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normal brother.. as a guy man, you need to take care of yourself first... you can't take water from an empty container... you need to be okay first before you can extend an helping hand, else you'll die before your time..

this is why I laugh at broke men or simp adding a girlfriend to their responsibility when they are not okay themselves.. it's a shame.

put yourself first, because in the end, only you care about you.. what you eat into your body and do for yourself is what you can comfortably claim to be yours...

one of the reason is that, in terms of love, most people marry who is ready not who they love or sexually attracted to..

another reason is that, most people stop putting in the work needed for seduction after getting married, so end up getting bored and not inclined to have sex anymore with each other... some might not actually be good in bed and also don't know how to initiate sex or get their partners in the mood.. some don't even know how to take their of their bodies and appear tattered..

another is, after getting married and responsibilities and kids start compiling, couples lose interest in sex and focus more on how to make the family stable especially if the couple are still struggling financially... this can cause a temporary loss of attraction and make them vulnerable to cheat..

most people these days marry for other selfish reasons other than deep affection for each other... deceptive cases such as this are numerous..

@ op, prison is never a funny experience most especially for those who have had life on a soft lane... I had a friend whom couldn't walk properly till today because he was wrongly accused by someone..

the police men damaged his knee with their baton... most of them are animals in disguise.. devils!! they will torture you till you confess to what you didn't do.. it is sad things like this happen daily... this is why sometimes I don't give a damn when they face insults or domestic abuse from civilians... it might be their karma..

kokorokoman:
i grew up in the streets of benin, being arrested by police just be like 'good morning' to us.
before this incident i had spent at least a night in police cell over six different times.
the landlady was over 60 without kids and husband.

@ bolded, you now see where the frustration comes from...

your landlady is a depressed lady which uses those trouble she causes to vent her inner pains.. she's lonely and depressed.. no one to talk to her, no one to soothe her pain.. she has no kids, so she doesn't know how it feels like treating other people or someone's kid, that's why she's bitter... you see ehn, lack of partner and attention makes women go crazy... this is why women like that turn to frustrated feminists online saying all men are scum... until you get close to one of them and let them open up to you, you'll never know...

women can't do without men, no matter how hard they try to form independent boss bitch... a woman will only turn to frustrated feminist only if she doesn't find a man...

vickydevoka:
Ladies are generally entitled in one way or the other

exactly bro... but now, the entitlement is now much pronounced in this modern time due to the behaviours of these simps and weak men..

the thing is that, when simps are the bosses and directors of a company, the productivity of such company reduces.. they begin slacking off and this can cause the downfall of such company or organisation.. simps and weak men are dangerous..

@ op, nor be new thing, you shouldn't be surprised.. na women way be that.. and I don't totally blame them, their simp ogas and bosses initiated the nonsense they exhibit in the work place.. some are even fvcking these women, whether they are married or not.. this is why married women cheat most in workplaces like this... Simps are dangerous to the society as a whole... eliminating them will significantly reduce some problems we are facing in the society...

women are often given much leeway and second chances compared to men, and they receive much benefits and help for just being women.. men on the other hand have to suffer for it before they can get recognised.. tell me why won't they be disrespectful, entitled and lazy? if the woman in question is also attractive, mehn na free ticket be that.. free highway..

see ehn, just face your own business and avoid any entanglement with any female employee... it's the harsh reality we have to face..

earthsync:
The first one though you no get shame as you dey tell us say you don knack many women You're one of those that think sex with different women is an achievement.

it's not an achievement but there's one thing, you can't slut shame a man just like you can't broke shame a woman.. it just doesn't work...

a hoe is a hoe.. a broke guy is a broke guy... I detest sleeping around though, whether man or woman, but it is what it is

fadilaMaikiriki:
What?

you need psychological help.. read the my first post again..

wtf?? like wtf?? did I just read?? wtttfffff??

first 1.5m to do what? to buy more waist beads abi? so you can continue posting your low self-esteem self here on nairaland or 1.5m to start waist beads business??

are you sure this person is even your boss in the first place, or your sugar daddy? I don't think this person is your boss that's if your story is true and not seeking for attention again due to the depression you're suffering from?

see how you're entitled to his money and properties, I don't think this story is real or the person is your boss.. there's more to this..

and by the way, we don't fvcking care about you and your imaginary boss.. get the fvck out !

