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Failed marriage?
Christian?
This are results of incomplete and (mostly) deceitful Bible doctrines as we have it in what I dubbed 'funky' churches.
What kind of broken wall can my GOD not put together? The only hinderance to forgivenes are pride, hurt and demonic counsels (these strong influence can only be overcome through a sound relationship with the Holy Spirit).
Heaven is the goal. Claim your grounds. FORGIVE EACH OTHER, PUT THE dEVIL TO SHAME.

Most people I have met that say despicable things about their marriage failure are always pointing out their partner's shortcomings. They play the victim. Pride usually causes this. It takes 2 mature people to find balance as regards their longterm expectations. Your values, are they identical?
You used the word 'seem' a number of times, it becomes obvious you never knew well who you were getting married to (were you guys just shagging?..coz that on it's own could be a blind fold to red flags). I fail to see other things you did wrong. Could still be your fault she went for other distractions. It takes a child of God to own up to their shortcomings, two wrongs dont make a right.
Swallow your pride, there is room for reamendments. For all I know, you may not have caught her in the very act. Find peace within yourself. Stop the mudslinging. The children...please!

I sha hope this itel a60 go reach everybody. Since last week everybody at my workplace just they carry like say na awoof. Me, my money never gather. So far na Go Edition we go manage the 2gig.

very funny

Kobojunkie:
You are right that the Truth of God is pointless to those who would rather remain blind to it. Jesus Christ did say that in His Gospel and for this even admonished His followers to dust their sandals and move on from those who do not care to hear it.

Odeh! Oya dust your sandals (no forget pack the dust o) and get that accursed doctrine of yours of this place. You dont even understand the scriptures you quote. Pack your sandals kobo back to sunday school and this time always be punctual.

Kobojunkie:
Again.....Ofcourse, the truth of God is like sulfur to all you religious bots. You twist and turn it every which way but True in order to help you continue a little longer in your delusions.

I repeat, no man living today , who claims to live according to the Law of Moses -- the National Constitution of the Nation of Israel in the Land of Canaan --- given by God to the Israelites for the country He constituted of them, does so knowing God. Neither does such a one Know or even belong to Jesus Christ. You cannot indulge in that which is antichrist and still belong at the same time to Jesus Christ. What you describe is an impossibility. So said God Himself!

The one there pretending to advice you is equally as ignorant as you are though he pretends not to be. It seems. But be sure that as Jesus Christ made clear, the blind will fall into the same ditch

your pointless insinuation has nothing to do with the question i asked. Nuiscance kobo.

Kobojunkie:
Ofcourse, the truth of God is like sulfur to all you religious bots. You twist and turn it every which way but True in order to help you continue a little longer in your delusions.

I repeat, no man living today , who claims to live according to the Law of Moses -- the National Constitution of the Nation of Israel in the Land of Canaan --- given by God to the Israelites for the country He constituted of them, does so knowing God. Neither does such a one Know or even belong to Jesus Christ. You cannot indulge in that which is antichrist and still belong at the same time to Jesus Christ. What you describe is an impossibility. So said God Himself!

The one there pretending to advice you is equally as ignorant as you are though he pretends not to be. It seems. But be sure that as Jesus Christ made clear, the blind will fall into the same ditch that there blind leaders will fall into.

I assume u don't understand what stfu stands 4 overhyped nitwit.

Kobojunkie:
No one in our time who claims to follow the Law of Moses has ever known God let alone become a child of His. What you lot cling to is religion and has absolutely nothing to do with God. Start from there and maybe you will find the resolution for what disturbs your fraud of a child of God.

will you stfu...who asked for your opinion?
Just go to bed kobo okay.

vikinatius:
First of all, bride price exists before Moses, Genesis 34:12 No matter what dowry or gift you demand, I will pay it—only give me the girl as my wife."
And Jesus said in, St. Matthew 5:17 "Don't misunderstand why I have come. I did not come to abolish the law of Moses or the writings of the prophets. No, I came to fulfill them.

To answer your question, Take a brief look at the issue Jesus settled concerning divorce. He didn't cancel what Moses said but edified it
1. St. Matthew 19:8 Jesus replied, " Moses permitted divorce as a concession to your hard-hearted wickedness, but it was not what God had originally intended.
St. Matthew 19:9 And I tell you this, a man who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery—unless his wife has been unfaithful."

Thank you. Clear!

vikinatius:
Let me start by saying, "God has the solution to all problems".
Well, i have seen many cases like this and based on Godly knowledge, the solution is here. This matter is a strong reference to the article. This tells us that even the devil is doing his work by acting as the "accuser of brethren" to deal with those who fail God's commandments.
That is why sex is for those who are ready for marriage. The same people preventing the marriage are the devils. If you read the article carefully, it was mentioned that bride price, "So, it is the man who has paid bride price that has the asset (woman)". Meaning the man does not have full right over the woman but her family does. more below

can satan afflict a child of GOD whom has broken the law of Moses as regards bride price? I want to believe you're sure about what you're talking about, prove it scripturally.

