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Lets not jumpm into conclusions that the man is no good, we have not heard all sides of the story. Lets not discount the mans somewaht honesty, after all he did admit to you that there was someome else. That said poster really needs to decide what she wants out of a relationship, the fact that the man is a divorcee does not necessarily mean he is disaster

If implemeneted well and properly enforced, could end up being a good thing. Nigeria's education system is Trash becuase those who should fix it have no vested interested. Let thise thieving governors kids join the long line of under performing failing NECO students.

Still no answer? come on guys, I know someone out there has the answer

Very convenient excuse. Prostitute nation

Terrible, but when will Nigerians wake up from thier slumber. Today we all witnessed the begining of Hosni Mubaraks trial, the Egyptian's did that for themselves. They effected the change necessary to move thier country forward. When are we going to stand up and seek accountability? probably when there is no one left.

May the souls of those unfortunate people Rest in Peace

Mami Market for Osubi? dem wan establish another Asahwo quater. Verry stupid plan. what has the Phucking dog done about completing Asaba airport or any project he starts? Make uduaghan go rest, in a few weeks he will be vacating Government house. Big thief

People really dont understand anything about Islamic bank, and then start a thread in the process. Typical of the average Nigerian, absolutely no knowledge, even of the smallest things

HSBC offers Amanah Banking. Read more

http://www.hsbcamanah.com/amanah/about-amanah

Another nonsense talk. Why do we like wallowing in stupidity.

@blink82,

you dey follow the wahala wey one burst for the man. Im dey serious yaha. All those phuckker wey dey allow them selves to be hired. shame on dem lot. Uduaghan na failure from day one

dem say na only once dem dey phuck ashawo no pay, but in Nigeria as many times as you like. what is complete in this fraud? you people are so easily deceived, no wonder you are being led robbers and you dont know it

Typically Nigerian. The day we start telling ourselves the truth, probably change would begin

@Chaircover,

I think you have summed it up beautifully. At the end of the day it is a choice thing. No one is forced into cheating, if you disregard or have no respect for the institution of marriage and your partner, then you will always find an excuse to cheat. It is like everything in life, I see people who defraud the government and others, when asked why they answer eneryone is doing it, so whats the big deal. It becomes acceptable, and I say it that those who see nothing wrong in issues like this, potentially have the capacity to do other wrong and find convenient excuses.

Interesting simplistic responses. People always ready to make excuses for the wrongs we do. Like I said earlier, it all depends on the value and respect you put on your marriage. There is something beautiful about keeping your marriage virgin and pure. The minute you allow filth in, you marriage becomes a hollow relationship, forth with dis-trust. These are the thoughts that should challenge anyone before they take the plunge.

Maybe it might be useful for some to quote the gains of cheating

No, not all men will cheat. It all depends on the respect one places on ones marriage

Is Uduaghan going to be the first governor to be kicked out? The phucking cheat has fire buring up his backside

Delta State Governor Dr Emmanuel Uduaghan yesterday failed in his bid to stop the cross-examination of prosecution witness of the Democratic People’s Party (DPP) in the Delta State Election Petition Tribunal.

Chief Great Ogboru, Democratic People’s Party governorship candidate (DPP), is in court challenging the victory of Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan in the January 6th rerun election

The expert witness, Mr. David Goodwin, a forensic expert, had barely mounted the witness box when lead counsel to Dr Uduaghan (1st respondent) Mr. Wole Olamipekun (SAN) objected to the evidence on the witness on the ground that he was not listed in the petition.

http://www.thenationonlineng.net/2011/index.php/news-update/11939-uduaghan-loses-bid-to-stop-dpp-forensic-expert%E2%80%99s-witness.html

Why do we always kid ourselves. Goddy has always been slow to act in all issues requiring decisive and urgent attention, and it has nothing to do with him wanting a full grasp of the situation before he acts. To be honest I dont blame him, simply because the task at hand is way beyond him. Nigeria is really in a broken state, and it will take more than a fisherman from ND to fix her. Nigeria and all arms of her government and services need a total overhaul, almost like rebuilding the country from scratch

This whole issue has exposed the true state of Nigeria. I wonder why we keep deceiving oursleves with false hope. Until we all sit down and agree that Nigeria cannot move forward as a country in its pesent state, things will not get better. For those who place so much hope in Goddy, he lacks the capacity to implement that change a lot of you crave. Right now it seems like the only option left to all of us is to sit back and watch which way the elements take us

@CY_clone,

do they have kids? There must be something fundamentally wrong for the man to start straying just 8 months after marriage. something isnt right. You friend may love her husband, but the husband doesnt love her. And if true that this lady is pregnant, then the husband is reckless and has potentially put his wife @ risk

ronkebp:
I wonder oooo, i tire, wish i could help that pathetic situation, only God has the power to, moreover by the time the hubby is confronted, he will start to stammer like a fool, and be begging.

The truth is that people have stopped valuing relationships. There is no way one claims to love someone and then goes ahead and cheat. You never loved the person in the first place, if you did, the consequences would hit you before you take the plunge. For those repeat offenders, it beats me. where is the sense in getting married only to persistantly cheat? why not stay single and phuck as much as you want, maybe till bad disease catch you. here the idiot has not protected himself or his unlucky wife

marriage only 8 months old, belle outside. Which kind world we dey so. Its a diffuclt one which must be dealt with carefully. Let her husband know that you know and ask him to speak to his wife about it or you will have no ther choice than to tell her yourself, but be mindful that he can turn around and accuse you too.

Good luck.

Why dont we value our relationships anymore? what is so good about cheating on each other?

He is opening his mouth weeks after the wahala has started. It is clear he doesnt know what to do, but then again it is what nigerians voted for

As usual the innocent will suffer. I fail to see how this would solve the problem

I think the Nigerian government must now conceed that our security services are really not fit for purpose. This is shameful. The commom man is really getting it from all angle. Corrupt politicians, lack for functional services, Armd robbers, and now this.

DESPITE heavy security put in place to tame the Boko Haram sect and as the Senate was having crucial meeting with security chiefs in Abuja on how to find solution to the problem, yesterday, the group struck again killing seven persons in separate attacks in Maiduguri, Borno State.

Those killed included two policemen, a soldier, an assistant superintendent of customs (ASC II) and three civilians.The policemen whose ranks could not be ascertained at press time were killed in Gwange area.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2011/07/boko-haram-kills-7-in-borno/

Pure Evil

At least 10 people have been killed in a series of attacks blamed on Islamist militants in the north-eastern Nigerian city of Maiduguri, officials have said.

Military commander Gen Jack Nwaogbo said five people were killed when a bomb exploded on Sunday inside a bar frequented by soldiers and policemen.

Gunmen also shot dead four people late on Saturday and one person on Sunday.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-14009284

1 party country

I am begining to feel these nominations are token and designed to make up numbers. No real substance

jennykadry:
^^^Family section will soon lose it's taste like romance section.

The kind of advices I read on this section sometimes is mind boggling

So true, I read a lot of careless ill thought out answers on here. Most times from single people, who in my opinion are not qaulified to comment on issues they have little or no experience of

Trust Wesley80 to sit on GEJ side of the fence. Awnay my bro how u dey? any news from beaf? Udu never select commisioners oh, wetun dey happen?

Nice. One thing to setup these hospitals, another to properly staff them and run them