 Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by poik(m): 8:28am On Jan 31, 2017 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Student Bloggers And Blog Writers Needed: by poik(m): 4:09pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
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| Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by poik(m): 11:43am On Jan 27, 2017 |
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| Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by poik(m): 6:57am On Jan 26, 2017 |
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| Christianity Etc › Re: Will Women Pastors End Up In Hell? by poik(m): 1:19am On Jan 23, 2017 |
makydebbie:
This issue of women/female pastors is a very delicate one and I want to know something once and for all....
Now I know views may differ but we all know the Bible is our absolute "as Christians."
But again in this same Bible we can find some paradoxical situations/scenarios and please before you get me wrong, by "paradoxical" I specifically refer to:
"A claim that two apparently contradictory ideas are true" or.
"An unanswerable question or difficult puzzle, particularly one which leads to a deeper truth."
I don't deal with the self-contradictory angle of paradox here.... Just wanted to be clear on that.
Now sometimes ago, I visited this church and the pastor that day preached like someone who was spoiling for a fight.... Well maybe because he was talking about women or probably it is because he was just being passionate about his preaching..... Whatever it was, that's not the issue. 
The issue is what he preached about, "Women pastors and the place of women in the Kingdom of God especially in the church..."
The pastor said that any woman who is found behind the pulpit preaching as an ordained Pastor or preacher is in error and in total disobedience to God's Word and because God hates disobedience, these women will end up in hell.
Boyyy! He went on and on and even gave scriptures which I will drop here soon.
Now my mind started to wander to all the reputable women preachers I know.... From the Karthryn Kuhlmans of the past to the late Bimbo Odukoyas of the recent past and to the Arch-Bishop Margaret Idahosa, and even Pastor Paula White of the present.... Any for the future? (Time will tell)
Now, The Holy scriptures in the book of 1Corinthians chapter 14 vs 34 says, "Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak but they are to be submissive to, as the law also says."
Now we know it was the apostle Paul speaking here and he went on to add in verse 35 of same scripture, the following,
"And if they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is shameful for a woman to speak in the church."
In verses 36, 37 and 38, Apostle Paul said strong words which makes me ask.......
But why do we still have Highly anointed women ministers being used by God to wrought miracles globally and take the gospel to many?
Why isn't God limiting their power or influence if they are to keep shut in the church? Or am I missing something?
Okay here is another scripture about this issue:
I Timothy.2v 8-15 says a lot but I will pick the key verses which is verses 11 and 12....
"Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. And I do not permit a woman TO TEACH or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence"
This was Paul writing to Timothy who was pastor of the Ephesian church.
The scriptures above said that women are not allowed to teach.... But then what happened in the case of Kathryn Kuhlman?? She was mightily used of God and taught the bible in ways that influenced many Christians till this day........
Did God make an exception of her here? Or am I still missing something?
We also have seen that in the same Bible that harbors the two key scriptures above, there was a woman named Deborah.... **quite a coincidence is it?** 
Deborah was judge over all Israel... She was a prophetess and a Judge meaning she was spiritual leader and Also Ruler of Israel in those days. This could also mean that she taught the people God's ways and we know in the new testament that a woman is not to teach or have authority over the man.
Why was Deborah's case different? Even Queen Esther is another example... She was kinda a leader figure to her fellow Jews in her days with Mordecai as her guardian and mentor.
She (Esther) played her role well. So well in fact that Hamann, Israel's enemy was destroyed and Israel saved from annihilation.
The stories of Deborah and Esther can be found in the books of Judges chapters 4 and 5 And Esther chapters 1 to 10.
So back to this day..... I have a question that need an answer or answers.....
