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Romance › Re: Do This And Know If She's Interested. by Nazgul: 10:59pm On Oct 07, 2021

Demigod22:
OP, don't waste your two weeks. There was this girl I really had a crush on. When I asked her out she turned down my proposal and opted for friendship. I was calling her everyday, sometimes, I called her twice a day. I bought fruits like apples, bananas, water melon, for her. I arranged picnic for two of us. I gave her all my attention. Even when I advised my friend not to be friend with a girl that turned him down, my crush cried that I am planning to end our friendship.

So after finishing my exam, I called her to know how her holiday was going, that was our last call. Since I stopped calling her two months ago, she never called nor texted to know if I am good. It was when I was calling all my phone contacts that I called her this evening. She was giving excuses and apologizing for her selfishness, but I blatantly told her that I was calling everyone, that was why I called her nothing more, after the call, I deleted her contact so that I won't call her again.

Why are you complaining...she made it clear to you from the onset that she's not interested in bonding, she just want to be mere friends.

You on the other hand wanted to force your way into her life with your hard earned money despite the fact she made her stand on the matter clear to you from day one, which you should have easily understood that she's in a relationship and doesn't want to compromise.

To me, that girl didn't do anything wrong.

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Romance › Re: Should I Be Angry With My Friend Or I Am Inconsiderate. by Nazgul: 8:54pm On Oct 07, 2021

Magnoliaa:
Not engaged or now engaged?

Now engaged...na tension in typing cause am.

Romance › Re: Should I Be Angry With My Friend Or I Am Inconsiderate. by Nazgul: 8:52pm On Oct 07, 2021

Magnoliaa:
Welcome back from the other side. I hope you had a nice time on there.

I'm fine o...

I head you're not engaged in my absence, so you couldn't even wait for me. sad

Romance › Re: Allow Him To Cheat Freely, If He Pays Every Bill – Popular Celebrity Claims by Nazgul: 8:26pm On Oct 07, 2021

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Romance › Re: Should I Be Angry With My Friend Or I Am Inconsiderate. by Nazgul: 8:25pm On Oct 07, 2021*

To be honest with you, many unmarried Nigerian guys are as parasitic as their female counterparts.

Sometime last year when they eased the lockdown, a friend of mine told me he wanted to come to Lagos for an interview or so, he used to be my lodge mate back then in school, when I heard it was a job interview he was coming for, I didn't want to be seen as an enemy friend who feels threatened with the success of his friends, so I went to my parents place and gave him the keys to my place.

This guy stayed for about a week, by the time I came back to my house, I made a vow never to allow any of my single male friends spend the night in my house.

This guy turned my house to a hotel, lodged girls, emptied my fridge, left used plates and pots in the kitchen, even used condom and the sachet was in the bedroom. The rooms were so untidy, in fact I regretted giving up my place to him, cos I took him to be a mature person.

So my friend don't be offended, most people change not because they're wicked or heartless but because of the overgrown kids that disappointed them in the past when they decided to honour such request.

If you have a family member in that city make contact with them or better still contact your church, they can hook you up with a member for the few days you have to spend.

Good luck.

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Romance › Re: Ladies What Will Be Your Reply? by Nazgul: 7:59pm On Sep 10, 2021

Magnoliaa:
What exactly are you trying to say? Lmaooooo. I no understand shishi.

I've been fine, thank you. But where you go?

What I say isn't necessary as long as you figured out that I was saying something, that alone is enough to pass my message. tongue

I went to London to see the queen. grin

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Romance › Re: Ladies What Will Be Your Reply? by Nazgul: 9:06pm On Aug 28, 2021

Magnoliaa:
Ni kini?

Ni to ri kpe e ti sa kuro aye me...hope I got that right.

So buhari has made you so busy that you couldn't even feel my absence. How you de jare.

Romance › Re: Ladies What Will Be Your Reply? by Nazgul: 4:30pm On Aug 28, 2021

Magnoliaa:
Shey if I start to 'fight' you with this your comment now, right under a direct quotation of me, you wee start to say I'm jumping into conclusions or it's not what you think something something like on that thread? Am I a Togolese girl? Abi I don't get hungry from time to time?

Who's the hungry Nigerian girl? Mtcheew. Which women are greedy? See. I'm turning a new flower. I want to stop being contentious. Don't hannoy me this pretty Saturday.

Is it not you that leave? I've been here for a while.

Lol...this outburst who ves you hanty cheesy

Now I'm back, did you miss me?

Romance › Re: Access Bank Is The Most Useless Bank In The World by Nazgul: 11:42am On Aug 28, 2021

My brother all of them are the same thing.

