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Edodefender:
They always had this eye contact I can't explain

This week, my lil bro(19) years was registering for jamb and he used my email to register for the e-pin.

My girl escorted him to the place of registration, the thing was taking time and she left him there.

Around 9 PM, my girl was to bring my brother from the point of registration but no motor on the road.

Can you believe they booked hotel and stay together?


Mhen I'm having my suspicion, I don't like spying on people's phone.

She's 27

TheWalkingMind:
same thing happening here. Been living like that for five years counting now.

MissRaine69:
What’s normal? Normal is so subjective.
Some people are expressive regarding how they process emotional distress , some take their time, and do things in segments while others just absorb things until they are saturated and then implode. We are not the same and you feeling that you are “abnormal” is you being hard on yourself unnecessarily. There is no need to feel odd. We are not the same you have been conditioned to think feeling and thinking a certain way is standard. It’s not.

MissRaine69:
It is a defence mechanism. You have learnt to cope with life disappointments and other unpleasant things in life by choosing not to deal with them in a confrontational way or process the emotional aspect that would be associated with such things instead you compartmentalise and behave as if it never occurred. This leaves you vulnerable and also makes people think you are callous and cold. It’s not easy to find a way around this because this is the way you cope with things unless you can afford to explore other ways via psychotherapy for example . I would not be so hard on myself if I was you.

cooljuman:
No i didn't collect the money back. I left it with her. I really didn't need it. I just wanted her to solve the problem.

PaulAris:
Brothamahn, save yourself the stress, no matter how many times you try to explain the reason for your actions to these lil' girls, they still wouldn't get it!
Women are illogical
Why do you think Fela always says a particular line about this soft-beings in most of his songs?
Huh (aii go figure)

JESUSBOIY:
Lalasticlala

drmikeadams:
If u drive on uber finish >: u will never believe naija girls again from one preek to another them know the whole hotels . No waste ur money to bet on them better bet on enyinmba beating chelsea

Mide082:
Maturity is not about age, so am sure you are not too mature because if you are, you wouldn't have bet on your woman knowing we are all human being and everybody have their weaknesses. She's not an angel, asking you out doesn't mean she can't fall for another man, its you that should have given her reason to stick by you and not look elsewhere,... Exposure has gone beyond who ask who out cos its no longer matter, what matter is what happen after. Placing a bet on her means you are ready to loose her and I know some people will be telling you that you acted fine but believe me you made a big mistake and pls do not try such again. Nobody is perfect, you can also fall for a trap, so don't be too certain of yourself cos when someone is determine to get you, he/she will go to any length to do it and make you fall once your weakness is known. So pls don't blame her too much cos she's just a being like you. DO NOT TOY WITH YOUR FOOD. #myadvice

sandra50:
So my one and only true love just wedded.we started with one room and a parlour we shared with your brother's.you had a bus we were using to go for weddings and sometimes you would deny your bus when they call the owner to come re-park..now you have a mansion with different kind of cars and someone else who didn't know how it all started is the one you got married to.
My offence was coming from a particular state and your people don't marry from our side...hope you are happy without me? because I'm not.
I wish you the very best in your marriage..the last i will do is to wish you evil or plan evil against you.
Love doesn't hurt but it protects.goodbye my love.

klassd:
My guy you have done well. I salute your courage in ending the relationship!

Dudeweedlmao:
Post video for your bros over at sexuality section

jeff1607:
I think your friend wanted her from the get go and probably been doing it or gotten green light from her before, a man who sleeps with his friend's woman ca
n kill betting or not I can never do such cos afterwards it breeds distrust between the two of you.

love is just a word when you have got marriage in mind,we all make must, maybe you haven't shown commitment and she needs to be sure of her position, do you know what your friend told her before she agreed to the act? do u know if he told her about your escapades with other girls or lied about one? think about it .


where you planning to marry her? has she positively affected your life? has she deprived herself things just to make sure you are happy?
if yes , bro go get her back ASAP or your friend will.


we all make mistakes

Teespice:
Prolly a stupid thing to do. This has got to be one senseless statement I have heard in ages.

You deserve her well. For you to place a bet on someone you claim to love shows you never loved her in the first place. I am happy she failed your test.

You created this thread expecting your fellow shamers to applaud you but sadly the reverse is the case.

Good for you.

ibkayee:
*Shrug* ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Coming from guys who think cheating is their birthright and who probably would've lost this same bet, you got what you were looking for, sorry not sorry lmao

tony5:
Op, Any Lady That Ask You Out Is Just Crushing On You, I Believe You Know Better,it's Bro Code.Next Time Don't Love Up. Regarding My Personal Experience,the Lady Was Crushing On Me For My Gap Teeth And Asked Me Out.I Bleeped The Girl, My Friend Bleeped Her And She Got A Boyfriend Who Bought Her Iphone.What About That?

dingbang:
Your guy bleeped the shit out of ur girlfriend and u still paid him 8k ontop.. You are the biggest olodo.. Sorry to say