₦airaland Forum

okpurukata: The police tried to settle the issue by telling the woman to know that I have a right of peace in my own house. The DPO finally called me and told me that their handicapis that there is still no legislation against noise pollution, so they are handicapped. He advised me to go and buy a bigger sound system and play my own music while the church service is on. Being a Christian, of of course I could not do that. I only went back and told the woman that God will judge her. I have comitted the Matter into Gods hands. The woman has gone about boasting that no one can touch her. I have the option of reporting her to Rivers state environmental sanitation, but have chosen not to. The fact is that I feel sympathy for her because she suffered for several years in abject poverty. If they close the church, how will she feed her family?

mazaje: Nigerians and their wahala. . .I have stated this time and time again. . .Violence is a part of our society. . .Its is part of our DNA. Until we eschew violence then women can keep crying day and night, but the problem will never be sloved. . .The same women that complain about domestic violence are the same women that beat up their house helps, their younger ones and also encourage their elder children to beat up their younger ones all the time when they offend them. . .In our schools we are thought that violence is the only way when a person commits an offence, when a junoir student offends a senoir student the only answwr is violence, a students offends a teacher same thing, violence, when a younger brother/sister offends an elder brother/sister the answer is violence many parents encourage their elder siblings to discipline the younger ones with acts of violenve. . .Child offends parents, violence. . .Violence permeates our society. . .We encourage it every where. How do we expect it not to manifest in our homes. . .The society has thought us right from school and from our homes that if any subordinate offends you beat him/her up, we carry the same violence to our homes and offices. . .why won't there be excessive violence when the society teaches us that it is the only way to solve our problems when our subordinates offend us?. . . .The same women that grew up beating their house helps, younger brothers, younger sisters and younger cousins will come on nairaland and be forming "my husband beat me up". . .When you your self have been contributing to the circle of violence that is rife in our society all your lives. . .Make wuna carry go jare. . .

unclebros: For those calling for the Ban, read below

1. The operations of All the manufacturing industries in Lagos will be reduced to night operations, by my calculation and even with optimization of night operations, production will reduce by 60% Am sure we all know what this means.....

2. Port operations will also not be left out, you cant imagine the 'mad' congestion of containers and trucks that will occur at the port. The vessels plying our port will queue from Lagos maybe to malaysia and vessel owners will shun coming to Nigeria cos of this congestion...Am sure we all know what that means....

Result:
1. Grounded operations at port and plant operations
2. Low revenue for both the companies and state
3 streamlining of human resources.....UNEMPLOYMENT
4 Economic disaster
5. And the list continues...

FASH should rethink
While i understand the thinking of the LASG but they can not throw away the baby with the bath water.

kulyie: god is not a god of confusion,contradictions,waste of time and disorder,ur pastor claimed he saw vison of u and ur man,1st of all y dint he see vision d 1st or 2nd yr,its wen ure about tying d knots he is seeing vision and even if he is seeing vision,god will confirm d vision he made ur pastor see tru messages,human beings and talking to u.by d way ure not too big or little for god to talk too or show vision,therefore my beloved sister in order not to be a victim of deception,go to god in prayer to tell u or confirm to u whether d vision is from god or not and d motive of d pastor,God ansas prayers,sit in ur bedroom,pray and fast if u have to to seek d face of god,depending on what pastor a or b said will make u dia source of lunch and dinner,hear from god urself and not ur pastor because christianity is an individual journey,so is marriage because wen u stand bfor god to account for ur life u will not say my pastor said i should do dis or do dat and if anything goes wrong in ur marriage,u wont call ur pastor for everytin,poster when d bible says watch and pray,it means u should pray ant think,watch means think with ur interal and exteral eyes

holyvirgin: @op... They say a lady kisses many frogs b4 she meets her prince charming. Bt 4 me, i am a virgin and wouldn't want a second handed property.

Rocktation: If after telling a lot of sorrys and he still wants space, respect that and give him some. He probably wants to forgive you, but his heart's incapable of performing the task right now. If he misses you after a while, who knows....he just may take you back. Otherwise, warm up to the verity that trust broken sometimes, can be irreparable sometimes. In which case, I'd advice that you get into another relationship, and make it right this time.

People don't just cheat because life is beautiful anyway. It is always because their relationships have got problems as underlays, or they're not well invested in it, as they thought themselves to be. So I think this space will make for a good time to reflect on why you cheated on him at all. You said he cheated, but you still want to be with him sooo...was it because he cheated on you? Did the relationship bore you? Is he insensitive and ignores you? You know, just...reflect. Goodluck.

Well said.

harvey: Live your life away from all this men drama, you are almost done with service and you are young,are you scared of tomorrow? ignore all these proposals and as for your parents,they have to wait on you to start working for you to help meet their needs... add value to your life and don't let marriage be an escape route.

lucabraski: My dear, u surprise me. Are u not a babe? Do exactly d same to him. Start receiving calls from men, join a BBm group so dat u are always pinging, and join dis making friends online website. Make ur hubby uncomfortable and he might just realise d rubbish he is doing. You have every right to be jealous cos u love ur man. I wonder why most men are very selfcentered.

usmanyaro17: Rather than decieve people with lies and giving them false hope,MTN should improve its network that is going gaga,one can't make a call for just a minute due to bad network.MTN is a big fraud

Babalegba: Apple are really a bunch of firstclass elaborate scammers who would make something already invented more attractive and then sell it to the public at twice the price it ought to be. Apple contributed a lot to the aesthetics of digital technology, but really not much in innovation and if they had their way computers and technology in general will not be affordable to most people who now use technology in their lives. The US copyright system is geared towards protecting US interest.

dozymars: AND ALSO, THE ONE THAT COMPLAINS AND CRITICIZES HIS FELLOW NAIJA.

ritux: As far as I am concern, this babe went f☺r runs.
Secondly, is it because the father is a general that there is Soº°˚ much publicity talk on this case. If it was a poor man's daughter, I don't think we would have heard much about it. Finally, I will rather see Farouk sentenced than this criminals.
I so much hate the Nigeria system.