I made an online transaction of 40k though my Ecobank app, since Tuesday and was debited and up till today, the recipient didn't get the money, neither have I gotten a reversal, I've sent emails and called, they told me to exercise patience that the money will be reversed. Today is Saturday and I'm still waiting.

The Nigerian virus has eaten deep into every sector of this country. Every bank in Nigeria is guilty of this.

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Romance › Re: Ladies What Will Be Your Reply? by Nazgul: 11:36am On Aug 28, 2021

Magnoliaa:
*Sighs.*

Okay. Since you've asked: he should goan open a beer palor or sports betting center.

Hmmmm...so you've decided to reappear

@topic.

Asking a hungry Nigerian girl to come up with a business idea for you is an arrant waste of time. The hunger and greed in them wouldn't allow them thing straight.

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Romance › Re: Even As A BILLIONAIRE, Name The Average Food You Will Still Eat.. by Nazgul: 6:54pm On Aug 07, 2021

Yam and red oil, garnished with peeled onions, salt and fresh pepper.

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Romance › Re: I Met This Beautiful Lady Last 2 Month , We Are Currently Dating by Nazgul: 8:06pm On Jul 31, 2021

Doja2000:
Nigerian men and sex na like 5 & 6
They'll always want sex in a relationship.
This generation don dey fear me ooo, but what about our future children generation
Make I better no answer my question by myself because e fit choke me.

The irony here is that most of these guys screaming how they must touch their girl before they can take her serious would be the first abscond and tell her that they're not ready to settle down if she gets pregnant.

I can bet my spoilt itel phone that this op is clearly not ready to settle down, so why force yourself into responsibilities you know you're not ready for?

If she says she's not ready to have sex with you, respect her wish and remain like a fried to her, it's that simple.

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Romance › Re: If A Man Proposes To A Lady And She Says No, Is The Relationship Over? by Nazgul: 10:48am On Jul 31, 2021*

Romanoff:
That's why I said it depends on how long y'all have known each other. I personally am against premarital sex.

I am too...cos it comes with a lot of unnecessary tensions, suspicions, emotions and unnecessary responsibility.

Romanoff:
If y'all are not sleeping with each other, you'll be more objective in choosing a partner.

True...you won't easily ignore glaring red flags when sex isn't involved. Good sex makes girls (and even guys) go crazy, thereby ignoring vital caution signs of the partner in question, which if the relationship is upgraded to marriage can ruin the marriage.

Romanoff:
Timing matters in proposals o. And like I said, there should have been series of discussions that must lead to a proposal.

I disagree.

When you're with someone, your goals and visions must be properly ironed out.

If a guy isn't only interested in when next you'll visit him, and whether or not you'll sleep over whenever you visit, what's there to talk about, such person clearly doesn't see you in his future. So what's there to talk about. Even if you bring up marriage issue to such guy, he'll carefully avoid it by either getting angry or claiming he's not financially ready, cos you're not in his future blueprint, you're just a person he uses to relieve his sexual urges.

Likewise a girl...if she's only interested in how much her man will be sending here as monthly upkeep, and how you'll spend your weekends in exotic places...etc. without adding any value to his life, then the guy doesn't need to have any kind of discussion with here cos such girl is out for herself and clearly doesn't picture a future with him.

A purposeful relationship is one which both parties work together towards a collective goal. Even God called the woman a helpmeet, meaning that there are some goals a man cannot accomplish without the help of a supportive woman besides him to encourage and motivate him.

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Romance › Re: If A Man Proposes To A Lady And She Says No, Is The Relationship Over? by Nazgul: 9:19am On Jul 31, 2021

Romanoff:
What is your idea of a couple of months?

That you think you know her enough to propose doesn't mean she knows you enough to say yes.

Your timeline shouldn't be her timeline.

Asides this, there should have been discussions that should lead to as proposal.

You can't just propose to a woman based in your own timeline and think hers doesn't matter.

If you don't know him enough, then what have you guys been doing in the relationship?

If you must know, relationships isn't just meant for exploring different sex styles and positions, it's a platform to understand each other, plan and execute futuristic goals, support each other's ambition, tolerate each other...etc.

So if after spending time, emotions, resources, energy... etc, with a guy and you still can't make up your mind concerning him, then you're not matured enough to be in a relationship in the first place, or you're just a flirt looking to enjoy your youthful age to it's fullest.

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Romance › Re: If A Man Proposes To A Lady And She Says No, Is The Relationship Over? by Nazgul: 9:06am On Jul 31, 2021

Romanoff:
So it's okay for a woman you know to say yes to a guy she just met if he proposed to her.

Or it's okay for a girl to say yes to a guy who has said he'd change some of his bad behaviours but she's yet to see the changes?

