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BadRadio:
Terrible story with shocking innuendos and mundane malapropism

Lol, u have reminded me of literature as a subject, far back in sec sch. I love that subject

Saao:
The father is helping the groom and the bride to have a clean marriage without sex. Let him hold body small

What if they have been having sex prior to the trad?

gtrader:
Na lie ooo. Everywhere in IMO is damn expensive to marry especially if you come from Anambra State. They always feel men from Anambra have Storehouse full of money.

I had first hand experience when my friend got married to a medical Doctor. The yam my guy bought was more than 350 tuber of yams.

No be joke ooo.

It's not. Pls u guys should just quit this hasty generalization. I am from Orsu LGA and got married in the same orsu LGA. My bride price was very little. Just like where I got married to.

Handywork:
me sef don't understand the craziness over that station.
the zeeworld Indian movies are boring for my liking mostly those their slow motion is very annoying...

I love keeping it real naturally. But there was this scene that everyone in the room was just staring at each other for a very long time. Let's say for more than 10 minutes. I mean who does that? It was so fake and time consuming that I just changed the channel. That doesnt mean I dont sneak a peek once in a while but it's just too fake for my liking jare. Me that love action movies like kilode.

iInjureHerYansh:
The last time I checked I never quoted an untrained ho

U are the untrained bastard born by a LovePeddler and whose dad is mentally deranged

Tap0lane:
This one na the most foolish comment I read on NL in a long while. Sir, you are a very foolish soul.

Can u guys desist from insulting people? What is it in disagreeing and moving on? Must it come down to insulting someone u have not even met before? But when u all go to work, u respect ur bosses like hes god. Yes hes view is poor to u. Free him!

iInjureHerYansh:
Yes Y'all bitches won't drop solutions but divert the topic all in a bid to support your own


I have no pity for men who bring up their family ish on NL

See mumu. U wont contribute but will insult someone u probably can never stand one on one. bitches like ur mum

Be wise. When d whole saga turns on you, u will now know that u were formerly intruding

If all the southern states can do this, at least Nigeria's problems will be reduced by half. Where a particular tribe has occupied key positions in a country, what does that imply? Nothing but oppression.

Since he doesnt want anyone but prefers the daycare, he should better pay for the day care. Secondly, that ur baby wakes up earlier than normal isn't suffering. He/she will make up the hours lost to sleep at the day care. Maybe u should just give him a break. I know some men can be laid backs.

Did she say her momma? Women rock! May she continue to soar on eagle's wings. Amen

Childrentablets:
Nawa o yoruba people don suffer for this fulani people hand sha

This people will soon start dragging family wills with family members. See entitlement. While south east governors are there

Yampotatocarrot:
Lol, you don't need to agree with me. If you think this okada menace is only limited to the SW, then I'm sure you haven't been to your village.

I went home sometimes last year, and deep in my village, I saw "hausa" guys moving around as cobblers and tailors advertising their services.

Which of our S.E governors have been bold enough to come out against these marauders?

Please, let's not turn this beautiful thread to something else abeg... I hope we S.Easterners don't learn when it's already late... Read what Coldie wrote there and you'll see wisdom in it

Honestly, both in d east, I dont trust any

Yampotatocarrot:
I think you're going through it the wrong way. Let the purging start from other SW states and let the criminal elements flood to Lagos.

The biggest mistake they'll do is think they can ever misbehave in Lagos... From Iyana-Iba to Ile-epo, even to Sabo, I've noticed the Yorubas in Lagos will ALWAYS stand for their rights when push comes to shove, even if it'll lead to loss of their lives... I don't know of other SW states, but in Lagos, the Yorubas might look like cowards, act like cowards, but never be deceived, they actually ain't cowards, especially when it involves something like terrorism in their land

Akuko!

Saboteurs have infiltrated the organisation. I knew it that it must be compromised. Even the ESN isn't excused. May God just save us from this contraption called Nigeria

Dpharisee:
The new beret of the Nigerian Airforce.


Since the Mods banned this your account for tribal abuse we had some little sanity on FP, now that your ban is lifted I hope you have learnt some lessons, if not, patiently wait until discussions gets to page 5 before you post and stop clogging page one with your inciting comments which deviates from the topic, pitching one tribe against another here and turning every thread into war amongst youths

Correct guy!

festacman:
I have been struggling to find one thing that gave Rochas Okorocha the confidence to brand himself a PROGRESSIVE-MINDED POLITICIAN. Real headache for me and I couldn't find any. So, my conclusion is that he is still suffering from Iberiberism.

He is a thief . Ministry of happiness oshi

BiggyB242:
There are people you don't argue with especially those who have nothing to lose. Just imagine an IBM winner fighting with a hoodlum who doesn't really give a damn about his life.

A colleague in my university also lost his life - a guy stole his phone on Lagos traffic. Unfortunately, he was hit by a moving vehicle while chasing the thief.

Just like that! Ahh

Freshfish4:
I remember when three guys tried to rub my two phones, I tried to resist. Immediately one of them brought a gun, I switched mode, prostrated on the ground slowly and started calling them my Uncles, Daddy, Chairmen, happening guys, finest freshest guys.

I begged them to collect the phones that it belongs to them I was only keeping safe for them. I even gave them my pin and told them not to forget it oh.