In the light of everything said here and said in the Bible and seen in the Bible and in the light of the fact that we have reputable and influential Women ministers who are doing great things or who seem to be doing great things in the world today... A preacher once said, if its a Bible question, it has a Bible answer. To begin with, and to answer your question point blank, a woman has absolutely NO business behind the pulpit preaching to men. First, the position of pastor, teacher, evangelist, prophet, and apostle ie the ascension gifts of Ephesians 4.11 is the new testament equivalent of the priests of the Levitical days. there were NEVER women holding that office. Secondly, an express reason was given by apostle Paul for prohibiting a woman from teaching the Word: she was in the transgression, not the man ie referring to Eve. 1 Timothy 2.9-11 The Deborah and Esther people are talking about were judges, Esther was not even a leader even though she played a pivotal role in saving her people. We are talking about priestly offices here, bringing Gods mind to people directly from the throne of grace by inspiration. it is NEVER a woman's place. Deborah even as a judge did not lead Israel to war. Remember, at that time Israel had gone apostate worshipping idols and God did that to provoke them to jealousy. Read Isaiah 3. Again, about Apostle Paul. Under inspiration, he said, I am an apostle to the Gentiles and I magnify my office. That is not just the bragging rights of an overzealous, selfseeking preacher. it is a statement of gospel fact given under direct inspiration from the heavens. Remember that he was the replacement from God directly, for Judas who went to perdition. in Galatians 1.8 he said, if we, or an angel from heaven come to preach any other gospel other than that which which we have preached, let him be accursed. this is no mere fluke. This is exactly Gods mind. This is not an attempt to undermine the female gender, but there are certain pronouncements in the Scriptures that will not change until the Millenial reign of Christ in righteousness. the underlying curse Eve received was that because she listened to the serpent instead of her husband, the man WILL RULE OVER HER. She was not in a position to be equal to the man, but to be in perpetual subjection. check the various census figures in the Scriptures. Women were not included. God is meticulous and detailed in His dealings, through to the end. The fact that they may be doing great things is NOT Gods business. Remember the Bible account of the people who will be shut out of His Kingdom despite doing mighty things in His name? God is not sentimental. To the law and the testimony, if they speak not according to this Word, it is because there is no light in them- Isaiah 8.20 Another thing. the heaven we are going to has the apostles as its foundations, according to Revelation. This doctrine of women preaching is a core foundational doctrine of the apostles. as a matter of fact approaching there with any practice that has no apostolic backing in the Scriptures spells doom, if u ask me. |
| Romance › Re: This Couple Love Story & Pre-Wedding Photos Will Leave You Swooning by poik(m): 4:24pm On Dec 10, 2016 |
PapiNigga:
Layebi and Lekan’s love story will give you goosebumps!
Read below...
Layebi
Lekan & I met through a mutual friend. Our very first encounter was at Barcellos, I was out having lunch with my sister and her toaster at the time, Babatunde. Lekan happened to be dropping something off for Babatunde but decided to join our table. When I saw him for the first time I remember being pleasantly surprised as all of Babatunde’s friends I had been meeting were somewhat off (lol).
The next day, Lekan called me up and to my surprise, we got along quite well. He went straight to the point saying he liked me and I was his retirement plan (I was like really… who says that), but I had a boyfriend at the time so we remained friends. We didn’t see after that till about 4 months later, during this 4-month period we became really close and the best phone buddies, we would talk for hours and he would make me laugh, he always had a lot to say and just always cracked me up.
Having a boyfriend at the time didn’t seem to sway him rather he intensified all efforts to show me who was the better man and I saw that he was. He was, kind-hearted, selfless, funny and not to mention good looking, what more could a girl ask for. After some sort of drama in my current relationship, Lekan and I eventually started dating and I understood what it was to be treated like a princess, he treated me like his whole world and was always doting on me. Fast forward to today after 8 years of dating what I can say is that we’ve gone through our fair share of ups and downs like most couples but in all of this we have always found our way back to each other. I am happy and grateful to God for sending you my way because sometimes I wonder what I would do without you.
