₦airaland Forum

Corrinthians:
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Heavenly Father please forgive me from my years of blind foolishness. It's really sad to watch young intelligent counterparts exhibit such confident ignorance and continue to commit the great offence of dishonoring people who should be esteemed simply for conflicting ideologies and tribal/political/religious differences.

While Professor Soyinka does not deserve this undue attacks and dishonor simply for sharing his informed view about the elections, and exercising his democratic right and especially for his renown in the Academia and Politics, I however perceive this may simoly be the price he has to pay for being a traditionalist. Yet I fear I may have also simply expressed my own religious inclination.

However without the barrage of attacks associated with this generation of uncouth and emotionally low quotient youth who have failed to heal from their various dysfunctions, DJ Switch, Aisha Yesufu, Rinu would actually make great activists but for lack of understanding of the Principle of Honor.

Evolutionism:
Lol what did i just Read?

Because of ordinary pressing of phone for 30secs na why he Vex. Probably the guy no dey okay Upstairs

Why not kukuma say She should not breathe at all

Nonsense and Ingredients.

Me as a Man, I can be on date with someone and still keep pressing my phone intermittently.

You do realise that staying on the phone when you're on a date/meeting is rude, right?
If you have to, you have to excuse yourself.

This is basic social etiquette. Our body language some times speaks louder than words.
However there are better ways of handling it.

1. He could have done the same to check her reaction.
2. He could casually address it with a joke.
3. He could also be firm if she persists.

But after all is said and done, different strokes for different folks.

UselessBuharist:
This is obviously not the young woman’s destiny but the evil party twisted her destiny.

Buhari will die a slow and painful death

What would you say is her destiny?

She reminds me of Joseph in the bible or David or the early apostles. Persecution is a part of the journey.
A little good news out of it all is that they married her and not rpe her. They seem to be honorable even in their misguided vision. And now she's being trained a medical practitioner on the field.

Destiny doesn't always look rosy but the end justifies the means.
My heart goes out to her parents. No parent can bear this except if they have found comfort in God.

I pray this ends in testimony and salvation of so many souls and unity of Islam and Christianity as we come to understand that truly we both serve the God of Abraham (Ibrahim), Isaac (Isaka) and Jacob (Yakub) and Jesus Christ the Word of God, is the Way, the Truth and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Him.

SAMBARRY:


Every career and buisness get their Cash out season.

Hampers/provision sellers,food makers,movie makers cash out season Na usually December

Lawyers cash out season Na during election periods

Landlord season Na the beginning of every year

Teachers season Na the beginning of every Academic session

Worded.
Wisdom no go kee you.

eepeepook:
Habit? It feels good? A sense of union with like-minded folks? Upbringing?

Have you tried experiencing your day without devotion of any sort? How did it differ?

The first question to ask is, what is prayer?
Then why do you have to pray.

Then you will certainly desire to learn how to pray?
And make praying a daily endeavor, not out of compulsion or manipulation but understanding and worship.

TheRareGem1:
Former Vice President, Prof. Yemi Osinbajo bags International Appointment

You were too good for Nigeria. God definitely honors His Word and his faithfulness to His faithful servants/ministers.

You made our generation realise the possibility of a god-fearing Christian to partake and succeed in Nigerian Politics without having his garment stained by corruption and mud-slingers.

God bless all that you do and your lineage for ever sir.

adecz:
Those touts are MC Oluomo boys
and Oluomo is Tinubu's boy who helped
APC retain the governorship in Lagos.


If Sanwolu does anyhow, he will see
anyhow❗️❗️❗️😁😁😁😁

This is the truth.
LASG has created a transport system that encourages extortionists viz LASTMA and Touts/Louts.

Until Lagos state decides to sanitise its own home, thus hydra-headed menace cannot stop.

I believe with Tinubu at the helm of power now, he has no choice but to put this too an end.

Also the Ports are overcongested. Every Tom, Dick and Chukwudi is into Importing and Exporting business.
The capacity of the NPA and the road system is being super-saturated and they are overwhelmed.

