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The man is obviously mentally unstable. The sister should just be thrown away. Nothing else left to do

Gabry it's not the custom to buy anybody anything. I like your ideas for the parents but make it a handbag for the mother not just a wallet. Everybody knows victoria's secret in Nigeria but you do not need to buy anything for siblings if you do not want to.

[quote author=invisible! link=topic=496356.msg6577613#msg6577613 date=1281894097]I am having problems accepting this whole story, not only for the motive of the sister but on the acceptance of the pregnancy by the husband after chopping the nyash only once, without DNA evidence! I have seen girls that got pregnant for their inlaws, but have not seen any that is bold enough to live on after the pregnancy.

I also think this man had been chopping this nyansh repeatedly, and has feelings for the babe if the story is true. In the version that happened to a friend, it was the husband with the sugar stick that threw out the wife and three kids and lived on with the young sister.

Lots of grey areas.[/quote]

Did the sisters have the same father and mother? ?

What exactly did hos mother say that all of you are oohing and aahing about. The article was poorly written and basically said nothing

So many innocent people have dies like this.

While I think that this marriage can somehow be rescues her husband has not taken responsibility and the wife also seems to be putting everything on her sister. Only a miracle can save this marriage but I thin only after this man has accepted full responsibilty not some bullcrap like she r.a, ped him

This is why I feel so frustrated sometimes. Are there no lawyers in Nigeria that can take something like this on. All it takes is a paternity test to show that her boss is responsible for the pregnancy. That man should suffer mercilessly for what he has done to this girl. This is so sad

My dear that is the reality of life in the west but it does get better. These were my worries a few years ago but somehow I have started figuring out how to handle it. I knew I had to leave my job eventually so even though I worked my regular work week I was also trying to grow my business which was tough because it was basically bidding for contracts and hoping you will get it. I finally "got the liver" and left the job and my business is growing and so my licenses in finance do not expire I work with a company that lets me run thigns like it is my business and I don't have to show up every morning. I make as much as I work. it frees up time to run my main business and then do all these other things on the side. I think I am actually more busy now but my hours are more on my own terms. Of course lets not forget the husbands because mine is very hands on also. I was feeling so bad last saturday because I had been so busy all week and I was up on saturday before any of them woke up and I was trying to rush home before 12pm so I could at least fix lunch but I saw his car cut in front of me at the major intersection. He had the boys in the car and they were coming from mcdonald's . That meant I could go home and rest. It is crazy for real with no support but you figure it out as time goes on.
As for your question about if we can have it all. I think we can do as much as our men folks if we choose to. Of course when one is not supportive about certain things then you make it a point ot prove them wrong. With time they will learn not to underestimate you. I think you are doing a fine job and as you get older you will find that it gets more manageable

You don't deserve her. She is most certainly better without you. For someone to say she has all the attributes he wants but she is not educated enough shows that you cannot be satisfied and will possibly make her life a living hell. If you are special why don't you find a wife that is already educated and successful in her career. I bet you will not.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=68777.msg6568770#msg6568770 date=1281718541] omg, They're both ugly.

Moving on. . . .[/quote]LOL. Nah they are not. They are both very manly especially Yemi Blaq

Yemi Blaq - Black is gorgeous

https://www.jamati.com/online/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Yemi-Blaq.jpg

O Chidi O Chidi
Wherefore art thous Chidi
Leave your father's house
And forget your father's name
But if you will not
Only be ny promised love and I will no longer be a capulet

I love me some Chidi but Yemi Blaq is sexy in a very mature way. The way he spoke pidgin English to Genevieve in Letters to a stranger was so hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. They are both good looking

I say send the fish packing. It's wahala is too much

The baby actually died after a few days in intensive care. May her soul rest in peace

Amistad. I have never seen it but it's one of those ones that you have to be emotionally ready to see. Yes I admit I cry when I watch movies and this one will really be sad because I know even worse happened.

LOL @ Aromantic. Now this is comedy

chiogo:
Well, this is the part about gay people that most people don't like - forcing people to be gay too! That's just disgusting! Why not be gay on your own?  

No one is forcing people to be gay. He is obviously baiting ezeuche. I personally do not need any kind of sexually thrown in my face. Homosexual or straight. This is why I think that the whole "gay pride" thing actually has made it harder for gays. There are gays from all works of life. Medical doctors, lawyers, engineers, educators etc. You would never know if you saw most of them. I honestly believe that just to be accepted many men with "feminine" mannerisms have almost had no choice but to say hey I am gay even though they still need to be with women. I know gay people who cannt stand the flamboyant stereotypical gay man on tv. They are actually very conservative people.  Most of these people talking have only seen the picture the media usually portrays of gays which is usually a very promiscuous picture. Unfortunately it has been sold and bought and even people who identify as gay have bought into the the whole thing and have made a spectacle of themselves.

ezeuche don't fight it

which God are you talking about. What does the book of Micah tell you of what God requires of you. Generation of vipers. Look at you. Which one have you obeyed. Calling for people to be persecuted and even possibly killed because of what you have called an abomination. Sin is an abomination. Have you jacked off today. SINNER. Have you looked at a woman with lust in your eyes. SINNER. Have you called a human being an animal. SINNER. What has any gay person ever done to you that you want to cause such pain and suffering for them. They are not animals. They are children of God and God loves them.

As a matter of fact I know that there is also a yoruba word for it so obviously it has been part of our history. In the north married men sleep with rich alhajis for money. Their wives know it but it is seen as a job just like any other job. These people shouting OFF WITH THEIR HEADS are closet gays that actually are looking for someone to beat up on so they do not face their own homosexuality

Some people here are so lost. You are so full of hate. You talk all this nonsense then go out there and screw someone you are not married to, defraud someone else and then turn around and point fingers at homosexuals. Freaking hypocrites. Even if all homosexuals are sinners I want you all to remember that it will be more tolerable for Sodom amd Gomorrah than it will be for you. Ignorant bu.ttholes.

I Like Sanaa Lathan. Paula Patton is cute in a Dorothy Dandridge era kind of way or maybe it's just these pictures.

Her face looks uncomfortable

bawomolo:
she probably thought the sleeping pills were mints. you know that woman can't read

This is bad. You need to repent

Poor child. The man is obviously mentally unstable

Next time sit by the door and take notes. It might help you when you marry your own

LOL. What the hell does powered by viagra mean on that church sign. Is that for real

dollypi:
Celica church of christ, Somewhere in ibadan.

Elshadai must not die ministeries.

It's lie. Where is this church LOL