http://www.certifiednaija.com/2016/12/this-couple-love-story-pre-wedding.html?m=1 Only God will save us from these women. 'After some sort of drama in my current relationship, Lekan and I seventually started dating'. Why not if not. we all know who started the drama and why |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 3 Unemployed Graduates In One Family Get Federal Jobs Without Godfather by poik(m): 10:29am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Emeritusseun:
am so disappointed that u regard 'Npower' as a job or fed govt job!.....please be guided that it is a voluntary work.....and it's like internship!...it ends in 24months!....congrats on d police job...dats d real fed govt job.....Let ur bro inlaw make d real Change in d Police force! I tire o. 30k that its chances of being paid is slim sef |
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| Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Blasts Toke Makinwa Over Booklaunch Dress: 'it's Slutty & Improper by poik(m): 10:32am On Nov 28, 2016 |
Even you wey dey post this thing sef. You no get eye? Somebody will just defeat the entire aim of clothing, and you are asking if I agree or not. Hope u are not looking to toe her line. |
| Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend Has One Of These Jobs, She Might Be Cheating On You. by poik(m): 6:52pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Riwo11:
It sucks to get cheated on. Sometimes it’s inevitable, like if your girlfriend is a sociopath and you just didn’t know. But other times, there are warning signs you should look out for, like if there’s a random guy in your bed, or your girlfriend has a career that breeds cheaters, like investment banking. (just check out the results below.)
Here’s a comprehensive list of the top ten professions for cheaters:
1. Financial (Bankers, brokers, analysts)
2. Aviation (Pilots, flight attendants, flight pursers)
3. Healthcare (Doctors, nurses, nursing assistants)
4. Business (CEOs, managers, secretaries)
5. Sports (Athletes, instructors, representatives)
6. Arts (Musicians, models, actors, photographers)
7. Nightlife Industry (DJs, dancers, waiters)
8. Communication (Journalists, public relations, communicators)
9. Legal (Lawyers, secretaries, prosecutors, judges)
10. Other sectors (Don’t know what that entails, but ok)
http://www.maxim.com/news/jobs-cheaters-have-2016-10 which other profession come remain? u have finished everything |
| Literature › Re: Surviving Evil (thriller) by poik(m): 5:01pm On Nov 11, 2016 |
Leriebloom:
prologue
Someone was in her home, she could hear the careful steps, the picking of the locks. She had never been this scared before. She could taste fear on her tongue. Something bad was going to happen tonight, she could feel it as much as she could breathe . She was fear stricken, her toes curled in fear. It all went down to the fact she was scared, she grabbed her piĺlow tight.
"Please God, stop him from entering" she whispered trying to turn on her already dead phone. This was the worst time for her phone battery to be drained.
"Get out!" she screamed at the locked door, but the intruder ignored her totally. He stopped picking the locks and she thought she was safe, she thought no harm would come to her tonight,but she couldn't be more wrong.
The intruder kicked the door hard, and it opened on the second attempt which caused her to scream loud.
"Help!, someone please help me!" she screamed at the top of her voice.
"Shut up!" The intruder barked angrily heading for her. She tried escaping him, which was a dead attempt. He pulled her hair and slapped her hard.
"I said shut up!" he growled angrily. She noticed he was wearing a mask, she slapped him continously, trying to push him off her, but he held her by her hands and threw her back onto her bed which was already a scattered mess. She didnt give up, she kicked and pinched, and the intruder growned in pain.
He held her throat "I said shut the heck up" he said punching her face causing her to spit out blood. She used her last strength to pinch his hands off which failed badly. She targeted his face and was able to reach his eyes. She deeped her her fingers hard into his eye socket and he lost his balance. She grabbed the opportunity by running for the door, but she was not fast enough, he got to her and before she could open her mouth to scream, she felt a sharp pain in her back, a continous pain, the intruder was stabbing her continously. She had lost it, there was no strength in her anymore. The intruder had claimed his fourth victim.
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| Christianity Etc › Re: 6 Bad Habits Christians Have To Drop With Immediate Effect by poik(m): 10:49am On Nov 07, 2016 |
[quote author=ndcide post=50810716]All I see from the topic and the various posts are people who want to be Christians and still carry the world with them. They don't want reprove, They don't want to be judged, they want to accommodate sin. They don't want the depth of the move of God. They don't believe God reveals things to his children.
They want to be Christians, yet fornicate and tell you that it's impossible to keep the word of God. The want to be Christians, talk like 50 cent, dress like 50 cent, think like 50 cent.
They want to be Christians and don't want to be different.
