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ZUBY77:
The same way you arrested OBJ after he destroyed his own to gain sympathy for Buhari in 2015.

Is the law meant for some people?

OBJ didn't destroy his PVC but his PDP membership card. Get your facts right.

Besides, what that foolish man did could earn him some time to cool off steam in jail. You don't do things without even knowing its implications. I'm not in support of this present administration but that is government property. If he's caught and trialed, he's not gonna like himself after the judge's verdict.

Also, I don't really think the government will care over what a single man did 'cause his vote might not be counted come 2019

Tallesty1:
Same reason some people swallow rice and chew eba

Lol. For some reasons, I don't swallow foods... It's either I chew it or it's going right out of my mouth

Neoteny:
This is horrendously wrong.

The blastocyst or zygote possess both chromosome pairs, and in the first few weeks only the X chromosome is expressed. This is why they say all mammals start as inherently female.

Later, either genetics or hormones will determine whether the Y chromosome will Express and dominate.

Sperm speed has nothing to do with it.

You're just saying stories.

Admittedly, in the first few weeks, the X chromosome is prevalent owing to the fact that the egg has just been fertilized by a sperm cell irrespectively of X or Y chromosome. But after the maturity of the Zygote, the prevailing sex of the child thenceforth, depends on the sperm that fertilized initially.

During ovulation, an egg cell can not self fertilize, it has to come in contact with a sperm cell to activate fertilization. If there's no fertilization, them there's no formation of Zygote, if there's no formation of Zygote, there's no pregnancy.

Hope you know the chromosomes of a male child consist of X and Y? And a female child consist of X and X? During fertilization, the father brings either X or Y and the Mother brings either X or X (same thing). Depending on the surrendered chromosome of the father, the sex of the child is known thence. This has nothing to do with hormonal fluctuations.

Either genetics or hormones will determine which is more prevalent?? Mtcheew! Just listen to yourself.

lilyheaven:
You will be wondering why am supporting this guy to club, but this is the time to enjoy whatever they want, because as soon as babies start coming, that may be the end.
I remember my husband used to drag me around then, as soon as I became pregnant, that was the end.
All his goals now is to make more money.
I believe there is time for every thing.

Let's make something clear here.

She's an introvert who will rather stay indoor than go clubbing and partying every other Friday. I have an uncle who lives in Edo state, he got married two years ago. Before his marriage, he loves partying and clubbing with friends and the next day after he got married; he went to party with his friends. Bear in mind that his wife is introverted and would rather stay home than tag along. At night (from 6-8:30pm) she's mostly alone while he parties.

This imply that not all men sees marriage as what your husband sees it as. Moreover, depending on your location, he could become more of a freak than a husband. In the south, men are accustomed to taking alcoholic drinks as there's no regulations but over here in the north, the rate of alcoholic intake is to the minimal same as clubs and parties.

All I'm saying is, if she isn't comfortable with his lifestyle and his excessive control, then she shouldn't think she can change him or he'll change after marriage. Remember he's from a wealthy home and must have been exposed to excess cash. So when he settles down, he might not be like your husband who needed to make more money. He has the money and will just continue chasing his unchecked lifestyle.

ImaIma1:
She is only complaining about his part. But she hasn't told us the parts where he also went out of his way for her. Or do you think a man in love won't go out of his way for his woman?

On the contrary, she has.

Let me help you;

Monday200:
He is from a rich family that likes flashing things, he always tell me to use make up when I say make up it not just foundation and lipstick every time am going out which I don't like at all I prefer using powder and lipstick and I use to tell him that I don't know how to do make ups yet he said he will get me a make ups artist. I don't know how am going to cope with that. Anytime we are going to see his family member or friends, he will always want me to over dress like it's a wedding day.

He likes going party a lot and anytime he ask me I will make up some excuse not to go and I don't know how long I will continue giving him excuse cos am an indoor person i don't like going out at all I only go out whenever am an having important things, there was a time he discovered and accused me of been ashamed of him that why I hate going out with him and its not like that.
He likes people prying into our privacy anytime we had a misunderstanding he will ask one of his friends to beg me on his behalf and I hate this.

