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Gown&suit wearing, "white" wedding was,is and will forever remain a waste of money &time. Marriage is fully contracted, biblically&traditionally the moment ur parent hand you over to your husband, (and his family). That is the occassion Nigerian/African call engagement is the actual wedding.
Priest/Pastors are just impostors: they have no right, moral or spiritual, to join anyone other than their own daughters to anybody in marriage. GOD DID NOT SEND THEM THAT MESSAGE. Most of them don't even know this.

@yolandy. I've not bothered to read thru the response of other posters. My advise to you is to live your dutiful husband in his peace with his "faith", dedicate yourself to being a good WIFE to him and retain the peace of your home. Cos, from your post, he's already the GOOD HUSBAND the bible req's a husband to be to you.
As for your kids stop being so anxious, GOD knows how to save (& that I say from experience). Good enough he doesn't stop them from goinh to church &praying(?).
DON'T DEV HBP 4 NOTIN!!

@Icon, are you and your family living in north?

If the President said what the press quoted him to have said at the commissioning of the church, then the issue goes beyond the church. It becomes an issue of ignorance & breach of the content of the Constitution he swore to defend.
Any opposition worth being so will surely use that against him. ACN is just doing its duty to Nigerian. GEJ need to seek advice b4 going public. The nation's reputation depends on it.
A gaffe as this should alarm a reasonable Nigerian.

Aturu's in for okada rider against ban in Ikeja cbd. Why is he not in court over ban in central Abuja. Nonsense.

How long ago has LASG being trying to regulate them and they keep flouting orders. They will never obey traffic lights

ikennahill: now the foolish woman will organise befitting burial for the fool.
drinks will flow.food go flow and 5bands go play.No be money she go use? The woman na fool but the man the the biggest fool i have seen

That's unfair on the woman!
The man did not have enough money to complete his house, so committed suicide cos his wife didn't assist at that point, so next thing is he should kill himself. And you're condemning the wife?
Shouldn't he wait till he can afford the money?

The driver of that bus and the transport coy should be held responsible for this incident. If I were one of the parents I will by now be talking to my lawyer on how to press charges.

No passenger carrying bus runs Ore-Shagamu at that hour for security reason, check point or not

A good candidate from the north, different from the ones we know, on a united opposition platform against GEJ in 2015 will win square. For now gej is not avery marketable does not enjoy the mass sympathy that brought him to power.

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One pertinent question (IMO) is: Why marry someone who does not "love" or trust (or both) your family?
In a matter of life & death I shouldn't have any issue with my spouse consulting her family or mine. Only needs to put me in the light asap.

I agree comletely with @debrief08.

Plus don't set your mind on the money as to become too anxious, cos if the husband's finances' very bad he may not be able to do anything in a short while. In other words you will have to tag along with whatever the man can come up with at a time. And frankly this is not the kind money you may use "gragra" to recover. It may take long while.

Quite a pathetic story all round.

Don't want to say what I think about this thread. However I'll still comment:
YOUR MOTHER IS YOUR MOTHER & YOUR WIFE IS YOUR WIFE: 2 DIFFERENT PERSONALITIES IN YOUR LIFE WITH DIFFERENT ROLES REQUIRING DIFFERENT RESPONSIBILIES OF YOU. THEY ARE NEVER 2 SIDES OF THE SAME COIN. THEY SHOULD NEVER BE WEIGHED SIDE BY SIDE!!!

GOD!

patriot2: So you will rather believe terrorists!

I believe neither. I'm indifferent to both's claim cos I trust neither. However, I've no doubt that the man in custody must be a bh member. And personally I think this particular killing was by one of the alleged rival factions of the sect. But, then, I'm not a security expert.

oiseworld: i agree, if there be any human still left in him, then it's time for him to turn against the sect.

And this is if the man in custody is indeed the real qaqa.

Well, your comment came later than usual (especially if SW, ACN, or Tinubu was involved).

I was just beginning to think you had decided to protest the "indictment" of your generation of members by your party.

Seun: I thought she said she was "not seeking" the role?

