Lol. Its the kind of society we find ourselves. Its not your money. If he gives, take it. If he doesn't, well. What if the money was budgeted for something else? What if its a standard God raised against you losing a far larger amount in the future? We always live in the immediate.
am I the only one that saw that Egypt only sent lower level ministers to the meet? Lol. The Red sea hasn't dried up. Till tomorrow, they will live to remember.
That said, Israel is untouchable. Since the days of Esther, they received authority to defend themselves. Bibi always goes around with his scrolls. That land is theirs. People can only talk....
Amarabae: Am I the only one who don't see anything wrong with her dressing? Prove me wrong with facts if you disagree. That must must be either catholic or all these Methodist,Anglican. Dogmatic in their Othordox way.
My sister, there is nothing wrong with your attire.
Mrsoundoro: Banky W who is today celebrating his 37th birthday got a lovely penned down birthday message from her beloved wife Adesua Etomi in whom we are all pleased with.
Checkout this lovely birthday message, so lovely and touching.
Maxwave: 28 May 2016. Our paths crossed. Not in some pristine location with soft music providing the perfect ambiance or in some hallowed setting, lifting up holy hands. Fellowshipping? Nah! We met on the feisty street of Facebook, the `walless´city of Zukerville, where love flirts constantly with war. Yeah! It was a weekend, meaning no work. Like David, from the walls of my page, I took a stroll on the busy streets of Zukerville, trying to catch up on all the avoidable dramas I have missed when a birthday picture caught my attention. Babe! She´s not your typical social media slay queen and the poses were nothing out of the ordinary but …in her eyes, my raging Arian soul finds an unusual calm. Blissful innocence! When did we become friends? I quizzed myself while scanning through her wall and updates as I always do when accepting a friend request or when someone catches my fancy. Mehn, she isn´t just beautiful and intelligent, she´s also a Jesus lover! AMEN!!! I remembered the scripture, which says: ´Every good and perfect gift comes from God…´ I slid into her inbox. Yes Lord! Not every time, you hear an audible voice urging you to make the move for it! I broke the ice with a nice birthday message. Two minutes later, she responded. I felt like I won the lottery. We chatted for the rest of the day and the days to come. It was pure bliss! After a couple of days, it was hard to go by without chatting with each other. Hol up!!! I lied. She showed me pepper on the first day oooo! Not the second day, first day of chatting! She finished me!!! You know Lawyers naaa? Omo, I was on the hot seat oooo with no lifeline! Chai! Dami made fun of me. Called me ´Deeper Life Youth Pastor ´and said my surname means ´Bicycle´. Lmao! (See screenshots below) Now who is laughing last? Hehehehehe! We took to each other like fish to water. I am very accommodating and playful and she has this child-like curiosity and innocence that sometimes comes off as being blunt. I fell in love with her sincerity and days into our friendship, I knew forever has a hand in this. However, things weren´t always this rosy and beautiful. We had moments when we felt like giving up. In fact, some 6 months ago, we broke up! We came to the end of ourselves and like a pack of cards, we fell … Apart. But in that moment, when we have come to the end of ourselves, we turned it all to God. Like a seed, fallen to the ground and buried, we saw our flaws in our unclothedness. And in the secret, we worked very hard at our flaws, keeping communication lines open. The change came but not as rapid as we anticipated but when it finally did, we were grateful for the experience because it made us stronger. And on the 7th of April, 2018, we will be saying our vows to each other. True, love can find us in strange places but lasting relationships require the work. Dee, you are worth the work! And I will gladly put in the work over and over again. Thank you for not giving up on us and for putting up with my naughtiness. Finally, thank you Facebook for the platform and the opportunity to connect. Oya, lemme slide into her inbox again. Lol! Pix by Jossy #DeeSquare2018
forreelinc: Ok so they aren't necessarily ugly, they may even be good looking but maaaaaan the way their beauty is over exaggerated ehn you begin to doubt your own eyes people like:
11. Denzel Washington