congratulations... God bless your union..

but what's with ladies with all these revealing clothes even showing your inner thighs...

hmm hmm hmmmm anyways, what do I know...?? see how your man is properly dressed, can't you follow suit?

never ever in your life be intimate in a woman's territory... she either come to your house or a neutral place..

secondly, she's gone! that her colleague is yanshing her... for him to come with confidence and also walk him out, it shows it's not just starting... don't contact her anymore, even if she contacts you, close her chapter...

thirdly, leave love for women, leave emotions for women.. focus your energy on your purpose first... women will align with it later..

loyalty, peace, support, submission which comes from uniqueness of femininity..

low budget scammer... mumu op

Hezzyluv:
The question is have they been expecting u?
If yes, is means they've prepared the food solely for your coming and not right to turn it down. Just eat, but not like a glutton.

exactly, If they were expecting you, you can eat it but kinda resist in a calming manner, you might as well tell them that they don't need to stress themselves especially if they ask you what you would like to eat.. if they persist by bringing the food to you already, just eat small amount and appreciate them..

sleeping with a girl who's sleeping with multiple men will cause you more harm than good and bring you bad lucks... the money she's giving you for free is more costlier than what you think it is.. the money she's giving you is just an illusion... you need to detach yourself from her or avoid sleeping with her... she's a distraction and you need to focus now more than ever..

it's obvious your cousin is on course to ruin you and he's blocking your path.. try as much as possible to stay away from him and find a place you can be staying for a while if possible... go and engage in labour work and see if anyone can be of help around the neighborhood... don't tell your family or cousin about your condition because from your story, they are planning to ruin your life... save yourself man.. the world is already harsh for men, reading your story is so heartbreaking; that's if all what you're saying is the truth..

also find a way to offset your debts as fast as possible... bro, at this time of your life, be prepared for war..

Ilamina,

I always wonder who's behind this moniker... I don't know who I find the most weirdest between you and a moniker called mamagee... I don't think you've ever created a reasonable thread...

I want to ask you, are you alright? where are you from? are you truly a female? are you suffering from kind of depression? are you a student? are your parents still alive and well or are you an orphan? because I don't just get it the way some certain monikers behave here... are you even human or a bot? how old are you? did you experience a toxic childhood life or victim of any kind of abuse? you need help... childofdoom also, I think he's now getting the help he needs..

anyways, back to the topic, if you want to make heaven then start doing works that will guarantee you heaven... they are unlimited!

this is just the universal truth... the type of price involved is what varies.. in fact, I would say everyone has a price.. and the price is mostly money or value...

most people would kill for 5 million dollars... what am I even saying?? we have seen people kill themselves for as low as 50K.. most people you think are pious or unwavering would do the unthinkable when the right price or benefit is tabled before them!

it's instinctual.. even animals don't raise another offsprings.. like the lion for example, he's going to chase or kill off his competitor offsprings..

we want to grow our own offspring because it gives us a sense of fulfillment.. so it's not selfishness, adoption is a personal choice.. and it's not African issue..

thesilentman:
Then someone has slept with her before.Why are some folks here acting all saintly when they hear some man out there is drilling the honeypot of another man's wife.IT takes two to tango,doesnt it?If i bang another man's wife shebi another man's wife self bang another man's husband.,
Any man who cannot treat a woman right should not marry her.
finally,can anyone show me a man whose wife was fvcked behind him that did not Bleep another man's wife?

your mentality is stunted...

and @ bolded, countless number of times.. this is why some people question if karma doesn't exist.. good things happen to bad people, and bad things happen to good people... this is why most times the nice man doesn't get anything and only get used.. in return and the bad guys get the good ladies.. if you let yourself take the wrong decision or make the wrong move, you'll suffer the consequences, no matter if you're good or not.. this is why common sense is not common.. you should try as much to learn from other people's experiences to avoid turning yourself into a prey.

so you're saying those people which their wife cheated and divorced them didn't treat them well abi? mehn, your thinking get as e be...

DenreleDave:
So if you gave birth to daughters and they were disvirgined and facing same situation, they should be fvcking lecturers right?

Will you accept same advice or give such advice if it was your family or your own daughter?

