₦airaland Forum

Even though I don't totally agree with the OP but your post is quite misleading.

Right from time immemorial, man has always been having multiple females as wives (with different status in some cultures).

Even in the Bible , virtually all the Jewish patriachs ,prophets and men of God had multiple wives. Those who had one wives were usually those who died young.

The concept of one man, one wife is a very recent concept which became popular/legalized during the Roman Empire.

In Europe, strict monogamy only became widely accepted about 500-700 years ago.
In Nigeria, monogamy became popular only after Independence and became widely accepted in the South around the 1970s when Western educated Southerners increased in population.

Uptill today, monogamous marriages are minority in the core North of Nigeria.

TheOutlaw:
Polygamy breeds massive poverty, inequality and backwardness.

But since by all known indicators of intelligence, blacks are naturally the most stupid and unintelligent human beings on the planet, I don't expect either you or the OP to understand.

This Bros is funny Sha.

What concern Tinubu with the topic?


Even at that, your hatred for Tinubu hasn't allowed you to reason well.

Is it Tinubu, a private citizen that can prevent free and fair elections in a State?

How come Hon Kako Aare, Hon Rita Orji, Tony Nwolu and two others won House of Reps election on PDP/LP plateforms in Lagos in 2015?

How come the candidates of his party (which you erroneously labeled his candidates) has been wining since 1999?

kelvinginzie:
Bello of Kogi state used thuggery to win,
Apc have been using thuggery to steal Pdp mandates in osun, kano and now Kogi etc
Let Tinubu allow a free and fair election in Lagos and see if his candidate will not be voted out

Mr Achuwa, you need to know that the NURTW is a trade union and NOT a Government agency.
It predate APC by decades and it's not an organ of the party.

Members of the NURTW like members of NUJ, NBA or ASUU belong to different political parties.

Achuwa1:
What happens after the signing ?
APC govt & their cronnies only signs but end up increasing our debt,just like PMB.

I feel for her but Babcock University also need to protect their reputation.

She was quite naive and inexperienced (not about sex o), otherwise she wouldn't have acted like that.

This particular episode will haunt her for life, her future children will get to hear about it and may even watch the video.


It's good that some people are trying to help her get into another school but I hope some among them won't be asking her for sex in return.

RedEagle:
The expulsion does not seem necessary sha.

Anyway, I heard some people are committed to helping her enroll in a new school.

Must he always win?

Didn't Azikiwe lose Anambra to NPN in 1983 and Buhari lost Katsina to the PDP in 2007 and 2011?

Babacele:
So why did you loose Jigawa state to APC sir? Is it because of Malabu or Melaye ( apologies to omenka)? confusion in PDP

Sule Lamido never comprised, he stood with the PDP from 1998 till date.

He lost his political base to Hurricane Buhari in 2015 but this doesn't mean he comprised

splash1944:
So what did Sule Lamido and his Northern PDP compromised for in the
2015 general elections. You have to tell what you compromised as campaign
co-ordinator in 2015.

Sule Lamido never betrayed the PDP or Jonathan.

He was one of the few heavy duty politicians in the core North who stood with the PDP through the thick and thin

capitalzero:
Those that betrayed Gej in 2015 thought that buhari would not contest in 2019. no vacancy till buhari dies because third term is a possiblity and buhari:would support his core loyalists to become president and vp not just any apc members.
people like sule lamido and others denied themselves chances of ever becoming president or vp.

The bottom line was that Biafra was able to refine it's crude oil LOCALLY and produced most of the things they needed LOCALLY because they couldn't import anything... let's give them some credit for it.

This resilience and ingenuity are what we need to replicate in modern day Nigeria.

0monnak0da:
How many cars were in Biafra>
How many motorcycles
How many roads
How many generators
How much fuel was actually being used in the whole of Nigeria?.

So many young people just assume Nigeria today is what it was in the 60s

There was no PH-Aba -Enugu express road. It did not exist.
Lagos Ibadan expressway did not exist
Lagos Benin expressway did not exist


The only airport in PH is what is now the Airforce base next to Bori Camp

Saying there was no fuel scarcity is like saying there is no champagne scarcity in Nigeria today
What is the actual demand for champagne(people who can pay for them?

Today you will find more motorcycles in Agege than there were in the whole of Nigeria.

In which capacity?
He was never the National chairman or Lagos State Chairman of the PDP?

efighter:
ex-Prisoner as Party Chair? I rest my case. But why couldn't he stop Tinubu in Lagos?