I watched one of them biographies on this dude some time ago and they said that there was this science experiment or whatever which said that denzel Washington is the definition of beauty and then I decided to see why they say so, I have seen denzel with a beard,with a moustache, with hair,without hair, young, old and what I see is a 6/10, 7 at best. 10. Brad Pitt
This one is even worse because I hardly find him good looking to begin with. I was surprised when they said he got his first gig on thelma and Louise because according to gena davis, he was so hot he distracted her and I'm like Wonder what she would do if she saw one of the Hemsworth brothers or even tom hiddleson cause to be honest I think they look a lot better than brad pitt 9. Halle Berry
This one na female denzel Washington when it comes to HYPE Jesus I mean she is not bad looking but when put in a line up with gals like Tessa Thompson or Meagan good or tia hardrick Halle berry is barely noticed, yet they blow her beauty out of proportion and even go as far as calling her a sex symbol I mean how do they rate that these days
8. Genevieve Nnaji
In Nigeria where we have Lilian esoro, Juliet Ibrahim, DJ cuppy, Rita Dominic and Chika Ike making us walk around with stiff pants, they still rate Genevieve as one of Nollywood's finest? Even the gal sef don dey believe the lie she go come dey thirst trap for instagram hehehe I don die
7. Adesua etomi
Ah yes the very definition of hype from her overhyped wedding party movie to her overhyped wedding to banky w to her overhyped beauty no surprise there tho I mean we gotta complete the hype trifecta right I mean she was so confident she even dangled her dry yansh at us on social media thinking it will break the internet or something you owe me the lunch I barfed when I saw that pic adesua. 6. Angelina jolie
Alright now we are getting somewhere. I be dey pity angelina say how she take dey cope with e ugly face and fallen breast na so icheck sexiest women in Hollywood I see Angelina name abeg which part of her body fine? Can someone help me out please? Hehehe
5. Kirsten dunst
Can you remember the Spiderman franchise from 2001-2007? Remember how you always felt depressed watching them because of the depressing storyline and how hard peter had it in life and.........c'mon finish it......that's right the unattractive leads especially Kirsten dunst I mean lawd I'm still mad at fox for casting her as mj did she Bleep someone to get into Hollywood or something? Just feels like a joke. 4. Reese Witherspoon
Do you watch E!? Have you heard what they say about Reese Witherspoon? Sexy, beautiful,dashing,glamorous,elegant. Reese Witherspoon? I bet y'all are rolling on the floor and laffing already I mean whenever I'm feeling down, I just remember that Reese Witherspoon is ugly as f*ck and doesn't know it and I don't feel so bad anymore that's how far from beautiful Reese Witherspoon is. 3. Toolz oniru
Loool I remember when I was at beat fm a really really long time ago and I noticed this really fat lady with an over exaggerated british accent and the guy I was with said she was one oap and I shrugged like meh all oaps are ugly only for me to talk am one day where my friends dey and I chop konk for head they were like toolz oniru is sexy and cute and I was like since when? Feel bad about her miscarriage tho I hope she gets better and all. 2. Cameron diaz
It is no news that latinas are the sexiest race on earth, altho anomalies like Cameron Diaz make you wanna change your opinion. I mean eledumare she looks like a truck ran over her fucking face what da hell Lol with the cheek bones and the eyes man this b!tch needs to put a bag over head or just do the sighted world a favour and stay indoors like Sandra bullock
1. Daniel Craig
My favourite bond actor but the ugliest among them all the same. When they selected him as bond I thot they wanted this rugged gritty type anti hero like 007 assassin only to hear say he is fine, eh? He doesn't even qualify as ruggedly handsome even with the muscle e carry come the franchise person go still dey cringe when they see am hehehe
I beg you with everything you hold sacred, remove my man Denzel from that list. He has everything it takes to be a complete bloke- height, looks, brains, carriage, MONEY, character, education, charisma, exposure, fame, morals(I'm not sure I have seen his bare body in any movie before), appeal, grit, fighting skill, shrewdity, fearlessness, name it. Dont forget he was born in 1954.
RuthDaniels: Lol . She doesn't care but cares enough to write this epistles and shower herself with some praises... Someone must have pinched her where it or they presumed will hurt . Say no more.
