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ModestGal:
I'm a Taekwando black belter, its only if a guy is ready to die hes gonna try that shit with me. And also, I am crew NO FORGIVENESS of such kind of mental problem. Go see a psychologist and never com back to me.
Sick people

I want to learn Taekwando.
How do I join abeg?

Thank you for this write up. Very concise.

Dannyfan:
yahoo female. Even the real one are hiding and forming feminism. Love is hard here oo

Can you blame them?
E get why o

Nooil:
Ocd is glaringly different from claustrophobia

I can't type today abeg

Nooil:
I never mentioned dirt or perfectly cleaned up place in my writeup

I'll rephrase then:
Disorganized

Ugh, I hate cluster so much, I start getting irritable once my room is not perfect.
I hate dirty kitchens
I keep a small circle of friends
Please don't confuse OCD with claustrophobia.

Saddamochieng00:
Does that mean that she ain't the right one for me? I need to know

If you keep looking for sexual attraction, you will end up making mistakes upon mistakes

Inspectorsuga22:
U don't get it, I don't actually care abt those girls. I only give them a lil attention for my dick's sake.
So u can see that besides occasionally serving my d, they are actually useless to me.

Yes now, you are all useless to each other.
Except for the money you end up paying. Continue being useless naw, wetin consign me?

Saddamochieng00:
Ladies can you please tell us what special thing that she has that is making men climax without sex?

Do you make your man climax without sex? Cause my lady doesn't

You're probably not sexually attracted to her

Inspectorsuga22:
Lol... after providing services for the same di¢k we are talking abt right??

You don't get, without money, your d is useless to those girls

And one small boy is already singing heartbreak online for this woman. Chai Jada Jada...

bukatyne:
A man who can control his sexual urge, do his chores, make his food and tame his ego would ALMOST be 'uncontrollable' and 'un-influenceable'.

Would an average woman really really want that type of man?

My dreeeeeeam man!!!!!!

Inspectorsuga22:
And the women we see on different blogs fighting n stripping themselves naked cos of di¢k, how far have u tried to make them master the art of staying away from di¢ks n how many have listened to u?

You got it wrong, they are actually fighting for money.

Obingene:
I'm serious here, you can give me a try. I will never hurt u or any female.

Lamba

Obingene:
So touching. You haven't met the right one's though.

You say what?

Raymeskey:
Fear Nigerian babes
Its better to be single than to even know some of them..
That's how I met one not quite long we became friend. I actually wanted us to take it to another level (I wanted to make her side chick first after which promotion will later comes because real chick is of different faith), but she insisted that she have a boy friend and the guy is good to her. That's fine by me since we are friend, probably she is pretending because her body language is entirely different (in my mind).

Babe birthday comes up, I took her out after some days from the birthday date. she showed up with two friends without informing me, I wanted leaving the scene but come see begging. They ate and drank all they could from there I was taken to one of their friends birthday party.

Some days after, babe woke me up in the morning with a call requesting for 10k if I can assist with 5k. I gave her an excuse that I can't raise such amount of money for now, she called later that I should help with anything that she want to use the money for vocational training blah blah blah.. My answer remains the same...
We later met in the evening babe said I shouldn't bother about it again. Fine if you said so..my reply.
We now schedule her to visit me in the following day probably in the morning (this is not the first time of visiting)

In the morning babe called that she will be coming
after some hours she flashed and I called back but her line was not reachable, I went to the main street no sign of her

In the evening babe called with different number that she came and was knocking on my gate that no one answer and on her way coming to my house she lost her phone, she is using her mum's phone now and she instructed her not to use it again.

Since then I didn't bother asking of her
So many lies, I can see infidelity in her already
Her phone is always off when she is with me and if she turns it on calls will be coming in which she will not answer...

It's better to stay away from them
I now found out the reason some of my friends are not giving it for marriage

You want a side chick, you don't want to be a side guy.
Wetin be dis Oga?

simplepee:
Yinmu. When men meet good women, they will still not value her and treat her like trash. Let those girls show dem pepper atleast for the sake of some of us that don't have that mind. I won't pity men at all.

You all deserve whatever you are getting, except for the very few ones though may God bless you with a good woman.

For the players, liars and deceivers, ya'll deserve each other.

Don't mind them

Biodun1929:
"Either way, if she doesn't like your compliment, the rest is left to you."

In other words, DON'T EVER compliment any girl's boobs no matter what.

Na disclaimer I give am na

MadeINchenzen2:


I mean like say , nice boobz

or Nice tits

or nice bossoms?


There should be a reason women put their tits out there with their revealing outfits neckline dropping down, exposing their chests.

If it is exposed, you can compliment
If it is covered, don't compliment.

Either way, if she doesn't like your compliment, the rest is left to you.

Kamani8:
Sorry to hear this op.
Just pray for her to stop. Go on your knees and pray.
Also work on how you look. Be sexy and try to satisfy her in bed.
Also don't look at her phone so u don't see what u dont want to see.
Try also to stop those behaviour that could make her look outside.

