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gosh you are still demanding to see it?

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=807483.msg9596958#msg9596958 date=1321814974]
@pendo okay
btw lmao you do all that just to watch a scary movie?   [/quote]and more. A horror movie I watched years back made me threw away a favorite doll( am not a kid by the way) cz I kept seeing it transform into what I saw.
The beautiful doll was a killer  . Then sleeping becomes a nightmare. if u watch that dead fellow,the pic sticks in your mind. dont.

[quote author=life_style link=topic=807483.msg9596854#msg9596854 date=1321813851]You can say that again, the guy is more than sick,   I love the concept,   I want Natasha to c it and testify,  Please recommend some sick movies to me,   [/quote]My bro made me watch and at one point I felt really sick and crazy.The dude behind it is called bobbyenddy.I understand hes into the legal profession now.
And no am not a fun of horror so I wont recommend.I watch horror during the day and when I have company.All doors/windows must be open too.
Natasha centipede properly works up your nerves.

[quote author=life_style link=topic=807483.msg9596725#msg9596725 date=1321812255]Baby, i like you, cos you seems not to be scared of anything, You get mind, Let me recommend some movies to you,

1, Final Destination 1,2,3,4,5

2, Saw 3D

3, Wrong Turn 1,2,3,4

4, Human Centipede

5, Hills have eye 1 and 2

If you need download link i can provide one. [/quote]Watch that one nat to start with. . Am sure a psycho was behind it cz I didnt know when to laugh or cry.Thought it was boring till it turned crazy and yuck!!

ok now ur even worse than the op himself.

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=807483.msg9596587#msg9596587 date=1321810802]trust me pendo I want to see this pic, what's the worse that can happen?   Please did you by any chance save the pic?  [/quote] no dear that is 'unsavable' even the 'save as' refused to work. who wants such saved on their laptops? .
ok lemmie give u a taste so u stop bothering the lawyer.
It was a pic of a dead fellow with his chest wide open and some doctors pulling out stuff from his hollow chest.where was the heart anyway?
sorry cocoa(dont puke) just trying to help this gal out.

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=807483.msg9596496#msg9596496 date=1321809856]oh bad belle nairalanders  Now I can't see the pic  Poster can you kindly upload the pic again? *speaking in a very low tone with sad eyes* pleaseeeeeeeeeeee[/quote]trust me gal   u sure dont want to have nightmares. I know the feeling of 'wanting to see' but dear talk to freecocoa. Shes been puking since morning.

tellwisdom:
Now, she's been caught in the act. What next??

I hate to be in the hubbys/wife's shoes for real. I also hate it if I discover somebody has been milking me without my consent when I was only trying to help.
I address it point blank and ul never see my aid again.But this is a wife.I said the method she uses sucks even if shes got needs.
The way MBJ has described it makes one think shes a 'scam artist'.419 in the making.
Habits dont die. She has just learnt the art of perfecting it. Now why is the hubby not addressing it instead of saying he feels like throwing her out? she could be putting money in some savings account.(just thinking) They have a kid for christ's sake.
sad the husband will never trust her again.I pity them both but this can be salvaged through talk.

Bobbyendy:
nope dear am not a pathologist and I don't work in  ‎​†ђξ  morgue. Am comfortable in my legal profession

now lemmie ask.what was romantic about it? We call lawyers the learned friends but that pic dint scream learned. Plus did u believe any transplant was going on there? I have never been inside a morgue but I could tell it was a post mortem gone bad.

kemmeye:
why does everyone think im a guy ?

gosh I also thought u are.

@freecocoa.I am also trying to delete it from my mind. I dont think av ever seen anything that bad. yuck. I think the op is a pathologist or works in the morgue.

freecocoa:
Bronzetuke baby,you don't wanna see the pix I assure you,you can't believe I've not eaten since cos of it,I brought food to eat but,the image of the body in the pix us what I see in my plate.

