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Raalsalghul:
Is she not aware of the laws in France?

Does she not know the power she wields by reporting him to the police?

Something else might be at play here and I'd advise you stay out of it.

sisisioge:
All these low intelligent oyinbos should stop disturbing people's peace jare. Even if it is in the guy's culture to batter his wife, is it now in the wife's culture to accept it? Abeg! She should swerve! Some women are just destined to die in the hands of men. Whew!

frozen70:
Thanks dear

It takes madness to correct nonsense

frozen70:
Since her husband is a liability, let her Concentrate on the one she has at the moment till she finds her bearing

If it happens that he want to go and pregnant another woman outside, let him go

After all she has nothing to loose
The man is just milking her while saving money for another woman

Dont be surprise that marriage is not even stable and may hit the rock

Intellectuall01:
For the whole Naija, na only Yoruba lady get that kind loyalty

kay29000:
I don't support this, but I can say the theory is true. I have two girlfriends right now... They both know each other, so it is not like I'm hiding one from the other. Yeah, it is a complicated situation, but they're both okay with it... And I must say, the first one calm down after I got the second girl. This theory is really true, but as I said, I don't support anyone having two wives sha, but I get why some men marry two wives.

klonboi:
I dey laugh you!

You never see anything.

klonboi:
Ma'am please that's not enough reason for him to destroy another person's joy.

If you have worked in a Nigerian bank you will fully understand what the op went through. It's a norm in every Nigerian banks.

Pressure! pressure! pressure!

udofia234:
Good morning everyone!!! I'm so so going to pay her back with the coin she paid me!!! I once worked in a micro finance bank as a marketer and my MD happen to be the relative of the owner of the company and guess what friends she's just 23 year (graduate) when I go the job I was 33 years then, guy she was even the one who employed me and she happens to know I'm also a senior graduate and older than her! this lady is so rude!!! I could remember the day a customer called her to lodge a complain which was false sh never waited to hear my own story, this lady insulted me eh! after I left her presence I went to the rest room and wept bitterly, but since there was no job I had to manage it, but this lady picks on me at any slightest mistake, I couldn't attend my brothers wedding because of her, I lost my relationship with my brother because we where very close and we planned it all together! Guys I know u won't believe this! I resigned from that work simply because she attempted to slap me when we had a little argument but thank God I was smart I dodged it, if I had my chance I would have beaten her but I can't because I'm not trained that way, so I simply resigned and relocated away from that place. To my utter amassment my mum called me that my cousin who state with is from childhood until he graduated from the university and now works with dangote was bringing his fiancee to the house to show them, I was happy and told my mum I'll come over. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this stupid, useless and God forsaking bastard of a girl that never Regarded me as anything, she humiliated me out of that place!!! I hate her so much, when they came into the house cause we where sited already waiting eagerly for them, my brother was the first to come in and then her , when our eyes met she was shocked and uncomfortable, I was so infuriated that I gave an excise and left them there, and I know her conscience is judging her already!!! I haven't told my cousin and dad the kind of lady that is about to join our family!!! And I'm bent on destroying every thing , I swear he won't marry that Jezebel of a lady!!! imagine me!!! the lady that insulted my whole life was greeting me and smiling!!! to who? guys I doubt anyone one of you will also allow this union to happen!!!

Adonispco:
Emotional creatures will always try to shame us rather than reason logically.
Rob which poverty on whose face? Did he raped her? Women will always be manipulative;
@Op like someone said above; if she rejects you aiding for your foetus upkeep; go to her family relatives tell them whats at hand. Life is not easy; dont let any daughter of eve use you.

francisbarrack:
C comment. Pls leave sentiment n give reasonable advice. Imagine if op happened to b ur brother will u make this up.

tunapawizzy:
Hahahahaha God abeg o protect ur sons o...make toxicity no kill dem o

Worriedguy6699:
(Female opinion are not welcomed in this thread)

As the saying goes, spare the rod, spoil the child. Since women are perpetual children, I think it’s time to start correcting them the way our ancestors did.

I think the rise in unfaithful women these days is because society has castrated men and stripped them of their masculinity.

Even women want to be corrected with strength and dominance.

Please do not spare your woman if you catch her or are suspicious of her. Flog her very well on her bumbum (with love of course).

She might not talk to you for a while, but when she comes off it, she will forever fear and respect you. She will not love you because women are not capable of that kind of love you see on TV (it’s all formulated by Hollywood).

Even the Bible tells women to respect their husband not love them (the Bible knows women are not capable of love)

Do this and She will forever respect and adore you.

susrite:
cos she told me. She had symptoms of a pregnant lady. For a whole month she kept spitting profusely. Even the fiance told me himself

Joepic:
Like father like son

Womanwoman:
Thank you. I have prayed. I am still praying

hunterezi:
Good day Nairaland Family.

I want to make this post as short as possible.

So, I had a baby with a girl in 2018 in my final year in school and I've been trying my best to keep her and the baby. (I created a post here then too).

Fast forward to last year I went for NYSC in Gombe and she got admission into the university. I returned for holiday last December, checked my girl's phone and saw that she has been seeing another guy in the school. The messages I saw broke me ehn despite all I do to please this girl still I forgave her (I was thinking it was cos of the distance that's making her see another guy). She promised to leave the guy bla bla..

When I left for Gombe, I noticed she has gone back to the said guy again. I confronted her and she said a lot of things to me. Bad things. I was perplexed knan. I never believed this girl can do and say such things. She outrightly told me that ive not married her and she can see any guy! She blocked me on WhatsApp.


Ever since then I've been sending upkeep to her mum who is taking care of the baby.

When I returned, I tried to make things up again cos I don't want to be having children with different women. But she declined and now her parents are supporting her.

Still, I do send upkeep. I've never missed a month. The thing is I'm sincerely tired of everything. I want to leave them with the child and not do anything with them again

When I get a job and be comfortable again, I might return cos they're milking the little I saved and its affecting me.

What do you think I do?

PS: She is still with same guy

DigitalLawyer:
Thanks a lot. I agree with you. It now appears to me all women are the same. I will buy her a car and see whether it will change anything. Once again thanks

JovialJune:
Very annoying, it's so pitiful Harry allowed her to ride over him to the extent of alienating him from his family, now she craves their attention and media publicity? She's a confused psycho.

Josepin:
Why I feel like suing her, is because I felt she took advantage of my simplicity. Though I have blocked her off completely but I still feel cheated

edoman2016:
I have a cousin who is single at 35. We are age mate and very close since childhood. Her last relationship didn't work out cause her boyfriend was a time waster and irresponsible.

Her parents are pressuring and calling her to get married before december. That she is not getting any younger day by day. Because of that, she is so worried and depressed. I don't even know how to advice her so that she won't be desperate. Cause she is my cousin sister.I need opinions from nairalander. NO INSULTS please.

pocohantas:
Drag the werey anyhow you want. I have even forgotten he exists, yet the trash somehow thinks that I, Pocohantas, would hide behind an alternate to quote him. Say I dey fear a nonexisting element abi wetin?

You come online to deride women with reckless abandon and think the woman who saddled us with a filth like you, should be respected?

You must be mad!

Nonexisting:
Same MO. As soon as I see an insult on someone's mother, I know it must be your main or one of your numerous alternate monikers. You are so petty but unfortunately, you still carry your shoulder up. Poco, know it now that you are petty and are just another street cretin.

workchopNG:
I love Shakira

JOACHINpedro:
Calling his mom makes it seem like you don't have manners. Make your point and leave specific persons alone.
Haba!

Natbrowny:
Ooops tryna take a shot at my mama.

Nice shot..