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In a culture where men are revered almost to the point of godlike it is not a surprise that they donot even work hard in bed. Nigerian men are typically in and out. So these women probably see ayoung blood that is still eager to please and has notbeen damaged by the typical Nigerian traditional marriage curse and they get hot. Meanwhile their husband is somewhere else being told how big his 2.5inch penis is by a 21 year old that he spends his life's savings on. End of story. ![]() |
Why is her mom discussing t with you. It should be between the girl and her mother. She needs to be redirected and taught appropriate behavior not for this incident to be the topic of an extended family meeting |
Na wa for Nigerian males. She that hath an ear let her hear |
breaking news |
maclatunji:So bad I am good ![]() |
jennykadry:LOL. I know it sounds funny but that is another thing. In all seriousness if you are tired and you just "allow"" him it is not like when you are ready for action. The one that he takes one look at you and he picks race for fear for his life. I understand what you are saying sha. My businesses are all around home health. My agency provides care for the elderly and the developmetally disabled. I also run day programs for the developmentally disabled and also medical transportation. It's hectic and sometimes stressful but I can decide to take time off when I really need to. I work long hours but I can choose to do all my paper work at night when the boys are in bed. I have dabbled in the handbag and shoe stuff but I just couldn't give it my all. I am in the middle of doing something in fashion with my sister and best friend. it will not be a boutique or anything like that but I will be sure to let you know about it when we roll it out. Maybe you can sample somethings for us since you know so much. I don't give nairaland discounts o. Don't think that you will sample for free. LOL |
smh |
She is a nurse. This is not illiteracy. This is just plain stubborness. I bet you she would scoff when she was corrected and say it is the african way and she does not want to be westernized. The baby is dead she is live. Life goes on I guess |
kunmibola:What are you trying to change? Is she a bad person? |
Foolish woman. |
If he is gay why not Every woman needs a gay best friend |
She's in love with someone else. Does not matter if it is a man or woman. Move on so you don't get hurt |
I quit my job in investments and I have no regrets. That job was stressful but nothing like banking in Nigeria. That is a whole other beast. That is a job I know I will never ever be willing to do. I just thank God that I grew some balls and decided to give my all to my businesses. That sort of schedule cannot be good for any relationship. I don't care what anybody says. |
The numbers are very possibly even higher ![]() |
Beautiful heart to match her beautiful face. God is your strength my sister. You inspire me |
Sounds like it was your father's. Talk to lawyer to see what the proper procedure is to legally get your land and evict the squatters |
My mother is igbo and my dad is Edo. I am so fine . I think calabar women or women from those parts are beautiful. Maybe I don't really see what the poster sees because I am surrounded by igbos and edos. I have a yoruba friend that is really really dark skinned and gorgeous. She kind of looks kanuri to me but she says there is no histoery of that in her family. They all look that way. |
I don't think one adult can "maltreat" another adult unless you let them. |
Why are you not wearign a condom still? What is wrong with you? I think you should have her take another test. There is a chance that teh first one was wrong. I don't know what to say but she not only put you at risk but even any unborn child. Keeping this a secret would have meant not taken drugs to ensure that any baby she delivers is not HIV positive. I pray you figure out what you really want to do and make the best choice for you |
ANIMALS. Useless country. What a disgrace. Shame. Shame. Shame. Wow. This man very obviously is a rapist. He most likely rapes his wife and thinks it is okay because she did not kick his ass. What a dumb ass. This scares me because any man that says that it was not rape is a rapist. If you know the details of this crime and still say you are not sure or that it is not rape then it means that they can rape. You have to know that something is bad to not do it. Shame on Nigeria. That country is a jungle. Honestly I see animals doing a better job. |
She will definitely be noticed. She has a very classy type of beauty. She will fit right it |
prince4lif:There is no short cut. She needs to go through the legal system. Give her counsel. There are some female lawyers in this section that might be able to help her. Your sister did not use wisdom. She should have known the level of wickedness in the heart of this man and his family by now. PrivateMessage debrief. I think she is a lawyer. There is another female lawyer here. I also need to start keping track of their usenames so that I can refer people to them. Also try to start a new separate thread because this might get lost in the belly of this thread. Good luck to your sis |
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Osama10:Evil sometimes does not make sense. She could adopt one legally but maybe this baby was just a few months old and she could be passed off as a new born. All the wicked woman had to do was fake a pregnancy and reappear 9 months later and say she had the baby in Lagos or something. I feel so sorry for these children because you know that they most likely will be tortured and abused on a daily basis. That child will just wonder why the mother hates him or her not knowing that she was just used to stop people from talking about her fake parents childlessness |
sigh |
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