Dynamic33: I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?
The same way you come to social media to tell us...Emmh! Some people sha, private stuff don become public discuss :/
All these money you are planning to drill from the public purse of Bayesians... Politicians are the cause of all evil in Nigeria. I just wonder...the shit hole of corruption in these circles.
SyrusdeHansome: Let me start my own this way, I know in this life nobody owes us anything but that doesn't mean our lives must always be about us and us alone. There's a blessing in giving.
I'm opportune to have an uncle who has stayed in US for more than 20 yrs now. He's a surgeon and one of the best in his field but the biggest gift I've received from him was 800 naira in 2007. Though he use to give me those big bargy trousers once in a while I still see the 8h as his biggest gift to me because trouser no be my problem.
Pls tell me your own.
Maybe that's why people wan dey abroad ne dey like pick calls from home because of this ideal of asking for something. Someone should give you something because he/she wants to...not you demanding for it. Shikina :/!
Back in the days when this positions are handed to girls and boys with the best grades, good characters, clean and discipline students....those are the good times of my era in school. Not taking anything away from today's digital era. Hopefully though that those principles in selecting these positions is still held. Good lucky to you all prospective candidates !
Only in Nigeria, foreign companies in collaboration with default Nigerians will take elaborate projects, sign the contract...and end up doing nothing. In return still path ways with large chunk of money from us :/! Yeye dey smell...in Naija!
okrote4real: Nigeria Re-emergence As Africa’s Biggest Economy, An Economic Scorecard of President Buhari Administration - APC
Nigeria's re-emergence as Africa's biggest economy after overtaking South Africa which has entered its second recession in two years, is a rewarding and fitting economic scorecard of the President Muhammadu Buhari administration.
This is not a small feat and should be celebrated by all. The All Progressives Congress (APC) congratulates the President, the APC family, and indeed all Nigerians. Those expecting the worst and wishing the country ill-fortune should now give up. The task of developing a nation is a collective one. Politics should not drive Nigeria apart; it should unite us when the interest of our nation is involved.
Since the Nigerian economy exited recession in 2017, the country's economic growth has not been a fluke but a result of deliberate practices and policies of the President Buhari administration that has increased transparency in governance, diversification of the economy away from oil, improved fiscal management, and a healthy protectionist approach which has aided the growth and increased the capacity of domestic producers and in turn created jobs.
The hugely successful anti-corruption efforts such as implementation of a Treasury Single Account that allows the government to better track and manage its resources and a more transparent government payroll and personnel system that eliminated duplication and "ghost workers" has alleviated poverty and made more cash available for critical infrastructure projects. Private sector investment and confidence in the economy is at a record high as a result of government's development of a stronger public-private partnerships for roads, agriculture, and power.
Economic growth is being achieved despite dwindling resources as a result of low oil prices. The fact that we are making commendable progress with all the challenges shows this government is doing the right thing. There is no doubt about the determination of the Buhari government to continue to take the right steps to create jobs, grow the economy, create a secure environment, massively develop our infrastructure and develop our other resources through focused and well reasoned diversification policies.
The APC government is opening up supports in terms of finance, ease of doing business, and other services to enable the release of the latent creative energies of our youths. Our youths should take advantage of the conducive business environment the APC government is creating by investing their time in productive endeavours. They should free themselves from those who had dragged Nigeria down to the cliff edge and are trying to use our youths to create social disharmony. We call on our very enterprising youths to back out of the destructive course the opposition is leading them and join the current journey into prosperity this government is pursuing
Of course, there are still a lot of challenges on the way. The journey is not going to be a walk in the park. That is not unusual, considering the level of decay our nation has sunk into under the watch of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) and the current efforts of the PDP leaders to slow down our progress as a nation. However, this government, under the capable hand of President Buhari is single-minded and courageous enough to lead our country to the promised land.