He always want me to wear clothes that fit his standard like wearing heavy jewelries expensive one ,high heels,(he use to buy them for me cos his a rich dude ) he want a luxurious life while I only want a simple life. He can do anything to mk me look good and classy, he is always ready to spend for that.

Now when you carefully go over the emboldened, what catches your attention??

It's that 'always' that's a red flag. He always this... He always that... If you love your woman as a man, you'll only go out of your way if your 'out of the way' isn't controlling or suffocating your partner.

lilyheaven:
You most be an introvert.
Extroverts never change, ordinary child dedication they will turn it to a party as long as the money is there.

It has nothing to do with temperaments. How many child dedications are they going to do in their marriage span. At most 5. If the lady births once in two years, it's okay to host a party. No big deal with that but going clubbing and partying every other Friday is a no no. I might be an introvert but I speak for all responsible fathers out there.

From her writeup, he seem to be a party freak and that can be disastrous to their home if left unchecked.

ImaIma1:
And you think he won't bend for her too.

She has to make an effort...whether party of other stuff.

I follow my hubby to watch him play ball most Saturday mornings. I might want to sleep but i go because it could be his way of bonding.

I watch football...other sports(infact i am watching Wimbledon at the moment).

But when i want to do my own stuff, he has to do it with me too.

So it is not about slay anything.

If she is not feeling him, she should shift for someone that will.

I guess we read different stuffs 'cause from what I read, there wasn't any part that implied that he tried to adapt a bit to her standard. Why does he always force his opinions on her? The type of dress to put on, makeup type and the rest.

If he 'bends' for her, she won't be feeling suffocated in the relationship. The fiancé is control freak. My way or no way.

lilyheaven:
That thing is, you will never get used to it.
But don't worry, once you get married and have a child, or children, you won't be following him around again, because you will have little or no time to party around.
Calm down and enjoy it while it last.

Lol. It doesn't necessarily have to be about her (the op). You mean to say that her fiancé will still be partying after she's birth her first child?? That's irresponsibility on a whole level! Detach yourself from such a wayward man.

ImaIma1:
As long as he can afford the things he wants you to wear, i see no problem.

If you don't like 3rd party interference, tell him to stop it.

He likes you to attend events with him. Would you prefer he leaves you at home? Many ladies are praying for a man that would take them everywhere with them.

You have not pointed out any fault in this guy. Your problem is that he is rich, flamboyant and wants to show you off.

What do you really want

Oshey... Awon slay mama.

You want her to become a shape shifter??

If she doesn't want to party, why can't the fiancé understand her and remain at home? Does it 'hafta' be the Lady bending to his rules or ideology. Place yourself in her shoe, that's if you aren't slayed yet??

ibkayee:
It’s important not to lose your identity when you’re in a relationship so I won’t say change yourself for him, however a little compromising won’t hurt, this is part of what relationships are about. Sit him down and talk about your concerns, suggest meeting each other half way i.e. rather than a makeup artist, find a look that is neither overboard, nor too plain, same for your outfits. Tell him you don’t want to go to every single event, but don’t stay at home every single time, go every now and then.

Only serious thing you’ve mentioned is the fact that he brings people into your private business tbh, tell him it’s violating your trust and it isn’t healthy for your relationship. Only time any of you should be talking to others about your marital issues is if you’re in genuine danger.

If you don’t think you can compromise however and it makes you that uncomfortable maybe call it quits, some people just aren’t compatible

What's the meaning of TBH? To be hunted? To be harmed?? Tryna be hated?

You guys should make things easier for those who read comments na.

...quit...

addikt:
BEEN HAVING YELLOW URINE FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW WITH SWEET SMELL AND WAIST DEY SOMETIMES PAIN ME .....??

You're suffering from diabetics

iMassage is an app used for hookups. Now for the single fact you specified your gender as a female while seeking to 'hookup' with one just shows you're not straight or you're a male.

Oh! Forget that 'no homo' shìt! A guy will tell a lady 'no string' attached when he just wants to fuçk and yet he tells her all nonetheless so as not to alarm her.

HeWrites:
All, thanks to her BOYFRIENDS.

I can imagine how DEEP & WIDE the pussay, would be now..

