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I don't think it is fair to abuse the poster, just like that. It is not right.

@topic,
I have seen thing like that. But I wasn't trapped. Some people will never understand a simple NO. I think it often happen when the stalker perceived his/her victim as too compasionate to hurt others. It only take a firm resistance to keep them at the bay. Somehow, I found it hard to understand why I had to maltreat someone before she can hear the loud NO from me.

I simply leave the area with no contact. I guess she move on when she didn't see the object of her obsession again.

Hajifaty,
I think you relocated. Maybe when you can't cope with home struggle. Well, you are still a Nigerian. Meaning that you are still from Hell!

Even if you live in Whitehouse, you can't change your DNA. Once from Hell, always from Hell.

Perhaps you want to have a rethink?

Because they are sure they can't be.

Is there no other way lady can get money from a guy without sex?

Hmmmm. Incomplete observation.

Are you really from Shanghai, or relocated to Shanghar?

Hellerian is an honourable tag as long as no one could tell me the capital of hell is not the same as the capital of heaven.

Well BOSS, I have a principle when it come to nairaland. I don't just post anywhere. I don't even read everything. But I found that thread ridiculous. The poster and the supporters are saying something like : EVERY BODY THAT COME FROM NIGERIA IS STUPID. AND THE FORGET THEY HAVE NIGERIAN ROOTS! In short, the poster and the supporters are telling us they are from hell.

Kobo,
I just talk. Maybe I should compare it with Japan. Will that make you smile?

By the way, are you also from hell? Just curious!

BOSS,
Hell in Nigeria is far better than paradise in Somalia or Afghanistan.

Gaza is hellish.

Come o, so you are from hell, aren't you?

That is because they are disillusioned!

The whole thing may be due to lack of self control. I think God must have a reason for making women differ from men.

The trouble with love is that you can love as many people as you open your her to. And you may never know who is fooling you until the game is over.

It is all about you. . .

I didn't read this thread before. Well, if Nigeria is capital of hell, remember everyone posting here is either from Hell or living in hell!

With a thinking like this, it is no wonder why Nigeria don't work. Thank God I am a Nigerian!

Nigeria of course. Unless the people are ignorant. Heaven and Hell share the same capital. So Nigeria house them both.

Yar'adua will turn the other side.

I hope another Torotogate will be averted in Edo

@afa,
I am not vouching for Nnamani. I am only telling you the manifest possibility. You spoke as if you were not in the country during Obj era. Go and research why Iwu fell with many of Obj's enemies, including Atiku. I need not waste my time on that. It is past and gone.

If Iwu is telling the truth, let him produce the names of witnesses that were there. Unless Nnamani went to him in the mid-night when everyone is asleep.

What right thinking people is to back their claims with facts, and witnesses that are alive. And not to challenge others to prove them wrong.

If Iwu was telling the truth, he should have mentioned at least 2 people that were there. We all know that senate presidents hardly go out alone. . .

Just start attending his church and sit where he can see you, and smell your perfume. . .

@poster,
Was she forced to do it? What took her to the guy's bedroom?

Things like this are better solve with care.

@nuzo,
let me explain it this way. Nnamani may not have ask to be interim president. It is very, very unlikely because Iwu was practically avoiding everyone that was against Obj, and making enemies for himself as a result of the way he handled the pre-election nomination.

Since you might have forgotten, Iwu worked relentlessly with PDP to ensure that some of those who won nomination at party primary are not listed as the party flag-bearer. You can take a brief introspection of what happened in Rivers as a case study.

Now, before the election, everyone is wondering whether Obj will go or hold tight to power. The anxiety was high. Obj was also scheming after losing the third term bid. There were suggestions that Iwu was incapable of conducting free and fair election since he was seen as partial. You know how he tried to restrict number of political parties, and how he battled Atiku until supreme court intervened.

I can remember that many of the civil right activists actually called for postponement of the poll. They suggested that obj must go and hand over power to the senate president who will then head interim government and conduct election. Everyone obj to go whether he conduct election or not.

Nuzo, I strongly believe that since Iwu and Nnamani are not close at that time, it is impossible for Nnamani to have approach him and asked to be Interim President when he know that Iwu has no power to appoint him. Iwu was only trying to say that had he postpone the election, Nnamani would have been the beneficiary by virtur of his office. What Iwu is doing is like trying to mock Nnamani which is a foolish act from someone who is a profesor.

Nnamani don't need to defend himself when everyone know that the call for Interim govt did not originate from him. Iwu believes that his election is the best thing that ever happen to Nigeria. That is why he is making noise.

Maybe the guy is always texting babes and his girl read the text and got shocked. Then, they make up. And again, the girl repeated the same thing and once again, got the shock of her life. . . The guy probably meant to ask whether ladies enjoy being sad on the same issue when they could easily have mind their business.

I am learning from this thread. I think it is best to let people share their experiences.

@poster,
beyond the question you posted, I am sad to note that you are unfair to the lady. You are selfish too.

That there should be mutuality of agreement in seperation does not mean you should call off the affair because you entertain inferiority complex in your mind. The lady will definitely find it hard to understand you.

My question to you is that: did you comunicate the above reasons to her before you broke her heart? Or you are still compiling the reasons for your change of heart?

@nuzo,
Iwu may not be lying about everything. He had definitely allow his lies to overshadow his truths. Only a fool will rely on his truth without making independent factfinding. The man can't be taken serious again. At least until he change his tactics of speaking from both side of his mouth.

@nuzo,
what exactly is your point? What is the truth you want us to pick out from the league of profesionals if you don't agree with their credentials?

On a serious note, I strongly believe that any intimate relationship that had lasted 6 months without though of marriage need not be taken serious. And when that relationship go to a year and still no future plan, it is a useless one. Unless the love birds are underage.

@poster,
you won't lose her if you do the right thing. Having sex with her does not mean you can't lose her.

Iwu, the bloody liar!

Nuzo,
Tell me that our 2007 election was free and fair and that Iwu was not culpable in what happen. Tell me that Soyinka's allegation were false. . .

Btw, what are soyinka's dirty deals that you want us to understand.

Finally, tell me that these so-called league of profesionals is indeed League of profesionals. Perhaps you are a member or know someone who is a member, kindly educate us on how they gathered their members, it composition, and their achievements in the last 5 years.

Nigerians seem not in anyway ready to learn from the pasts. What is el Rufai hiding from? The answer is "nothing." I should put it in another way: "what is police/efcc hiding?"

Ribadu was declared wanted and treatened with interpol. The man is back in Nigeria and no one hear any foolish noise from efcc/police again. No more story of misapproriated efcc fund. He is walking the street now, fighting his sack (something the police considered abomination).

When Igbinedon fled the country and left no trace of his where about, the police/efcc declared him wanted and sent Interpol after him. The man is back in the country walking free, enjoying his loot.

With all the noise about Obj corroption, especially the oil and power deals, he is right in the confinement of his office, enjoying his retirement and walking free. No one have gone to quiz him on anything. Same go to kalu, odili etc.

It seem to me the efcc/police enjoy chasing shadow. When the people are within their grip, the least you hear is that they are detained for days and then released thereafter to enjoy their lives. The real culprits are in the country, untouched.

I am one of those who consider police as careless noise makers. The only job they do better is propaganda.

El Rufai is not in exile. He will surely return home this year. And when he return, I am sure you will find out that all these noise are afterall cheap propaganda to make the feel that they are fighting corruption.

League of Profesionals? That must be a new group created to blindfold us and re-write history. . .