They laughed and called me a jonsing guy, collected my phone's and left. I can not come and kill myself for ordinary phone. When these boys jam you and request for your phone, just give them and stay alive, you will definitely buy anyone. So Sad. RIP Man

SECONDED

This is what happens when the culture and traditions of a place indulge these men and they think they are entitled to do anything. Anu mpama

ILLITERACY AND LACK OF EXPOSURE

Story

Thief

banmee:
That is not the reason. We as men tend to forget the amount of responsibility women/wives shoulder. Especially in this day and age. Our wives will cook, clean, and be expected to go to work as well. They are human. Not superheroes. I first noticed this after my first kid and I would tease my wife about not doing everything she used to do for me before and when we first got married. Manicure my nails, massage my back, etc. It got worse after my 2nd kid and I really began to have an issue with it. We got into a fight once and she made a remark about me not understanding how hard it's been for her but I was too angry to listen to anything and went to bed. Saner heads prevailed, so the next morning we had a long talk. She was like "dude, I cook, clean, take care of the kids, go to work and when I come back from work I still have to prep the kids for the next day. How romantic would you be if you had to do all that". Then it hit me. She needed help. Things changed tremendously after that. On my part, I became a master chef which reduced the cooking pressure on her and I helped her out on things around the house which freed up more time for us to do things together. We started working out together and going out more for no reason. You see, I'm married to a goddess and I love showing her off. I'm pretty sure I handled it right because we've been married for over 20 years but it feels like yesterday. I will highly advice you to take this approach when you get married.

I m so glad that this is coming from a m a n. It's not rocket science that stress kills libido

bizme:
Even with house helps, these things still persisted like that for many. Actually, men are also a lot overwhelmed out there in the field. It is unimaginable what some men have to go through to provide for the same wives we are talking about. If a man stops getting sex and accompanying sexual excitement from the marriage, it's more like the woman has reneged on her part of the marriage contract. Or worse still, she scammed the man into fulfilling her dream of having a home. Many middle-income households can afford live-in house helps and yet the women are still de-prioritizing sex. I could imagine that sex with a man's baby mama hits better than with a wife.

Exactly, I have a nine weeks old beautiful girl that needs 24/7 attention , with no help at home, now u come with sex? Uncle wait I'm stressed biko

Hathor5:
Not so much after marriage as after pregnancy/child birth. The woman sacrifices her body to bring a child into this world. During pregnancy, even if there are no complications, the body is not fully hers. After delivery she needs to recover. Her hormones are out of balance, there are injuries down there. She is also breast feeding. Imagine someone sucking on your nipples several times a day. She also needs to carry the baby around, cuddle it, put up with the babies saliva and vomit. Every day, for months. Then another child is born and the two of them are all over her all day long. In the evening the husband wants to claim her body too. It's not easy.

Many women love sex too. Don't be deceived by people on this forum who want to tell you that women are all in it for the money. Our clitoris is much more sensitive than the penis. We can have multiple orgasms. We are capable of enjoying sex and a man's strong arms and shoulders can take us to heaven but nursing a baby and having toddlers all over us takes a toll.

If you want to be polygamous, find women who agree to it and go for it but if you do it to manipulate your wives and have them compete over you, know that you are creating a toxic family.

While it's good to help with chores, shopping and what not, having someone (family, nannies, daycare) free us from the little terrorists is a great relief.

I wish I can like this comment a million times. It's not even reasonable to compare the times of our fore fathers to now. Times have changed. They will compete to kill the man since its competition u want. Some men are built not to do chores. They will make sure that they provide for the home but can never attempt to do chores. Tomorrow they will be thinking of having more kids. For where? Oga abeg face front I no dey do before I die before my time.

RisenPhoenix1:
Women use sex to buy love. Men use love to buy sex. Like any economic transaction each party is looking to find a bargain, i.e. spend the minimum amount of their currency to purchase the maximum amount of the service they need. So once women have gotten the man's commitment, they will thereafter spend as little sex as is necessary to keep him from straying to another market. Whereas, once a man has acquired the woman's sexual favours, he will spend the minimum amount of love and commitment to keep her from withholding them. The best solution is to marry more than one wife. Thereafter, they can share the sexual burden among themselves, and the man can pretend to love all of them equally and share a little of his attention among each of them; satisfying all parties involved.

Factoid of life. Free of charge for you.

Easier said than done

uboma:
Gimme accommodation for 5 years free of charge with a job, I won't accept to live in Lagos.

I have a friend who got transferred to Kano some years ago. He was surprised that he could make it to his office within 10 minutes, left the house at 7:45am but arrived the office before 8:00am.

Even after spending 3 months in Kano state, this guy, at 3:00am is already awake and counting the ceilings. Lagos life had wired him that way.

Six months later, my guy started working his transfer back to Lagos. What is it in Lagos state sef? I can never tell.

Hes used to the abnormality. Waking up at that time is very unhealthy

Nairalandian:
It's not too much.
If you're complaining then check yourself well.
3.4 billion is about 8 million dollars. That's not too much for the president and his vice.
Where e go pain me is that even with all the money spent they won't achieve anything.

It is not too much. So u open ur mouth abi u type satisfactorily that that money is not too much abi?

ImaIma1:
So his own father who brought him into this world and nurtured him till he became of age could do this to him. Yet it is women that are the demons...


Modified

All you aggrieved guys quoting me, both the FILand daughter share the blame. But you guys are always so quick to heap the blame on the women because of your bias.

One of the few views I respect. The world will be a better place when we learn to view things from different angles.

Guys, what do u think of the relationship btw the guy and dad afterwards?

GofuckYourself:
I have a friend who is a doctor she told me some years ago .. 3 out of 5 men are raising kids not theirs she is a pediatrician

So I believe this stats

Remember she just works with her present employer.. just one. Where is she getting the stats for d whole country from?

Shake? Abeg come up with something else. Which 'shaking' haven't we seen?