The necessary authorities need to also sanitize that business and make importing less attractive and exporting more lucrative.
This are some of the factors that contribute to our Naira devaluation against other currencies esp Dollar and Pounds and expensive consequently increased and unbearable cost of goods and service and living.

I pray all of us play our parts accordingly- Leaders and followers. Because every one of us is the Governmemt of Nigeria, at least under Democracy.

otipoju:
Na wetin dey tire me for Nigeria matter be thus. We concentrate on unimportant things and leave important things unaddressed.

Every thing is not important until it is what will exonerate you in a court case.
Dey play.

This is instructive. I love people who know their history and don't deny the truth.

SAMBARRY:
detty December don set for lawyers.them don already dey Cash out

E come dey pain me say I no study law.
When God remember you, e don remember you brotherly.
Na season for better lawyers to cash'out. Na their time.

This is what happens when tenant talk say him wan evict him landlord. O wrong now.

DynamicWriter:
Atiku just wants to fight against Tinubu till the end.

I pray he finds what he is looking for.

In case anyone needs a natural content writer, kindly check my signature for my contact details.

This reminds me of the story of Asahel and Abner in the bible.

Abner kept urging Asahel to stop pursuing him other wise he would have to kill him.
But Asahel would not listen, he was hell-bent on murdering Abner who was a better warrior than him.

He did not listen to reason until Abner had no choice but to stab him and he died.

Some people will never hear word until they destroy themselves. Atiku will only learn the hard way.

[quote author=References1 post=126037902][/quote]E be like he get money to waste.
Well, how lawyers wan take chop.

Every thing is working together for someone's good.

saphiere:
Men running their mouths like taps..

What Pastor Bakara said is the Truth, nothing else but the Truth. Mohbad was living double life. You're either for God or for Satan.
Mohbad unfortunately chose Satan (money, worldliness) over Jesus (his calling).

It's not easy to say considering the pain everyone feels about it. Worse still, we do not know the challenges of life that induced his decision.
But no matter how much we like him or love his music, he made the wrong choice.

Listened to his mother's interview with TVC, where she said a prophet(ess) was sent to her when she was pregnant with him. That he would be a Prophet of God. The mom was always reminding him of his calling but he did not take it seriously.

MightySparrow:
It is an error. Not Rachel, however, go ahead.

Truly looks are very important. However, as a believer we do not judge by sight alone but by the Spirit the person carries.

Romans 8
1 There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit. 2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death.

3 For what the law could not do in that it was weak through the flesh, God did by sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, on account of sin: He condemned sin in the flesh, 4 that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.

5 For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit.


The Jews missed Jesus Christ because they were judging him by sight. They had an expectation of the "proper look" and "proper background" he should have.
John 8:15 You judge according to the flesh; I judge no one.

However, the conditions/guidelines for being a Pastor/Bishop are also enumerated;

1 Timothy 3: 1-7 This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work.
2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach; 3 not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous;
4 one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence
5 (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?); 6 not a novice, lest being puffed up with pride he fall into the same condemnation as the devil.
7 Moreover he must have a good testimony among those who are outside, lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.

Based on this, we have to take our time to test his spirit and not be quick to judge by his looks.

MightySparrow:
He should drop his childish toys and be a good example in his dressing.
When Rachel saw moses in the apparel of Egyptians, he could only describe him to her father as an Egyptian.


Leadership position is a sacred one. Soon young people will be copying his wearing of earrings, dreadlocks, and possibly, girls dressing funny to his church.


Elderly people would be leaving the ministry soon for his excesses.

The funny thing is, such a fellow would not listen to older ministers, who also would like to keep their respectable distances from him.

I'll wait for you to correct the name of the wife of Moses before I address your point.
It's important to get our information right. Any error distorts/corrupts our knowledge and invariably our understanding and interpretation of scriptures.

KanwuliaExtra:
Shattttap!
You are merely stalling.
No one, I repeat NO ONE suffers 'irrepairable damage' for a certificate that was earned honestly.
CSU will be damaged too!

Time, as always will tell. Just exercise a little patience, Thursday is just a couple of hours away.

jawalis:
For me, it’s sometimes the choice of music you listen to. Other times, it’s how you treat people in lower or public position like waiter, bartender, Bikeman etc.
share yours.