I love your spirit woman, when life gives you lemons you make lemonade , To dwell on positive aspects of life is the route to a sane mind in a chaos world. I love that.
Not a fan of Single parenthood though.
Am I the only one who deciphers the veiled chill-lessness of this post? Lol. come and learn sympathy from me. You aren't nice. I can see it lol
peacettw: I have this habit of immersing myself in a character to better understand their behaviour... In this case, your boss.
Your boss went above and beyond to provide an abode for you in her compound with free transportation, electricity, security and who knows what else you haven't said yet. Of course she will feel like she is entitled to use you as she sees fit. After all, YOU ARE AVAILABLE and living above your means.....
Any opposition on your part will look like you are ungrateful. If I were you, I will make myself indispensable first before attempting anything but a lot will have to change along the line.
Be a little bit more formal when dealing with her and the kids. The kids should see you as their big uncle and not a playmate.
Learn to also call in little favours on your own terms as you take on more responsibility. In the same vein, also know when to reject favours so as not to create an impression that you are totally dependent on her.
On the days you can't bear the invasion of your privacy, take the weekend off on a pretend visit to see a sick relative.
Never complain to anyone cos people are funny and might go behind your back to report to your boss.
Have an elderly person visit you once in a while. Introduce such persons to your boss respectfully. This way, she will realise that you are an adult with a life.(never allow her to entertain your guest in her home).
Always assume a dignified front and never break rank.
If at the end of the day, it is simply not in your character to suck up to people to get ahead in life, then please quit when a better alternative comes by.
modath: When people throw this matter up for debate,we quickly forget about cultural & psychological differences.....People should separate emotions from this & see it for what it is, Not all those companies have been mismanaged, the business model is alien to the Nigerian mentality..
The fact of the matter is that majority still prefer to "SEE" what they are buying before they part with cash..
How many people shop online? Shops , supermarkets , roadside sellers dot everywhere....
And most important of all, online shopping is a bit more costly & room for haggling/bargaining isn't there.....
They will continue to try but I know for sure I'd rather take a trip to computer village to pick a phone than buy online when I'm not sure I'd get what I ordered & return won't be a nightmare in case it goes south...
I agree with you. Plus, some level of dishonesty don enter the thing. I hear of people who order something and get something abysmally inferior from most of these platforms.
dainformant: The Pere of Kabowei Kingdom, Barrister Shadrach Erebulu, Aduo lll, who is said to be the youngest king in the entire Ijaw nation - has revealed he doesn't allow women to wear trousers, or speak any other language except Ijaw in his palace.
The young graduate of Delta State University (DELSU), Abraka - was presented with a staff of office on Monday, Oct 23, 2017 during his official installation of as pere of kabowei kingdom at the pere's palace in the vicinity of Patani, Delta state.
In an interview with Gbaramatuvoicenews, the monarch spoke about his kingdom, which spreads across two states and his plans for his people, especially in the area of cultural revival.
Excerpts;
How has it been since you ascended the throne?
It will be six months February 16. I’m still quite new on the throne. I must say that initially, it was not so easy, but it is getting better by the day.
What were you into before you ascend the throne?
I was a practising lawyer with a law firm in Warri. By the side, I was the Supervisory Councilor for Works in Patani Local Government Council.
Were you compelled to join the race or was it out of your freewill?
I think God destined it this way and I only followed the way God planned it and worked it out. I wouldn’t say I was compelled but I just flowed as it was unfolding and it worked out fine.
Is the Kabowei kingdom stool hereditary or by appointment?
It is hereditary. It passes from father to son. My late father was the last Pere of Kabowei Kingdom and he passed on, on February, 18 2016. Then, I came after him.
It is said that you also have some elder brothers, so how come you were picked instead of them?
The process moves from father to son, starting from the first son and there are qualifications that are also stated traditionally and even by government’s gazette to guide the kingmakers. I think that was how it was done. I happen to be the sixth surviving son, but I think flowing from the qualifications, the kingmakers found me as the most suitable person for the office.
Can you let us know some of your achievements since you became the Pere?