They don't want to understand Luke 9:23, that whoever will follow christ must deny himself and take his cross.
They don't want to be hated by the world. They want the world to love them. They forget
Matthew 10:22 (KJV) And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved. And John 15:18 (KJV) If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.
They dilute the calling of Christ. forgetting that Galatians 5:13, says we shouldn't use liberty for an occasion to the flesh.
They also forget Titus 2:11-12 (KJV) For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men,
Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world;
IN ALL OUR ANALYSIS NEVER FORGET.
Matthew 7:13-14 (KJV) Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat:
Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.
MANY WILL GO THROUGH THE WIDE GATE.
If you Want eternal life with God, Narrow is the way and few will find it and go through it.
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You nailed it. Spot on. The fact that there's fakeness everywhere means in fact that it was copied from the original. And to these people bemoaning what Christians are just NOT, they will still face the music for their own lives, God will not pardon you, a sinner because the Christian didn't show good example to you. Everyone will still answer for himself or herself. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: 6 Bad Habits Christians Have To Drop With Immediate Effect by poik(m): 10:36am On Nov 07, 2016 |
Greatzeus:
The original writer of this post is an educated being.He/She didn't just pass through school, school passed through him/ her.
Intelligent and educated for the open minded. God bless you for this. No one goes to heaven for being educated. But by believing and obeying Gods word. Just saying. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: 6 Bad Habits Christians Have To Drop With Immediate Effect by poik(m): 10:20am On Nov 07, 2016 |
Adekanyeope:
Source: http://www.2000viewsng.com/2016/11/6-bad-habits-christians-have-to-drop.html Your post is okay, not surprising, and exactly what it is: an attempt at watering down the import of how and when the teachings of Christ should affect and shape the Christian, by vain and intellectual spectacles viewing the Christian life. You have some valid points actually, I will admit. One is either a Christian, or not. Forget claims. A christian hinges his belief squarely on the Scriptures, undiluted and raw as it is. And it will be foolhardy to infer that the Word of God, which is God, is not capable of covering every shade of wisdom. What form of exclusivity are you then referring to? The talk of ominous prophecies makes me laugh. When that kings aide doubted that food would be so cheap just the next day, the question is, did it happen, or not, exactly as it was said or not? When Noah predicted the deluge, did it happen, or not? When I also say that anyone who has relations in the Force should NEVER encourage them to go when the allied forces of the world team up against Israel, because they WONT come back, watch and see. Is God our classmate? The line between corrective love and being judgemental is a slim, fine one, if we want to be sincere. Else there should be no preaching....of course what we even have in churches today is motivational talk.. No sound repentance oriented gospel. John the baptist called people brood of vipers. I won't do that today, but the burden of preaching requires bluntness and crudity as the Scriptures calls it. I wont call homosexuality being gay. I won't call an armed robber a business mogul. What else should I use my social media account for, if not to tell friends about the pure love of Christ that prompted Him to atone for our sins, and the consequences of rejecting it? What else, exactly? When according to Ecclesiastes our primary duty here is to keep Gods commandments? I agree that presentation matters in everything, but a lot of people are building fortresses with blocks of such trivialities to avoid facing the realities of their spiritual dispositions. Mine. |
| Celebrities › Re: Ogbuji Grace Amarachi Lesbian Video: Ominiaho Threatens To Leak Her Sextape by poik(m): 6:48pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Chicent:
Ok she agreed she did nasty things..... But she has moved on.
They will just be using baba God's name as defence after doing wrong.
Issorait...... NEXT VICTIM!!! Nor mind am. People confuse grace for freedom. Its just sad. |
| Literature › Re: CALL FOR ENTRIES: 2017 Commonwealth Short Prize by poik(m): 12:24pm On Oct 26, 2016 |
MissingBudget:
Sent. Plus other shortlisted stories. please can I have it too?henchyman@yahoo.com. I appreciate. I entered for this year's. Need to hone my skills too. Blessings. |
| Literature › The Hoary Head by poik(op): 8:36pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
THE HOARY HEAD
Hannah was growing annoyed at the elderly woman who was standing inches to her face, talking heatedly and treating her face and nose to both the foul odour which issued from her mouth, the mixed air having no choice but to force its way into her nostrils, and spittle, which made her face a mass of little white dots by the time she took a break from facing her, turning the other way for some respite.