SIGNED: Mallam Lanre Issa-Onilu National Publicity Secretary All Progressives Congress (APC)
My people tell me wetin change for your city from two years back till date that you can still say "walahi" diis country don better... Biggest economy, with biggest HARDSHIP...in all sectors, mi see. At least in Economics study...we learn say improvement in economy should translate to better or improve life situation for people and businesses. Nigeria is defying all economy laws and principles with this government negatively. Someone should ERASE NIGERIA, to start afresh. Biko!
GamalNasser: The US Department of State has announced a $7 million reward to anyone that can provide credible information that will lead to the arrest of Boko Haram leader, Abubakar Shekau.
The Deparment made this known in a tweet posted some hours ago. The tweet reads
The United States Department of State offers a #reward of up to $7 million for information leading to the arrest of #terrorist Abubakar #Shekau , leader of #Boko_Haram . #Whatsapp : +1 202 975 9195 #Telegram :
The Deparment made this known in a tweet posted some hours ago. The tweet reads
I won't be surprised if the conspirators of this BH produce their puppet... because now bigger money is involved. Hopefully would be the beginning of something swift in intelligence gathering to all concerned :/!
Well Mr. FFK...in as much that all have right of freedom of speech there's a limit oh! Especially in the presence times, where is not a privilege. Ask "Lai Mohammed" he knows better :/!
All this our leaders...when they are in position of power to do the needful they won't. When they aren't anymore all they do is to shift blame and responsibilities to others. Too much talk, no action...no bi today, Nigeria
Those two countries above us can pay their debts easily. Moreso I'm sure they incurred that with the maximum benefits to their respective countries. Why, I can't say that though to the one incurred by Nigeria :/!
sodiqapril: Mayweather should shut the fxck up...These black American are worse racists than whites....you need to go check their comments on twitter after wilder lost...most of them were only sad because wilder lost to a white man.... They racially abused him , called him all sort of names from fat to bald headed white dog.. this modern sportsmen haven't really mastered the art of trash talking, after running their mouth like water, they End up loosing woefully, from MC Gregor to wilder....wilder can just go back to the US and start fighting people with no names so he can knock them out in the fourth round....
Even in this forum...you will see Nigerians fighting themselves of tribes. Even though we are all Naija :/!
For me, if our institution is made strong and independent the appropriate authority would have been the ones taking this matter up. But again is Nigeria not works.
donbachi: dem no sabi dat one...all dem dey always tell us na "u people must learn to be law abiding citizens"...if d police dem learn to be law abiding police officers....dem go die by stray bullets?
donbachi: police never fit obey laws enshrined in the constitution that has to do with citizens right....when una say "bail is free" but we still pay 4 it...na checking of phone..abeg tell us another thing.
De koko of de matter bi say How policemen or policewomen in Nigeria sabi dis things?
The Nigerian Police should educates their officers before they through dem to streets to maintain law and orders. In addition to dat that any officer found wanting of breaking up any law as stipulated in acts or dat of de citizens we face the law.
Seriously speaking I haven't seen any law or bill this people has passed that has had impact to Nigerians since 1999. When it comes to money they didn't argue or fight, you see them working united. Shame :/
Creating irrelevant job opportunities for services that is meant for policemen ( vandals) and ministry responsible for roads/power (maintenance or fixing).
Na today, you dey know. Media government. Action we naija want not mouth. Ex general wey still dey fail SECURITY exam...Even the expo e carry write the exam e still no pass am :/!
All the criminals on Nigeria soil, have you arrested them. You should go after the big fish we all know has sucked Nigerians dry before you start going after those without your reach.
See mi see fight for social media... mostly tribal war. This is another prove we aren't supposed to be together as one naija. Instead of us joining together and fighting with ONE VOICE of something very important - INSECURITY and this government for other important things :/
clevvermind: Thousands and millions of persons have planned to have sex for the first time and more today. it makes me wonder if today normally goes with sex and fucking.
It seems people cannot do without sex today especially guys. Are you one of such saying i must Bleep and be bleeped today or not? let know.
But i want you to tell the house if you can do without sex today.