Pls, I want you to help me analyse a case scenario of a Church minister who has had 6 children out of wedlock (19 yrs of being together) for same woman. The wife's family refuses till now to marry their daughter to any man that is neither a traditional worshipper or a Muslim. According to my friend, anytime he tries to put up any plan to conduct a church wedding he subconciously spends his estimated budget on temporary objectives...and so (he said) it's been through the years. The first 2 children are Sickle cell anaemic. My friend/prayer partner is an hard working minister of GOD but he's been subjected to through many ups and downs. Do you have a (scripture based) insight as remedy to a situation such as this one.

1st Timothy chapter 2 verses 1 and 2. If you see, you may do well to mention what He said.

Remember the saying "vox populi, vox Dei".

I dont know the one I hate the most, the idea of picking one day to celebrate lust or the word "slay". Iranu!

Highly demonised man. His spirit is worth redemption though. His soul is worth nothing except in the gallows.
I pray the Holy Spirit comforts the little girl, give her an overhauled mindset and protect her from this wicked world...amen.

SyrusdeHansome:
because this world is already too sick because of bad parenting.

on point.

jerk:
And what?, so people are not dying everyday. The mods are one of the problems we have in this forum. This is everyday occurrence in different parts of the country and doesn't deserve to be on the homepage, but their motive is to incite tribal violence here. RIP to the young man.

look at it this way. If the killings are gradually increasing daily in parts of the country, mod man would have to be specific about where it happened. No motive, okay.

I could use that amount of money to buy my groceries. I am diabetic. I was discharged not too long ago.

Although my wife has/will not complain, It would be share joy giving her 5k from heaven...knowing very well the money can buy this small phone (LOL) I'm thumbing. I dont have whatsapp though. My Access bank details is 0 0 2 6 4 1 6 2 3 3.

Any money at this kind of time is going straight to the pulpit as testimony as I haven't been working since December 6th, 2022.

I am a diabetic on bedrest. That means I cant eat everything. I've been such burden on my family. I could use the sum to support my wife for now (she would help get me some food). Because of some of these drugs i am mostly hungry (i eat seperate).
I use an itel small phone (for now i can only call).
if you will be of help my account detail is 0026416233 Access.
You will never sow on infertile ground.

You should get your local market at Ikate.

...let us vote not considering our differences, our tribal sentiments, our religeousity and prejudice.
We need to work together, not tear each other apart on social media (it has never been fun anyway).

Stop calling each other derogatery names. Stop trading insults.

The words you use shows who you are. Don't forget being civil is a moral code that can and will create a positive coverage around you and your enviroments that take us forward in life. Be objective...if you heard it from the grapevine don't share it.
My candidate no be your candidate no suppose cause wahala (make we gather reason am).
E go better, our colaborative effort will move us isha Allah/in the mighty name of Jesus.
Calm down okay.

Mode: "e defntly microphone testin"

ambivert27:
I wonder why people can't choose who to vote for in peace again.

i wonder.

traihit:
Shataap....

The biggest supporters of Obi in the SW today are the Yorubas and if the Yorubas don't accept Òbí, he might have to struggle for sectional votes like Atiku would struggle in the next election.

Not every Igbo is supporting Obi why then should you crucify Yorubas as being tribalistic because some Yorubas are against Obi?

Do you call Northerners tribalistic for supporting Atiku or weren't you just being tribalistic for supporting Jonathan in 2015 even though he messed up?

If it were for your type of lousy fans, some of us from the SW supporting Obi today wouldn't support him!

Tanx. You too make sense.

OP be cheese burger for redpillers.

This is a Democratic country (or so it seems).
Meanwhile, it's so disgusting the way some beligrents will come to nairaland to vent wit a rabid dog attitude. Tribalism is one big problem Nigeria that is even more dangerous than corruption (8 & prejudice), if left unchecked may destroy even generations to come. Most peaple that comment do so along tribal biased lines, no objectivity..just insults. Na wa.

Haydens:
This man is a capital FOOL

..everybody body knows. Even his gateman.

ibechris:
When this tribe threatens u,just go and sleep well.

If na mouth,them get am but for fight,them go run like mai barrow wey steal generator.

I once lived with them,na their way.

now that is a 'face me i face u' mentality. I pray God will heal you of that prejudiced mindset. If you care to know majority Yorubas are accomodating and respectful peaple

. Out of circulation for just 2 weeks..na hin you dey spit grammer like NANS presido contestant. Wait till EFCC/NDLEA do tag team on you. Dispensable maga.

I am a yoruba man, I love Ibos. I wouldnt admire the striker less..even if he is a northerner. OP I look foreward to awoof BBQ from you (I live by faith).

Sheistoopretty:
Women rulling the world since time immemorial

Men will forever be under women, for sure.. we own this world

you insist on disgracing your dad consistently. Wetin the man do you? You wan take your papa get popularity for nairaland as a lesbo (SMH). I've seen your pix stoop, you are anything but pretty. You feel like someone that lost the hymen to a sadistic redpiller. 'Too pretty' my ×ss

CartelKenneth:
When u reach house beat hell out of her

GOD have mercy on you.

Jennyclay:
Men are so Disgusting and irritating

JENNY. Not ALL nigerian men are the same. Psychoevaluation is just a part of the usual mud fight in most child custody cases. The remedy remains the same- LOOK B4 YOU LEAP. Okay.

An heavily cursed/demonized individual. He may turn out useful in the gallows. I feel for that child.