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KingMack:
One of the greatest lesson I've learnt is that for this Life marry better Wife.. because the wrong one kills faster than crack

You say ....Marry Better Wife....
As if it is as Simple as ABC.

That Marriage Na Gamble...You Might Not Know the Result until You are Neck Deep in the Pool!

Goodlady:
I just watched the video.
The woman asked the question I v been asking and the thing I want to stop in governance.
High Cost of Governance.
Buhari deceived us with it. Posterity ll judge him.
Meanwhile, let all government political post warnings be slashed to civil service wage structure.
When we do this, only sane politicians ll be contesting. Also, life earnings of presidents, senators, governors, reps should be reviewed. Only civil service people deserve retirement plans.

The Problem is That:
Do you thank 1 person can do this....?
He will be working against a Battalion of Unlike Minds(that don't wont things to work).....

People That are very desperate and Ready to DIE there!

Anyways lets hope for the Best

KanwuliaExtra:
Besides Ukraine. . . which wars are men fighting now or in the last 20 years? Which "other activities"?
Jesus died at 33. . . . and will have to die again to make the same impact. The second coming sounds familiar. . . .perhaps he would require a 9th and a 10th and still make no impact for followers with 'hardened hearts and souls'.
I ask again. . . what are MEN doing awake at night when they should be sleeping?

A woman will say:
Babe, that your Job is Not Paying well o , why Not Change it!
....We Don't still have a car after all these Years.... Papa Ebuka our Neighbor Just Bought a BIG CAR



A man Cannot Sleep when he has the following in his mind:
He Still has to Think about:

House Rent 300k/Year
Transportation to Work/School 50k/Month ===> 600k/Year
Feeding the Family Monthly(H W+2kids) 70k/Year ====> 840k/Year
School fee (2kids) like 250k/Year

TOTAL like : 1.9 Million Per Year

and you want to Save to build a House of Like N 20 Million for the family
and you want to Buy a Luxury Car for the family of like N 4 to 5 Million


How will the Man Sleep at Night??
Especially when he knows His Job/ Source of income is NOT STABLE

Exceed15:
Because men do not learn to ignore when they don't have the capacity to solve family issues at hand. The people putting the pressure on you will live on after you die. Men should step back and think about themselves first.

You are Right My brother....
But it is not Easy o....in the face of a Judgmental Society.

imagine the shame if one's kid is Sent home from School for Not paying the School fees...
All the Mother will say is: Papa Emeka, Go and pay school fee o. and she will just free her mind....knowing you will go and look for the money....
the Man will now be running Helter Skelter for the Money and he might even borrow (more future Pressure)

This is Just 1 out of the Most Troublesome bills on a Family Man's Head.

He Still has to Think about:

House Rent 300k/Year
Transportation to Work/School 50k/Month ===> 600k/Year
Feeding the Family Monthly(H W+2kids) 70k/Month====> 840k/Year
School fee (2kids) like 250k/Year

TOTAL like : 1.9 Million Per Year

and you want to Save to build a House of Like N 20 Million for the family
and you want to Buy a Luxury Car for the family of like N 4 to 5 Million


How will the Man Sleep at Night??
Especially when he knows His Job/ Source of income is NOT STABLE


In my own Opinion: The Greater Killer of Man is day-to-day FAMILY EXPENSES
because he is Worried to complete the Above task for over 20 Years (till the kids Leave School and get a Job)

wow

Ekpeitut:
RIP lower back.

This Man is Taking His HEALTH for GRANTED.

rickpat:
you can only suggest a savings plan/pattern for him...you telling him to save in your account is WRONG..

focus on your own CAREER...talks like these makes most men disrespect women...when I read the topic,I even thought you work in a bank and you are advising him to open an account with your bank

NB: YOU ARE ONLY A GIRLFRIEND,IF THE TABLES WHERE TURNED WOULD YOU SAVE IN IS BANK ACCOUNT?..you have no right to tell him to save in your account except he is the one that ones too.. GIRL GIVE YOURSELF SOME RESPECT...things like these doesn't always end well...if the guy doesn't want to save in your account,let him be,no need pressurizing him, financial matters Should be decided between you two only...good luck

Chineke!!
Men are Going Through alot o

Edipet:
how

its up to you...
we gave you an Idea of what to Expect bro ..

its up to you to decide if it will be worth your time.....Based on what you are Earning Presently

Edipet:
please be am about to travel to lagos just to write their test. Does it worth it?

its up to you...
i gave you a heads-up..so you will not be shocked!

robosky02:
If you know this men... Your not an indomie Generation

1. You should married with Kids

2. Mention their names

what about these.....