Hewrites??! Ahh!!

I didn't believe you could stoop this low too. I always revered you as someone with a fair sense to judgement guess not everyone can live up to expectation.

Thuglife2020:
No I won’t do that. One thing about life. You don’t force people to love you. She used to tell me then that she doesnt have time for relationship as what she’s going through won’t make her want to jump into any relationship then. If she calls me at times and trying to explain things to me, she will be crying like a baby. So the thought of wooing her then, I buried it. Tho she never for once ask me for help but I used to send me some money.. I promise to send her some money for her clearance. I will only be giving her that since I promised her already and I will cut ties with her and move on.

You say you don't send her too much money but I see a bitch who's partly dependent on you for monetary value without giving value to you in exchange and still raises your hope high.

The truth is, she doesn't see you as someone she can fall in love with. I tell you, your excessive care has sidelined you to be looked upon as someone who cares -more like 'brother-zoned' or 'father-zoned'. In this case there's only little you can do.

Lmao, I read the part where you said she calls in tears but doesn't ask for money and you give her because genetically, you're programmed to be a gentle and a king in shinning armour. These days, when ladies call you in tears while telling you her problems, she is indirectly requesting for your help cause they know you can help them but don't want to come across as been too demanding.

I bet when she calls you and tell you her problem, you'll be like calm down, 'how much do you need'? and then she'll tell you a definite amount and also add that she's depressed as she doesn't know where to get it from.

Something like this...

You: So like how much will you require?
She: Don't worry. It will be fine. (still sobbing)
You: (You'll insist then she tells you the amount)-This is where you shot yourself.
She: It's 30k for my clearance. I don't even know what to do. It comes in 4days. I tried every way to get the fund but only came up with 15k. (amidst sobs)
You: Don't worry ehn.. I will see what I can do about it. Cheer up dear. It will be fine.
She: You know you don't really have to do anything. I'll just... (burst into sobs again)
You: Stop crying now. You know I don't like hearing you cry. I'll do something about it.

That's how girls control guys. I tell you what; If she totally dig you, she'll never call to tell you her problems because she knows you've got problems too. You'll even be the one trying to know her problems.

Reduce your communication with her and your affection will eventually dwindle. Absence makes the heart grow fonder but too much absence makes you fall out

SenorFax:
Girls are soft hearted than guys, if you guys have been together for a year I got some questions for yah

1. Does she get jealous when she sees you with other chicks
If yes, she's keeping you as a spare (one year no be moinmoin)
2. Have you seen her with other dudes, expecially fine boys
If yes maybe you are not her taste.
3. Does she call you as much as you call her, be honest pls
If yes, human invest where they think they can profit.
4. What value did she plan on adding to you or added to you since you've been friends.
If none, guy, just delete her number quickly. Vampires alert

Truth is bitter bro, and the maths is simple. Those questions might guide you better.

Choose to be the number 1 and never a spare tire.

You just made me delete someone's number now. Shít!

delugajackson:
The thing is, your Bae is your Bae. Ain't nothing sweeter than the confidence of having your own Bae. All these side-chicking and Bestie things with other people's Bae is simply self deciet.

The Bae will always go home to the Bae, to comfort and support the Bae. While you brag about banging and bestie-ing everybody you came across. You lose the real aim of having a Bae.

Bae is backbone, Bae is support, Bae wipes teary eyes and clothes cold skins. Bae holds your hands from the heart and touch your soul with the eyes. Bae leaves you smiling even when not in good terms. Bae makes you wanna come home quick. Bae is before anyone else. Bae is golden, Bae is priceless. Love your Bae and focus on your Bae only.

- delugajackson 2018.

What in the world you just wrote? This is an embodiment of hogwash.

This in no way give an answer to the OP's question so stop trying yo be smart all the while writing dumb things. Ewww!!

It has to be France or Belgium. England is a shitty team overhyped by the media.

Belgium's style of play is too dope. Their counter is flawless, sleek and superb. I'm quite confused on whom to root for. France is blessed with the swift Mbappe who recently showed he's an assholé by pretending to be fouled by C. Rodriguez.