How they speak. Then how they address/treat people.

jawalis:
For me, it’s sometimes the choice of music you listen to. Other times, it’s how you treat people in lower or public position like waiter, bartender, Bikeman etc.
share yours.

Their demeanor.

Gafferde:
@ojay_obin




Do you think he is right?

You can add yours too.

Certainly. But a woman can still be any of this and still be god-fearing.

It's only a truly god-fearing man or woman that won't cheat.

LillyandDaisy:
Omoluabi!

This reminds me of his song, I don't remember the title, "iya mi baba won bi mi da. emi gangan mo tun tun rabi, loruko mi se njakin."

PinkNature:
Will Tinubu contest for a second term? If yes, what do you think the condition of Nigeria will look like during that time?

Considering the current situation of things clearly it's not looking good.
However, considering the short term and long term effect of his policies, things should be picking up by next year and amazingly before the end of this tenure.

I will gladly forecast that majority of Nigerians will willingly and joyfully vote Tinubu for second term come 2027 elections.
The KPIs will speak for themselves and it will not be theory only but practical reflection in major sectors of the economy and our livelihood.

Herkim:
Sincerely , you need to address the issue with emotional intelligence, so that the old man can realized his mistakes.

You can also report him to the elderly ones in your community to talk him.

Please note do not disrespect him.

Thank you

Respect is reciprocal.
If he has dishonored his old age then he is no longer deserving of honor.

However for conscience sake and due to our tradition, handle with care lest people find you dishonorable.
As one of the comments rightly advised, see if you can get another elder to talk to him and caution him.

If it is a matter than involves escalation officially, religiously or to police station, you can also do the needful.
Old age is an immunity badge only for those who respect their old age and respect others.

DrGoodman:
Peter Obi is just too clean, nobody can rub dirt on him.

If Peter Obi takes over this country, Nigeria will become great in 2 years max, dude is not greedy and has a super clean record.

He is of commendable virtues.
However, no one is "too clean". Those who have dirt on him have been threatened by his rascal/violent obidient followers.
The kind of crime he committed are not serious but criminal all the same. His major undoing is his followership and how he can/does not manage/address their excesses.

Under normal circumstances, he would make a fine president, but unfortunately in this time and period, he may not be able to handle and confront the challenges President Tinubu is grappling with.

JasonNOTStatham:
An eye for an eye would throw everything in chaos but, there must be something that says "keep off" don't dare us.

Like every other thing- by the Word and leading of the Holy Spirit.
There is no one size fits all for a believer.

However, the primary disposition is the way of peace.
Blessed are the Peace makers for the shall be called Sons of God.

Little21:
Exactly. I pity his poor wife and children, that is innocent. They are the one's that are likely to be the victims. Women's are not stupid, to just agree with such things without her own set of plans. And he is here bragging about his "red pill". Men acts manly, but with respect not being rude and arrogant. You just creates a balance within yourself. And you let your "head" control you, not your "feelings". Think it through before doing anything. That way you won't be victimized, by people that already has their set of plans.

Well said.
Most times, the babes/wives that fall for redpillers usually deserve it or put them selves in that position, which is why my primary concern is really for the innocent kids.

God works in mysterious ways. Who can know His thoughts? Who has known His Mind?
Can that which is made decide for his maker what and how it should be made?
Can the clay dictate to the potter the shape or design it should be moulded?
Does God seek the counsel of man before executing His plan?

But by the Spirit of the LORD, God does as He wills and reveals to His prophets and friends the intents and thoughts of His Mind.

A lot of aspersions have been cast concerning the election of Jimmy Odukoya as the successor of his dad at Fountain of Life church. I too was skeptical about it.

But after listening to this message, I was not only cut in the heart, I wept. The Grace of God on this man is not the type to cheat ourselves of.
The effulgence of the Presence and Power of God was heavily manifest in this service as He addressed His election by God's Grace and He ministered to the spiritual needs of the church effortlessly with a Grace that is only Given by God.