‘I don’t blame you! It’s not your fault at all! I am the one who made the mortal mistake of coming to this God-deserted mall to shop! To think I am getting this kind of treatment, on top of the expired things you sell here! You are staring me in the eyeball, you little imp….’
Her voice rose and rose, along with the weight of her words. They were getting to Hannah, who was determined to soak it all in and allow her finish, no matter how long it took and what she said.
The word ‘prostitute’ featured among the many words which flowed from her mouth like a leaking tap. She was determined to sieve out the others, but this one stubbornly found its way into her ears, and she turned a rainy face from the west to the centre, facing her.
She felt she had reached her limit, and was about to prepare her retort. But she had another thing coming.
A scrawny shrunk hand was on its way to her face. If she had seen it earlier, she would have prepared for its impact. But it arrived, and found lodgement on her face. The timing was bad, and the damage was worse. It landed just when her mouth was about opening to make an effort to even the verbal score.
Her tongue was caught in between her teeth, and the contact snapped the upper and lower layers of teeth shut, digging deep and wounding her. Hannah’s frustrations heightened, and all her defences were becoming porous.
The dam broke.
Her hand started its journey to the lady’s face, and when it descended, it was a clenched fist instead of a palm, and it performed the duties it was assigned.
It was like the power switch was pressed off on a working generator: the words and rants died down as she searched frantically for space on the ground to collapse on. Her items of shopping did the same.
Hannah suddenly realized people had been restraining her and begging her not to reply that woman. Something clicked in her brain: the word ‘epileptic’ fought its way to prominence once again from the barrage of voices.
There were spasms and jerks; there was vibration and foaming. It happened for about ten seconds, and the elderly lady turned limp, against the efforts of the staff and customers of Galaxy Stores to prevent it.
Two weeks later, in prison late one night, she shuddered as she became aware of subtle and silent opening of her solitary cell. An officer was at the door, and his silhouette did not reveal any form of clothing on him.
Three weeks ago, at about this time, a woman, after receiving a generous tonguelash from Hannah for a flimsy cause, had snapped her fingers at the direction of her house, after mumbling some incoherent nothings. |
| Literature › Re: Let's Talk About The Etisalat Prize For Flash Fiction Competition by poik(m): 8:30pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
kayo80:
Hey guys, who is submitting a story for the Etisalat prize for flash fiction competition. The prize is 1,000 pounds, and the story has to be not longer than 300 words. I am having issues writing a complete story that is that short, and I wanted to hear from other writers who are submitting stories for the competition. I would appreciate any comment. Thanks in advance. I submitted my story some weeks back. 292 words. Think the closing date is like 14 Oct, if am not mistaken. 1 Like |
| Culture › Re: The Beauty Of Yoruba Women by poik(m): 9:15pm On Oct 15, 2016 |
More Too much augumentation.... Give me a naturally beautiful chick |
| Romance › Re: 10 Types Of Assistant Boyfriends by poik(m): 10:20am On Oct 10, 2016 |
Its just unfortunate. Why would I be around a girl just for the kick of it? |
| Family › Re: Should I Marry A Man With A Low Sperm Count? by poik(m): 10:17pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
finestcholatey:
I am planning my wedding with the love of my life , and he just made it known to me that he can't father a child , so I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding , or call it quit with him, I need advice He was honest enough to tell you. Thats a plus. Go to God. He killeth and maketh alive. but if u cant deal, then back off |
| TV/Movies › Re: Lady: "I Will Never Watch Nollywood Movies Again Because Of These" by poik(m): 11:21pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
fingard02k:
