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FamilyRe: Is There Any Benefits To Having Children ? by pendo89(f): 6:09pm On Dec 01, 2012
I wouldnt say benefits but a sense of fulfillment.Seeing what you produced is the greatest joy for any parent.
Watching them grow under your care is comparable to nothing in this world.
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland Dec 2012 *auditions/nominations* by pendo89(f): 5:37pm On Dec 01, 2012
Rocktation.
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland Dec 2012 *auditions/nominations* by pendo89(f): 4:33pm On Dec 01, 2012
Shollypopz: why is Chillaz not the same person? Pls its early in the morning and I don't hv my contacts on but they look same to me. The second picture is just older and lighter. Might be camera lighting. In fact I think she got older and now uses better make up and lotion. The former was a much younger pic grin
Lemmie refresh my memory.
When chillaz joined NL,her stated age on profile was 14.Till a dude asked her to confirm her real age.It then shot up to I think 18 or twenty something in less than 10 min.And her profile pic changed.
I guess the dude made her feel too young, so she matured up fast. grin
Hi chillaz, you looking hot and cool at the same time kiss grin grin grin grin grin grin
BTW what are u doing in Romance sectionhuh? try to relate and liaise whit NATASHA she will direct you to the right thread
Natasha's thread was the one fr teens.
Well I could be wrong.Chillaz just clarify after all you are so pretty.
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland Dec 2012 *auditions/nominations* by pendo89(f): 4:14pm On Dec 01, 2012
Chillaz must be the youngest Nairalander.Saw her first prof pic when she joined plus her stated age(quite young)and she wore this hood.Pretty girl.
The first pic is hers for sure.The second looks far older than her.
I nominate.... mmh I have to go through all the profiles! jeez. brb
RomanceRe: . by pendo89(f): 3:53pm On Dec 01, 2012
I always wonder how people approach such issues.
If you are dating a man with child,take time to understand him first.I mean you are getting involved with an adult.The others in his life can only become a source of trouble if the man or woman fails to handle them properly.Can you call him responsible?
I will never look at any man's child as baggage.Who knows if I will drop dead tomorrow and leave my kids to be called baggage by another woman?
Are you capable of playing mother to another woman's child? If you cannot please step out fast.
Stop worrying about the other woman or child and worry more about the man.If he's serious then just listen to him and take it a step at a time.No rush.
See how he handles you, the other woman and the kid.It will give you clues as to where his priority is.
And fyi many single Dad's in my opinion make the most amazing husbands.
Kid's are God's,not some bad omen.
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Nairaland Regrets by pendo89(f): 9:47pm On Nov 29, 2012
I think you got yourself to blame poster cz what you are complaining about happens when you choose to bond with a forum.
To stay sane, don't bother and don't reply.It's as simple as that.Post and go live.You will enjoy it better without strong attachments.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Somali Men Are So Fine! by pendo89(f): 6:57pm On Nov 29, 2012
ooh mehn! here we go again.
FamilyRe: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by pendo89(f): 6:45pm On Nov 29, 2012
lovely lovely lovely.
Nairaland GeneralRe: When Was The Last Time You Shed A Tear? by pendo89(f): 3:42pm On Nov 29, 2012
yesterday, today.
My pastor died yesterday morning.Rip Pastor Wade Porter.I salute you.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Do Stories Have To Be Long When Told By A Woman?. by pendo89(f): 3:34pm On Nov 29, 2012
slimyem: lol..
Women love details...and love to register effect well..
You got no choice but to accept us as we are...!
the juice of the story is in the details.well we wouldn't care if he died really, but the events leading to it is what we want.Time,colour,clothing hair,everything grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Do Stories Have To Be Long When Told By A Woman?. by pendo89(f): 11:01am On Nov 29, 2012
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
TRUE.
But it's a way of avoiding many questions.I hate the way men speak.Plain, emotionless and closed.
EventsRe: Africans Representing At The 2012 Miss Universe by pendo89(f): 9:41am On Nov 29, 2012
Where are the rest?
If I was to pick out a winner from among these,Angola/Botswana would take the crown.But as far Miss Universe is concerned? none of these would beat the venezueleans,indians,brazilians or mexicans.Forget colour,the features must be perfect eyes,cheek bones,nose,lips.We can do better as Africa.
EventsRe: Africans Representing At The 2012 Miss Universe by pendo89(f): 11:07pm On Nov 28, 2012
Why do they look older than their age?

And lol what's with Miss Tz? grin What a pose!

