Really?

Unfortunately this so called spiritualist are not making you see the greatness and potential in your marriage.
You won't believe me until you've lost her.

Buhari and osinbajo promised more and delivered nothing.

So restructuring isn't among your agenda. E ti wole tan.

Most of these ladies get MAGU for body but them no no.

Guy calm down, I've not had sex with my wife for over a year and 5months yet our 5th years anniversary is around the corner.
If you suspect her of cheating please confirm red-handed before accusing her.
I think you're worrying too much, nothing is worth your tears. Move on if you must move on.

No prioritize woman oh, no carry Dem for head. Know this and know peace.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

I swear this guy was among those that caught me between Benin & okada.
Demanded for 5mill.

You dey answer the idiot?
quote author=Polchiz post=115565895]
Rubbish!
Did Tinubu say anything about harnessing the opportunity in corn and cassava farming via Agroprocessing in order to increase profitability down the Supply Chain, create jobs and provide raw materials for local industries thereby guarantee food security?

He simply associated farming to security challenges by saying that 50 million youths will be recruited and fed with cassava and agbado.

He went further to say that education is not necessary for security personnel and that anybody who can handle a gun can be recruited. [/quote]

Sleeping with someone's else's husband nko?

cutecommend:
A Pastor said a guy slept with a married woman and lost his job the next day.

If you sleep with a married woman will it bring a curse? Let me tell you one thing. Curses are sometimes like seeds that grow into a tree. Do you know if you sleep with a married woman today, you may not feel anything or consequence until maybe 10 years later.

Sleeping with married women is dangerous. You may escape it, but your children may begin to experience some negative stuff.

If you have slept with a married woman, please stop it and repent.

Story or not my brother these things happen in real life.

omoyeni37:
All this fake stories on nairaland these days, smh

Calm down bro! Shes not fighting with you. she admitted her mistake and she's
publicly seeking advice whether to disclose this secret to her hubby or not.

H0didon:
You didn't marry that guy cos of religious differences but for stability. You don't even love your husband but your ex . You can only deceive yourself not us. You knew all these would happen. I mean, how can you goan stay at your ex sister place? . You think we're fools here abi?
Its your husband i pity, he allowed your ex to eat what was left for him even after taking the main share(Virginity) . You can never be contented. You don't deserve marriage.

If you notice lately, there's nobody that craves more for marriage than hoes and the funny thing is, they can't maintain it.



As our Ancestors would say "Only a wonderFOOL man marries a woman who still keep in touch with her ex".

Disclose this secret to your God.
Lemme rephrase do not make a mistake by revealing this info to your hubby.

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Guy move on.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

Ucheuokoro:
All the pages used for OBIdient are still the same pages used for IPOB terrorist groups.

Like this I don wash my hand for Peter Obi matter. The devil I know is better than the angel I dont know

Grow up ewu

Kelsmatuc:
Left for me, I'll urge all Christians to stop attacking Tinubu.....if his choice is wrong, go get ur PVC n let him feel it via d polling unit ....all dis noise is not worth it

If christains wear imams regalia to make a political statement, Nigeria will not know peace that very moment.

VeryWickedGoat:
That means some people must have peeped her kpekus because I can that see she wore a gown

you're not making sense.

Youve said it all.

tayo60:
A man should really study and know the woman he is marrying . A lady with many body counts before marriage can't never be faithful, and moreso, women pretend a lot. Do an undercover investigation about her from friends, neighbors etc before you marry her. So also, a woman who fears God cannot cheat in marriage.

You just dey know?

Speak to God, he's a great healer for anyone going through difficult situation.

False claims and religious sentiment does no one good. Muric nation wide has fueled religious crisis and has not helped in uniting a religious diverse country like ours.

Why on earth is this childish topic a news line?

irunoko:
nope it's not but that's not a wise thing to do as a graduating student knowing that you by will always need to refer to your school for one issue or The other

She lacks the wisdom.

Mumu the ladder to success is so long you can't afford to throw caution into thin air out of maybe grieve. She think say she done arrive because of common certificate (paper)

I was offered a dud cheque sometimes in 2016 valued at 675,000 naira.

Though I'm still in possession of the cheque up till date and the issuer ran into thin air, changed location and changed mobile number.

Will it still be valid if I report the issue

Interesting, I can feel the genuineness of your own side of the story however I need to let you know you can't eat your cake and have it.

Free your mind off your external relationship and allow her move on with her newly found marriage bound affair, you must also shy away from committing her into any sexual relationship again.

She needs to give herself fully to her man abi you go like am if another man dey knack your wife for house?

My dear brother, you worry too much.
Plz kindly exercise some patience the truth will reveal itself.
Continue your day to day activities ,try and move on the real reason behind her action will revisit you without demanding for it

My brother you can say that again "you can't marry Olosho and expect mother Theresa's devotion"

abbey621:
News travel but bad news travels faster. Ever notice the silence and non praise we get from working marriages? When people do what they are supposed to do they get no praise but when things gets bad, you start seeing all sorts of comments about how marriage is bad. No my friend, marriage is not bad, PEOPLE ARE BAD!

You saw 4 married women behaving badly but that bus must carry children of at least 10 married women. Using your sample size, in the bearest minimum 60% of married women still get sense. Now when you factor in character, marital arrangements etc, who knows the mindset of these women? You can't marry olosho and expect Mother Teresa kind of devotion.....lol.

Your article is very myopic as far as I am concerned.

Has he not got a name? While attach a knight of a catholic church to an individual with a crime record? Some of these headlines ehn........insane man.

It shall not be well with you and your fellow believers.

Tbh Islam isn't worth it. This is completely barbaric. Crazy sec

Please would drink's expired milk here?

Imagine the thugs in all regions if tinubu becomes Nigeria's president.