OP it will take me time to forgive you for what you've done to me today.

yeah i almost puked too. He messed up my coffee.

lol at discombobulated,This virus is catching.
Yeah ur right.I dont know which guy can knock down sense into him.I think some people are meant to be experiments for others to learn
so let him sail that way and get burnt.

and nl says amen

Flashaldrin:

I wonder who is being referred to??

thats what u need to avoid. Asking who,how and where. you will avoid fights. if I said pendo how will it help u or add to ur account?
if ur life is not worth talking about out there, then don't play online hero by trashing and trampling people.simple!
That applies to me as well.

lemmie help you reduce the stress wisdom. Unless one is interested in a particular person in which case the dating board is open,then try not to dig deep into people's personal lives. I would rather not and prefer to deal with the online character to avoid a spill over and addiction.
All sorts of people with funny backgrounds will post anything. Why should I bother with what they do in private? I will pick what helps me online and log out.
That helps cz I dont go thinking about the person since they dont influence my life in any way. The people you wake up to, and deal with one on one should worry you the most cz they know u better and influence you.
Scammers,sugardaddies,mummies are scattered all over the forum so to be safe I prefer to leave everything here.
Remebr  there are many kids,teens,married peeps who post here too.Its good to be considerate and reply sensibly to a stranger asking question after all it
doesnt cost anything to help out if you can. I personally consider it a hobby which I do off and online.
I remeber how I used to read and laugh as a guest before I become member.It helps and I dint even care about peoples personal lives.

Now think. Suppose all  nl females were perfect or angels,will that transform your country? Change starts with you and your real environment before it's felt anywhere. Seriously if you are nothing where you are then it doesn't make sense trying to be an online hero. Think about that.
nice day.

freecocoa:
Okay I for say o,cos I know you are far too responsible to indulge in theft.

This is what I think.She has no income and has no extra money to buy herself stuff. forget the diapers and sugar, she needs to look good and pamper herself once in a while. She a married woman not a maid.
I like it when wives have their own source of income to supplement and take care of those small women's needs. This one here doesn't seem to have one and so if the hubby is not helping her out then what does he expect? Its a bad habit that makes me ask myself again is that justified? has she begged and was denied?
And if he refuses to sort her out then can she please get some work to do like the rest of the women?

@frecoo that ws a wicked wink.

freecocoa:
Madam pendo why did you steal my thoughts na?

not really stealing, its cz we belong to the same gender. It takes a woman to unlock a woman's mind.

let him ask her what she needs the extra money for then they find ways of addressing it. its obvious she needs the extra money,its the method employed which sucks.
some habits dont die.

Throwing out wife is not an option.He can square it out with her cz I am sure shes using the extra to do something for herself.
Why can't the hubby find out what that extra need is, then try to help her meet it instead of accusing her? maybe he denies her when she asks and she's found a better way of getting money out of him.
its funny to know that the hubby knows the price of each and every item bought. It simply means he doesnt trust her with money at all.

freecocoa:
one jonsing dude was just following me saying something like"Bebe just ya name,just tell me ya name"in my mind I was just thinking,[b]if I slap this guy now wetin go happen?[/b]anyway I got back home and resumed duty here on NL.

you are one very funny gal.

downcasted:
Thank you OP
That girl has disspointed me, i would never trust a woman ever again

Now see where you go wrong. We all say that at one point till we come across one great person.You will never love again with this attitude.

Even if things work back up- she would have to work hard to get me trust her again
You want to give her a second chance? make sure your heart is hardened cz u seem fragile right now. Its even better u take a break and see how it unfolds.

gamble away, i got talking to a friend of mine here in cyprus who married her husband (Both Nigerians) she married her husband at 21 and
Never ever compare relationships cz ul be under pressure to perform and measure up.Humans are different and so are the circumstances under which we do things.

Thanks for your encouragement - God would lead me out cos he got me into this 5years ago and he knows best[/color]

God will not lead you cz I doubt He led you into this.You did and u must leave it yourself if you choose to. From your comments you want to give it a chance but now you saying God knows best. For God to work your will must be free. Its obvious its not free right now cz u still hoping it works out.
Make up your mind and free urself.

All will be well if you decide what it is that you really want for yourself.
good day

Beautiful.
NEXT!!!!

wow! why did that 'by the way' annoy you? like seriously?
have fun no hate.

and may I be allowed to add one seedord. The lone ranger's best pal.
_{now i smell derail.}

very funny.

I am a christian but please its always good to apply wisdom in how you spread the gospel.It's not forced down throats.
Do not be a nuisance trying to spread the message cz u got to understand there are laws which govern how an environment should be treated.
Only a fool in acts of ignorance would enter a hospital for instance and start shouting and praying loudly.
What these people fail to understand is that the very means they are employing are the very ones keeping people from embracing the gospel.
See when one says he will preach in an aeroplane what that means is that he has no understanding whatsoever regarding the rules that govern air travel or the guidelines set down by each airline. You don't just mess up people trying to pass your message. no wonder christians are called foolish.
When you get arrested you will not be called a matryr, but a foolish believer and God will not even look your way.He will allow u to pay for your foolishness.