Well. Ask me o?

atuboweke: My friend go and sleep joor!!! if the news is about Jonathan or PDP, then SR becomes the best and genuine.

Typical.
Youngman/woman I'm afraid you lack the quality of one that I can accept as friend.

Just for education: Party leaders like of Tinubu's stature (no matter the party) don't need to make such "demand" the gifts will just come freely.
Then no gov in SW that's not independent minded.

Beaf: And whats wrong with being a 60 year old youth?

NOTHING.
How come it took you so long to find words?

NL's become so over populated with petty & juvenile minds full of baseless hatred and quick to accept any story that fans iniquity.

As for saharareporter, it is unfortunate that a former student activist like Sowore has descended so low.

[quote author=ndu_chucks]Fashola cannot get far as long as Tinubu controls ACN.[/quote]I think some of you are underestimating Tinubu's political acumen and ability to make useful compromises. This is a man that gave up his senatoral ambition to keep ACN united behind Fashola in 2007.

You can only know what ground he can yield when the time comes.

iluvnaija: Do you think this woman can oppose PDP top men looting our treasury?

NO.

I think Beaf can see himself now. His dear party considers him and his like immature. Na small person suppose to dey make political comment without thinking. Dis one na Tinubu abi na ACN?

@Poster, every man, no matter what we profess, has a polygamous instinct. We all just subdue it to varying degrees through whatever mean, &for whatever reason. But despite all efforts some still fall under its influence.

Forgive your husband, love him still (at least out of responsibility): at least he still loves you. Let your arms be availabe for him always
Do all you can not to break your marriage cos of the incident. Cos if not you'd lose him to same nanny or any other woman at that

Comment and commendations from non-Ondo residents and indegines. The feedback from Ondo, basically, is that Iroko may require Divine help to get 2nd term. Already the Ikales & Akokos don't want him.
BTAIM, I don't think Mimiko is an emerging political leader in the way Wabara put it, not even in Ondo, much less Nig.
I have nothing against the man, though, at least he's following his vision & no story of unbriddled corruption.

And what about FATHERs?!!

@Chaircover, you are an admirable person and I do admire you.
I've read through the enire thread and @op you an excited (or is agitated) person at the moment, so I'd suggest you remain focused through the torrent of counsel here on unravelling what it is your husband is hiding (or afraid of). You see, quite a number of people don't appreciate the negative connotation of their actions until it is pointed out to them. Your husband is one such. They don't see their selfishness until they are so.

dayokanu: Where is BEAF to tell us about the Tinubu and ACN connection

The very question on my mind.

Beaf: I will say it again, it is high time the SW allied with the rest of us. Tinubu is taking the place down the drain.
It is obvious that the SW is being tested as the next ground for expansion. What kind of rubbish is it for tenants to repeatedly fight with their landlord?

Man mi, are you sure you're okay? What's this issue got to do with Tinubu? Ya' lo wa nkan gidi se o.

I don't think the ghost girl's story can be true: cos if LASU fee affected her she could only have just gained admission into the school. Freshers are the only ones so affected. I stand to be corrected.

Why should I be the only who believe that this is a Jonathan's deal and not tompolo's, on this forum?

Yorubas will sa: "won npe were ni, were ni o nfi apa ewure je'yan" (meaning: they're calling him insane yet he eats sumptous meal of pounded yam with a goat's forearm for meat). This our "retardeen" single handedly installed the current gov of his state and Tukur presently had to seek his endorsement to gun for pdp chair.
Ppl we may not only have an incompetent president but also the most Dubious personality to have ever occupied that office.

I have read the article and even the link provided I HAVE NOT SEEN THE NDA nor OJUKWU anywhere.Or am I in a rage over such an idea?

@elsafema, and anyone, white river bed gravel (the type common in parts of the SE) is OK for concrete to an extent, but the red (or brown, or green or whatever colour) dug "earth" gravel (the type found in SW) contain excessive amount of silt (dust) and silt "kills" cement, thus is very bad for concrete. Overall: granite though more expensive is the best for concrete. And that is the learned professional advice.

(Frankly, I hate to post in this thread!)