Edimakan:
One of them sabi nack for every movie

Na Dolph Lungren be that...
and he will show is very long D in camera

badt guy!

highchief1:
as a married man,make money have kids and leave ur wife alone .all women cheat just do ur thing and rest.don’t worry too much remember if u die she will ride on other dicks.her bf will attend ur funeral and eat rice untop ur head.me and one of my friend that was dating a married woman once attended the woman’s husband burial. u will live very long if u expect anything from a woman.my wife cannot shock me.

Your Rule is Interesting to me!.....

but what if you catch her or Your Realize that 1 or more of the kids are not yours

what will you do?

manmade:
lolz, your wife's ex boyfriend is inviting you to bring your wife to state on his bill, hmmm ,I still remember my late grandpa common saying; "he who pays the Piper dictate the tunes" , a goat is inviting you to a feast and said you should come along with your yam, I just hope you're really in charge as you're thinking.

He can even be Killed...

Elzazzi:
@Axis313 according to your write-up that honourable is doing all that because of sex! Many of these men with money act that way. But can't you advice your friend to start respecting himself by doing his thing alone, instead of following the man about. He will be seen as a sycophant because people will think he's benefitting from the man while he doesn't even get anything!

But he is getting Free Food na...
he is feeling too Entitled!

Greatdand007:
And am even planning to leave abk cos it’s too boring and no opportunity here like Lagos what kind of biz can I do here in abk it’s very peaceful I don’t want to leave

In the word of the Famous Jim Rohn,

If You Want More, You have to become More....

If things are not Working in your favor, Change Direction...You are not a Tree!

Bignat:
I was born and brought up in Lagos. University education made it possible for me to leave Lagos and after graduation and completing my NYSC, I decided not to come back to Lagos. Best decision of my life.

I started business here in Asaba and its been wonderful. Live is peaceful, I have achieved goals faster.

Most individuals who are serious with their lives here easily become land owners and landlords within 20s and 30s.

Yes, lifestyle here is a bit expensive but I prefer it as compared to the choatic lifestyle in lagos.

I just visit Lagos for business and leave immediately i am done.

Wow Great

AllDModsAreMaad:
Regret ke?

I'm always grateful to God for taking that step, the only thing it affected was my former relationship and idgaf. Sometimes I wonder if i had taken the step earlier, I would have gone farther than this in the ladder of life(success).

Infact, when I was in Lagos I manage to save 15k in a month, today I am a millionaire thanks to God almighty.

'

Wow Great,
Did you get a Better Paying Job in PH?

ufotty2001:
I left Lagos State 5years ago to Port Harcourt. Currently, I have build my own house in pH. Lagos State is overrated.. when I was in Lagos I wasn't able to achieve a reasonable things. The truth is that Lagos is not for everyone.

The Truth!

muykem:
Please come down to Abia state. You will not regret it.

Wow Great, Can you help me get a Job of 400k/Month?

vengertime:
Lived in Lagos all my life until I moved down to Abuja where they don't take light year in year out, except during nationwide darkness which is usually few days darkness .

I lived in festac work in Ajah, I had to wake up by 5am in other to get to work by 8:30.

If I over sleep till 6am I'm in trouble. Mile 2 traffic is very unforgiving for people that don't wake up early.

In Abuja I wake up by 7 am eat breakfast and Bath and dress up and leave for work by 7:45 get to office by 8am.

Life is easier in Abuja. In Lagos every day was designed for suffering and inhaling all kind of smoke

Is Your Job Pay in Abuja BIGGER than the Lagos pay?
what if you get a JOB in Lagos that will pay x2 your pay in Abuja, will you go back?

nicerod:
They eat it

and pay you N1.
when will you make it?

cc: Kobojunkie

Hydroxide:
I no dey find job bros.

ok.
i also love it outside Lagos....But Na moni dey keep man Hooked

baretalk:
Sea is in portharcourt, the colonials developed Opobo, cross river and portharcourt too, Lagos is not the only old city in Nigeria where colonials came to, the colonials have left for almost 65years now. You people from other states are foolish and select dumb criminals to lead you. In the next 100 years you idiots will still be saying 'lagos was a capital '

The importers can raise money with their governors and build seaport. Stop blaming others for your failures and inefficiencies. You don't need 100million USD to build seaport.

They Even Just Completed Lekki Sea Ports
Bringing even More Business to Lagos

Let us be Frank, MoneyMustBMade, Your governors need to do more

cc: MoneyMustBMade:

Hydroxide:
Most people in Lagos has lost touch of living but they don't know. Nothing can make me stay in Lagos. God4bid

You can't Take a 600k job in Lagos?

StrongAlphMale:
Bros no One asked you about those places you just mentioned, but However even with traffic on those places it can never be compared to Lagos traffic. Lagos traffic is by the worst.

You should know that there are lots of companies in Lagos than any other states in Nigeria, so what are you saying?

Oga we're talking about sane places with good road networks, drainage systems and sane environment for people to live in, Lagos State no join at all. I hope you know Lagos is One of the most dirtiest cities in Nigeria currently?