Before my emergence, I understood the fact that our cultures and traditions are fast fading away. Even our youths find it hard to understand and speak our language. Due to modernisation, everybody now feels that going back to traditional language makes one a lesser person. That was eating fast into our way of life, so my major drive was that as a young traditional ruler, I should be able to reverse these things.
I think my function is not political. It is to keep and preserve the traditions of our people. I had to bring some strict rules. Before now, people came into the palace and they wanted to speak English language while addressing the king. I made it a point for anybody coming into the palace, except you are not from Kabowei kingdom, not to speak the English language, but our language. If you are not fluent in it, mix it, but endeavour to see that you can speak it.
I made it a taboo for any woman to walk into the palace wearing trousers. We see how girls wear all manner of things and walk down the street; that is not our way of life. So even within the town, I had to call the chairmen of the communities to educate their young people to see that they try as much as possible to go back to our tradition. I also set up a committee to see how we can come up with our own cultural heritage, that is how the Kabowei man used to be. Because Kabowei or the Kabo man as he is popularly called, is a unique Ijaw person. We are unique in all we do because our own tongue is different from every other Ijaw man.
If a Kabowei man speaks here, it is different from the way someone from Bomadi or Sagbama would speak. So if we can go back to the way we speak our language, it will help our culture, it will help our uniqueness, because once you lose your culture, you have lost your identity. I try to see how we can bring that back...
What are some of the things you miss as a king, considering the fact that you are young?
Will I say I really miss doing those things? Before I ascended the throne, I just got to the stage in my life where I became a responsible man. I got married in the same year I ascended the throne. As at the point of my getting married, I believe I had had enough of everything I wanted to do as a young man, and it was time for me to be responsible and be focused. If there is anything I miss doing, it is going to court as a lawyer because that is one of the things I cannot do anymore too.
Can you just tell us the reaction of your wife, what did she tell you?
It came via a text message from one of my elder brothers. When I saw the message and showed it to my wife, she didn’t understand what it was and asked, ‘what is this one that Eli congratulating you for?’ And I said that I was selected as the king.She said, ‘King what? You aren’t going to stay in Patani, are you?’ And I said when we get to that bridge, we will cross it. I think her major concern was coming to stay here, because she had only come twice for my dad’s burial and when I brought her to officially introduce her to my mum. That was the only challenge.
These guys are living well, rich, eat good food and lots of exercise.
If you check those people that are into entertainment, sports, youll notice they have the money and time to keep fit or take care of themselves.
They are doing what they love doing, and is bringing cash to them.
But most people are working just to survive, with lots on their mind and shoulder, looking frustrated and depressed when the income is not enough to meet 50% of the need.
The daily stress, hustling in the sun, spending hours in the traffic in the hot sun everyday , sitting in an office for 10hrs daily, fear of a boss and his query, months of unpaid salaries, paying the kids school fees, house rent, nepa bill, DSTV, fuelling the generator, queuing for fuel, loans, fear of police, highway officers and street guys will extort you, government, people from the village
Tessyama1: Media personality, Toke Makinwa rarely steps out without makeup, so this is a big deal! The media personality shared these makeup free photos as she stepped out today.
She captioned it; "Running the streets bare faced #yellowanddaises #Spaday #Beatless happy Saturday � �"
Kitanayo: I will start from the beginning so that i will be better understood, soo sorry if it is too long
I and my husband met in one of our ICAN classes so we hit it off immediately, became friends, dated then got married. It was blissful, we had our kids, to me life was perfect till one day he changed.
He started picking fights on irrelevant things, wouldnt talk to me for days, i thought it was just a phase until one day he didnt come back home, after so much calls to family members, friends collegues at work, we found out he left the country with another woman, this was 4 years ago, we later found out he paid for the house rent for two years and he vowed never to have anything to do with me and my kids anymore.
Even after pleadings from family members he still refused so i moved on, believing that one day he would come back to me because i believe his actions was not normal, he asked for divorce, i refused cos my bible is against it (luke 16:18). Since then God has been soo good to me, i've moved into my own home(a working mom) and God has been taking care of my kids for me.
