Education › Re: Second Term Begins: Did You Do This While In Primary Or Secondary School? by sholay2011(m): 1:52pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
I did it oo  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Evangelist Reinhard Bonnke is Dead! by sholay2011(m): 5:03pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace: that time wey you dey possessed abi? May God forgive you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Evangelist Reinhard Bonnke is Dead! by sholay2011(m): 3:57pm On Dec 07, 2019 |
Omg....awww.
I remember when my mum took us all to his crusade then in Akure.
"Say he"..."he!"
RIP |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by sholay2011(m): 3:54am On Dec 06, 2019 |
cococandy: Rice and seasoned plantain is ready. (Seasoned with Asian spice mix : pic 2).
Who will bring the sauce? Also what type of sauce is best for this? (Stew, efo, ofada etc etc) You're a blessing to this thread.  |
Family › Re: by sholay2011(m): 10:37pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
zed7: I know how you feel, especially as you consider yourselves a team. You feel hurt and betrayed. Let me tell you the truth, in life you are on your own. There is a limit to what others can do for you or what others can give you. Even a little child in kindergarten still has to go to class on his own and write his exams, as a parent you can't do that for him.
Never rely on anyone and never set your expectations high when it comes to others. That's the only way not to ever be shocked or heartbroken. No one owes you anything but yourself. Even we as individuals sometimes fail ourselves. @OP...Take this advice and drill it into your heart (not just your brain). You sound like a good-hearted person though and sometimes, others think they can 'use' such kind of person as a stone to step on while going for something higher. Sadly, what people don't know is life is more than things. But be careful, even as the person with a 'free and open' mind. Don't be naïve. |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop Your Favourite Horror/Paranormal Movie Titles Here by sholay2011(m): 2:59pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
mother! Hereditary A Quiet Place |
Family › Re: How Can My Parents Evict My Troublesome Uncles? by sholay2011(m): 2:55pm On Dec 05, 2019 |
jaymichael: There is a good reason I have a volatile temper, it is for situations like this. I haven't ever hidden the fact that I am not a nice person. I am a practical person who tries to balance my conscience with my ambition as to my best abilities. Good luck to your dad for being nice. There is never a good reason to have a volatile temper bro. @ OP...Your dad should involve the police or kuku sell the house. Entitled siblings. |
Family › Re: How Do People Make Friends by sholay2011(m): 11:13pm On Dec 04, 2019 |
FlyingTOMATOE: I don't even know how to start.. I want real friends not the facebook kind of friends and whatsapp kind of friends..
I am afraid of loneliness People (especially guys) make friends through activities (football, basketball, athletics etc.), events and places we regularly attend (office, school, church etc.). How to make friends from any of these channels? Be a friendly person yourself. |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua Set To Pocket $85million From His Rematch With Andy Ruiz Jnr by sholay2011(m): 8:04pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
azeecoboy: 85million dollars..
This life sef.. Honestly, I feel your pain bro... |
Travel › Re: The Bakare Family: Canada To Deport Nigerian Family, The Bakares by sholay2011(m): 8:52pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
payperpost: do you know this your comment can do more damage to his family and that of your country men if the authority get to see it? please try to make positive impacts in life of people. Oh please! Nigerians and sentiment...how can our country ever make progress? This couple is clearly painting a very dark and ancient image of Nigeria that will not just further dent the chances of future applicants from Nigeria but even those that are already here in Canada where your fellow workers will keep asking if you're from Nigeria: that backward country. Nigeria has its challenges but we shouldn't join hands to worsen its image as this undeveloped village where no one is using their brains. No wonder, some white people still picture Africa as a place where lions and elephants are walking around with monkeys swinging from trees to trees while the people are half-naked, fetching dirty water from polluted streams and swimming in cholera. As humane as we should be, this couple should be deported. This is not about supporting a family's hustle at the expense of thousands of families that will eventually go through the right route (or even wrong route but with more sensible lie), and at the expense of the image of Nigeria. No wonder, even our visa approval waiting period is one of the longest in the world already for Canada. |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Doks Art: Donald Trump Recognizes Nigerian Artist Who Drew Him by sholay2011(m): 8:19pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by sholay2011(m): 1:44pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Thank you Lord because this month is gonna be awesome. You sure saved the best for the last in 2019. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by sholay2011(m): 10:15pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
ChiefVal: We know. Na why we wan go.  This is just impolite. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by sholay2011(m): 12:18am On Nov 29, 2019 |
cococandy: Come one and all.
Turkey, Pie ( bought from store), fish( seasoned with herbs and ehuru) , lamb (by my cuz) , other medemede.
Happy thanksgiving. This woman oo! Pls send some to me.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by sholay2011(m): 10:27pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
Prestonn: Village kitchen
Oil less Okro soup... Eat mine with potato, others with rice I can't even see the okro in the okro soup sef. Money good oh...  |
TV/Movies › Re: Top 15 Nollywood Stars Who Have Passed Away In Recent Years by sholay2011(m): 7:17pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
meetlekan: it's for her and that was her early age. Nope! That's her daughter's picture. A picture of young Funmi Martins can't be that clear...think about it... Her death pained me the most...can't pinpoint an exact reason sef. RIP to them. Justus Esiri - my favourite elder naija actor (preferred him to Pete Edochie and Olu Jacobs). Jennifer Osai's case is just sad. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Does Religion Lower iq?. by sholay2011(m): 6:06pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
I can only speak from the perspective of Christianity.