There's always a reason for this every answer, Yes or No.

That yes she's giving you could also be because you're her only option or cause you're her neal ticket out of poverty.

A No is not always bad, just get the reason for the No and be open to discussions.

The op wasn't referring to relationship he was talking about marriage, read his question...he asked is the relationship over if she says no meaning both couples should already be in a relationship according to his narration.

So if a girl I'm dating for a couple of months decides to say no to my marriage proposal, why should I bother myself, if her reason for saying no is because of some bad behaviours she feels I have, why no talk to me about it since we're dating?

And if her yes is because she wants a ticket out of poverty, I would have already detected her parasitic nature and wouldn't bother myself to push it any further by popping the marriage question.

I still maintain my stand that whenever a girl says no to the marital proposal of her guy, she's either seeing someone she feels is much better than him or she doesn't see a future with him.

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Romance › Re: If A Man Proposes To A Lady And She Says No, Is The Relationship Over? by Nazgul: 8:35am On Jul 31, 2021

Romanoff:
Depends on her reason for saying No and how long y'all have been in a relationship.

It's okay to say No if you've only been dating for like three months and you feel you haven't gotten to know the man enough to make that commitment so quickly.

You're just speaking English.

When a girls says no to the proposal of a guy she's supposedly dating, it's either she feels he doesn't measure up to her standard or she has someone else.

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Romance › Re: How Do You Deal With Family Issue When Choosing Who To Marry? by Nazgul: 10:22pm On Jul 29, 2021

Irijosa777:
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Let me assume you don't understand the topic at hand, but one thing is sure, family will always be part of your life and if they are part of your life they have some degree of influence in your decision.

Your family will interfere and influence decisions that can change your life positively or negatively when they feel you aren't matured enough to know what's best for yourself.

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Romance › Re: How Do You Deal With Family Issue When Choosing Who To Marry? by Nazgul: 9:44pm On Jul 29, 2021

So at 32 your family are still influencing your decision in life...Age is truly just a number, grow up please and stop being a child.

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Celebrities › Re: Sound Sultan Buried In USA (Video) by Nazgul: 5:55am On Jul 12, 2021

WiszyFraud:
Did you know??

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Avoid sucking a rotten vagina

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Politics › Re: Chibok Girl, Mary Katambi Graduates With A B.sc In Accounting (Photos) by Nazgul: 8:05pm On Jul 10, 2021

Congratulations to her...she deserves a lucrative job and a happy home, that's my prayer for her.

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Family › Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by Nazgul: 7:05pm On Jul 10, 2021*

Just avoid anything that will bring unnecessary problem in your marriage.

Having joint account will definitely lead to problems cos when you deposit 2m and your wife has 150k in the account but makes a withdrawal of 800k my brother the kind para way you go para eh!

Better operate separate account to avoid stories that touch.

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Romance › Re: My Whole Life Is In Shambles Right Now by Nazgul: 7:02pm On Jul 10, 2021

Would you have preferred that she lied about her love to you?

You should be greatful that she came out clean with you.

Finally go and work hard and leave women alone. The average Nigerian girl will tell you outrightly that she doesn't love you when it's very clear that your pocket isn't deep enough to sustain her if you guys decide to get married.

She's clearly seeing someone whose financial stability is much better than yours.

So move on bro and stop lamenting over her.

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Romance › Re: If Truly Titanic Was A True Life Story Then Jack Was A Big Simp (Opinion) by Nazgul: 7:41pm On Jun 25, 2021

BadRadio:
Are u saying Jack foolishly died for nothing?

Obviously...cos according to the move Rose was already a great grandma, meaning she enjoyed her sexual life to it's fuliest and didn't miss him one bit.

Romance › Re: How To Forgive An Erring Partner by Nazgul: 7:33pm On Jun 25, 2021

Forgiveness is good. But never accept back a cheating partner after forgiving her, whatever reason(s) made her spread her legs will make her do it again and again. Once she cheats, just discard her and move on, she's not worth your time.

Romance › Re: All Girls Are The Same by Nazgul: 7:09pm On Jun 25, 2021

My brother, country hard...most girls engage in part time prostitutes just to survive.

I have a friend who hooked up with this girl he met on Facebook, he told me to accompany him on their first date...you'd be shocked to hear that this guy after all the exchange of greetings and ordering of food just told her bluntly that he wants a mind blowing sex with her....I was expecting the girl to like snub, ignore or even caution his statement, but she shocked me more when she replied him by asking him if he's willing to beat her price.

Like play like play they agreed on a fee, and left to consummate their newly found infatuation.

Also, have you noticed that the number of Nigerian sex videos is on the increase, so many producers here and there with beautiful models willing to fúck all styles on air without masks.