Now 2 years ago, i met this lady who was serving(nysc), i see her as my younger sister so we talk alot, so she knows all about me, she helps me at home, with my kids and all.
One day we were talking about sex generally, so she said she can satisfy my urge, i was shocked, i dont want to go into details but that was how it started.
Mind you i do not insert anything into my "VJ", what she does is the normal licking and sucking till i "CUM" she's in a serious relationship with a man so i do not do same act to her and she doesnt ask for anything in return(from a wealthy home).I dont see myself as a lesbian since i dont indulge in it moreso i still love my husband.
I agreed to it because it's safer than having sex and contacting std in the process, i am human, i have needs and i dont want to commit adultery cos i'm still married and i believe my husband would come back to me, i feel no guilt whatsoever for this act.
Reason why i brought this here is to know your views about this act, i want to have diff. opinions from matured minds so no insults please, thank you.
Mods please help take this to FP
the only approved method of relieving sexual tension for a woman is from HER HUSBAND. Thank God you are a Christian. lesbianism is not just a craving, its a live-in demon. it gets addictive as time goes on. i wont be suprised if you have started enjoying it, especially with the obvious "advantages'. be guided. its not right. i sympathize with your plight anyways. its not really easy in your situation. God has not created anything or anyone He cant control. Your husband will come back to you in Jesus Christ name.
ceometromedia: This Nigerian man says going the route of Invitro Fertilization is sinful. He said for IVF to be conducted, a couple must commit grave sins such as masturbation and abortion. Continue to read his argument below
The guy has a point. Its just the sentimental part of looking for a child for years and the pressure that waters down the element of truth of this post. But very little.
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Hozier: Lies, myths and make-up stories spread faster than wildfire.
People would believe anything as long as there is a supernatural twist to it.
Missing dick myth Receieve call and vomit blood myth, Cure Ebola with salt myth Steal destiny with yahoo+ myth India vs Nigeria 99 1myth All these have something in common - The supernatural (Superstition)
You claim to be using girls destiny for yahoo+ yet you are not even among the top ten richest people is your local government.
Your basis of comparison doesn't jell. Besides, there is no known way of knowing that fact you stated there, unless the person is a vocal, proud and vain person, which may not be the case. Again, the devil is wicked and humans desperate. That doesn't make it untrue. There are even people who despite the sacrifices end up with nothing. The devil just keeps them on a wild goose chase. It happens. No good thing can come from evil.
bchi: Please nlander I need you guys help. I'm dating a catholic right now n am about to marry him, I'm scared of becoming a catholic member cos of my background ( the church am worshiping with), we believe in gift of the holy spirit and his presence in us. I dislike their method of worship and their believe. I don't know, how i will cope with him cos of his church... ... ... please mature advice.
I appreciate your stance, but these things are not as easy as it seems. Remember, its not the body that's at stake here, its someone' s soul, someone's eternity. Its not a joke.
Love will end here. Husband and wife matter will fizzle out and become completely inconsequential when eternity sets in. What gives one a placing would be how well or badly life was lived here.
Only one thing should inform your decision here:the Word of God. Remember, as a woman, your faith and fate rests entirely in your husbands hands, even according to the Word. Bible clearly states that you should worship him.
You are not greater or more spiritual than the church you worship in. It becomes worse when such churches practice doctrines and beliefs which oppose the Word.
My advice is this: sit down and consider carefully WITH YOUR BIBLE IN YOUR HANDS the doctrines and practices of your would-be faith. If you are satisfied, then go ahead. Otherwise, its a situation where by a million years is like a drop of water in the ocean we are referring to here. Get an assurance of peace and rest there.
Henitan24: Today, hypocrisy is legal but truth is an offence.
The world of showbusiness and entertainment is unarguably sex-driven. No matter your country, race or social profile, the moment you are about the music, movie and fashion industries, you are bombarded with sex, whether you like it or not. It may be subtle or subliminal and sometimes obvious, but it (sex) is ever present.
Sex is crucial to marketing in the entertainment industry and the players know this. It's like an unwritten industry rule. So, it's either you're ready to play or you're out.
