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LiteratureRe: My Wizard Landlord (A True Life Story) By Attire Literature by sholay2011(m): 10:39pm On Mar 07, 2023
maiiilooo:
No matter what, God remains supreme
Well said. These are the threads that plant more of the fear of Satan into the hearts of people instead of faith in God.

Next!
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CelebritiesRe: Top 5 Most-followed Nigerian Gospel Music Artists On Instagram 2023 by sholay2011(m): 9:09pm On Mar 07, 2023
OkodiDenzel:
Chidinma is a secular singer
Not anymore... smiley
PoliticsRe: Why Do People Say That Late Yar'adua Was The Best President by sholay2011(m): 4:20pm On Mar 06, 2023
Zonefree:
Humans, naturally, love and worship dead people. No one will ever say good things about you until you drop dead.

After the death of Abacha, Buhari said Abacha is not corrupt. There are people worshipping Abacha till tomorrow.

Make Tinubu kick bucket now, you'll be surprised to know Tinubu was the best governor in the whole of West Africa in his time.

Humans are hypocritical in nature.
Well said.
FamilyRe: How I Spend Saturdays As A Super Dad. PHOTOS. by sholay2011(m): 1:50pm On Mar 05, 2023
What's all this nitori Olorun??
CelebritiesRe: How I Found Out My 4years Old Daughter Wasn't Mine- Duncan Mighty by sholay2011(m): 6:01pm On Feb 28, 2023
Hmmm...I am not understanding... shocked
FamilyRe: What Should I Do Please? Failed Marriage by sholay2011(m): 11:40pm On Feb 21, 2023
jesmond3945:
Your issue comes from your last paragraph. You are a drop out. What are you doing to upgrade? I am sorry she has no respect for you because of your status not really about your finances. Women love security and they so much believe in the security that higher education brings.
Also, try to balance things in terms of fun. For example, to spice up things in the house I play a lot of naija jams. Because of the lyrics I tend to play the instrumentals which put my wife in the mood for fun. Try to spice things up, cook and give her good Bleep. Suck her pussy dry, it helps.
So...this is your advice for real to what the OP typed up there? Nairaland sha...
FamilyRe: My Valentine Gone Wrong by sholay2011(m): 6:15pm On Feb 15, 2023
Fabricated story but funny nonetheless... cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Aigbe And Husband Enjoy Valentine Vacation In Maldives (Pix) by sholay2011(m): 5:43pm On Feb 14, 2023
madjune:
I'm sure na inside one swimming pool off Opebi link road dem dey so.
Lmao...wicked. May God forgive you. grin
Christianity EtcRe: Share The Name Of The Church You View Online Though You're Not A Member by sholay2011(m): 5:54pm On Feb 13, 2023
Remnant Christian Network (Setman: Apostle Arome Osayi)

Koinonia Ministries (Setman: Apostle Joshua Selman)

Living Seed, Peace House. (Setman: Bro. Gbile Akanni)
Christianity EtcRe: Pictures From The Dedication Of RCCG City Of David Trinity Towers by sholay2011(m): 5:23pm On Feb 13, 2023
olaeffect:
Bros, I was privileged to attend Shiloh live only once.
I don't envy those men of God at all, those men work almost 24/7.

Yet some small rats that have never worked for ordinary 8hrs daily constantly for just 1yr will come online and be insulting them.

By just day 3 of Shiloh that I attended live in 2001 I was dozing off in the afternoon session because of stress🤣🤣🤣🤣, I was less than 30yrs then ooo.
Yet Bishop will not only attend conversant hour 5:30am, morning session, afternoon session, and evening session but also preach🤔 at his current age.
Yet the only thing some people see is that he has an eroplane🤣
Well said. God bless you sir.
FamilyRe: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by sholay2011(m): 9:15pm On Feb 06, 2023
Errmmm...will somebody tell him?
FamilyRe: Woman Set To Quit Her Husband For Her Baby Daddy. by sholay2011(m): 6:15pm On Feb 01, 2023
Is this even a true story?

The most annoying part is that she 'prayed' that her runaway boyfriend comes back and he did.
God does not answer such prayers, daughter of Jezebel. A sinner engaged in prayers clearly outside the will of God....

Turn to Jesus and repent of your wicked ways. Only animals are exclusively led by their emotions.
CelebritiesRe: JJC Skillz Returns To Islam After His Marriage To Funke Akindele Crashed by sholay2011(m): 8:56pm On Jan 19, 2023
TheWolfen:
Good to hear.
Either you a Christian or a Muslim. Yall both worship the same God but in different ways.

So JJC Skill you were never lost.
It is just good to know that this path you chosen came from your heart as that is how it should be
Please...no.
FamilyRe: Is Marriage An Achievement?? by sholay2011(m): 5:18pm On Jan 17, 2023
A good marriage is an achievement.

But the catch 22 is that only the two people in the marriage, and God, actually know if it's a good marriage, regardless of the fronting on social media.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do You Believe The Bible? by sholay2011(m): 6:26pm On Jan 04, 2023
Because of the Person of the Holy Spirit.
FamilyRe: Work Wahala In My Marriage by sholay2011(m): 3:05pm On Jan 04, 2023
ejieddy:
Don't be deluded. Your wife can't grow in that job with SSCE. I think you are very possessive and not interested in her growth and that's what's giving you insecurities.