SEE EPIC COMMENTS FROM PEOPLE and MORE >> http://www.enzyhub.com/lady-blast-swear-never-to-watch-nollywood-movies-again-because-of-these/ I agree with all of your suppositions, particularly the fact that we have been conquered to be ashamed of our religion as Africans and all what not. All true. But why exactly are you NOT bowing to shrines and images if you feel unconquered? that would have helped your argument a long way: but you go to church and bear a Christian or English name. You see, your arguments would have been very tenable if Christianity were just another religion- even the people who brought it had no idea what they were holding,(it was simply a means to an end) little wonder we are exporting back to them what they think they brought to us, in its pristine ans power-packed form. Christianity-true Christianity isnt a religion. Its a way of life. Truth remains that Jesus said i am the way, the truth and the life. You want to go to heaven when you die, Jesus is the only answer. like it or not, say all you want to, disagree all you want to, the truth is like super glue: it sticks to stay. #teamChrist |
| Family › Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by poik(m): 8:11am On Oct 02, 2016 |
A wrong step is always a wrong step. Once tampered with from the onset, it will take God to reverse certain things. Gods commandments are for OUR benefit. |
| Crime › Re: Abuja Ladies Convert Nyanya Market To Brothel (Photos) by poik(m): 8:06am On Oct 02, 2016 |
Sex and poverty....always synonymous |
| Literature › Re: Who Am I? by poik(m): 9:39pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
oludare007:
Chapter 2
‘Hey beautiful,’ a voice shrieked above me.
I looked up, it was a male- tall and not very handsome. He held a bottle of water in his hands as he tried to smile.
‘Hi.’ I replied and looked away, with the hope that he will leave me alone.
I didn’t want any trouble, not anymore- especially from males. My beautiful body has always gotten me into a mess and nothing more. Big hips, skin as a silk, nice dentures, a very intimidating camel toe wedged between my thighs and big boobs with large and pointed nipples. I turned slowly, tried to cover my features by lying face down- but I was wrong, I only succeeded in arousing his sexual interest as I faced him with my great and wide butt.
‘Can I sit beside you?’ He asked. But that was only it, because he already sat in the sands by my side.
I quickly turned around and sat up. For the first time, I saw the smile on his face very clearly- it was beautifully evil. Just like Harry’s, just like Jose’s, just like…no, not Dave. Dave rarely smiles.
‘My name is Henry.’ He said as he stretched out his hands to me.
‘Harry’? I asked.
‘Harry? No, no, Henry. Not Harry. I mean Henry as in…’
‘I get it.’ I said and drew my eyes on his shorts that has bulged with great excitement. I fixed my gaze on him. I shook my head.
‘I’m sorry about that.’ He managed to let out a short laugh. ‘It’s just that…’ he smiled and covered his bulge, ‘you are such an angel with exceptional beauty.’
I nodded, unimpressed. ‘I get that a lot,’ I replied and stood up, ‘but trust me, it never ended up good.’
‘Why is that?’ He asked as he tried to keep up with me as I walked to the bar.
I didn’t bother to reply; I just wished he would leave me be.
I walked to the bar and ordered a martini. He sat beside me and was all over me. Asking me different incoherent questions. I tried hard to shake him off but he was like a glue. Then suddenly, he did something that got my attention. A bulky guy came over to me as lapped me in the ass.
‘Hey, bitch.’ He said in a very deep voice.
He was huge, heavy beard. He wore a dirty jean with, a capped sleeved shirt. He didn’t button up and black shirt he wore underneath sent a great personality message- FUCCK OFF! From the keys dangling in a chain, wore with his jean, I knew he was a truck driver. They have always proven to be aggressive. Even the female ones.
‘I’m fine.’ I replied. ‘And I am not a bitch.’ I replied and looked at Henry, who nodded, slowly.
‘Oh, the bitch has a voice now, right?’ He said.
He leaned to my face as he supported himself with the table. His breathe stinks.
‘Don’t call her a bitch!’ Henry stoop up for me.
‘You don’t have to do that.’ I told him. ‘I can handle the big guy.’ I said with a smile and looked in the big guy’s eyes.
‘You can handle me?’ The guy said and slapped me again in the butt.
‘Hey, what the fucck is your problem?’ Henry stood up again.