Again pray for her, she will stop.
Prayer is the key

This is what they tell women oooo

Angelacruz:
It will end in customized tears

Chai!!!

proff010:
Have been reading all day about the earthing and i will install it. Thanks

You are not supposed to install earthing by yourself. Stop putting your life in danger, especially those little kids!
Get a professional.
It is not complete unless you earth your home equipments through your wiring system.
Good Lord have mercy!

yvelchstores:
Pls can someone enlighten some of us on "earthing". What is this and how is it done?
Congrats op.

You are not supposed to do earthing by yourself.
You need both an Electrical Engineer and an Electrician to install an earthing system for you.
To the definition:
Earthing is a system whereby excess electric current is directed away from buildings and equipments into the general mass of the earth.
Safety 101:
Don't tinker with electricity by yourself!

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

You want to marry Angelina who has never met phallus, yet you want her to become a sex vixen once she sees your own.
You want a woman to think like a man, and pay money like a man, yet you don't want independence.
You want marriage to be peaceful, yet you are engaging in violence.
Mr man you are confused.

Aston02:
T

Awwn. So sorry. May God send you your own missing rib.

Toxay:
You have said nothing

You meant to say you understood nothing of what I wrote.

Gentle0wavez:
No, I know that we are not the only one being burnt but state it that way. Stop making it look like it's only one side causing all the damage, judge things from both sides. There is no particular saint or victim in this game.

Your one side has caused an awful lot of damage Mr.
Moreover, its a thread meant to help girls think better. So.........

Toxay:
Explain these troubles you talk about appropriately.

Let me help you do that.

Start by comparing the "troubles" of abortion and the "troubles" of having an unplanned pregnancy.please do a good job.

Secondly, how the hell do you want to convince people not to have sex before marriage and even after marriage people would still use birth control,so why should we avoid birth control.

Let me summarize the post you quoted.
Whatever decision a woman makes, she's still going to find things difficult. Hence her need to apply sense. Is the man worth the pain?

Gentle0wavez:
There is a lot of sense behind this your sarcasm, that is the reason for the heartlessness in guys. Ladies most especially have pushed us to trade sex for gifts/luxury/money or comfort and it's now seen as a business. And you know that no emotions in business, If a girl don't give a fvck if I do yahoo, or go to steal and police catch me, girls don't care if you slave under the sun 6 hrs a day, or die looking for money, the moment u die or get in to trouble they replace you in 2 days, that is if they were not cheating on you initially . All THEY WANT IS MONEY. So y should men care about your body or womb, ALL WE WANT IS SEX. i know it's not a healthy lifestyle but judge things from both sides.

Most of those girls looking for money have been burned by your love toting counterparts. Or, did you think you are the only ones who've been burned?

Zoie:
Girl, your post is timely.
As I wrote on that post "Young women should place a high premium on their wombs".
These men you're making excuses for, "he says condoms itch his skin" don't give two shiits about you. Look at the advice most of the guys are giving the guy on that post.
These are men who have sisters, some have daughters even.
These men don't give a fvck about you.
And if you die trying to abort another baby, he'd replace you in two months, that is, if he wasn't cheating on you, before your death.

If you must have sex, be selfish. Make sure he wears a condom. He doesn't like condoms? Then let him get a vasectomy.
Period.

Vasectomy will not prevent STIs, it's simply condom or no show.
But lots of ladies are blinded by 'love'

Toxay:
Properly performed abortion by a certified health care professional is far safer than carrying any pregnancy to term. Also 30-50% of fertilization ends in spontaneous abortion, the body itself is an abortionist and disrupt the 9 months journey
The level of ignorance is startling considering the responses from ladies especially those that claim to be know about women's health
the problem with this couple is lack of sex education which is an area our society generally fails.
Lastly, the lady having the child without enough financial support is 10 times a bigger risk than having a medically performed abortion

Properly performed abortion by a certified health care professional is far safer than carrying any pregnancy to term. Also 30-50% of fertilization ends in spontaneous abortion, the body itself is an abortionist and disrupt the 9 months journey
The level of ignorance is startling considering the responses from ladies especially those that claim to be know about women's health
the problem with this couple is lack of sex education which is an area our society generally fails.
Lastly, the lady having the child without enough financial support is 10 times a bigger risk than having a medically performed abortion

Take these as facts:
1. Having a child without stable financial support is trouble
2. Having an abortion no matter how safe is trouble (you will think about it)
3. Birth control of any type, no matter how safe is trouble (it upsets the reproductive system)
Just as Bukatyne said, the bulk of the responsibility and consequence lie on women and their bodies.
I'll add that if we were in a civilized society, it would have been different, but since our society is primitive, women will have to learn make better choices about who they get down with, how et c.

sladimeji:
everyone makes mistakes irrespective of their financial status or gender

Aye mi my life, mistake on top person uterus.
I'm going to faint....