She's not your property... She's human being like you with dreams and aspirations. If you had been more encouraging and supportive, some issues would not have arose. Do you ask about her job? Do you try to encourage her to further her education so she can actually grow? Or you want everything to be about you. We men can be very funny at ties in marriage because we believe the woman belongs to is and she's a our slave. No. Please, treat her like a human being. Be her friend and confidant. If she were your daughter, how would you want her husband to treat her? Do same and know peace and love that passes understanding.
Did you even read all of the story the OP wrote up there?

God help you.
FamilyRe: My Cousin Sister by sholay2011(m): 3:38am On Dec 28, 2022
This story started on a normal tone and just went south quick...OP, are you okay? She is your cousin sister...are you angry because what she did is wrong or because you are attracted to her?

Something may be wrong with you (if this is not a made-up story).
FamilyRe: How Can I Move On by sholay2011(m): 11:35pm On Dec 19, 2022
You are wicked. Repent of your wicked ways for real and be truthful for once, to Tom (that's if he is a real person).
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Celebrates His 80th Birthday Party In Washington DC (Photos) by sholay2011(m): 11:34pm On Dec 17, 2022
Shameless...
FoodRe: Am Addicted To Food by sholay2011(m): 11:47pm On Dec 01, 2022
Why is this funny? grin

OP, you have to learn to control your stomach oo.

Proverbs 23:2 says and put a knife to your throat if you are given to gluttony.

Proverbs 23:20-21 now continues Do not join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat, for drunkards and gluttons become poor, and drowsiness clothes them in rags.

Ask Jesus to help you.
CelebritiesRe: Davido’s Daughter, Imade Celebrates His 30th Birthday With Touching Photo by sholay2011(m): 6:48pm On Nov 21, 2022
BABANGBALI:
Na so dem take forget Ifeanyi, anyway, God will provide another hair to the throne
Na wa oo...
Christianity EtcRe: What's Your Favourite Version Of The Bible? by sholay2011(m): 1:19pm On Nov 20, 2022
New King James Version
FamilyRe: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by sholay2011(m): 1:30pm On Nov 18, 2022
Incredible128:
The people here are wicked, which kind of mother do u have? That's very unthoughtful of her considering how harsh the economy is and who the hell pushes a 20year old out of the house?
Finally a comment with sense...
FamilyRe: I Am Tring To Impregnate My Fiance To See If She Is Fertile by sholay2011(m): 11:15pm On Nov 16, 2022
Dgamezzz:
Is she the only single mother in the world? she was a adult i i didn't held a gun in her head or raped her we were both having consented sex. The pregnancy wasn't plan , if she didnt want to end up a single mother she should have closed her legs and wait until shes married .
She is even lucky she had a responsible man like me I have accepted the pregnancy
and the child is living with my mother she doesn't lack anything . She hasn't contributed anything for the child upkeep, she is free to remarry if she likes because she is not my type and my fiance is better than her.
Sir, you are S.T.U.P.I.D and wicked. shocked
FamilyRe: "This Is Not My Son"- Mum Reacts After Her Son Showed Her His New Hairstyle by sholay2011(m): 5:33pm On Nov 14, 2022
grin grin
FamilyRe: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by sholay2011(m): 6:57pm On Nov 10, 2022
oluwaseyi0:
Lie to him if that's what he like to hear

But remember the golden rule: never get caught
This is just wicked.
Christianity EtcRe: Which Is Your Favourite Apostle In The Bible? by sholay2011(m): 10:22am On Oct 30, 2022
Paul and John the beloved.
FamilyRe: How Do I Forgive Him? by sholay2011(m): 3:17pm On Oct 20, 2022
Rozross:
You readily forgive those you love without a doubting spirit. You are kind of toxic, even me that like troubel dont know how to keep grudges, before the next day as e long reach, i've forgotten that we even had issues. Marriage isnt relationship, learn to accept your partner's flaws and weaknesses and forgive them each time their weaknesses is taking it's toll on them. This one isn't even a big issues sef, its you who has been complicating things. He's sorry and begging you for forgiveness and you still dont want to forgive him, what else do you want? His head? Abeg work on your unforgiven spirit.
God bless you.

I wonder if some of those commenting here are actually married in real life. If OP can pack out because of such, she needs to really work on herself, and that is not to excuse what her husband did. I wonder what would happen when her husband does something 'worse' in the future? In marriage, we forgive and forbear. We would offend each other. We would see the best and worst sides of each other, and that's okay. We discuss issues as two adults, and not act like kids. The husband no try at all for not contacting her for 2 months (except there is something OP is not telling us).

Nonetheless, anyone that struggles with forgiveness (no matter how right they are) is setting him or herself up for failure in marriage. OP appears to not be emotionally-balanced and needs to go for marital counselling ASAP, first, alone, then, with her husband.
FamilyRe: Anikulapo Movie: What Are Your Thoughts? by sholay2011(m): 9:28pm On Oct 17, 2022
Very good film with wonderful performances.
PetsRe: I AM TOKYO, the german shepherd. by sholay2011(m): 7:36pm On Oct 06, 2022
Following...
FamilyRe: Easiest Way To Know If A Family Member Or A Friend Secretly Hates You. by sholay2011(m): 7:35pm On Sep 22, 2022
This OP is hilarious...even with his responses to others.

It is well with you.

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