I tried to hold him as he made to walk over to the big guy, but he shrugged off my hand like a macho man. I left them to slug it out behind my back, while I focused on my drink. I even heard Henry say he was my boyfriend.
‘Your boyfriend is really sweet ma’am.’ The barman smiled as he refilled my cup.
‘In his dream.’ I smiled back.
‘Go to a tavern, man.’ Henry continued. ‘This is bar in a beach and not your regular tavern in a wretched motel on the highway. Give the lady some …’
Henry came crashing on the table- he bled from his mouth as the punch from the big guy sent him packing. Before I could recover from the sudden shock, the big guy dragged him again and straighten him with another punch. He flew by some inches and rearranged the tables as he slammed against them.
‘You should keep your mouth shut next time. Especially, if you are a fucking pussy.’ Big guy said and landed Henry another punch that sent him whirling. He tried to get hold of the wind to stabilize himself. I almost choke on my drink.
‘You sure he’s not your boyfriend? That guy’s gonna kill him.’ The barman said again.
I stood up, paid for my drinks and walked without any care in the world. Almost half of the customers had turned to photographers. I know YouTube and cheap blogs would have a field day.
‘Hey, hey.’ A lady called out at me. ‘You are gonna leave your boyfriend here?’
‘He’s not my boyfriend.’ I said, sharply.
‘Damn. He’s gonna kill him.’ The lady said as he stood arm in arm, watching Henry’s ass got handed over to him.
Henry wasn’t finding it funny. He couldn’t even land a punch. I dipped my hand in my bag and walked over to the fighting scene. People cheered and big guy left Henry and focused on me as I approached him. I knew he would be wondering what I was up to.
He opened his arms and walked up to meet me, ‘What the hell do you want to do?’ He asked. ‘You better go back before you get hurt, lady.’
As we closed up on each other, I fixed my eyes on his eyes and he took the bait- he fixed his eyes on me too. He never knew what was coming until I sent a kick in his crotch. He grabbed his balls and groaned in surprise. With the hand in the bag that already had the pepper spray, I sprayed his dilated eyes. He crashed back immediately and I grabbed the stool at the bar and crashed it by the side of his head. He slammed on the floor, still, with his hands clamped by his thighs. He was motionless, but breathing.
I turned to Henry, who was by all means surprised, ‘You wanna leave this place or not?’
The people cheered as I led him away.
*************
End of 2 Hmmmm...nice. Really nice. That girl no get chill! |
| Romance › Re: This is the type of woman every man loves to marry. by poik(m): 9:36am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Berbierklaus:
[b]Grandpa no one asked you for your life history,so please relax and take to corrections. 
if You were my husband/boyfriend,I would have told You to "shutup and listen" I said "Relax" coz You are my grandpa
Now to the argument You both are having,Everyone has an opinion,trust me I have come to understand You and your writeups,(You are only been realistic while most of us are striving to be idealistic).The challenge is finding a balance because all these rules and regulations for marriages and relationships are unique to every relationship,some men don't take NO,no matter how submissive the wife is(been realistic,I'm sure You will agree with me) and some men are in awe or their wives and a very agressive NO will do the trick(I'm been realistic),so the problem I have with most of your rightups is that "they are not a standard for relationships,coz every relationship is unique" but from your tone of words,You type like that's all that should be done because it is in the "BIBLE" forgetting that even Jesus said in "MARK 2:27" The sabbath(law) was made for man not man for the sabbath(law),
meaning most of this bible injunctions can be used uniquely not universally. (I hope You know what happened in that verse and why he made that statement?).
secondly,I want to say I agree with your rightup once again,although it is a little bit flawed "to me". Any idiot can see the emphasis You made on "WIVES SUBMISSION" I think its good but I also think it would have been appropriate if You emphasized as much on the "HUSBAND's LOVE". (I think this is where most relationship experts get it wrong).
Now lets use the scripture You qouted as an example,did You realise that Ephesians 5:33 has two parts(part A and B)
Did You realise that part A was talking to the husband?