15-20 years ago, it wasn't so infact seeing a girl having sex on camera was a taboo, now if you go to lekki, oniru...etc. some guys place order for girls, have sex with them, record it and pay them handsomely.

Most girls will gladly jump on the offer, no thanks to irresponsible parents and the unbearable economy.

If you want to marry, ignore whatever she tells you about herself, ignore whatever good character she tries to put up whenever you're together, and lookout for what you discover about her, that's the only way to escape marrying an over used street whóre with high mileage.

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Nairaland General › Re: Joke Sketch: If Nairaland Was A Real City... by Nazgul: 9:51pm On Jun 24, 2021

purples25:
My little sketch on a Real City called Nairaland ...lol.

You're talented. Thumbs up.

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TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Nazgul: 9:50pm On Jun 24, 2021

Kaycee7:
They will lose this battle like Gondor lost the battle at Osgiliath. Séx sells and Elven tiddies are like the cry of the Nazgul that puts fear in the hearts of even the most valiant man.

Hmmmm....and you had to mention me. grin

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Family › Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by Nazgul: 6:22am On Jun 15, 2021

This is why I'm always of the opinion that both men and women should marry the kind of partner they crave for and not the ones they find themselves stuck with.

If your spec is chocolate girls, then by all means marry a chocolate girl.

If you cherish slim girls, marry a slim girl.

Cos if you marry someone outside your spec, sooner or later when all the lovey dovey in the marriage expires, you'll begin to feel empty and find yourself craving for that particular spec you cherish. This is where cheating come in and is also the major reason why most people cheat in marriages.

I know of a former course mate who married a short man, weeks to her wedding we were chatting on WhatsApp and she was complaining to me that she doesn't like the guy cos he's too short...shorter than her sef that she prefers guys with height. I was like, so why are you getting married to him if you don't like him, she them replied me that he was the only one nagging her about marriage, the rest just want sex, and she isn't getting any younger that's why she succumbed to his pressure and decided to marry him.

I don't need a prophet to tell me that she's going to cheat in her marriage when she runs into a cute tall guy who she sees everything she wants in.

So my dear op, you're the one I'll blame, never marry out of pity, if a girl or a guy isn't your taste, kindly end whatever it is you both have, don't deceive yourself into believing that things will get better once you get married. It will only get worse.

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Romance › Re: A Lady Asked Me Out On A Date. What Do I Do? by Nazgul: 1:03pm On Jun 14, 2021

chatinent:
Hello,

Quick one: so a lady, bold, tall, elegant, beautiful, well-dressed and cultured.. walked up to me and booked a date tomorrow during eventide. She's sb who I had often hi-ed while passing by.

This was no borrowed courage. She was in for it.

I didn't give any responses.. as I watched her walked out.

So, fam, what do I do?

Stop behaving like a child, it's attitude like this that makes most mature girls skeptical about approaching guys.

She didn't ask you to sleep with her, she only asked you out on a date, and I see nothing wrong with that.

I would therefore advice you to just remain calm and allow her call you then meet at wherever you guys agreed to meet, and gist together. From experience girls that ask guys out are usually good in gisting so you will never be bored with her.

If you and her vibe very well, you can decide to give relationship a shot, try it out and see what the future has install for you.

Good luck.

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Romance › Re: Nawaoooo No Ever Trust Women Oo by Nazgul: 12:54pm On Jun 14, 2021

This is one of the reasons why I don't engage in distance relationships cos to me it's a mere waste of time, both of will will be cheating on each other then blame whichever party leaves first.

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Business › Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Nazgul: 3:23pm On Jun 11, 2021

Sixfeetbelle:
I suppose the solution to lending people money is to have it in writing. So that in the case of a defaulting, you can drag them to court. If there's evidence of a lending contract, the law will force the borrower to pay the money.

Well, this advice is only applicable to a functioning society.

The best is never to lend at all. The stress you'll go through in collecting back the money they begged for with teary eyes isn't worth it.

I myself I don't lend people because of terrible experiences I've had with those I tried helping in the past.

If you come to me to borrow money, I'll give you an amount I know I can afford to part with and tell you not to pay me back, my peace of mind is my priority.

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Romance › Re: What’s The Biggest Insult You’ve Received Because You Don't Have Money? by Nazgul: 7:56am On Jun 04, 2021

MJBOLT:
98% of the guys who will share their stories have been broke shamed by girls,who are equally broke too.

Well said, cos it's only a broke girl that will identify and lay emphasis on your situation, because that's all she wants from you, and would continually be frustration because you can't give it to her.

A working class girl would be more focused on working with you to achieve your goals than mocking you because you lack the means to get there.

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