₦airaland Forum

dollytino4real:
b4 ncor! men take care of women finish

so, we came to this life just to take care of u people?

Abi u guys dont see how other women in other countries also show love to their men?

I dont understand.

dollytino4real:
i like good experience like dis o! all dis NL shiko guys will not see dis one to emulate o!

Did naija men come to this world to be doing everything for naija women?

Which one have u guys done? When did we see something wow done by naija gf for her bf?

imitateMe:
Very true. I know fair hot guys that have multiple gfs. They have no problems getting any lady.

Not hard all. In fact, fair good looking guys are balling. Those girls love making cute babies and fair cute babies are the most admired. They can mainly get that from fair good looking guys. All those babes ranting were mainly dished by fair guys. Fair guys are rarely faithful though.

Just met a babe few days ago and she is already over me. Fair guys hardly ask girls out, just be get close and things will begin to happen.

bdsm:
wrong again. I challenge u to open a thread on this let naira girls vote either fair guys or dark guys

Baba Mi, forget the online opinion, in the real world, fair guys are in hot demand. Just that many girls feel that they are womanizers and everyone boyfriend. And truly, they womanize a lot.

oluwasegun007:
Here we go again....


It has always been about them...


Can we just change this system of government already...

So expensive, stressful and anti-people.

Yes, this is why I laugh at those fo ols who fight for these leaders. If some of these broke people who shout and support these leader could be made to see how well their kids live, they will understand that their kids alone can snatch their babes from them, knack their babes in their presence and even send them to jail with a compromised police system.

bleeped up nation with nothing, ever nothing good coming out of it collectively, except ur individual hustle. The system of govt is wack.

iamvictorbassey:
I actually did not want to comment, but I had to come back and do in order to enlighten some of us.

Apologies, this write-up is gonna be lengthy.

I read here as a lot of us say suicide is not the option, bla bla.
First you must understand that we have different break points and life experiences. What will make me might break you.

I don't come from a very very poor background, so I'll not come here to talk about experiencing one deadly hardship. I come from this Nigerian kind of average family, where we don't sleep hungry, we have never hawked to feed, never gone to beg in someone's house, didn't have a video cassette player but you dare not leave the house else you die , until we finally got ours, sometimes no meat in the food and we were fine, until cars started coming in etc. If you know this kind of background, then we're together.
But this does not take away the fact that there were very hard times when we'll mind our business and cook rice, Palm oil and tomatoes. When we'll not have Christmas clothes and no one will know. It was terrible but mum was supportive and always told us it'll get better. We'll be tired of clothes, cars, houses etc. And so it is today.


That being said I guess you'll agree with me that we are products of our experiences, either directly or learnt from other people's.

When things got better for us I thought it had gotten better for everyone, not until I was admitted to the university. I realized how bad it was to waste food we usually did at home. I saw people wait around just to steal other people's complete pots of food. Some people while they could not feed themselves misfortune was still adding it's own salt to the injury by taking away the Dad. I remember a friend whose Dad died and he had no transport to go home. I helped those I could and left those I couldn't. You don't know what people are going through in this country.

Lemme expressly state this that if you're reading this write-up then you're okay because 1.) You had money to spare to buy a phone that can browse 2.) You could even afford data. Then! You're somehow fine, because if you're not, in the proper priority list of life you'll not but data instead of food. The opportunity cost will always put food at advantage.



See, things are very hard for some people. I mean very hard. I set out to start my own business and I've never managed any before, it was difficult I ended up being indebted. Imagine I didn't have people to save my as.s imagine what would have happened when the owners come asking. Don't forget that ability to get loan is because I have guarantors who can handle that risk. Imagine I don't have? It's even better when you're hustling and you see a future in what you're doing. Some people don't even know what they're doing. Some people are trying to get out of one mess, and they are failing into messier messes.

In this country, to open a common barbing saloon will set you back about 70K. Where do you expect some Nigerians to get it from?

Sat with Dad one night and we spoke at length till about 2am on how their generation failed us by refusing to make appropriate provisions for us. And he told me things that shocked me.
We spoke about how he was contemplating CBN and other Federal Government jobs, how copers used to be rushed and picked from camp with official vehicle as soon as they close camp. Talked about a lot and I asked him why they refused to keep such for us to start with at least. Why they allowed the greedy take everything and become so unshakeably strong? Now it's difficult to change the narrative. Every average youth you see will say "abeg Nigeria don spoil no be me go change am abeg. Make I thief my own dey go" or "baba I wan leave this country like dis. If e just set like this, I don lost". We rather prefer to be second class citizens in another country than stay back fix this mess and be first class citizens here. It's very pathetic though.