Ephesians 5:33
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself
Did You realise that the bible spoke to the husband first? That tells You that Submission is "EARNED" so its flawed for You to say "THE BIBLE SAID THAT THE WIFE MUST BE SUBMISSIVE TO HER HUSBAND NO MATTER WHAT"
because grandpa,the bible has put an unspoken condition in that verse,(You can't respect/submit to your abusive father,You "FEAR" him,likewise if You say wives should be submissive unconditionally,You are only telling her to "FEAR" him,that is not submission according to the bible)
Part B
[color=#000055]Ephesians 5:33
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord[/color]
Every man that loves his wife,automatically has earned her respect and submission,it is a known fact,and a man that doesn't love his wife(cheating on her "glaringly" abuse her,doesn't do his roles as a husband etc) will be "FEARED" not respected/submitted to).
So grandpa,all this tunranchi is what the bible is preaching(Idealistic) not what our pastors are interpreting the bible to, not what You have interpreted the bible to,which is sadly the (realistic) point of what we have in the world today because our religious leaders have knowingly or unknowingly led some men astray by repeatedly preaching and emphasizing on "SUBMISSION" while skimming through "LOVE".
The kingdom of God is a hot race,I fear for most people,as I have come to a stage in my salvation where,I read and ask the holy spirit to interpret and explain what this really means to me,instead of listening to one marriage counsel/counsellor and corrupting my heavenly journey .
I hope You will settle down and read my epistle,and may the holy spirit help You to realise the truth.[/b] Sorry, that's not, I repeat, NOT the way to believe the Bible. What exactly do u mean by being realistic and being idealistic? That's why we are the way we are, why marriages are the way they are today. We and God, who should work up to meet the other's standards? The Bible was given as a manual for marriage, and life as a matter of fact, and it is not supposed to be an idealistic book; it is no storybook nor history lecture note. It breathes and pulsates life to those who actually believe it. What we fail to do is to have the patience to diligently do what it says, on a personal level, and instead we keep laying hold to strawhats of excuses such as the other person not fulfilling his or her part. Not that I am making any case for either sex, but making excuses and affixing conditions here and there only dilutes the essence. Each one should determine to do what he or she sees there, kpom kwem, and watch the Third member of the three fold cord do His part. My two cents. |
| Family › Re: Will I Ever Get Married? by poik(m): 4:33pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
One of us needs reading glasses...maybe of the mind or eye or both |
| Literature › Re: Short Sms & Poem Writers Needed!!! by poik(m): 4:09pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
chyjio:
I'm looking for creative writers who can do well writing short sms and poems of not more than 50 words. The sms however, has to be original or at least tweaked from an original copy and will be accompanied with an image/photo. I will pay N150 per sms and you can earn as much as you can write. You need to have a gmail account and experience using blogger post editor. I need about 3 writers and I will be paying accumulated earnings per week. If you are interested kindly reply on this thread with a sweet short sms. Thank you. Now and then, a loser wins. Now and then, dreams come true. But you happened to me, once. |
| Family › Re: Will I Ever Get Married? by poik(m): 4:05pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
[quote author=seizet
I don't have any feelings for him because HE IS JUST TOO PERFECT..
When will we understand women? |
| Romance › Re: Girl Says Jesus Fed 5000 People And Didn't Ask Anyone To Off Pant, Guy Replies by poik(m): 1:26pm On Sep 24, 2016 |
This is funny, yet not funny at all.
Why will the name of the Creator of heaven and earth feature in such a manner in a conversation of such manner by people whoclaim to be He children and will later ask Him for life and protection and prosperity? this is a mockery on the thousands that believed in Him through this epic miracle.
Can u ever hear Muslims treat their god like this? What is wrong with us? |
| Celebrities › Re: Angel Christopher: Guys Stare At Me When I'm Passing by poik(m): 4:24pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
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| Romance › Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by poik(m): 11:10pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
dainformant:
Guess the new and "efficient" way of finding love now is on social media... These couple are trending online not because of how much they love themselves but how they started their love story. According to the man who shared the photos, it all started from direct messages DM, which was initiated by the lady. Now, the rest is history.
Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/09/ladies-sometimes-dm-him-first-because.html Someone married this girl? its okay. |
