₦airaland Forum

fykes:
U see ur opening statement, it's a huge lie. Infact u should have a degree in lying.
I dated my wife for 3 years and have married her for 5years and not only do I find her attractive and sexy, I will never cheat on her. And while u think its something huge it's not. Many men are doing it. Before I married, I worked in a multi national, I played the field and there's really nothing a woman can throw at me now in d way of physical attraction or seduction.
Cheating isn't only greed and selfishness, it's disregard for God and marital vows and I won't be found with such deadly sins ever.

Nice one guy!

May the Lord help you keep to your vows because temptations abound everywhere!

IdowuRufai:
If you don’t know, please ask and do not Resort to insults that’s why Threads like this are created for educational purposes. Agbor is made up of a couple of kingdoms, I’m sure where you reside is Agbor Town and probably don’t know where this is. You have also heard of Agbor Railway complex in owa-oyibo area, it’s not in Agbor but it’s still named Agbor, same with Agbor village. Do you know Julius Berger had a big camp in Abavo, you must have seen their trucks often picking and dropping people in Agbor. The truth is, Julius Berger built this village and their staff lived here while they were walking on the rail project on this route, this village, that have everything, hospital, recreational facilities et al was somewhat their operational - live in, village.

When the project along this corridor was completed, this village- where they once lived was handed over to the federal government a couple of years back, I think in 2013.

Thanks for the enlightenment. I have been to this railway community some years back.
Trust me, a good number of people living in and around Agbor don't know about this railway village.

SUPERPACK:
This is a screenshot of the popup form. Happens when I use Opera, but can't see it when I use Chrome.

Had same experience using Opera.

ethicallyright:
Seun , Nairaland is under attack. Maybe a complex phishing attack. A form pops up when I open a thread demanding I provide my email and password though I'm already logged in. Dominique, Lalasticlala, you may need to take this seriously.

I thought as much!

I was wondering why a pop up was requesting for login details while still logged in.

Make dem no do us twitter things for here o..

Na from clap dem take dey enter dance!

Male colleagues are understandable.

But friendship, as in FRIENDSHIP with opposite sex inside marriage, me I no gree.

Yes, I no trust myself for this matter that is why I apply extra caution, so I see no reason why I should trust another.

Person no dey smell food wen em no go chop.

Precaution is the watchword.

My 2cents!

While it's good to hear the husband 's side of the story, there's no justification whatsoever for the violence melted to this woman.

Again, nobody should give up his or her source of income solely because of their partner's perceived sense of insecurity. This is because trust issue is a fundamental issue and must be addressed as such.

What I don't understand is what stops this woman from putting the said husband in police custody for physical assault?

As much as I like marriage, life first before marriage.

Farki:
It's not maybe I made a mistake

https://www.nairaland.com/casalindal

To summarise she had some marriage troubles then kept posting about it to nairaland then her husband found out and apparently left her. Although I'm not sure if they stories are 100% true it is truly worth a read.

I still don't understand why people post their marriage issues on a social media platform.

God forbid bad thing, anything that will make me bring my marriage troubles to a place like nairaland, know that the marriage is over already.

Private issues should be handled privately. If it goes public, then it's most likely already out of control.

He was gentle, humble, dedicated to duty, very approachable and a father to all in the department.

I still remember his efforts in ensuring that I graduate from the department.

May the good Lord comfort his family and friends.

RIP Prof!

Brock1:
thanks, the problem is majorly money, I have lost a lot, and still lost d job I was saving little from, still set up a biznes , competitors rose up at strategic places that's limiting my customers access to me. I have been knocked down severally in this life, and still managed to stand, I'm just thinking of just giving up, in d end I will still die .

Believe me, you should be very grateful to God.

Why?

You are facing a challenge that will go away with more or much money in your pocket, not one that all the money in the world cannot solve.

And there are quite a number of life hurdles that money can't help you scale. You will not meet such hurdles!

I'm not a businessman, but if you abandon the thought of giving up, and look carefully in and around you, you will get ideas on how to improve your financial or business outlook.

As it concerns money problems, more than 70 percent of Nigerians are in the same shoe as you.

No man will leave this world alive, but it will be pure cowardice to leave by one taking his/her life.

In life quitters never win and winners never quit!

Be a winner by not quitting!

Cheers!

Brock1:
. It is well bro, stammerer may never call papa..no one really knows d future, whether its white or black. A young neighbor just died in my hood, I wish I was d one... I have some medicine in my room to do a painless suicide since last year, bt d spirit still told me to still hang on.... I don't think I can get to d age 40 if all this uncertainties continue.

My friend, do you mind sharing exactly what these challenges are?
I may not have answers for you but you can never tell some kind hearted member may be of help.

Please, I beg you in the name of God, no matter the challenge you are facing , never ever take your life. Never!

To him that is joined to the living there's hope. For a living dog is better than a dead lion.

Every new day is an opportunity to overcome! Don't throw that opportunity away forever!

I look forward to reading your success story soonest!

You have my best wishes and my prayers are with you!

emkz:
Secondly, I suggest you comment more so that folks be more informed. Most threads are taken over by ignorant folks who arrogantly advertise their ignorance by throwing insults.

I want to add my voice to your second point.

This forum has too many folks who will waste no time in throwing insults at anyone or anything that challenges their ignorance.

There's need for people like WikiGuru to contribute more on this platform so that we don't just discuss but also learn at the end of day.

My 2cents.

Congratulations!!!!
Many more blessings to your family IJN!

Op, be sure it's not her money or wealth that is attracting you. Else, you are in for a rude shock!

Look well before you cross road!

It's love for my wife that has kept me in marriage.
My wife has been, and I pray she continues to be, a good help meet to me.

