28, 2023
Change the class of women you deal with please.
RomanceRe: Who Else Feel This About Nairaland by malaria(f): 7:13pm On Dec 28, 2023
Crucialgem:
Nairaland has successfully change my perspective about opposite sex with the constant bashing and critics of Nigerian girls and the notion of Alpha (red pill) males and simpleton (simps)

Backfoward before entering nairaland I used to dream of being so much in love with my dream woman and sacrificing all I could in my power for the sake of our love 9
But with all the thread of my girlfriend did this, my wife did this and that etc. my perspective has change big time

Do you guys think it a good thing so it can allow me make better decisions as regards relationship or it is bad thing that has mess me up mentally
Poster in this life just do you. Believe all this write ups you see here at your own peril. Men keep chasing women , women keep sleeping over in guys house. Funny enough the lies and deciet are much. If you hear stories of women saying they can never do this or that because of a man,such ladies do more . Some men will say women are evil this and that , check well they stil pick up their phones and call their babes . The thing is nobody will genuinely tell you what's going on with them as regards their relationship . Online everyone is wise , off line they are all fools for love . Nobody can decide for you how you want to live your life .
Christianity EtcRe: Will God Answer This Lady's Prayer? by malaria(f): 4:16pm On Dec 24, 2023
If she was dressed like that at home praying, wont God answer her. My dear God answers prayers wella
RomanceRe: What Do You Do When You Have An Insecure Partner by malaria(f): 7:10pm On Dec 21, 2023
Dear poster there must have been something you did that made her to start acting this way . If she has been like that from onset then you choose your poison so deal with it
RomanceRe: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by malaria(f): 7:10pm On Dec 05, 2023
Poster na normal thing . Nothing is meant to last forever besides you do not know the kind of peace of mind you are enjoying .
HealthRe: Augmentin: See How Much I Bought This Medicine Today by malaria(f): 7:21pm On Dec 04, 2023
I want to believe is from the pharmacy you went to . Things are costly yes it's not that extent . 57k for what na .
PoliticsRe: INEC Needs To Be Unbundled – Jega by malaria(f): 6:29pm On Nov 29, 2023
Mega should just shut up and hide his face in shame . He has zero integrity
BusinessRe: Supreme Court Rules That Old & New Naira Notes Will Co-Exist As Legal Tender by malaria(f): 6:23pm On Nov 29, 2023
Where the new notes dey to start with
Christianity EtcRe: Couple Whose Wedding Was Cancelled Over Pregnancy Weds In Another Church In Aba by malaria(f): 6:21pm On Nov 29, 2023
Lee99:
Meanwhile people are still fornicating in that church, hypocrites everywhere, the pastor will be pained...
Must you even marry in the church? What happened to court wedding?
I keep on asking if people still dey reason church . Because the way some Nigerians dey carry church for head eeee but their hearts and characters are something else . Mere looking at those intending couple, you will see that they are just trying to live their calm quie, low life . If na rich people now, I do not thin the church will remember that rule
Christianity EtcRe: Couple Whose Wedding Was Cancelled Over Pregnancy Weds In Another Church In Aba by malaria(f): 6:13pm On Nov 29, 2023
The groom ma correct guy . No dulling, had it been they are big people of the society, their church will not remember the rules.
Christianity EtcRe: Armed Robbers Attacked Me! I Declared Myself A CHOSEN! They Left Me. by malaria(f): 9:13am On Nov 26, 2023
Give God glory, not saying God of chosen.
FamilyRe: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by malaria(f): 10:34pm On Nov 25, 2023
Wawelexy:
Do you know if he was the one who exhausted the wife's savings? Forget the internet picture about women, some are very supportive when you show them love, they don't mind giving you their last dime provided you do not pose as a threat to them either by cheating or maltreating them.
You are right. I know a lady that took care of her husband for al most 2years after their wedding . Her savings drained.
CelebritiesRe: Hanks Anuku Cries For Help: "I Have Been Jobless For Years" by malaria(f): 11:18am On Nov 17, 2023
judatech:
They won't help him now he's crying
when he dies... people will use him to chase clout...
How many people did he help when all was rosy for him . Abi na to carry your money dey flex dey do drugs be the matter . Leave all this celebrities na fake life, competition and flexing kill them . Just few of them that are not distracted are still doing good .
RomanceRe: Should Wives Who Wash Their Husbands' Clothes Been Seen Slaves? by malaria(f): 6:51pm On Nov 14, 2023
Oga do what works for you . If you have money for laundry services , do it . If is washing machine buy . If you can not afford it and your wife is happy doing it let her do it . There are no rules to life biko . You can still wash your wife's clothes of you have time for it .its no biggie .what matters is peace and happiness in your home. Most people who talk like that are not happy where they are coming from , they are looking for e be like me .
PoliticsRe: Imo Governorship Election 2023: Results Declaration By INEC by malaria(f): 7:02pm On Nov 12, 2023
GoodGovernance:
Rubbish!

