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^^^^^^^^^^NA real ''business partners'' in kpekuska company.

^^^^^^^^My dear, some people find it very difficult to open their mouths in a relationship, both male and female. I personally do not have the belle to stomach any nonsense, na for my eyes everybody go see am, i no sabi hide feelings, especially not for my husband, i just wonder the type of relationships couples have this days.

Nice, since he is a good painter, wish i had something for him to work on, i would just invite him to come and paint it for me >>>>>>

what i can't understand is a man asking the wife for sex through backyard, when she is on her period, kai!!!!!especially when she is not enjoying it, that man wicked!!! some women do not understand that no matter the type of poo you take from a man, that would not make him love you more, instead it would be an avenue for complete ridicule.

Thank God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jenny, i don dey wait for you to attack ''shushu'', actually, when i read the first few lines, i was ready to start typing, but i took my time to read through and saw where she was coming from (bodija makrket), lol , anyways her last remarks make sense.

I don't live with them, but i sense the man is not trying at all to salvage his marraige and he is already jumping into conclusions about divorce. And it comes easy to him as a thought only because he is having an ''affair''.

Richy all these your analysis is too bad^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^, common now, what of those prostitutes that sleep with men for money, do you think they are emotionally attached to them/men?

My dear, i read and re-read your post again and again, and i am still short of words.  Just take care of yourself, give yourself rest of mind and don't think too much about the child issue, i know it is easier said than done, but that is the only thing you can do, beacuse no amount of talking or pitying would solve your problems. Go on your knees, pray to God and fast. If it means you doing that for 7 days and do midnight prayers.

See am telling you to pray and committ your problems to God, only because i know He is the only One that can give you a ''positive permanent solution'' to any problem. The Lord is your Strength my sister. Take life easy, and your joy would be full.

chaircover:
Ronke where were you when the men on this forum declared that its a mans world? busy in your bedroom I suppose

My dear, i wish i was in the bedroom, that one for pay pass.

true love.

chaircover:
Richy the man has more fault; why because one he has violated his vows (he is the married one remember) and two he is the one in the position of responsibilty

. . . . . . a[b]nd I will be saying the same thing if a married woman sleeps with her single driver or houseboy.[/b]

CC, let it be the bolded one now!!! and you would see all the men on NL drop their 2cents in the matter.

I laugh!!!!!!!!!!!!''poor innocent godly man'' indeed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The next time they come to your home, get a police involved, so that there and then, she would vomit the stock book in her possession.

^^^^^^^^^that girl was not violated. She willingly agreed, we have cases where the house-helps would run away just because their oga is trying to molest them. She waited until she carried the belle and six weeks later went for an abortion, na God save her life.

Your destiny is in the hands of God (that is if you let him direct your paths) and you.

So do you think they man wouldn't have slept with the house maid even if his wife was around??

^^^^^instead of letting that hand fall on her cheeks, why don't you slap the wall or punch the wall, she would obviously get the message.

blackcat1:
My friend doesn't know why he hates her when she's not in his presence but immediately he sees her he becomes powerless.
Hope she hasn't washed anything for my friend sha

Indeed!!!! powerless!!!! indeed!!!, Your friend never hala!. He does not know what is biting him yet!

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=814005.msg9678656#msg9678656 date=1322837384]Nigerians have a high level of mental problems though.

This man was blaming his own on the girlfriend he wronged?

Lord have mercy, if e easy like that, about 90% of nigerians would be wandering the streets, seriously. A lot of nigerian men dont exactly have a good track record when it comes to relationships.[/quote]VERY TRUE.

Fulfillment comes if you have God/ Christ in your life, then you know, no matter your condition, God completes it for you. ( And that is just from me).

Chaircover, it is so true, i remember seeing that ''mad man'' too, so that was what happened to him? OMG!!!! God should please forgive us all.

Honeycity:
@ op
Don't you think you should be more concerned about your hubbys faithfulness to you while you are away, even if you move out you little sister whats the assurance your man wont bring home another woman to keep him warm

It is still better to bring in a woman that she does not know than the husband sleeping with her own sister. (abomination!!!!!!!!!!).

NAWA FOR NIGERIAN men, see as all the men scatter teeth, ontop say woman receive call, so this is how you take your properties personally enh!!!!!, if it was the woman complaining on this forum now, how her hubby receives calls in the middle of the night, it is still the same guys that would say, it is natural, men are natural born cheats. So ''nonsense'' behaviour dey pain?? i no know oooo!!!, i jus dey know now. mcheeeewww!!!!.

Thank you dwarlyn, you are a life saver.

^^^^^^^ Tpia i don laugh tire, No mind MBJ, e don dey fear, dem plenty jare, toto washers.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=814005.msg9673663#msg9673663 date=1322772179]obviously the lady didnt wash some toto inside his stew.


that's why he's gallivanting all over the place after refusing to marry her for ten years.



if he keeps refusing she should move on jare.[/quote]Tpia has killed me with laugh oooooooooo, egbami !!!!!!!!!!!! if she washes it into his stew how do you expect the man to succeed in life??

Is she you sister or your hubby's sister?, better make arrangements for her else where. She is only staying with you guys because you are in that house. And if you are relocating let her relocate, unless your hubby is looking for cook or companion.

My dear it is not a good idea oooo, no matter how much you trust your other half, it is better to avoid fire instead of looking for an extinguisher when it happens.

Personally, i would pray and fast and fortify my house with nails and bullets, before i allow any friend to stay with me and that would be only for 2 weeks tops.

Missy B, i need something not too light nor heavy for dinner, so i would like mixed vegetables with shrimp and brown rice. Thank you.