The best way is for the bus owners (am assuming they are privately owned) to stick a warning inside the bus where everybody can see.
I see it in our buses 'No public preaching or hawking allowed in this bus'. The preachers/hawkers disappeared.
Its a criminal offence to preach on the streets and anywhere else without a licence or for loud voices to be heard coming out of christian gatherings. (muslims is allowed cz its a call for prayers).But christians left untamed can destabilize a city. They will hold crusades at every street corner and try to outdo each other with shouting till their voices become hoarse.Its like the louder you are the more famous you become. JC wasnt that crazy.
'noise pollution' is an offence. Make noise at the right place and time. cz God is a God of ORDER

downcasted:
now this is depressing

was it wrong i ever loved this girl?

i never should have committed myself into this

No you still haven't felt depression.You sound too young but these are the steps of love.Things like these happen for a reason cz we become wiser.
Look at the 5 years as a learning school.Some people come into our lives for a season.And we have the grace to bear them.
Once the season is over the grace goes with it as well.You cannot force it to work no matter what.
And if you do you will live to regret  forever cz that kind of girl could make you kill urself seeing you have given her your all. It's sad but move on.
Everybody does and those who refuse end up committing suicide or do drugs.
And who knows what the next girl could do? probably worse but hey you will be stronger and wiser to deal with it.
Thank God for what he spares us from.We are just too blind to see.

downcasted:
[color=#770077 I just want you to come out point blank and fair with me,
You want a verbal confession from her? girls have several ways of communicating and one of them is called ACTIONS!

after she went through this thread today, she was quick to say that i didnt address the issue of we having issues during my last 1year here in europe and that's the reason why she started drifting (while still maintaining that she didnt have intercourse with the guy or any other dude)
I would understand that.she was lonely and insecure but this sleeping in the dudes place,accepting cash from him,the bash,the arrests,the family'att. Now she wants a bb and more cash from you? Am sure if you dont provide that she will get it from the guy.Girls have this cunning and manipulating way of getting items. theres just too much happening here.

she claims shes been there only once to the dudes place and that was the day i left nigeria to inform him that her introduction by decenmber this year and refused to state her reasons for choosing to tell him - ok

she claims she didnt even go into his house as his friend and his girlfriend were in the house[b] but im still not concerned bout that, i know im foolishly in <3 with this lady here and shes been cheating on me all these while cos the signs are there - i just ____[/b]

i dont know what to say again [/color] I also dont know what more to add. But if I were u I would know what to do. you just refuse to get ur heart broken by clinging on to something that is almost gone. If her family,your family and ur friends suspect this girl and they are the ones living close to her,why are you fooling yourself?

you dont want to be told the writing is on the wall. Ok the drawing is on the wall.Wish I could help u see.

Am sorry poster but you sound soo weak. Wait for the other guy call and ul hear what the girl wants u to hear.Then what?
you know what, at the end of the day this is not a nl problem but urs. Its your future life with ur future wife.
This is what I call blind love.You choose to close your eyes and prefer to deal with surface issues.
good luck.

Am not angry at the girl but the op.
You lack the courage to face and hear the truth so you prefer to hold on to a decaying or dead relationship.
Shes sleeping with another guy and she demands bb and money by dec? is that the kind of girl you want for a wife?
Your family and friends alike are warning you but you still hold on to false hope till u hear it from her?
Haven't u ever heard 'actions speak louder than words' and that communication takes different forms? shes TALKING TELLING YOU SHES IN LOVE WITH SMBODY ELSE!
What else are you waiting to hear? a confession? wait for that in the courts of law cz she wont.
How many ladies are in this world? take a walk. That is what life is about. When you see people in love know they also had their hearts broken at one time but they moved on.
It's your turm now. Make a move so that you can build ur life. Hers is already on course fyi. yeah it sucks and one chuck of a guy feels the same too but healing wont start till u accept its gone and cross the bridge. Get rid of that wall uv put around urself and meet other people.
People lose more op.This is NOTHING!

Do you read other people's threads and see the value and manner of posting?
Foreign section, but you dont represent a country only your spamming self.
check some kenyan forums and gt into serious debates not rumours.

Now before I become like you am not posting more on this thread.

I am doing this deliberately so that u read before u post and spam