This particular Ministration has won my heart and I pray it also does what God intends it to do in the lives of every one who listens and watches with an open heart.
The culmination of a Good Ministration is that God is glorified through Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit, evident in the Power of the Word unto salvation of souls and the edification of the church.
Hallelujah!


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Discovery

According to Wikipedia, victim mentality is an acquired personality trait in which a person tends to recognize or consider themselves a victim of the negative actions of others, and to behave as if this were the case in the face of contrary evidence of such circumstances.

Victim mentality depends on clear thought processes and attribution. In some cases, those with a victim mentality have in fact been the victim of wrongdoing by others or have otherwise suffered misfortune through no fault of their own. However, such misfortune does not necessarily imply that one will respond by developing a pervasive and universal victim mentality where one frequently or constantly perceives oneself to be a victim.

Accorsing to WebMD, we all have our ups and downs in life. Bad things might happen to you or people you know on a daily basis. But there are some people who claim it is never their fault. They argue that they have no control over the tough situations and problems they encounter. It is simply always happening to them.

Victimhood can become a part of a person's identity, but it is a learned behavior and can be changed. It often evolves as a defense mechanism to cope with adverse life events.
People who constantly blame other people or situations for the events in their lives have a victim mentality.

"It’s not my fault." Someone who acts from a place of victimhood claims things that happen to them are the fault of someone or something other than themselves. It might be the fault of their partner, family, co-worker, friend, or "the way the world is." They frequently complain about the bad things that happen in their lives. They are reluctant to take personal responsibility, asserting that the circumstances aren’t in their control.

Some reasons and benefits to why people play the victim;
1. They don't have to take responsibility or be held accountable.
2. They get sympathy and access to favours.
3. They don't get to be subjected to the same conditions or pressures of others.

Recovery

1. Acknowledge the issue and allow yourself to seek help and healing.
2. Start taking responsibility.
3 Educate yourself to know the Truth and how to overcome your challenges appropriately.
4. Surround yourself with people who take responsibility and are succeeding. Avoid people with victim mentality.
5. Give yourself time to properly heal.

Little21:
Now what do you want us to say about your encounter with her? Should we blame the woman/lady for agreeing or should we blame you for being an asshole? Tsk.. you will learn your lesson. You think she is dumb, for agreeing? Now you have a family, you are doing okay, and you want to destroy it all by yourself? Why can't men think with their head and not with your dick? Just wait until she poison one of your children, or say she is pregnant and she can't abort it, you think you are being a "redpiller" or whatever you guys are calling your self here, isn't it weird? You aren't dating or anything, she just agreed to have sex with you, and will continue having it with you, without any conversation or anything. You guys can be stupid sometimes. Don't bother updating the thread, when you get the results of what you are doing.

He does not know that sex is not casual for women.
He thinks his touch was what set the tone. He has no idea that she was the one who seduced him and he fell for her game plan.

Whatever she wants to get out of it, I hope his kids will be spared.

On the spiritual side, he has just open more doors for spiritual attack in his home.
Mr Redpiller is about to choke on his own red pill.

While being a simp isn't a good thing cos babes keep taking advantage of simps. Being a redpiller is definitely not the solution.

All I can say is to find the balance between being a "simp" and being manly. Because simping is a part of true manliness.
And the intention should never be to become evil towards women by being misogynistic but to guard yourself from the evil women- karishikas and "feminists".
When you meet a good woman, it will be foolish to treat her wrong but with respect and love.

PapaHadum:
Another liar spotted.

Tinubu filed application restraining CSU from releasing his academic documents under oat as requested by Atiku.


Wake up.... Jorrr

I was replying some else's comment.
Tinubu's lawyers did not mention "irreparable damage". Atiku is the one boasting that whatever he has on Tinuhu will cause irreparable damage.

Tinubu's lawyers simoly applied for a delay to allow them prove some fallacies in Atiku's case

PapaHadum:
If all what you wrote are correct, which one, then, will cause irreparable damage to Tinubu..?


Liars

Atiku is the one claiming "irreparable damages".
The only thing here will be his irreparable humiliation.

Chingyyy878:
What’s the hardest truth you have learnt as an adult?

Not all adults are adults (matured), even parents.