This explains why movie producers and directors proposition young and ambitious aspiring actresses for sex in exchange for big roles. And some aspiring actresses too seduce them for a shot at fame. The sexier you are as a lady, the better your chances. It's an industry that prioritizes good looks and sex appeal for both men and (especially) women. The most sought after actresses are often sex symbols.
In that industry, it's all about crossing the redlines.
For instance, Omotola is an A-List actress in Nollywood, and married with kids. But I was really shocked at some of her roles in over-the-top erotic scenes in the movie 'Alter Ego'. A few of those scenes could make a Shari'a fundamentalist strap himself with a bomb (lol). This is not to take away from Omotola's morals as a wife, but rather to show that in entertainment the redlines are crossed all the time.
The industry usually has a huge number of desperate young women seeking fame or cheap popularity, and also many entitled randy men. So, when Ms. Desperate meets Mr. Randy in private, scandals are born in public. But then only one party faces the gallows many years after the fact.
Harvey Weinstein is the latest sex scandal in Hollywood. This randy and entitled fella is currently in the eye of the storm as not fewer than 27 women (most of whom are actresses) have accused the Hollywood heavyweight of sexual assaults, rape etc.
One of them is the famous A-List Angelina Jolie who suddenly found her voice and guts after two decades. She accused Weinstein of sexual assault which he allegedly committed in the late 90s. Now she is a victim 20 years after the fact.
Remember the 59 women who alleged sexual offences by Bill Cosby 40, 30 and 25 years after the fact?
Do I believe Weinstein sexually assaulted some of these women? Absolutely.
Do I believe these women were complicit in the act or that there was tacit consent? I absolutely do.
My reason is simple.
Most of the women in Hollywood know that sex is the rule rather than the exception. It's a given. Like I stated earlier, it's an unwritten industry rule of which everyone is aware. If you don't ask (for sex), it would be asked of you, sometimes in uncivilized and uncouth ways.
So, for instance, a movie director grabs the breasts of an actress either in private or on location, and 20 years after she gets her movie role she becomes a victim. And then womenfolk start calling her 'brave' for voicing it 20-30 years after!
That's not bravery. That's hypocrisy. Bravery would be to report the assault ASAP!! And damn the consequences. But no, that would have jeopardized her almighty rise to fame. Hence, they CHOOSE to remain silent.
The point here is that they had a CHOICE and they made it. How then can they truly be victims?
Weinstein (just like Cosby) will not be the last sex scandal in Hollywood. Sex is the trademark of showbusiness. There are many directors, producers, actors and actresses who are currently sexually assaulting one another. Sadly, we won't hear about them until 30-40 years from now. And then some folks would call the 'victims' brave for speaking out. Brave for keeping their mouths shut for decades.
Maybe, just maybe, they kept their peace because they knew the rule and they played the game. In which case they were players with benefits, not victims.
I'm sure this inconvenient truth will bother a lot of folks. Welcome to the 21st Century.
Missali: One of the qualities men look out out for in a woman is the ability for her to stay true by him during trying times and a woman who cannot do that is termed a non wife material and slay Queen at best and at worst, a gold digger. It is believed that when a woman supports her man and he comes to, in turn he will respect her and share responsibilities as he should but often times, this is not the case.
Many at times we have heard experiences from family, friends, colleagues or even gone through it. Here's mine: I had this boyfriend that was struggling in every sense of the word. We kept on despite his financial shortcomings and I would travel a long distance to see him knowing fully well that the trip expenses and all that came with it were on me. I did not hesitate to oblige favours that I could give and ensured I went out with him during his jobs just to give that moral support.
Things seemed to be going on well until the day I was sitting with some friends and one of them asked how I was enjoying with my boyfriend. I responded with a light laugh and he asked "now that your guy has made it, what is the way forward?"
Me: Made it how? Guy: Your guy hit over one million in that online betting promo. Me: Yes yes, it's not easy... Such an unexpected favour at a time like this.