You're talking about expensive lifestyles? I'm Sure you have never been to Lagos before. Do you know how much I paid for an apartment in lekki as compared to Benin City? Despite the dirty environment and how unkempt everywhere looked in that lekki

You guys should stop hyping Lagos, apart from the Job opportunities and the economic structure there, oga nothing dey Lagos. Too dirty to live in

Let me tell You the Summary:

1. If You are Looking for Opportunities To Earn Big Monthly( 500k and Above) Lagos is your Best bet.
(That's why a lot of people Migrated in... and it Became Overpopulated)

BUT

2. if you're looking for Where you can Live comfortably Not Minding fewer Opportunities, Average or less Monthly pay
Then Live Outside Lagos.

it is Just A trade-off
It Depends on what you want or Working towards just find a Balance between Income and Living Better

you can even earn in Lagos for some years...and then Run away when you cant cope anymore...

StrongAlphMale:
Lagos is an overrated dirty place. Of a truth, you can't wear White or even dress clean without getting messed up due to the dirty environment.

Lagos is too dirty and highly overrated, gosh !!! I stayed in lekki area and I no dey too commot for House because you must surely look like a pig while coming back. Thank God I am in my beloved Benin City now, a home of kings and queens. I can confidently tell you that pH, Abuja, Benin City, Akwa ibom , Calabar, Enugu, Asaba amongst others are by far beautiful, Sane and better than Lagos

it is Due to Population Migration from everywhere looking for Great PAY

Can one find a Job that can pay 500k and above outside Lagos?

Temptee101:
Lagos is one hell of a place to visit, let alone reside in.

The first time I went to Lagos, I swear, I had headache for 3 days. I fell seriously ill.

Noise everywhere, thousands of motorists blaring their horns at the same time.

Everyone is impatient, angry and ready to fight in Lagos.

Everyone is willing and eager to dupe you.

On our way back to Abuja after spending few days in lagos, we boarded a sienna mini van, LASMA officers caught the driver for driving one way. You need to see how these people jumped inside the vehicle in order to grab the driver's key. They took us to their office, the refused to release the vehicle after pleading. We even had airforce officers in the vehicle with us. After spending hours there, we had to return to their park to enter another vehicle. We got to Abuja by 12am.

After such an awful experience, I swore with my life never to live in Lagos.

The driver is cursing, the conductor is shouting and the passengers are screaming all at once.

I really pity calm people who live in lagos.

from your Complain...its a population problem
too many people Migrated in Hoping to Make it Here...

DenreleDave:
You are very much right.. If I wana go for job interview, I put my white inside back, so when I get close to the company, I find a place and change. If I go Wear white, people go stain you for bus b4 u reach where u dey go


I served in akwa ibom and I didn't wana leave there but I had to bcox of job.. But i love dt state.. Sane, cool and sweet state with beautiful ladies..

its not Really Lagos's Fault, it's just that: it is a Land of Opportunities compared to other states
there is Intense Competition here and So it's Overpopulated.

Your Goal is to hold on to as much Cash as you can maybe then find an exit plan if you cant cope any more...

DenreleDave:
My own experience as a lagosian who have lived in other states in Nigeria:

I don't see any reason why people are taking offenses in what @iDanDizzy said actually. For God sake, the guy is fv cking right. He bestly describe the normal lives of lagosian. I have lived in Lagos all my life, I'm a lagosian, I schooled in ogun state, I schooled in kano, I served in akwa ibom and to be honest, I enjoyed those states far better than Lagos. I feel sad dt lack of Job opportunities made me leave those states to come back to lagos and hustle. If not for money, I rather stay in akwa ibom and live a stress free life than lagos.

This is the reason a lot of people Migrate to and Stay in Lagos!

but the Reality is that: You get the Money and the System still collects it back!
via: Hose Rent 400k/Year
School Fee(3 kids): 400k/Year
Transport: 960k/ Year
Food: 720k /Year

Total:2.48M per Year on just Expenses

and you still wish to Save to Buy House or Build (like 20M)
to buy Car: like (3-4M)

E no easy o

Spicycat:
Congrats madam, your children have done well in the eyes of both God and man.

you mean Woman

ednut1:
To born girl dey fear me. 22 yeas old gal dating 42 years old man. Omo

But You are Ok with Regina Daniels Right?

peter0071:
Biko sleep over it. i have few questions for you before you make that decision:
1. whats her genotype
2. whats her blood group.
3. what.s her character
4. what type of lady is she?
5. lastly, confirm that she is not pregnant and wants to do this marriage project to pull you into commitment

why is your girl not ready for marriage? are you ready for marriage?

i love her bold steps though. if your girl wont be ready even 2023 and you are ready, and you love this other girl, get to knowing her and do the needful

Also, check if she has a child she is Hiding...