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Lostchild:
I refuse to help a needy pregnant woman because I am running from my real self. Yes, I needed to save my peace and sanity

In 2018, I move to a new place, a married woman with children started and always comes to meet me to give her whatever she wants from me which I always do. One day, the husband came to me with anger, and told me to stay away from his wife. I said, OK.

Even If i use common sense - helping people I know has landed me in too many conflicts, they are just too over many for me to overlook anymore.

Because of the many years of constant betrayals that lead me to regret my life, I move to a new town and decide to start afresh. In the past I have shown too much financial care and love for women that backfire and work against me. so I decide to stay focus on myself for the first time of my life.

After living in this new place for about six months, a pregnant woman who also live in the same visinity ask me to help her. She told me to lend her some money.

She told me that, she had not eaten since morning and she wants to cook something to eat and her hubby is out of town and will be back later.

She told me she will refund me when her hubby comes back. She was pregnant, hungry and need help.

I badly wanted to but I instantly had many flash back and I told her, I don't have the money right now. I told her, why can't you go and meet that your fellow business woman down there? she may be able to help you, she replied me with God forbid.

The money she asked me, I have it in my base, three times over but I refuse to give her. I painfully refused to help her because nigeria society has made me look like a fool.

To save my peace - I just have to only help strangers and not give help to the people I know

Did I do wrong?

What do you think?

Judybash93:
I don't understand this country anymore

Pegi23:
Get a lady to act like ur bae then closing time ur fake bae can come to the gate of the work outside tho and be all loved up when the lady is watching so she will know u are taken..or mr get married..

so u adviseing people to commit fraud by telling them to make there wife sexxx a gateman Pretending to be babe to watch naaaaked women..correct?....SHAME ON U AGAIN Pegi23 for comiting fraud again on nairaland!!( sad)

IbrahimSkiba:
I know the number of guys that has added me up here just to see me and I decline, you won't be any different...

Na broke I broke I no kill person

One or two days hunger won't make me Bleep a random dude for money... Anyway thanks for your suggestion

IbrahimSkiba:
Bye

IbrahimSkiba:
Oya after I for don chop..I go sing for u

MufasaLion:
WTF? Who the hell are you to accuse me on a faceless forum? Get the fvck off my back!

MufasaLion:
Norway is nice but not cheap.

debbydams:
I'm not in my best mood tonight..u won

Mandesz:
In R Kelly's voice: "their is a couple of things that I want off in my chest, serious issues that I must address so.."
I think he should just narrate the story himself and confess to his past mistakes.

R KELLLY IS INOSENT..... BLACK WOMENS SENT HIM UP & black womens should never be trussted.pirrriod!(no oofense)

hpk:
It's obvious you have comprehension issues and I won't engage you further. Piss!

hpk:
Have a nice day.

IamAsiri:
Please get off my mention, olodo. Can't even type correct English. I don't care about your rubbish, that was why I said I wasn't going to argue with you, and I'm still not.

DoggoneDogg:
By Michael Adesina


Source: PM News

Deelola:
old spice is underrated. Two of my colleagues had the same body odour,smelling like onion.I recommended old spice deodorant,the rest is history and they keep thanking me.Except the situation is spiritual, try old spice deodorant. it is 1,400 on jumia

ahimedua:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/police-vow-to-arrest-suspected-cultists-who-killed-used-victims-head-to-play-football/amp/

IamAsiri:
Only a stupid person would argue with you. Yeah! You are entitled to your opinion.

BadRadio:


Some guys cannot go straight to the point... they would rather want to go places using their tongue. Little do they know that they are seriously trying to commit suicide?

Pls avoid using your head on pussies.
Pussy juice can kill a man.
These juice can contain staph or herpes... when swallowed u can get cancer of the throat etc... or some serious flu or infection.

Stop licking body parts of women just to impress... at least for your own health and safety.


I am talking out of experience.... God saved me!!!

BadRadio:


Some guys cannot go straight to the point... they would rather want to go places using their tongue. Little do they know that they are seriously trying to commit suicide?

Pls avoid using your head on pussies.
Pussy juice can kill a man.
These juice can contain staph or herpes... when swallowed u can get cancer of the throat etc... or some serious flu or infection.

Stop licking body parts of women just to impress... at least for your own health and safety.


I am talking out of experience.... God saved me!!!

IamAsiri:
This your talk is smelling. Hope you know that he is guilty of sleeping with both underage boys and girls?

Under age korrrrr, under bridge Niiiii...who told u he sleep wit boys & girls sir..were u their??. U black people mennn. U destroy yor own kind like stewpiiid black womens destroy bill Cosby, r Kelly & Michael Jackson..HOW SAd.
So which capinter workshop radio doc u hear r Kelly sleep with dog sir...nta news? U a
nationale disgrase for Lyon sir!!!(no oofense)
..

illicit:
I have never got a real nickname tho because most people even when I was at school often call me by my real name or TP which is a mere abbreviation of my real name just like AY to Ayo but I hear other guys called names that has nothing to do with their christened names like 2bottle, Smart

Wiseguy

Hercules

Romeo

2finger

Waya Waya

Terry Dee

T money

Ratty

Mouth

Beyonce

J fire

Black King

Blac Chyna

Some even use those names on their Facebook

How did u get your Nickname and do you even like it?

Some people call me Honourable but it's not a nickname,. I was a speaker at uni.

I like it when my girl calls me baby, I can dash her my salary

Paxxcarl:
yo mama na frm Libya?

olatade:
Finally his victims and their families have the justice they deserve.

greencard:
pray people don't gang up against u

Whether u did wrong or not

It's a dangerous position to be

fergie001:
BREAKING: The jury found R. Kelly guilty of racketeering in a sex trafficking case involving a scheme to recruit and sexually abuse women, girls and boys.

He faces up to 20 years in prison under the racketeering charge.



SOURCE

PrinceOfLagos:
You the peckham guy

Pegi23:
My first time hearing this

Airforce1:
Monday Monday for my kids

I'm proud of the man I've become

Daddy's Duty

It is too late to fail Amen.

Airforce1:
Monday Monday for my kids

I'm proud of the man I've become

Daddy's Duty

It is too late to fail Amen.