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Wealthoptulent:
Qdot alagbe

beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

Bro, you don't need to think far on this. Since you can't sleep with her to preg her cos of the virginity stuff, kindly go ahead and break the realtionship.

Find someone who is not a virgin, impregnate her and continue your life.

You don't want to go through those herculean process of PCOS sh1t.

Don't stress yourself

Here is the Wikipedia link to that: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Okada_(motorcycle_taxi)

Check the attached image for the excerpts from Wiki

How do people think this Oseni guy is a journalist

Ila alasepo

3. Talk to your partner. Have an honest conversation. Share your feelings, and listen to their side too. This can bring clarity to the situation and help decide the next steps.

5. Evaluate the relationship. Consider if trust can be rebuilt. Both partners need to be willing to work on it. If not, it might be time to move on.

6. Establish boundaries for the future. If you decide to stay together, set clear expectations. Discuss what needs to change for the relationship to heal.

You mean if you catch your wife cheating you will still spend another day in the same house with her and be considering rebuilding trust? WTF did I just read?

Pucci ass niggis everywhere

Davido and the entire Adeleke family are one gracious family

bdon123:
Dont ask sister inlaw hubby shit.Quietly claim u taking d child out for hangout n do a DNA test.they only need ur blood/saliva n that of d child to do it.
I hav done DNA twice ..both blood n saliva sometimes 2016 n it came back negative that i wasnt father of d child i was accused.ad of then it cost 70k

Baba, gist me the tori na or create a new topic and mention me. I won hear the gist

Carcholce:
Let me summarize it:

OP married his long time girlfriend and taught her how to fish, She started fishing and started being disrespectful and not submissive. The thing vex OP. OP that was once a church boy was forced to start doing hookup and bending doggy inside his car. The wife noticed but She nor send OP. After OP have had his fill of hookup, he came to his senses and gave his life to Christ. It was after his eyes has cleared that he realized his last born resembles his sisters in law last born.

Did the OPs wife mistakenly fell on her sisters bed and rode her brother in law till he came inside her? OP is confused. So am I.

The question OP is asking now is “Who get the pikin”

You be weyrey

Nigerians are some mad set of people. What's in traveling?

The reason why you are keeping mute is because you see traveling as the biggest ever thing that could happen to you in life.

Tell whoever you are close to. Tell people you normally tell your secrets. Be it friends or family. If I know all your secrets and every sh1t about you, I expect you to tell me about your travel plans and if you don't tell me, I will block your asss and never ever talk to you again.

Una dey craise? What's the fuss about traveling?

Mindlog:
I used that brain to learn how the brain works and after being certified, now assessing how other people's brain works, is how I earn my daily bread......so make another attempt to "insult" me.

On a lighter note, I have had numerous psychiatric patients who I have worked with tell me your exact words and I always jokingly replied them, working with you here in the psychiatric facility is me making use of my brain.

I won carry go chop better catfish peppersoup and Heineken. I just gbadun

The same Naira that has lost its pristine glory making the Frontpage of Nairaland.

Of what use is this thread, please?

jeromestarks:
That is their goal in life. That's why when a woman is not married at 30, she feels like committing suicide.

It's all sweet to say until you have a sister who is unmarried at 30. Na that time you go understand.

SpaceAngel:
That's what happens when our street lights don't work or non existent. Your friend from US should have noticed this too. No street lights, pot holes, and other hazards and you now have to drive with low beam. How many meters will the person clearly have good visibility.?

That's the genesis of people using high beam here.

System is totally messed up and people also don't go to driving school before getting licence too

You took the words out of my mouth.

diara21:
It was a crazy moment for me last year October. Had an accident while going to work and broke my left humerus . Visited 3 local bone setters in the space of 4 months with no improvement until my my sister took me to one general hospital in Ibadan have forgotten the name now . The doctor have to break the bone again (reduced ) and Was on pop for 8 weeks and my bone joined. Funny enough it wasn’t painful @all compared to the pain I went through in the hands of those local bone setters .....my advice go to the hospital and have an X tray done . This local people will only make things worst for you .

My younger brother's bone was badly fixed by traditional setters. We are planning getting him to General hospital to refix it. How much did the surgery cost you and how long did it take to get it completely healed?

Zonefree:
Spirit husband is a term devised by African women. They always use that word in order not to take responsibility of not attracting men for marriage.

Spiritual husband and wife exists in almost every culture around the world. They are generally called incubus and succubus. You can google it. I don't know if its real sha o.

The end result of many slay queens

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Never ever borrow money to do business in Nigeria. It is not worth it. The economy and the environment won't allow your business to grow.

Better find an investor or grant else continue drinking garri.

Kachidubem:
So I would have bought dollar and leave it for 7 years untouched...like I don't have bills or expenses to make


Can you leave money untouched for that long...let's keep tracking your 8 mill sha and see where it lands

Well, that's the difference between you and I, the 8 milli is not my last card. Its just about 50% of what I have. If I wanted to risk it all, I would have put like 20 milli. And yes, I can leave it for as long as possible. Its been lying fallow for God-knows-when. The money can keep going up and down and I will continue to pay all my bills, eat well, sleep well and even have extra more to cheat on my wife with single girls.