Nawa oo..
Ayam not understanding why this video dey provoke some guys..
Anyway, las las we all go dey alright.

donproject:
I've done little of those...I have a script that scrapes data on this particular forum everyday. All topics that make it to frontpage, time they were created, time moved to frontpage, who created it and so on. Then I do some exploratory analysis on it to get certain facts like category with most topics (authoritatively I can say it is Politics), users with most topics (islie and lalasticlala are front runners), topic with most views, average views per day and so on. I will be creating thread on this very soon, I just want my data to mature, I started a little over a week now

Good work!

Please, copy me when you create the thread.

olasco2035:
Ok thanks but can u please recommend books or software or video tutorial for me

w3schoolsdotcom is beginner friendly. You can start from there.
Also, there is this ebook on HTML and CSS by Jon Duckett. It's also beginner friendly and you can get it online.

Remember to practice while you learn.

4ckz:
Thanks, you don't know how much motivation this is.
I was already planning on stopping any thing coding, I thought it was useless to me.

Don't give up.

Just try and identify gaps, in service delivery for example, as it concerns your practice. Then ask yourself, which of these gaps can be bridged with a program or software?

4ckz:
I am in the medical field, but I learnt html, css and javascript.

I am just confused as to what to do with the knowledge, and what more languages should I learn?

Please someone should advice me

Depending on the aspect of medical field and your interests:
1)Data Analysis, in which case you have to add python skills (pandas,numpy, matplotlib, seaborn libraries etc). This will be helpful in epidemiology /medical statistics related work.

2) Web App Development; django framework(if you choose python language) will come handy. You can build an electronic health records (EHR); an app for booking a medical appointment etc.

3) You can write programs to automate certain tasks or operations in your practice.


My area is Public Health. I have an app I'm still working on, though it's already deployed , that helps mothers/caregivers keep to appointments with their primary health care service providers.

olasco2035:
Please am a computer science graduate but when it comes to programming I can't even boost of my self.please I need someone to put me tru.where should I start from, I need suggestions please am ready to go for it.thankz

It depends on your interests; but I will suggest you start with HTML, CSS and then JS.

Etinosa1234:
I plan to finish JavaScript and start learning Java and Python...

My aim is to be an expert in both by the end of the year..and mobile app development

The rest are next year tins

Good plans.

But to be an expert in both Java and Python by the end of this year is impossible!

Just take them gradually and do projects with them to test how well you have mastered the language.

bigmodo:
I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her.

We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.

Love is blind but marriage is the eye opener!

Guy, na express you won enter so...

Abeg you look well..

Reading this gives me joy and faith in humanity!

Whoever the donor is, God will bless you richly and you will be a greater blessing to humanity!

Op, your baby is blessed and will be a blessing to her generation!

I want to use this opportunity to say thank you to all the good and kind-hearted members of this forum.

Op, congratulations!
Statistics over Computer Science any time, any day.
You can work anywhere!
Health, Tech, Finance, Education - anywhere!
Just get yourself busy with acquiring knowledge and relevant skill.

omonnakoda:
Can you quote the person that vowed not to help their parents?

No need to tell foolish lies to advance your beggar agenda.

Nobody did that on this thread.

Go and work ,if you want to beg go to the road.if you want to rob go and get a gun

Thanks for your advice. It's taken already.

I work and pay my bills.

Mayflowa:
When I am in government, I am going to look for you to lead my critical projects. The guy meant no harm but adding flesh to what the OP has said. Or are they not wanting Nigerians to speak on their perspectives from Nigeria? I study in US. There are rich Nigerians here for those working with graduate degree in health and quantitative sciences, including accounting and statistics. But there are also tons of Nigerians living from hands to mouth.

Overall, it is easier to survive here even if you do mania jobs. Some people complain to much because they were asked money. If you don’t have, say you don’t have. But it will be absurd to think you won’t support your parents or siblings in Nigeria. Sometimes, some people who refused helping others benefitted the most from families and friends on their way up. For me, I prefer to send opportunities their ways. How they will take the necessary test or application for schools so they too can be here. I try to support by contributing to the test fees. Truly, I have helped a few people, family and friends, this way.

God bless you bro!

I am shocked to see comments by some vowing not to help their siblings, including the parents that brought them into this world and sent them to school.

Those that want to help, and can help, should help. Those that don't want to help should keep their help.

Like someone said, who go blow go blow.

Na God get the final say!

Righteousness89:
I Bless your Mom and I Bless your Dad!

I Bless you also My Brother!

Thunder will not See you nor your Parents in JESUS Name...
Amen

Both fans and foes can't just ignore your posts!

I may not subscribe fully to your methods here, but I commend your resilience and your response to the hate directed at you.

We may not agree with each other, but we all are still brethren.

Eulalia:
Your point exactly?
Are you trying to take sides with a cheating man because he's a man or because its a mans world? Either ways, you're all shades of bias and its totally unacceptable.

He disregarded, disrespected, degraded, downgraded and disgusted the woman hence are actions. Under that circumstance, SHE IS JUSTIFIED! I mean....you dont expect her to give him a pat in the back. Duh!!!

Remember.... Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

My dear how can you JUSTIFY AN ABUSE?

What if the man had not remained calm and retaliated?

Is that video ALONE enough to conclude the man was cheating?

And even if the man cheated, while cheating is to be condemned, do you fight fire with fire?

What happened to walking away from the marriage if she can't bear with a cheating husband?

Let me remember you that violence begat more violence!

I hate domestic violence with my body, soul and spirit!

I pray to God that nothing will make me hit my wife. Also, my wife knows me too well not to try such rubbish.

Two things I can't tolerate in marriage - cheating and domestic violence.

And to those privileged to be single, look beyond beauty and material things before getting into marriage. Those who have ear to hear, let them hear.

Congratulations bro!
Happy married life!