I believe in tackling problems from the root. Majority of suicide is caused by lack or lack related problems. Forget about those who do it for love I'm not interested in them this night. When there is lack of provision, everything becomes a do or die affair. Survival becomes competitive. Those who can't meet up must die even in the jungle. Those with power and influence instead of helping to create eveness they set out to steal and stash for their generations unborn. If only we know the repercussions of modern day misappropriation of public funds and the time bomb it is, we'll protest this guys without sentiments. But they've come to understand that we can't be untied so they thrive in our religious and tribal dis unity. We're still here rallying support for the same caliber of thieves in different School uniforms. How sad!

Until death penalty is issued for misappropriation of public funds exceeding 100,000 we'll not get it right. "Person "will keep on stealing "People's"money and getting away with it. Then sink those who cannot partake, into depression which will lead to more suicides.

Lastly, I know we all want to make it. Good! Fine! But understand that when we finally make it, the children of the poor whom basic amenities have been deprived will not allow our children to ever live in peace. Whether we're the cause of their problem or not, and
irrespective of how we finally make our money.

Perfect write-up. Someone is planning a protest soon and I hope we will all understand and join. In this country, we celebrate stupidity beyond human comprehension. I am still shocked at how we celebrate our politicians who have destroyed this country. Nigerian leaders are so lucky. They are lucky because the civil war dealt with the mental state of Nigerians. If u know how these politicians steal eh. In fact, it js like stealing is in our blood.

This one no be country na. They are just playing here..

The only Nigerian leaders know how to do is preach unity by fire by force without addressing the core issues..

Nigeria is a very poor country. If u take away ritual money, fraud and stollen money, the country is poorer than u imagine.

The whites u are showing us know how to hold their leaders accountable and aren't poor.

AverageAnnie:
So true dear... And she looks like someone who wants such pampering everyday,more reason she got married to him.

which pampering? abeg, forget that thing, the babe mother used her to make money. It is all about money. If u guys find broke guy wey dey pamper u, wont u run?

Naija babes, always supporting foolish something

trioti:
They are killing Nigerians in South Africa and still want to frustrate our proudly Nigeria network? No way! Say no

we are really funny in Nigeria o. Sometimes i wonder how we reason sef.

Wait, how many times have we protested over the killings of Nigerians happening in Nigeria? If we can fix our own house properly, others will respect us.

Lebanese, Indians, chinese companies are using our staff like slaves right in our own country, have we protested ? Have we attacked them?

No, over 67 Nigerians were slaughtered by Boko Haram few days ago, did we protest? No! But we want south africa to respect us? hahahaahahaha very funny set of citizens.

Nigerians shaa know how to place priority on wrong things!

Them go soon cast canada for all Nigerians now. That was how we cast other countries including south africa, Malaysia.

koyyess:
Don't mind ebuka. People have reported he is rude.

As regards tacha, I think she was put on a spot and didn't want to be any more controversial with unnecessary words. Hence her reply.

Ebuka should have moved on.

Sisi.

Well, I used to watch this show but stopped since Efe won. I got interested in this topic due to the headline and calling out the host. I carefully read the op view and those supporting the girl, I mean tacha or what is her name sef, u guys forgot one thing, the lady according to what the op put up here, the lady was violating BBN simple suggestions and rules. BBN organizers always warned house mates to forget about what goes out there and concentrate on their activities in the house.

They also don't like house mates discuss about certain things like the diary session, voting pattern, vans views, etc. So if the said lady is busy bragging about knowing the winner, and talking about the stuff biggie doesn't like, that must have made the organizers angry. Biggie hates house mates analyzing data and all that. If the said lady has been doing all these, it will put the show into mess. They needed to find a way to call her to order.

1x2x3:
Yes they can arrest innocent person and even kill you and nothing will happen. I can point out 100s of cases to back up.

You stop and search not shot.

If u act anyhow, police will shoot u. It is same in the USA. U can Google it. U don't mess around anyone holding gun.

These guys will take all sorts of drugs and be acting up. I have been searched four good times by the police. I noticed that it was mainly how I dressed. I had to improve my dressing. Also, during the search, I properly conducted my self.

