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Hausaboy239:
Everyone wants to come back to Nigeria now.


Never thought i will live to witness these days!

God bless Nigeria!

What's so special in that? Is Corona virus not in Nigeria?

KingAzubuike:
They warned you decades ago to stay back in Nigeria and practice your medicine, you refused.


Anyways RIP.

What the Bleep is this idiot saying? So people don't die in Nigeria?

It's clear you are suffering from cognitive corona viral infection. Fool!!!

RIP Dr, your invaluable contribution in fighting this pandemic will never be forgotten.

Omooba77:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/health/health-news/387036-i-never-knew-nigerias-healthcare-infrastructure-was-in-such-bad-state-sgf.html

Clueless Clowns.

Masculity:
Thank God I'm not complaining but creating jobs.

Good for you.

Masculity:
Thank God I'm not complaining but creating jobs.

Good for you.

whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

Gbam!!!

Masculity:
Whiles others will see the project not the Contractors.

Don't complain there is no job then. You think those foreigners will offer you contracts for any ptoject? You can't eat your cake and have it.

Masculity:
Gov. Abdullahi Umar Ganduje OFR inspected the ongoing construction of a multi -billion world class Kano Cancer center at Muhammadu Buhari Specialist Hospital.

This center would be the best in the country in both Infrastructure and equipments when completed. The equipments have already been procured and are coming soon.

The Governor was conducted round by the Commissioner's of Works and Infrastructure Engr. Muazu Magaji and of Health Dr Aminu Ibrahim Tsanyawa, Project Managers and the Contractors.

One will always see whites or Turkish-looking contractors.

gloriaunobi:
You left us in this country and now you want to return with virus

Hating at it's best. The whole world is in this together, for your information.

sarrki:
While we all slept, Gov Ayade kept vigil at the Calabar/Itu bridge, the boundary between Cross River State and Akwa Ibom State to ensure that the border closure order is absolute.

Is this a joke? A Governor of a whole State masquerading as a vigilante? I am tired of this daily clownish behaviour from our leaders on this country.

MetaPhysical:
Afonja!!!

Na jealousy.

Jealousy over a political post in Liberia...I mean LIBERIA? Deal with your issues. Leave Afonja out of it.

I respectfully rest my case.

NextD18:
Shot in IBADAN?

Nna eh! Why do those people hate IGBOs this bad?

Imagine shooting an innocent Igbo guy like that.

Ndi ofe mmanua gbakwara ajor wicked oo!
Nya, fa choro igbusisi ndi Igbo niile no na obodo fa?

Anya ukwu adirokwa mma oo!

You are displaying a clear symptom of a tribalised corona viral infected brain.

You are strongly advised to isolate yourself from peace loving and detribalised Nigerians.

Deltayankeeboi:




Chineke.

Words fail me.

But some tenants can be so wicked, you didn't pay, you don't want them to disconnect your light.

You want to keep enjoying where you did not sow.

Is that not wickedness.

See what you caused yourself.

When you get well, try and pay before you pack out.

...and that warrant the attack of this magnitude? An attack that could possibly have caused her to be maimed or even die? Fear God na.

Jesse25:
Nigerians abroad are the people that bring this corona virus to this country nonsense who cares about them

They also brought Ebola?

The world is going through a difficult time and all you can contribute is a senseless comment. I can't believe you are the only sperm that was able to fertilise.

And this is news? I give up.

I don't doubt that UI is a beautiful school but your definition of beauty is questionable going by those pictures.

$3,000,000 for the house alone?

With all due respect, the finishing could be better and carrara marbles, unobstructed floor to ceiling window and top coat wall renderings won't be out of place for that price tag.

My opinion.

Overexaggeration or reality?

It means they were stuck in the traffic for nearly or over 7 hours, conservatively put?

Flight time to the UK from Nigeria is approximately 6 hours...more or less, depending on head or tailwind, immigration control, baggage drop off or check-in and air traffic control on the other side, in some situation.

topboss1:
IGBOS REMAIN THE LIGHT OF THE NATION.


NO WONDER DEY DONT WANT US TO LEAVE.


ONCE WE EXIT, IT IS LIGHT OUT.

Says who? Dream on.

No tribe is joined at the hips with another. However, what this country needs is unity in purpose and mission but to say one tribe is indispensable, big fat lie.

Davash222:
No CCTV means it will only take the grace of God for Kasali to come out of this.
One of the disadvantages of fornication and adultery.
That's why I decide to abstain for over 10 years.

CCTV or autopsy?

NextD18:
You are unnecessarily bothered and looking for problems where there's none.

It takes the grace of God for a woman to be loyal and respectful to her husband after relocating to America. It's take the grace of God for that to happen, because it has been statistically proven that 99.591% of Nigerian women v'got high possibilities of changing to a disrespectful and wild dogs to their husband once they relocate to the West.

Kindly appreciate and encourage her.
Stop complaining!
She's a reserved type!
You should be thankful to God, because when she'll start being over expressive, and wild towards you, you'll know it's better to live in hell, than to live with a disrespectful and wild woman in America.

You ABSOLUTELY nailed it. I couldn't agree with you more if my life depends on it.

The OP should be thankful for the kind of woman God has blessed him with. I do not see anything wrong with this amazing woman. Thank your stars and continue to encourage communication...many would rather have such woman as a wife rather than 'Rottweilers' that will regularly call you unthinkable names, possibly cheat behind your back and devise agenda that will deprive you of everything you have worked for, once they feel they have 'arrived'.

Case dismissed.

iCauseTrouble:
The strength of friendship doesn't lie in numbers but in values.......
Some people have more than 500 useless friends, single contract them no go give them

I couldn't agree with you more �.

"Please, be kind to draw the attention of appropriate agency and government officials to this, also similar ones nationwide"

Do you actually think that they don't know about these buildings?

If they consider it 'fit for purpose' in terms of personal interests, they will do the needful.

Froshloaded:
Happy Married Life to them!!
The wife try small
This is only what Osinbajo has achieved as a Vice President..

Has being able to string this senseless jargon together your only achievement

Please let's have some decorum and self respect.

BiafraIpob25:
The name said it all
The people from this Western Nigeria is known for scam
After writing Senior Waec na to join Yahoo (Scam) be their next target.


No matter what you pass in life always make sure you have a good forwarding address... even though your poor your good record will locate you one day and your story will change.


Truth is life

You are entitled to your opinion but it is senseless to generalise. Let's not forget #ObinnaGate / #InvictusGate...does that mean all Igbos are scammers?

Abalado:
I don't understand this story, can someone explain to me please?

Would you also prefer a sketch and sign language to clearly explain the situation

sulaak:
Lack of maintenance culture, those gutters should be cleared every week.

I don't think it is sustainable, economically viable or even possible to clean gutters every week. There are lots of gutters with no clearly defined drainage system, and as long as there are unpaved roads everywhere, the problem will persists.

danietohbadt:
You're sick. I swear. Coronavirus and Lassa fever dey do collabo for your body

You no get chill o. I am laughing in Swahili ��.

Balaxx:
Female afonjas right now

You have just won an Oscar for Petty Tribalism. Congratulations.

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
find the nearest transformer damfool

You fell from heaven without passing through a woman? You are the the big fool.

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
What is wrong with this woman of a governor

Myopic Sexist.

This are contract awards in the form of 'deals'. Non of all these deals aim to solve pestering issues concerning the country.

Smart metering to do what...measure hours non availability of electricity?

I rest my case.