Christianity does not lower IQ (on the contrary God gives you more wisdom) but expects you to submit your will to God. The average human being gets upset when his or her will is restricted or hampered. This is why we need the grace of God to do this.
Now, there are people who go to ridiculous extent to do some strange things such as worshipping their Pastor (instead of God), eating grass as commanded by their Pastor etc...when you closely examine their intents, they are not even that interested in God, they just want what God can give- how their needs can be met- and so, they will rather take selfish and lazy routes rather than do both the actual spiritual and physical work. It will appear they have low IQ but they are selfish, greedy and ignorant people. Okay, some may actually have low IQ in this sense...lol.
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If you as an unbeliever is trying to use human comprehension to understand the things of the Spirit, then you are on your own because this is an entirely different case! This is because God uses the foolish things of this world to confound "the wise". It is fallacy to associate believing in God with low IQ on the average when Albert Einstein even believed in God. And the wisest person recorded is in the word of God.
And who IQ help anyway?? The race of life is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, nor the success to those with high IQs. |
Health › Re: Doctors Share Their Experiences With Nigerian Patients by sholay2011(m): 5:50pm On Nov 28, 2019 |
eleojo23: So they should not ask for their money?
Didn't the patient's know that they will pay money before coming there?
It's better to find a way to settle the bills instead of running away. Hospitals are not charity organisations! Somebody paid for all the drugs and equipments you see in the hospitals. Quality healthcare is not cheap.. Well said. One of the problems we have in Nigeria is sentimentality. We can't just be contractual on some issues with both parties fulfilling their obligations. As touching as it sounds that patients should not be "left to die" because they "simply don't have money", doctors should also not be left to suffer and cough up bills that patients should be responsible for (when there is no health insurance in place). No service is for free but my naija people will get emotional. How will a private hospital keep running if every patient rushed in 'with no money' is let go without paying their bills? God help us. |
Travel › Re: I was Refused Canadian Visa Because I "Supposedly" Withheld Information by sholay2011(m): 7:57pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
ogbonti: Beware of scammers here oooo I was being sarcastic.  |
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Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by sholay2011(m): 7:04pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Eraytee: see attached file Oh, I was wrong then. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 9 by sholay2011(m): 6:57pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Oritsejimi: I doubt, for a family of 5, is 30000cad too small? I think so 'cos for an individual, it's about $12-$13k. |
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Travel › Re: I was Refused Canadian Visa Because I "Supposedly" Withheld Information by sholay2011(m): 3:47pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
RichDad1: Why did you withheld informations ?  Upon all your comment, you can't even construct a grammatically correct sentence. @OP... This is quite unfortunate. There should be a way to appeal this. |
Romance › Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by sholay2011(m): 2:56pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
darthv: Why do people always ask nonsense questions? You spoke my mind. |
Celebrities › Re: Eniola Badmus: "I Want My Own Man But If God Gives Me Yours, Who Am I To Argue?" by sholay2011(m): 2:31pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
DonCaxton: God will not give you another woman's man This. |
Family › Re: Will You Tell Your Sister? by sholay2011(m): 2:06pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
I will find a way to set her up to catch the husband by herself, but not tell her directly. |
Romance › Re: She Left Me For A Medical Doctor And Now Wants A Second Chance by sholay2011(m): 10:48pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
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Pets › Re: Conan, Dog Honoured At The White House After Chasing ISIS Leader, Al-Baghdadi by sholay2011(m): 6:19pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
windhunter: Is this not too much for a dog? Are you envious of the dog ni?  |
Family › Re: Should I Consider Going For An Adoption,since I Am Childless? by sholay2011(m): 5:40pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
ambient: Make sure you are adopting the child because you love children and not because you are desperate because once you start having living children (am very sure you will) if care is not taken you will see the adopted one as an outsider,its happening in my family so i have first hand knowledge about it. Try and stay with a kid that is not related in anyway for two weeks and see how you feel about it after. Goodluck and may God replenish your womb. @OP...Listen to this advice. |
Crime › Re: How My Friend Sacrificed His Mother For Money Rituals by sholay2011(m): 5:16pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Braintrain: Use your own mother no de complain Werey  |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by sholay2011(m): 3:23pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
ornicus: I agree, and like I said my old man poured serious money. The kind that later, when money no top dey flow you will look back and grit your teeth at the waste. On top of that the woman hated me as well. I did my it in lagos and stayed in the house. My dad was sending money to feed me, and you should have seen the stew, one part stew, three parts water. After a while I just stopped eating her food. Her grandkids were staying in the house and she started poisoning those ones minds against me. Was telling them I would beat them. They were still young and they told me. He daughter had five kids total. That one is another long story Ah...the woman sef sha. Yeah, I didn't mean you dad didn't try. Like you said, many of us are hard-wired in certain ways that it takes grace to change for good. |