I pretended to be aware and happy but I wasn't myself till the end of the day. Everybody knew the good news except me. One week, two weeks, one month passed and I got no call from my estranged boyfriend to even tell me what had happened. I refused to call too.
I heard news about how he had become the man about town, declaring free drinks for people he met at our street bars, dashing money to those who came to celebrate with him etc. Whenever someone who knew us sighted me they asked, "are you not M's girlfriend?" and I mumbled any answer that came to mind. Months later I got a call from him begging to see Me. After many refusals, I decided we meet. He went on his knees apologising, saying he knew I was aware of all that had happened but was too ashamed to contact me. He went on about how he rented an apartment for one girl, was giving out money with reckless abandon, purchased an expensive mobile phone which he ended up selling at an abysmally low price (due to hardship) and how he was popping bottles at bars et al.
The length and breadth of the story was that the money was all gone. The business idea we had brainstormed he made no use of the money to invest. All his friends and girlfriends had left him for good and he felt lonely, he remembered the one who stood by him sincerely.
At the moment he had not a penny, with an empty stomach and looking for a way to get a small job. I could tell he was miserable from his looks alone. If only he had the right company who would have advised him at such a critical time, he'd never have had to go hungry again. I took him to a restaurant and we had a nice meal. He called me a good girl, a loving friend, a confidant blah blah blah.
Ladies, they will come at you with twisted words tell you they want a good woman, a patient woman, a supportive woman etc. Some will even tell you that they can never respect a woman who does not struggle with them. Do not fall for it. Most times, what they want is someone to take their excesses while they move on to cast their net elsewhere. For tens of stories about men who stick by their women when the going got smooth, there are hundreds of untold stories about men who looked the other way.
Playing the supportive role is the case of it may work and it may not. It is not stated anywhere that after standing by him and he leaves for another woman, he will be mobbed. You will simply be remembered as 'the one who once was', that's all.
It is a case of driving into a place with the words "cars parked at owner's risk." Nobody will tell you not to park your car but you hold yourself liable should anything happen to it. Hence, stand by your man at owner's risk.
Some may say it's about the man, but I say its about what he does.
Your boyfriend is a betnaija addict and you let him?
Your boyfriend is an idolater and you didn't talk him out of it?
Come easy, go easy.
Prov 30:11Proverbs 13:11 (KJV) Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished: but he that gathereth by labour shall increase.
[quote author=Safiaaa post=63662069]This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.
Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.
You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.
On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.
So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.
Dassal.
You need to understand something.
What strokes a man's ego is not just that he has a lady he can provide for. Its because he can hinge on her financial dependence to call the shots: I am being brutally honest. No man worth his salt would want anything less. Every man wants someone who would do his bidding at some level.
As such, the issue is not that ladies who are financially independent are a scare; it's the haughtiness and nonchalance that goes with it that's the real problem. I have also seen success and humility cold rolled into one in some ladies; matter of fact it's the new definition of wisdom as thangs are now.
I, for one care less about how much a woman earns; I am looking for subservience and humility. She earns a million, she earns a billion, its all my money. Doesn't stop me catering for her normally.
sainttobs: Since Xiaomi popularized smartphones with the screen without frames, the truth is that the concept of the phone with the screen has become quite popular. So, today in this article I will present an amazing smartphone, which is known as Samsung Galaxy Z, the next flagship of the South Korean giant Samsung.
Samsung Galaxy Z – Introduction To The Upcoming Flagship
Since Xiaomi popularized smartphones with the screen without frames, the truth is that the concept of the phone with the screen without frames is no such thing. Although the aspect ratio of the screen has drastically reduced the display frame, there is no phone on the market that does not have bezels. The following video tries to show us what would be a hypothetical Samsung Galaxy Z designed with a screen that fully occupies 100% of the front.
Currently, only a few models have a screen ratio of 90% compared to the front of the equipment. However, the latest advances suggest that in the near future we will finally be able to see the first all-screen smartphones. Smartphones whose frontal is dominated from top to bottom by a display without frames, without real bezels. This is how they imagine a hypothetical Samsung Galaxy Z and this video shows us an advance of its conceptual design.