Bros, Biafria may be dead but the facts in the write up are real.
Nigeria ought to learn from the civil war. There was no fuel scarcity or corrupt oil subsidy scheme in Biafria.

MetaPhysical:
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Trash! Biafra is DEAD! Use different topic to present your thoughts.

Honestly I don't understand childish obsession with Geo-political zones in Nairaland political forum.


Political parties and not tribes or Geo-political zones contest elections and voters in each zone support different political parties.

The APC at present appears be the strongest political party in Nigeria.

Ezeama400:
You were quick to give a ridiculous analysis about how APC is penetrating SS Geo zone, but quick to ignore how PDP is taking over the North unlike what was obtainable in 2015.
Zamfara
Sokoto
Adamawa
Benue
Taraba.


You guys should be more worried about the plans of the northerners because the way they see power, they are likely to pull out of APC and go back to CPC, then look for another people to merge with if they don't get APC ticket.. They don't reason like you
They attach too much emotions on power... They don't care about party affairs, they are only after their region.
Don't cry and beg for whom to hug when core northers do what they they are known for in politics.
Awo and Abiola would tell you better

Awo received more commendation from northerners but we all saw how he ended up.

That's great. It should be a good news to you and I strongly suggest that the PDP hire you as their political strategist on how to return to Aso-Rock in 2023.

LabDNA:
Delusions, even Ojo your yoruba brother have realised that APC will shoot itself on the foot if SW is given the ticket.

They can't get votes from the SESS region, no Southern president have won election by losing majority of the southern votes.

The only prayer PDP is saying right now is that APC should throw away political pragmatism and settle for emotions by giving SW the ticket. It will be a landslide victory for PDP in both North &South.

This post is misleading.

These leaders are mostly monarchs who keep their kingdoms' wealth on behalf of their people.
Even their personal wealth belong to the Kingdoms after their death.

Nobody really pay them all these monies but they can draw upto that amounts from their treasuries IF THE NEED ARISES.

The Kingdoms maintain all their needs till death, so why the need for all these salaries?

Stop peddling falsehood in your old age sir.

In the 2019 Election,

SE=> PDP got 1.5million votes

SW=> PDP got 1.6 Million votes and APC got 2.5 million votes.

The S/West gave both the PDP and APC more votes than the S/East.

The S/West with 15 million registered voters has the second highest registered voters while the S/E has 8 million registered voters which is the least in Nigeria.

The presidential aspirants and the hierrachies of the political parties know the zones where they can get votes.

PaChukwudi44:
Well Just one SE state delieverd more margin to Atiku than the entire SW states did for APC.If there was any region that didnt matter in the last election,it was the SW.

These circular smart villages look very beautiful. However we need to ask certain questions if Nigerians are to live in such places.

1) Where Iya Bashira's shop suppose to be or there is no provision for eating Amala and ewedu +Gbegiri soup?

2) Where is Chinedu going to be displaying his Okirika wears for customers to see and buy?

3) I can see where Mallam Garuba, the MaiSuya will be selling his Suya.

4) Where will 'Booda Taju' the vulcanizer stay in this planned circular village?

5) They forgot to creat NURTW motor parks,a very great error.

Many religions are created by the Devil himself so as to confuse people about the oneness and identity of the only true God.

Fabolousibk1:
Kids everywhere...... Something is bothering me o
Why do different religions have different God's but same Devil?

Kogi State is NOT part of Southwest and Yahaya Bello is not a Yoruba man but your hatred for the Southwest will still cause you to be bashing the Southwest over an election that took place in Kogi State.

Nothing concern South West in this matter sir.

mrvitalis:
Thats all that matters to you party ...I have never seen a more selfish region than south west ....all u want is APC to win so it can be easier for u to be presidents ,u don't care the process n how bad governors are re elected

The beauty of democracy is the plurality of choices.

There are millions of other Nigerians that will still vote for Tinubu whom some Igbos want to bring down at all cost.

SalamRushdie:
We will vote any Northerners over Tinubu an ex Narcos King pin

This your permutation is making me to laugh in INEC server

Grundig:
Wike will be laughing His behind out right now.

I'm imagining a situation where wike will demand to be vice president to tambuwal in 2023.

What pdp needs to grab the ticket in 2023 is undulterated gutter thuggery in the south.

Tambuwal can divide votes in the north

Do Real Feminists allow MEN to fvck them?




