₦airaland Forum

edoairways:
Good one

Heroclitus:
Still don't know why it's easier for girls to turn lesbians than for guys to become gays...wetin dey attractive for men body

ZIMDRILL:
which post did you read?

you are replying to your own version of the story

1 her own mum came to look after the child and that move the sisters took it as "her own mum has influence in her daughter's marriage"

2 so since that incident they have never liked her mum t

LadyExcellency:
In Nigeria, a 25 years old female is a girl by their wirings

She should work but as self-employed

Adedayobusayo12:
Single ladies, shine your eyes before you marry. Some men are not worth it. A man will leave his family and cleave to his wife. They are one! If I like I will carry my child and give my parents to look after if that's what will give me peace of mind. A husband that cannot mediate between his siblings and wife and also draw a line so as each will not cross is a fool. Get a job and do what you enjoy. Let the fool marry his sisters. One idiot will come and stay in my house for five years, come dey spoil my name again, Ogun go kiiii am. I have a brother and I will never go and intimidate his wife or pokenose in his marriage. When you marry into a lowlife family where they all depend on kobo from the man, this is the results. Poor and aggressive siblings.

Nat404:
Not ordering her about. You don't really understand what I'm talking about here. What I wanna tell you is that I experienced similar thing as a young lad when my elder brother got married. None of us ever lived with my brother's wife, even my cousin sister did not

LadyExcellency:
Impatient is inclusive but the wife is still a girl and may not withstand infidelity rampant in today's corporate Nigeria.

LadyExcellency:
Must she work for somebody to be a fulfilled woman?

Everyone is not same and every circumstance requires a peculiar solution.

The tune of the op signifies arrogance and pride hence the husband decoded the ends from the beginning.

Nat404:
Okay but this is just an African mentality, a European woman takes her husband's siblings are hers. Whereas in Nigeria, it's a different ball game in the sense that when a man brings a woman home as his wife, the wife tends to drive away her husband's siblings.

EJanni:
Don't mind him. He's yet to recover from pain of heart break.

simplesearch:
He answered, “Haven’t you read in your Bible that the Creator originally made man and woman for each other, male and female? And because of this, a man leaves father and mother and is firmly bonded to his wife, becoming one flesh—no longer two bodies but one. Because God created this organic union of the two sexes, no one should desecrate his art by cutting them apart.” Matthew 19.

In God's reckoning even if your wife is a witch or an integrate, once you are pronounced husband and wife it is your duty as a man to protect her until help comes your way. Inability to detach from parental bond is the bane of many marriages. Even if you and your siblings eat from one plate till adulthood or they spend their last kobo to train you, you must not substitute your family for such gesture. You must speak well of your wife to your family until they see reason to accept her as she is, but on your part don't stop helping them out as much as you can if you have the means, thereafter find a way to let your wife see reason to be at peace with your family members without exposing her to danger. If Adam had got sisters and brothers they probably would have beaten Eve silly for bringing ill luck to their brother and destroying his fortunes in the garden of Eden, in fact many a men would have divorced Eve immediately for such high priced negligence that led to a permanent change of status from pleasure to pain. Family life is not for persons who don't read the bible, pray together or are ready to be a man. This is no license for misbehavior on the part of the woman, for a virtuous woman is not encumbered by the present and mundane things of the world but her heart is set on the Lord.

EJanni:
I've been following your comments in this issue, you're biased. Stop misleading the public with your unguarded opinions. Be rational.
This 21 century and besides the Bible says God created a man and his wife.

isthatso:
If you value your marraige, you just have to learn to be a politician and play them at their game, dont respond to provocations,,,which is what they want and use subtle methods to let your husband see what his sisters are doing. Never tell him directly, let him come to his own conclusions himself.

Mindfulness:
To all of you who are reminding her that she will be old one day, why don't you remember that her husband will be old too? Will he not want his children around then? The same children he is leaving alone every Christmas to come back broke?

The problem is not that she doesn't want him to see his father. She agrees he goes in January. The problem is that her husband has never spent Christmas with his own family and handled the finances irresponsibly.

zimdante:
May your days be long for saying the truth, when you are walking on the street of America and remember Nigeria , its hard to believe that Nigeria and America share same planet.

Yummymummy07:
Yes u r wrong ,let him go and take care of his dad. Remember that u r also a mother with sons and one day u may find urself in this position , how would you feel if one your sons stop him from visiting you while you are seriously ill.

Deo1986:
Beats me how supposed influential, rich and affluent Africans considers America as their heaven... anyone can be great anywhere so long as you work smart..

bryanarchie:
I grew up in s home where Christmas is s big deal, I don't want to travel to my parents house seffff....
I want us to buy our own Christmas tree, kill our own chicken, shoot our own knockout. my parents gave me memories, I want to do the same for my son...

I may sound childish, stupid or self centered but yes I wsnt my family together....

SmellingAnus:

IAmStrange:
Because your girlfriend has started patronising Jaruma and she's been using Kayamata on you.

Don't worry. very soon, even her sh!t will become the most pleasurable thing you will ever taste with your tongue.

Your destiny is about to take off on a first class flight! Congratulations!

Nonsense and midnighter

MedicH:
Yes na how else do i put it. Some ppl get married and are able to accommodate themselves. For some people it's war.

crackhaus:
Yes o.

BTW, I saw where you were being accused of being male. So are you male with a dangling asherah pole?
Someone here wants to know...with photo proof if possible

Pussywar:
Oooh. Them nigga bitches that hide behind the 'f' for attention. I see you.

crackhaus:
The Dunning-Kruger Effect can do that.

Pussywar:
I think that woman was being sarcastic. I hope so, cos i laughed

MedicH:
Marriage is not for everybody.

Sterope:
The husband knows the kind of parents she has. It is the reason he has their support.

Mindfulness:
Ok.