I know ho rude we can be in this country. My guy was searched few days ago while he was driving home late. He conducted him self properly. He was well dressed too. Nigeria is a country with high rate of insecurity, no data base, etc, them no Dey write innocent for face. So, conduct ur self. I'm sure they didn't see how and just shot him. Never. U must do something that will warrant that.

stanliwiser:
I mean the guy you quoted, the freedom fighter he said and the obonte keywords he used are code words of Aiye

Oh.. I didn't even know. Don't know what they gain doing tthese things.

stanliwiser:
So you didn't notice he is also an Aiye guy?

I don't know but I know police can't just kill him all because he has tattoo. Nah, not possible..

Just2endowed2:
That's how barbaric we are in this cursed country, and we will be condemning the govt without looking at our win inner thought . To the oyinbo, they would say he is under influence of drug and they would have seek to givr him medical attention.

Have u seen where cultists wipe out an entire family before? Have u seen where they raped girls to point of death. Those guys have been babaric lately. Beheading people up and down.

nairalanduseles:
Nigerians are really stupid ..he was arrested because he had tattoos and was shot and out of frustration he was telling them he is a freedom fighter and they will face karma ......but this obontes don't get it

How do u believe his own side of the story? So anything anyone says against the police, we should believe abi?

1x2x3:
He's dead already.
He's from Delta State, went to visit his friend in Osun state but was arrested.
He was initially arrested and shot for having a tattoo, he broke the handcuffs then destroyed the windscreens of all the cars parked in the station before he was gunned down and left to bleed to death.

And u think an ordinary person will just have such guts to break handcuff and destroy vehicles?

Why do u guys always want us to believe that all people police arrest are innocent? Police can see tattoo on u, stop u and search u, then discover something in u that will warrant ur arrest.

OTayobami:
Hmm nawa! If he has opportunity and comes out again he'll do what he said o! Him and the rest of the members.
*Note: those officers and their family members needs to be under surveillance 24/7....
Anyways what do you expect that's what the police has reduced themselves to in this country.
They should give themselves respect, No! They would be looking N50 that they'll be taking from motorists and all...

That guy and his team no reach bro. Na some rugged mopol dem go send to them and they will vanish. U think sey police na all about those collecting money on the road? Baba, no pray make some dreaded policemen mean u. Those guys wey Dey enter forest and arrest hard-core babalawo.

SocialJustice:
Lol, you quoted the wrong person and Anioma are not igbo. Arguing won't change that fact. It is like saying the Urhobos are Binis because they originated from there and have similar cultures.

U are just been unrealistic!

Anioma people are igbo bro. People are identified based on their origin. Stop this nonsense talk u are talking.

SocialJustice:
Reading is a big chore to most people here, even the moderators don't read. They just copy and paste, when they try writing, it is filled with grammatical errors.

I dont understand.. Are Anioma people not igbo?

Or u are judging people based on a politically motivated calving done in Nigeria?

Bro, they are igbo, simple!

largehead:
I was in a seminar downtown Australia, there came an elderly man who was a mentor to some of us. He made mention of how defenseless Nigerians are. Labeling us as toothless Bulldogs.

I was shocked when someone made mention of billions of dollars owned by some Nigerian political Appointees in Australia.

Imagine being grateful for receiving peanuts from the Government. TBH, Nigerians have to step up their game in the political Affairs of the country.

This is so pathetic. This is why I have been weeping when youths fight one another over who is president and who is not. I weep bro. Nigerians are so weak! politicians are using us play football. So sad!

Henry1006:
No development since 1966 yet the only thing that matters to his guys is who becomes president. We need to go our separate ways.

Aswear, I keep wondering too. Worse part is that the poor masses carry the matter for head and no single development but what gives them joy is who becomes President. As long as it is not igbo, millions are so pleased even if they are dying.. Lol

Racoon:
This is a country with sound eco-friendly innovative thinking.

lol, blacks in black countries cant think. All we know how to do is find a way to make money and dash them out to countries with innovative thinking.

I dont know why our governors cant go to these countries, find a way to entice their citizens to come and teach us how they build television. Make we start from there. lol

bigpicture001:
The political class are not our enemies...the followers are...they are too subdued in their mind to effect any desired change....