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Emperor Imes has come and gone long time.

He was the same person known to the Yorubas as


















Obatala.

OladimejiRufai:
Please... please... nobody should say she looks good or beautiful in the "after" picture.

She doesn't look beautiful.. rather she looks coloured

Mama, you should be more concerned about your grave and your hereafter. Incidents like this where you see old people chasing idle amusements like this tells you how much the concern for this world and negligence for hereafter have dug deep into the hearts of many people.

That's why the world needs Imes.

Anyways, he is coming and we await him.

If you don't like what I said or you consider me extremist, feel free to fvck with me on my mention. Imes will come to reply you

Women could be very manipulative.

Almost everybody that watched that Tiwa Savage's interview video pitied her and blamed Tblizz as the bad guy.

Later on, many people are now doubting the picture of victimhood she tried to paint in her crashed marriage.

tillaman:
you want to tell me Tiwa is the victim here, she never had her own lapses abi? She never had a fling with anyone during her time at the SMD,just cause she played the victim card slandering the guy on misappropriation and drugs, was she any better?? That’s what you get when your wife Foots the bill

Sir Ahmadu Bello was a human who like all other mortals had his shortcomings.

However as a political leader, a noble Fulaniman and a Regional Premier, he wasn't that bad as being ridiculed by online (mostly) Igbo youth.

It will be very wrong to judge his actions by contemporary political barometer.

He was a REGIONAL Leader but not a tribalist. He did his best for the North and many of his legacies are still very visible.

Nigerian Political leaders in the 1953-1966 were the most visionary leaders we have ever had.

They were bound to make mistakes because;

1) They were the pioneers. They had little prior experience in State craft and governance.

2) Their Background and their primordial environment reflected in their worldviews which was bound to be at variance with that of other regional political leaders.

3) Nigeria just started her journey into nationhood.
It's very difficult to bring over 200 different tribes to live together as one. It's inevitable that there will be inter-ethnic tension.

This was the reason Awolowo and the Action Group leaders suggested that a secession clause be inserted in the Independence Constitution at the Lancaster House constitutional conference.

4) The first couple was a great error of judgement and a costly mistake by truncating a natural learning phase and plunging the young artificially created country into a senseless civil war, the effects of which still reverberate till today.

SuperIgbo1:
Whatever incantation it's you're mumbling, don't forget Bello was so evil.

You are a bloody liar.
The eligibility and its interpretation clauses have been like that since 1999.

olisaEze:
Actually that particular amendment of legislation was sneaked in 2014 just before the 2015 elections Incase the PDP made noise about PMB’s qualifications. However, GEJ refused to contest the outcome and it only came in useful against Atiku in 2019. Na so these liars dey use our contri pipo head since, now he’s biting all of the fingers that helped him up!

How does this concern Ndigbo?

Every Geo-political zone is now asking for Development Commission, shouldn't the S/West also ask for it?

celeiyke:
Does the Yoruba have a problem with Ndigbo? In the 8th Senate, immediately that Senate passed that bill, the SW came up with the bill so as to frustrate the signing. This time around, just last week cos Buhari didn't sign the last bill on the SEDC Stella Oduah has reintroduced the bill , just from the blues the SW has remembered their own development commission. The truth is both will fail this time. The SW never thought of that but all their actions is geared towards killing the bill for the SE. The Igbo have always supported the Yoruba, I don't know why they will want to always frustrate the Igbo

I don't have time for your rantings.

As a Lab scientist, I expect you to have passed this stage of reasoning.

LabDNA:
So we all agree that the SW bill is meant to undermine the SEDC bill. But we have yorubas like oyatz claiming that it is the SE who undermines the SW when it is actually the other way round.
Now who is undermining who?

It's very normal.

Ask young single mothers , especially those who don't have legitimate husbands or those the baby daddies reject the pregnancy.

The sucking by the baby during breastfeeding is sort of sexual consolation for the absence of the father.

derrydinny:
nothing wey I no go see for nairaland. so women get aroused from being sucked by their kids? endtime women

Hmn in the real sense, most of these people don't do any wedding.


They look for fvcking partners, impregnate or get impregnated and move in to start co-habitating. After few years, if the going is good, they may do traditional marriage (usually after much pressure from the woman's families).

If the going is tough/bad, they dissolve the union and look for another mates. About 60-70% of Southern Nigerians are like this.