But Belgium will beat France and meet England again and still beat them again.

dominique:
These Columbians are just getting booked all over the place. They're so unsettled now, I doubt if they'll ever equalize.

They're aren't unsettled. They don't care if they get 109 cards. Their gross indiscipline will cost them this game. These are the fools who got a red in their first match in this WC-The first red card in this world cup also and the guy who got the red is on yellow card now.

People go just turn football to something else.

This Ref is mad oh!!
Colombia players need anger management badly!! This isn't football!

This Colombia peeps be acting like fools! Which kind indiscipline be this??
See cards!

At the woeful rate England are playing, they'll lose this match!

mimimile93:
I left prison late last year. I went to rehab agter jail term but sh!t didn't work.

Whenever guys bring balck girls to our bar and i discoverd she's Nigerian, the whole memory of that girl I killed will flashed back.

This girl tellin me she loves me and callin me sweet doesn't really know how I feel when I get to see those words. I feel very uncomfortable when an opposite sex tells me she loves me or trying to be nice with me.

These ho.es are fake and perfect pretenders.

Nothing in the world that can make me like them..

That's hard. I strongly believe you're still trying to relieve that feeling. You're still want to hold unto that pain but time wants to heal you. Just let go.

I believe you've started the healing process already. You're already showing the signs. Lol.

If you could tell the world about your experience, poured your pain in that writeup enough to make readers feel your pain... that just means you've taken a bold step. A step subconsciously aimed at healing.

Also, you're still having sex and not entirely off women. You're leaving patches everywhere. Emotional patches.

Moreover, I strongly believe you fall in love easily and that's why you tend to move from one experience (lady) to another and still love wholeheartedly.

You'll eventually stop hating and hurting. You'll see. Within a year.

mimimile93:
bro thanks. Am not in any relationship. My mind was numb for such.
Am on a fvckin spree.
These ho.es proved d are sex dolls and I am just using them for what they are meant for which is sex.

When am 30 I have plan of gettin a child. Loneliness sometimes reminds me of sh!ts am tryin to forget. I need someone to play with and get my mind off sh!ts that my main reason for adoption.

I will teach my child a hell lot abt women so he won't make sch mistakes.

At age 5 my son should be able to know a leech from a ho.e.

Thumbs up on that! More pussy to your wrinkled dick and more money to your account.

But note, you're still spending your hard earned money on the ladies. It is evident you still lack self control.

Pray tell, did you ever go celibate after she cheated you or you just started humping from one pussy to another?

Also, how long have you been outta jail? I think I'm about to figure out something about your personality.

Henitan24:
Guess it's a crime for me telling too much about me but that won't check the fact that I love you and I only want the best for you. Be Good baby

What sort of emotional blackmail is this na? What is 'I love you' suppose to do? More reason I said that you've got no man on here. What sort of lady goes about telling people she's never met online that she loves them? Don't make him think you're just another hoe who has a boyfriend (imaginary) and yet says that word with reckless abandon.

Oyindidi:
Reason I refused to advice him, its like flogging a dead horse. He will heal with time.

If he let's go of his triggers. Yes! buy No if he doesn't. He's a walking bomb!

Henitan24:
No I'm not trying to change his perception about Nigerian women and I've told him several times to do whatever that will make him happy and that's because I understand every bit of what he has been through and I really feel for him but was just to trying to point out his own mistakes also to him. Don't get me wrong OK M.imimile93 is a good friend and I'm gonna rub any backlash from him like a cream on my body not giving up yet and never

You're so quick to believe he's just passing through a phase. Funny thing is that a month in jail by a woman you loved, cared for, trusted, the woman you stayed with longer than anyone can make you take your life or worse yet, hate women!

What you're doing won't work 'cause you're not the first to have threaded this path. You are the same person who just lost her cool and insulted him still in the same thread he posted his turmoil and it isn't up to 24 hours oh! Imagine what you'll do if after a month he tells you to your face that you're shìt- just when you thought you were making headway-

Truth is, after serving jail term, you tend to pick up few things that would end up ruining you even after you're out and that's why a person is advised to go for rehab after serving jail.

He's still hurting and NL isn't helping-It's fuelling his hatred. If only he can stay off NL and block any access to Nigerian women the years he served, I think he just might eventually learn to start afresh. That's only if he can let go of his triggers.