Go to IREV and compare accredited voters with so called total valid votes.

The majority people should decide their leaders, not all the politicians you mentioned, they are supposed to have only one


Go and hug transformer or you go and learn the game of politics
PoliticsRe: Imo Governorship Election 2023: Results Declaration By INEC by malaria(f): 10:31am On Nov 12, 2023
Beremx:
but he didn't win his first term. The massive rigging he conducted in Orlu zone is glaring even when there was low turnout. Your useless supreme court has rendered the electoral process useless and irrelevant. The Hopeless Supreme Court Governor is from Orlu zone but he will ever remain a curse to my people
My dear if u know IMO state which I believe you do not . you will know that the chances of hope winning the election is 100%. How can u unseat a sitting governor that has been a force in politics. In a ruling party , with 2 sitting senators from APC , The one representing orlu zone is from oru west and a close friend to hope . All his appointees were on ground . finally all the gurus of IMO poltics were behind him . las las his opponents were not even better than him coupled with the nonense stunt pulled by labour and nlc. Omo is a win for onwa oyoko .
PoliticsRe: Imo Governorship Election 2023: Results Declaration By INEC by malaria(f): 10:24am On Nov 12, 2023
engineerboat:
LGA Announced with Winners

1. Oru West: APC 38026 Winner
2. NJABA APC 8110 Winner
What do u expect when the sitting senator of orlu zone is from oru west and also a close pal of hope.
PoliticsRe: Uzodimma Clears All Imo’s 27 LGAs by malaria(f): 10:16am On Nov 12, 2023
spencekat:
Sitting governors have been defeated before naaa.
That's when stakeholders are against him.
PoliticsRe: Uzodimma Clears All Imo’s 27 LGAs by malaria(f): 10:14am On Nov 12, 2023
Addme:
I talk am


Seriously this man is brutal politically.
As in how can the most villified and hated governor in the whole of South East wins all the 27 Local governments even the opposition local governments and not just winning but winning with bloody nose to other parties.
E shock me ..
Na u hate hope ooo . stop inheriting peoples enemy . hope Made up with people he had issues with long time ago. His only challenge is insecurity . aside from that . he is better that the other candidiates
PoliticsRe: Imo Chairman Of Labour Party Bar. Callistus Ihejiagwa Lost At His Polling Booth by malaria(f): 9:55pm On Nov 11, 2023
YourKarma:
true talk. same reason I didn't vote
There is no vacancy in government house , they were warned before now .
PoliticsRe: Imo Governorship Election Results From Polling Units by malaria(f): 7:12pm On Nov 11, 2023
Nwaotu10:
When I told them Onwa na Omuma will smash the election, they thought I was joking 😁😁
He is not called onwa oyoko in vain. He had no opposition .that's the bitter truth .he knows politics more than his opponents he has been in the game
PoliticsRe: Imo Chairman Of Labour Party Bar. Callistus Ihejiagwa Lost At His Polling Booth by malaria(f): 6:18pm On Nov 11, 2023
makonle:
Now i understand the politics there. Thanks for the enlightenment.
You are welcome

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