In the North, they start early in life, usually around 15-17 years for the ladies.
They however formalize their unions by doing a simple Islamic marriage called Hakidu Nikkai which may just cost about #10,000.
By the time the ladies are 23-25 years, about half of the 'marriages' would have crashed. They quicky obtain Islamic divorce which is quite easy and they both move on.
Open co-habitation or baby mama syndrome is not socially acceptable in the core North.

SBL28:
This!!! I have always wondered, the ease with Which these people move from one marriage to another is alarming.

You have a deep understanding about life.

I have to agrree with your analysis. I have seen similar stories before even in my family.


Single mothers that were impregnated by their first love during their teenage hardly move on until the guy is HAPPILY married to another woman who can chase them away. They don't forget the guys.

One of my female cousins who had such Romeo and Juliet relationship with her Secondary school BF got pregnant for the BF shortly after secondary School. She was mercilessly beaten and scolded by her mother and siblings.

Ten years later, she had graduated, done with NYSC and was looking for who to marry her when she heard that her Baby daddy was now a very big boy with lots of cash to throw around and was already engaged and about to marry.

She sat down and started crying. When her family asked what happened, she said it was her mum that misled her, that she would have continued with the guy and that she would have been the bride now!

Charleys:
We are all judged by our past.

If you graduated with a pass, no one cares if you had financial issues or trekked to school, or you had to spend time doing odd jobs so you could pay your fees, all they see is your result. We are all a product of our past. In fact you're where you are because of the decisions you've made in life.

What a brilliant analysis!



However in real life, most women can fall for different kinds of men especially the bad guys.

I have seen so many apprently well educated girls from good backgrounds dating criminals and social misfits. I have seen undergraduates ladies dating (or fvcking) security guards, Okada riders, school drop outs, NairaBET addicts, road side panel beaters and so many people who ought to be below them in social rankings or even age.

Many women especially at their emotional vulnerable points can fall for any guy that appear to care for them, has sweet mouth( they love DECEPTION) with good dick!

One nice, recently converted working class Christian brother made a vow of no sex before marriage to his 21 year old undergraduate fiancee whom he was partly paying for her education at a Polytechnic.

He had the shock of his life when he discovered that one SUG guy was has been rusticated was among several other guys fvcking his fiancee on campus.

The most annoying part for him was that his fiancee didn't know the real name of this SUG boy.
She said everybody just call him 'ROCK'

There are many police women who get fvcked by criminals that police arrested.

All these ladies are normal ladies ,some of whom later got married to successful and decent guys.

2buffagain:
Your friend was a fool.

You have to mercilessly vet women before they even have a chance to enter and fvck with your life.
If a girl was dating a drug dealer, that tells me exactly what kind of girl she is based on her choice of man, and what mental blueprint she has been imprinted with.
A woman who is used to the drug dealer man life is not, in any way, suited for relationship with normal brothers.
Especially if she is the jobless type who has no means of legitimate income and was pampered all the way through.

A woman like that is used to being dominated and negotiating with hyper-aggressive types of men, so someone like that will not give a normal man peace. In their mind, one person needs to be aggressive, and if it isn't you its her...and she will hate you for that. E.g Women with that imprint need a man who will slap them if they step out of line and who won't be weak to them. They won't even report it to police (in the west where they worship women in court) if they get beaten, because they secretly like that shit. That is her comfort zone.

Women like that love punishment. And if you don't give it to her, she will give it to you.

I have come to the conclusion that people in this category don't have raised ego and their families/societies don't expect much from them.

A hair dresser apprentice, bread hawker, paraga/agbo seller, pepper soup/beer joint operators or food vendor sales girl can have 3 children for 3 different men without being properly married to anyone of these men.

SBL28:
This!!! I have always wondered, the ease with Which these people move from one marriage to another is alarming.

Every case is determined independently based on it's merits.

These merits are determined based on the solid proof evidence provided and not on public opinions or emotional rantings.


In Busola's case, the only evidence is the words of mouth of the complainants.

There was no evidence of physical injuries on her body to corroborate resistance and struggle, no evidence that she was druged or not fully conscious, no evidence that she shouted for help (Busola's elder sister was in the building at the time), there was no evidence that the accused carried any weapon ,no other eye witnesses and above all, no medical report confirming that a rape has occurred.



No court can just convict a man of rape solely because a lady accused him.

Gforce2015:
Okay . Someone has already rape your daughter.. or is about to rape your daughter..

With this judgement , rapists in our society will be encouraged... Ladies, your puna is vulnerable with this judgement..