Conceptual video of the Samsung Galaxy Z
While Samsung already has the Samsung Z, a family of devices that debuted a few years ago with the novelty of incorporating Tizen as a version of its operating system, now have begun to appear rumours that talk about a new line of smartphones from Samsung that would take borrowed this denomination.
The truth is that the first rumours have appeared under the Samsung Galaxy Z label, which denotes that it would be a Samsung mobile with Android. However, the most important of this supposed Samsung Galaxy Z would come by the design part, specifically the design of the screen.
The concept Infinity Display born under the shadow of Samsung Galaxy S8 would fall short if we contrast it with the conceptual video of Samsung Galaxy Z. The same, as you can see, a Samsung Galaxy whose front is all screen. There is no space for frames, not even the minimum bezels that we see today in the Galaxy S8 and Galaxy Note 8.
A renewal of the Galaxy S8
The Samsung Galaxy Z would give way to a new generation of smartphones that really has been on the lips of all of us for a long time, although with little hope of materializing. Design concepts of science fiction.
However, patents and technological advances in the hands of Samsung could soon lead to designs of smartphones as shown in the conceptual video of the imagined Samsung Galaxy Z.
Throughout the more than two minutes of the video, you can see how the Samsung Galaxy Z really is nothing more than a remodelling of the current Samsung Galaxy S8, with the same curved lines and materials, but with a screen boxed in the metal case, without frames completely.
Characteristics
As a guide, the video also reveals some supposed characteristics of this Samsung Galaxy Z, which in turn have the extreme reduction of screen frames until their extinction. Among these would be a 5.9-inch Super AMOLED screen, with Gorilla Glass 6 glass layer, water resistance, double front camera hidden under the upper frame of the case, as well as a double rear camera.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSvZhtWRXIo Inside it would beat the new and powerful Qualcomm Snapdragon 845 processor, accompanied by up to 6 GB of RAM and 128 GB storage system. Finally, Android 8.0 Oreo to manage a 3700 mAh battery with the fast charging system.
Undoubtedly, a design that we may not take too long to see in the market of high-end smartphones and that will encourage the establishment of screens of large proportions without interfering too much in the overall volume of the smartphone, the main stumbling block found before users in the phablet.
So, what do you think about this? Simply share all your views and thoughts on the samsung galaxy Z in the comment section below.
HeWrites: A Nigerian lady on Facebook, Ifeoma Vivian Emeka, has taken to the platform to apprise ladies of her discovery of how their crazed hair extensions – weavons, wigs, human hair and all – are demonic and can take them to hell.
Some months ago, a pastor too had admonished his members of the same thing as he told them they were wearing “snakes” on their heads and they shouldn’t partake in the usage of the extensions.
Vivian now, alongside a photo of her some of the wigs she set ablaze, has warned her fellow sisters to stop braiding their hairs or fixing them if it’s possible.
She wrote; "I JUST BURNT ALL MY WEAVONS,WIGS ..PLEASE IF YOU ARE A GIRL BURN YOUR WEAVONS AND WIGS IT IS DEMONIC AND CAN LEAD YOU TO HELL PLEASE DO IT NOW . EVERY WOMAN IF POSSIBLE STOP BRAIDING OR FIXING…
A Christian has no need for these things. they are heathenic. read Isaiah 3 to the end.
That's why God was always angry with the children of Israel. Always imbibing the ways of their idolatrous neighbours. At the feast of Baalpeor, over 20000 people died in one fell swoop. But if you feel it doesn't matter, continue.
There is a way a Christian sister appears. And its certainly not with these synthetic accessories. Its just funny that modernism creeped into the church and mingled heathenism with Christianity such that it doesn't seem to matter anymore.
That's why God was always angry with the children of Israel, they were always copying the idol nations and being influenced by their ways. At the feast of Baalpeor, at the invitation of the Moabites, over 20,000 people perished in one fell swoop. For those looking for Scripture, read the entire Isaiah 3. God hates these things with sore hatred. How can he love things dedicated to another god outside of Him?
For those who feel it doesnt matter, kindly continue. Makeup is an insult to God.