Waiting for the rest,so I can pick out the best.
ComputersRe: Nigeria Leads West Africa In Internet Speed by pendo89(f): 7:51am On Nov 28, 2012
We want to install an operations software for our Nigerian partner but the internet speed falls below the expected standard, so it's difficult to implement.
We have tested speeds for partners in other African countries and two or three seem to fair better.
They need to really improve on internet.Many users they have but slow compared to worlwide standards.
Christianity EtcRe: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by pendo89(f): 7:26am On Nov 28, 2012
I trust my sons judgement.I wouldn't ever think for them or choose wives for them.I will embrace whoever they bring because of the faith and trust I have in them.
somebody said it's a nigerian's thing for parents to approve of one's choice? well.In that case I thank God.
FashionRe: What Part Of Your Body Do You Spend On The Most ? by pendo89(f): 2:07pm On Nov 18, 2012
caseless: no, it wasn't an abusive post. Maybe the MOD saw patches of agression/anger , i guess that was why the post was hidden.

Again, i do think that the mind is an abstract part of us that controls us. Let me give u an example or two; we breath in air(OXygen), it goes into our body, but can u touch or see it? Let's say wind, it can carry u, ryt? But u cant see it....can u? u can only feel tha force that is associated with it. The mind is invicible, but it does have force which it uses in controlling us(this is opened to disagreemen).
oops sorry,I didn't notice a hidden post but its okay.They are doing their work.

You've brought in external forces of nature, but I wasn't trying to define the mind or its faculties.
Just want to know it's origin.Is it a part of the body or not? Where is it found? Generated by the Brain.
The mind and Brain don't exist independently.You must have seen people suffering Brain damage.They have their thinking faculty,memory,consciousness impaired.
I see no fault in saying that I spend more on the brain, cz if we don't exercise it just like any other muscle it will lose it's ability.
And how do you exercise it? By handling mental challenges> which means investing in knowledge.

Ok I am done with this now.
FashionRe: What Part Of Your Body Do You Spend On The Most ? by pendo89(f): 8:45am On Nov 18, 2012
caseless: u did stray from the onset, so no need to start any debate. Like the guy u quoted 'dont jst point to ur chest cos there is nothing like that in there'. Pendo, flooding my post with ur guangue 'OKs' didn't put any msg across, rather, it showed u ar runing away frm my question. My other post was hidden, but i think this is mild enough to get my 'remix' of the first msg to u.
Ok I like this cz it's less abusive.I completely avoid insulting posts cz they are too emotional and involving for my liking plus they string on and on which I find boring.
So here is my reply.
Those who said the mind are equally correct in my opinion>It's okay to disagree.
In laymans' language here is what I think.Man is made up of 3 parts> Body,Soul and Mind.So where exactly does the mind originate from?
It's a product of the body part called the Brain.
This is what they(posters)are talking about;nurturing the brain,increasing knowledge by reading stuff say online,like people do here on NL.They Spend on internet no?
Now caseless,what difference is there between those who replied by saying 'Stomach' and those who said 'Brains'?
Aren't both body parts (Internal) which we spend on through feed? The brain requires knowledge,while the stomach requires food and both cost us.
We know people who spend more on food than knowledge.eg If you gave me a usd 10, I can choose to blow usd 8 on garri and usd 2 on internet research.
So lets be fair to those who said Brain cz they are just as correct.
We okay now?
And I said hair somewhere.
FamilyRe: If You Are Obama, Would You Adopt A Son? by pendo89(f): 9:32pm On Nov 17, 2012
OMG.So many funny threads here.Why do people reason like this in this century?
FashionRe: What Part Of Your Body Do You Spend On The Most ? by pendo89(f): 9:19pm On Nov 17, 2012
caseless: hahaha....wat happened to the native intelligence....they born u with one ooo....skool can only enhance it, but cannot put it there.
You sure don't want to know what crossed my mind! not good at all. grin but no point debating this.

Nuezha: How is mind a part of your body undecided
If it is, where is it undecided
Don't point at the chest 'cos there's no such thing there... shocked undecided undecided
Waiting...
I don't think you should wait really.Just relax and rest.
FashionRe: What Part Of Your Body Do You Spend On The Most ? by pendo89(f): 8:46pm On Nov 17, 2012
caseless: u pple are tryinna bring a disconect here....what the meant i think is the part of u that u can feel/touch.OK If u think u are spending on ur brain by buying books or meditation....then u are off target.OK Eat good foods and the effect(positive) will b dere..OH OK tel me how well u can spend on a part of ur body where u cant see nor touch... YOU CAN'T.It's okay.
let's proceed.
TravelRe: Which Is Your Best Nigerian Cities Visited And Why? by pendo89(f): 8:09pm On Nov 17, 2012
Abuja,Enugu and Owerri are leading here.

Keep on.
FashionRe: What Part Of Your Body Do You Spend On The Most ? by pendo89(f): 7:30pm On Nov 17, 2012
caseless: i tot the mind is invincible and imaginary.....how u de take spend for am....?
Are you serious asking that question? jeeez!!I believe he meant the brain.