Let's go nd protest, lailai..dey can't com out..only social media is where they have power

After shouting leaders are too old...they still line up in tens of millions to vote for the same old ones...

Perto rico..recently forced their governors to resign with massive defiant protest...

Hong Kong did same and enforced a change of deliberated law...

Tunisia got democracy with massive street protest..even Togo chased a president away with massive defiant street protest...

The almighty ghadaffi..fell to massive street protest..egypt 36 years ruling president stepped down through protest...

Nigerians are not ready to effect any change...the ladies re still busy slaying and the guys very o.k with yahoo....

Just one man is trying to impose a very violent tribe on every nook and croons of Nigeria...nd nobody is physically protesting....

The only protest at seen are mischievous ones organised by tinubu against subsidy for his personal interest.....

Wen we are ready in Nigeria..the world would know..but for now..lets continue to slay and do Internet fraud!....

Cuz we are not ready!!!!!

The Petro Rico protest was so sweet. The youths after achieving success started twerking, partying, lap dancing. Lol. I really liked it. They were youth and got what they wanted. They even vowed to continue protesting until the entire institutions are changed.

Nigeria needs to return to regional govt. And to achieve this, we need a change of constitution. The current one is not okay.

And we can't change this one because the northerners have more control over the constitution. The only way out is protest.

Esseite:
Nigerians companies,shops and citizens are being hacked to death due to xenophobic acts, but you are here as a Nigerian indirectly calling for SouthAfrican companies,shops and citizens to be protected..

Didn't the South African citizens see the Nigerian embassy to go and protest in South Africa?

If you cant help the situation, dont ridicule the struggle.. If MTN Debt and not Xenophobic acts could drag the SouthAfrican president to Nigeria to beg for soft landing, then MTN is the Jugular to hold SouthAfricans on check.

Lol, has our govt been able to stop the endless killings of Nigerians in Nigeria?

On road accident alone, Nigeria lost over 2000 of her citizens within six months.

Some people will still come here to laugh igbos for not producing President or sidelined by APC. What is the benefit of having presidency and controling govt when ur region has not turned to Dubai? And u guys keep living in fear. Death and all sorts of negative events happen to the same region.

Until u all accept that ur biggest enemy is not the average igbo man, is not the average Yoruba man, it is not the average hausa man. We have one common enemy.. The political class.

Also u guys need to understand that a break-up Nigeria or pure regional based govt is the best for Nigerians. It js the best for northerners, westerners, easterners, southerners..

kuuljay:
only looters make it in Nigeria? Loooool do you have a brain at all? Chai!!!!

Are u mad? When did i say only looters make it in Nigeria? This forum gives everyone the opportunity to talk to anyone as they wish. Bro, go sit one place. That i talked about Nigerian politicians doesnt mean I am not living fine.

I said Im not in competition with those looters. I am not here to live my life or compete with them. I am talking about how useless they have been to this country and u are talking off point.

Which one is if i have brain? Are u sick? Do u even know me? pls stay off my mention. Not everyone who complain about govt is broke. I live very, very very very comfortable and earn my living in $$, so mind how u simply understand statements here. Internet sef! SMH

kuuljay:
so where do you stand? Strive to beat them or give in to fate that you are disadvantaged

Not in competition with those looters.

Securing the future of their kids with juicy positions were their supporters waste in poverty, manage manage life..

goldenarrow:
It is an African thing, (only that it has the European name, Stockholm Syndrome) from the North up to South of Nigeria. But brethren from the East says they don't care who leads in one minute, the very next minute you hear "marginalization", so it is difficult to understand why they react to these types of comments (such as Junaid's).

A lot of the Easterners believes secession is the best option. Same for a limited few from other regions, but many are okay with status quo. Similar to the lot who were quick to tell us IBB was a very good leader because of the ill-gotten wealth many of his cronies stole and frittered away back in those days. Today, they know better.

In short, a Freedom Fighter in a clime, is a Terrorist against (to) another group.

The insurgency in the North is a classic example of this Syndrome. The fools among the Northerners were thinking Boko Haram was their means of achieving a voice in the Land while the power was with a Southerner. Today, they are enjoying (suffering) the dividends of that evil.

The first step at resolving Nigeria issues is solely by returning to the pre-independence Federation (or even a quasi-Regional) pattern.

The most intelligent response i got so far. Weldone.

I hope others from other regions can add their voices some day. Because the real enemies of Nigeria are the political class.