Obviously, you are part of the rot that needs to be cut off.........

actually some people don't think when they dish out advices.. they just open their mouth like foolish people .. when I read what he typed, I was just dumbfounded.. most people are actually fools.. they just need someone to tell them...

OP, let your sister tell the lecturer she's engaged as someone as suggested, and if she's the type that wears seductive clothes, she should stop... or let her get enough evidences as someone else suggested and do the needful.. stupid lecturers like that needs to be taught a lesson... but I hope your sister is saying the whole truth to you!

you are very wise... until we start being productive and promote innovative breakthroughs, we will never move forward.. until we stop making foolish people popular like the set of people you just mentioned, we will never move forward...

come to think of it, foolish people just spend 3 months in a house doing nothing but absolute nonsense, millions of useless Nigerians spend their money to support it and they are being awarded with many rewards... isn't that foolishness? a first class graduate that struggled through school and even managed to create mind-blowing project or make credible research doesn't even have anything to show for it? so why won't the youths be saying school is scam and why won't olosho keep on promoting their stupidity?

until we change our mentality in Africa and focus on the needful, Africa will never be regarded a developed continent... We will forever consume and not produce, we will forever be inferiors and be subjected to racial slurs.. foolish leaders, foolish followers, foolish youths... smh

lmao, another cash out loading

Goodlady:
Which kind story be this?
Before you die, know that your death ll still cause problems for your kins & the location you die. Who ll bury you?
Instead of dying like rat, get your life together. Do you v skills or education work?
Even if na olosho, do am well to gather money to survive.

@ bolded, actually I'm not surprised... I even find it quite interesting...

very good.. most of what you said is true...

you're still a young man... Happy Birthday!
don't do drugs, don't womanise, focus on your purpose!

but what I don't understand is that the way you guys quickly bring the issue of alphas and redpillers yet still end up doing or saying what these people do...

what you just wrote is what is being preached by redpillers week in week out, but since you guys don't like other harsh truths they say, you guys end up ignoring it, yet still go back to it when life dealt with you... were you not the one crying about losing your masculinity to a girl some weeks ago?? if you had listened to those alphas and redpillers, you would have avoided that situation you were in..

what redpillers says are just common sense most people refuse to make use of... they don't say you should hate women, they say you should not simp or save any damaged woman and to avoid falling into the traps and manipulative ways of predatory women... any redpillers that say you should hate women is not a true redpiller... role with women, but don't be stupid when dealing with them... finito! so what is difficult in all these?

Make her beg for it...
another trick is, when she knows you got no options or can't go anywhere, she will start misbehaving.. this is why when you don't demand sex, she will think you're now getting it from outside and she will be worried...

have options as a man, a woman will never take you for a ride and this can make you easily ditch a woman if she forks up.. she will automatically give herself brain because she knows she can't manipulate you with sex or other things...

biologically, men are more driven towards sex due to high amount of testosterone, but women enjoy sex more due to more nerve endings on their clitoris, so we tend to ask for it more than them.... until you're able to control yourself when it comes to sex before you discover this. I once dated a lady who will force me to be intimate with her, sometimes I will purposely get her in the mood and leave her.. she will want to get crazy... I will make her beg for it before I respond to her.. this makes her more attached to me...

anyways, focus on your purpose as a man and stay away from fornication..

Nigerian police and military actually behaves like animals... I don't know what type of mentality is impacted towards them in training...

Men who know their worth - Alpha/Sigma Men

Men who don't know their worth - Simps/Incels/manginas

she loves men who don't know their worth because they are the one that worship her smelly pus$$y and saggy boobs and also sponsor her fake life.. she knows a man of value won't patronise damaged goods...

Jakumo:
I agree with the bolded part of your writeup, BUT I vehemently disagree with your opinion that the rectal passage should be violated in a human being of EITHER gender. The rectal passage is NOT designed to accommodate penetration of any sort, with the notable exception of medical examinations. The AIDS epidemic in the USA was fueled primarily by anal intercourse among gay men, and that reckless form of copulation remains a major avenue by which any number of horrific infections are transmitted among both genders.

The tissue there is fragile and prone to rupture for both males and females and should therefore be excluded from all sexual activity without exception. I happen to have also undergone a prostate examination for the first and only time a while back, and it was an absolutely horrible experience that I certainly don't wish to ever undergo again for the balance of my life.

you're a wise man..

this is actually good..