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Kingarthur21:
kids!
You brought them to this world without their consent so they should be prioritized

Naija246:
nah issues like this dey make me fear to marry
Modern women are nothing to write home about.
They are always very loud, rude and generally unpleasant.
I pity men rushing into marriage with these women;you will regret the day you were born by the time she starts dealing with you after marriage.

By the way guys, don't be fooled by her pre marriage calmness;it's all a ploy to hook you and get that ring!

YouareaBITCH:
Y’all certainly not okay, just selfish. Who doesn’t give anything in love?

safarigirl:
Thanks for this

The reason why many girls hold off on being generous with guys, is that guys instantly assume that because she is making her own money and not asking them for anything, then, they don't need anything.

Every girl wants to be spoiled and taken care of by their man, irrespective of how much she earns, but women who make their own money are rarely understood like this. I know someone that has been 'dating' some guy for months now, and because she makes her own money, only thing this oga can do is scold her for spending money on necessities. Her phone recently spoilt under lockdown and she had to get another one, no be say money dey, cuz her work has been heavily affected by this pandemic, only thing bros could say is that she should stop wasting her money. He doesn't give her a dime, only monitors how she spends her own money.

Being a big girl doesn't mean you want to go it alone all the time, but a lot of Nigerian men don't know that. They just count their blessings because nobody is asking them for money for airtime and hair, in the long run, na the big girl go lose, cuz she doesn't ask for stuff and the man doesn't have sense to contribute without being asked. Same problem guys have.

YouareaBITCH:
What dah hell do u men want? We spend our own money, it becomes a questionable trait, we become all womanly and dependent, u all day the only thing we can offer is pussy. Confused specie!! [color=#770077][/color]

J111333:
Dude is obviously too young or not yet ready to get married but you coerced him with pregnancy, still your abusive and nagging mouth won't let him round off his adolescent life in peace by not letting him drink small stout and keep cup.

Well, all you can do is to wait for him to grow up or you take a hike.

Ginaz:
You hang around dumb females then !!! Change your circle or maybe you are the same dumb category with them . I don’t see how you can comfortably be friends with guys and say you can’t find at least even one female that converse intelligently . Pure lies !!! You just wanna have a reason to hate your gender .

Ola31:
Even with the lockdown the cases in ogun state is more than orher state. Abeg oo

gasparpisciotta:
Good for them. But why is the governor’s Hayden filling station still selling fuel? Just asking....

Bossontop:
So for her mind now she don mark her territory finish........lol

purples25:
You know the deal sis

purples25:
Why must you actively DIG to find what she is doing? You didn't see anything on her phone. You are complaining. Why do you seek to satisfy yourself with evidence that she is cheating, she is evil. I know you will search heaven and earth until you find something to satisfy your claims. I don't know why you want to catch someone else so bad. Maybe you just want to be the victim in the relationship, while you really NEED her to be the bad guy in your life. You WANT and NEED to be the ANGEL in your relationship. Nonsense.

Gregorian2020:
You see this woman, they will never allow men live their life in full. Adam and eve was in the garden of eden, eve led to his downfall. Woman are really woe to man. God deliver us from devil incarnate women

Jcherish:
Good morning my people. Pls I will like to know your opinion concerning something..... Is it right to take your daughter to the hospital to check if she's still a virgin? The girl in question is from a Christian family. She got admission and has spent just 2 months @ school, came back because of the covid19 wahala.... Few days back her siblings were with her phone and saw some
Ungodly things... This got the attention of the Father... He became furious and insisted on taking her to the hospital to check if she's still a virgin..... Biko my people how una see am?

rockstarB:
Lols I cant stop laughing. To think it's good ladies that falls for that crap. I just told one I cant marry him yesterday, he wants to lure me with marriage I have read here multiple times by guys "you're not doing a broke man a favor by dating him" then why should I date or marry one? If that translate to "you're not doing a rich man a favor by dating or marrying him" I'd rather follow the rich man since I no dey do him favor too. He doesnt have to be wealthy, but he must have sense and be comfortable.

sosleem:
Goldie and fela

djon78:
We have to be balanced when we throw around this word of submission.

The woman should submit but what did the Bible tell the man: husband love your wife!!! How? As Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.

Men even have the tougher task, to love there wives to the extent of dieing for her.

Also note it was the man the Bible commanded to love. The woman was never given that injuction

Definitely of love? 1 Corinthians 13 vs 4 gave the characteristics of love which are:

Love is patient, kind, it's not boastful, it's not proud. It's not rude, it's not selfish etc

Which woman will you shower with all those qualities that will not worship and adore you.


Most of you quote bible to soot your own narrative. You won't love a woman as the Bible commanded you to. But you will want her to submit to you.
That's very very very selfish.

UyaiIncomparabl:



Oga, abeg no vex. Na you I follow yan? No mai enter you ooo. I believe that this is a public fora, so everyone's opinions should be highly respected. So, I should've advised her otherwise abi? Or you expected to read - serve him his meal while kneeling, eulogize him when he cusses you to the high heavens, stroke his back even at her own discomfort. Chaiiiiii! . Men. Una no go kee pelzin.

MizjaY, read me wellaaaaaa! Save ruggedly and radically, when time reach and you see say him never still geh sense, ruuuuunnn oo. Don't listen to any other contrary advice. Your husband needs to learn anger management and as well learn to suppress his ego. Person wey no get suppose humble.

I repeat, ladies, marry who get sense, come sabi road on top.

olabrinks:
Don’t marry for love marry for money. We have been saying this for centuries. Let them call you a goldigger, let them shame you, you will have the last laugh. What is a man, when he doesn’t have money? What can he do for you? What kind of husband will he be, and how can he provide for his future children? What is potiential, everybody in this world has potiential. You need to see monetary proof that he can lead a home. Think with your brain and not your heart, you will avoid many problems. You will grow to love a man who is a stable provider, you will grow out of love with a man who is a stable broke ass. This is not the generation of building with a man, if a man ain’t got money today, he will 90% not have tomorrow. At least when the man gives you problems (which is 100% certain), you will have stability in regards to finances which is One less problem to deal with. A word is enough for the wise.

bukatyne:
Unhealthy ego at all is bullshit.

With money has its own set of problems.