PS: This isn't a phase. It's a condition.

And also, please stop telling us about a distant boyfriend on NL when I know that's a lie. It's just a make up story. You're just trying to put yourself on a pedestal which would/is suppose to make you look different. In his eyes, y'all hoes! If you really wanna heal him, give him time. Loads of it or you might just end up getting fuçked a week after your imaginary boyfriend proposes.

Sir, you're still below 30 years and you've got ample time on your path. I won't say you should heal first 'cause that would be a futile effort but you need to stop spreading hate amongst the male folks. Nigerian women born after the 80's are leeches, bitches, hoes and what not. I've read that part over and over again -on this forum and elsewhere- and I must tell you, it's stale.

To be frank, I'm still surprised you're dating. You should completely stay off women in general. Get a sex doll of about 1.5mil and load all your sperm in it and while at that, adopt a male child and grow him up to hate women -which will be your greatest undoing cause he needs a chance to experience it for himself. You weren't just lucky.

If I'm to pinpoint another flaw, I'd say you should have requested for your result after each semesters and evidence of school fee payment but I guess you were also in love with the guy too that your common sense got whisked away!

Avoid the unfortunate. Avoid the unlucky. Avoid the unhappy. If I was your friend, I'd left you long before you killed that lady. You're unfortunate-relationship wise.

My only advice is that should you take custody of a child, don't pass on your hatred to carry till the next generation 'cause you'll only mess the kid up. You're a write off as it is so don't make him a loser. You should also adopt a Thai child who isn't the fusion of a Nigerian women.

You'll be fine.

Furthermore, what happened to you could happen to anyone (male or female). At this rate, should you meet a woman, you'll want to be the one to break her heart thereby starting or continuing her circle of heartbreak/misfortune. I believe your jail term hardened your heart which set you unto this path.

Mimimile93

Henitan24:
Na over mumunism dey worry him and more stupid for trying to force other men to see Nigerian ladies like he do I'm very sure my man is someone laughing at the slowpoke. Mimimile93 you thread the path so bear the cross. You being foolish with woman is nothing to none.

Lmao! Look who was trying to heal someone. I was trying to relate to your previous approach but this...? this...? What kind of tantrum throwing spree is this?

You needed so bad to know why he hates Nigerian women (your problem), he told you and you tried to change what has been since he was a kid... The problem here is, why attacking him because he refused to yield to your advice? When are you lot gonna get it into your head that you can't change a person? Not just anybody but a murderer?

His isn't hate, it's worse off! You can't get to his heart. Leave him or be caught in a web of backlash from him.

argon500:
Or you bet

Receive sense now!!!

imagine playing a world cup final with a team like France and Russia? It will be so boring ehn!!

Best they'll do is to defend for 120' and wait for a PK shootout. Disgustingly annoying and boring as fūck!!!

Hhenryy:
Nice one, Russia deserved the win. Spain had the game on their hands but were comfortable knocking the ball around the pitch with no real attacking intent.

They have players that can run at the Russian defence and cause troubles but chose to knock the ball around with the hope of opening up some space for themselves... Iniesta came on, i thought he would run at their defense but instead preferred knocking the ball around too.

Knocking which ball around? When next you watch football, watch it the TV and not the back of the TV. You want to run in there defense and fight them with your hands while the ball is in your feet? There was no space to run into their defence. the played a 5-3-2 formation, so what do you want to run into? you want Iniesta to run into a 5 man defense like he's some sort of bulldozer? Something Messi with all his dribbling skills couldn't do?? Mtcheew.

This is the reason I hate watching a small team playing a big one...

Which kind defensive boring match be this self? Iceland no do Argentina like this na. Mtcheew!!

Everyone thought Sane's career might crumble all thanks to the coach but guess what??

All thanks to Sane's exclusion, the coach's career has crumbled!

May all your enemies crumble like this o

dominique:
I'm not seeing any weight loss here, just fat converted to muscle

Fat cannot be converted to muscles. You have to lose it to get to the underlying muscles. Please don't say he didn't lose weight, say he lost just his belly fat.