Kachidubem:
I've explained this thing to them before...

Ps4 wey we dey buy 75k that year 2016/17... shebi now dem dey sell for almost 200k.

Even if I save for dollar,shebi inflation for still wipe the gain... I just tire for this nighas

I'm just unhappy seeing unpatriotic Nigerians wishing n praying dia currency weakens

You don't get it. The idea is to stay above everyone else. If I leave the money in my bank account, it will keep losing its value due to inflation. If I buy dollar, it will rise to meet the inflation.

If you had purchased dollar with that 75k, it would be worth 200k, so you won't feel like you are paying extra. You are not losing and you're not gaining. You are staying afloat.

Kachidubem:
Coming back fire


That 8 million intact is gone....your best bet is going home with 5 million

You will learn the hard way ...you go dey buy dollars for 1280 ...who does that ..lol

So you actually believe dollar will 2000 by December...lol

Dey play

I go quote you when he don surpass 1280.

Kachidubem:
See your mouth "Naira will fall yakata"

Very unpatriotic fool,I'm an obidient , but I can never wish this country bad, I can never wish the currency to fall just for my selfish reasons

No worry , Dangote is coming on board soon... body go rest !!!

Bro, I'm not a fan of Obi. I am a full blooded BAT (Agbadorian) and sincerely want the best for this nation. It will be my greatest joy if Naira performs well. But I'm just facing the reality. The govt is trying to fix everything, Dangote is trying to come on board. But it doesn't look like it will happen in the next month or two. Before then, the Naira will plunge. It's not about me wishing bad on the nation. It's the obvious truth. People keep changing their Naira to dollar to import different rubbish from abroad. As long as this continue to go on and on, Naira will fall.

Kachidubem:
Baba dat image shows ...you've lost 1 million naira already ... dollar is 1050

1050 x $6591 = 7 million

Keep playing...we will help you calculate it till it gets to 4 million naira.

We'll go again tomorrow.

Yes na. I know I have lost money. I was even losing more when it went down to 950. But it's coming back.

Ikaeniyan0:
Its presently 1000

When the CBN clear the backlog and the refineries start working, the naira will strengthen. We will be saving at least $10 billion every year when our refineries start working.

And it won't hit 1150 tomorrow.

Bro, where are you seeing your 1000? Do you use Binance? Prices are updated there every second . If you have Crypto with you now I will buy it at 1020 Naira. Baba it's presently 1072.

Yes. I agree we will make a lot when refineries start working but before then, Naira will fall yakata. As for backlog, that one doesn't hold any water. If they clear backlog, it will only reduce the price for three to five days and it starts rising again.

And do you even realize the govt is currently playing pranks with the refineries?

They can't even give Dangote crude oil for refineries and the guy man is considering buying crude from abroad.

Ikaeniyan0:
How much usdt did you buy?

usdt is presently less than 1k. I don't see usdt rising up to 1300 again this year unless the CBN stop paying the forex backlog and don't also get all the billions of dollars they are expecting.

H told you it will hit 1070 before close of business today. The image below is the current trading price for USDT on Binance. And forget that backlog sh1t. It's a temporary fix. It doesn't hold any water as long as we don't earn enough from export. You can't keep selling your Naira to buy dollar for import and expect it to be stable

It's hitting 1150 by the close of business tomorrow.

I knew it will happen. I changed 8m Naira to USDT when it was 1,280 and it went back to 950. People suggested I sell but I refused.

I created a post here about this fall: https://www.nairaland.com/7898545/dont-believe-jp-morgans-prediction

Let's wait and see.

PS: That's my funds in the image below converted to USDT

Na Amadioha suppose kii this one

GeneralDae:
You can't be so sure this time except CBN is yet to get the billions of dollars they are expecting. If CBN gets huge inflow it can't go up this year again.

Bro, many Nigerians don't get the exchange rate on weekends. I get it per second. It's currently going back up as I speak. It's 995 this night. Let's see what happens on Monday.

And as for the money CBN is expecting, it's not a sustainable way to keep the currency stable. It's just a makeshift. And we don't even know when the money is coming. They said in weeks, but you know Naija. Weeks might turn to months

Athena6:
Thanks for the advice, I guess I will just cut my loses.
It is very painful losing 400k in just a few days 😢

I'm one of those people who advised that you buy dollar. I took out 8m out of my savings and bought USDT (Crypto) and now I'm currently losing about 1.4m. So madam, don't sell yet. It's going back up next week. It will first rebound back to where it's coming from and then even go a little higher before crashing back again. Just hold on a little. I promise to give you back your money if you lose. Trust me.

By the way, be careful of broke Nairaland guys who might want to take advantage of you by sending you DMs. They will look for ways to chop the remaining 2.4m

Na your phone camera dey draw line around the sun.

Nothing special