What makes the brain special in comparison to other organs is that it forms the physical structure that generates the mind
I believe that we are products of our brains.Investing in it means learning and that can be very expensive.
Other than that,I guess my hair even though I hate salons with a passion.
RomanceRe: The "Death-sentence" Words You Should NEVER, EVER Say To A Woman? by pendo89(f): 3:13pm On Nov 17, 2012
This what I call complicating a very simple matter.Women are not rocket science.Very easy creatures to handle. grin
Just apply emotions when dealing with a woman and you strike her heart.
When you try formulas and chemistry you will fail cz trust me, what works for one may not work for another.
men.
RomanceRe: I'm Always Dreaming Of Sleeping With These Girls by pendo89(f): 2:11pm On Nov 17, 2012
Isn't it funny how we see trouble approaching and instead of avoiding it we rush to embrace it?
Then when we suffer consequences we start looking for somebody or something to blame.
You are married period! stop entertaining them and leave them to get their own men.
That means stop playing nice to them and direct all that attention to your wife.
RomanceRe: Chaaaaaaaai! This Is Serious Ooooooo! I Don Dyeeee by pendo89(f): 2:01pm On Nov 17, 2012
The last bit was unnecessary.No need to broadcast your sexual ability when you have two very confused women to handle.
The only sober people I can see are your 3 kids.
FamilyRe: Would You Allow Your Wife To Still Remain Friends With Her Divorced Friend? by pendo89(f): 10:07am On Nov 17, 2012
my question to a man who tells me such would be
Do you choose my friends?
Am I a child or your partner?
Are you that insecure and am I that stupid?
Are divorced people devils?
Is divorce the worst that can happen to a human being?
Are you better in God's sight than the divorced?
If our marriage falls apart, will you get rid of all your married friends?

A friend offers than their status.
FamilyRe: Face With A Divorce Decision And I Need Ur Candid Advice by pendo89(f): 5:03pm On Nov 16, 2012
jidegirl12: @pendo, what else does the OP need? everybidy told him what they think he should do, and didn't you read cc comments up there? Smh on you for saying somebody 'wise' , oh that includes you too undecided what a joke!
She must have been typing plus others when I was, because it wasn't there at all.
But at times I feel stupid to offer any advice cz of the heavy issues at hand.The best I could do was highlight what I thought are cancers affecting it.
Some else might be better placed to offer candid and sober advice because of the setting and cultural diff.And that is wise imo.
In the process I pick out few points.
Christianity EtcRe: Four-week-old Colombian Baby Can Walk & Breathe Fire by pendo89(f): 4:52pm On Nov 16, 2012
lemmie see.
A funny looking goat born in India> world is ending
Mother gives birth to rat in nigeria > world is ending
Hurriccane Sandy/Katrina> world is ending
Dragon child in Colombia>world is ending
Prophet buys a new jet> world is ending
Road accident> world is ending
Nollywood actor dies>world is ending
Palestine fires missiles on Israel> This is worse and ended like yesterday
Sodom and Gomorrah> world is ending
World war 1 and 2> Its ending
Sadam captured> Its ending
Gaddafi follows suit> The end
World trade centre bombing> this one just evaporated
Nairaland changes face> We are finished.

When I was born I found people saying the same thing.I bet they will be saying the same long after am gone.
Just chill,do as commanded and stop the 'escape from earth' attitude
Christianity EtcRe: Four-week-old Colombian Baby Can Walk & Breathe Fire by pendo89(f): 4:19pm On Nov 16, 2012
nex: I thought the embedded video would show the child walking around, and breathing flames. What's then the purpose of a video?
grin grin grin grin grin grin sadist.me too
FamilyRe: What Is Romantic Love To You And In What Form Does It Come? by pendo89(f): 4:11pm On Nov 16, 2012
Sagamite: Let me hear people's views especially the people that are married and those that advocate love.

How do you see love? Romantic love is conditional and lasts as long as you both decide.

What is it? It's an emotional feeling which causes people to make stupid or smart decisions.

How is it embodied? in actions

How should it work? No formula.It's supposed to work anywhere,anytime,anyhow under any temperature or pressure.

Is it important in a relationship? Very. Love is an emotion which plays a vital role in relationships. Without Love,one fails to maximise their full potential.To me, it's the grease in relationships which stops the creaking sounds.It's impossible to give your all and be your best when in a dry relationship.

Is it sustainable? As long as you are BOTH working on it.

Can marriage be good if it is weak? Never! A single crack is enough to bring down a tower.Erosion works on weak points.
FamilyRe: Face With A Divorce Decision And I Need Ur Candid Advice by pendo89(f): 3:47pm On Nov 16, 2012
I am eager to read from Chaircover and that other man bearing a name like seun.
But here are issues I picked up from your post on the marriage.

1.Pride
2.Immaturity
3.Self centredness
4.Selfishness
5.Lack of compromise
6.Misplaced roles
7.Outside influence
8.Insensitivity and lack of understanding
9.Misplaced priorities.
10.Comparisons.


I believe somebody wise will advice you on way forward soon.Marriages are too complex and most problems have deeper underlying issues than we often present.
Take heart though cz you seem like an ambitious guy.

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