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This life no balance.
The one that married an older woman Aka Evening newspaper is still married, no scandals,no drama..at least, not yet.

The one who married a young woman,an ideal wife material,is already divorced and moved on with a much younger woman.

Ije uwa

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

Is it that you never knack this girl or she has more money than you do?
Because you don't sound like a normal man.
You sound like a little boy

Lol...This one don use his son as ritual back up ahead of next year.

E reach to dance

A man with tinted hair...
Lol..
The joke is on you

oluwaseyi0:
RIP to the dead

I keep telling people that religion doesn't offer you anything extra, a non-christian can die at any time just like a devoted Muslim and a devoted Christian

But these religious people will keep happening that it's God that is keeping them alive
They think they are special based on belief

Don't mind them.
They must learn lessons

damilola4162:
https://newspremises.com.ng/sammie-okposos-wife-ozioma-weeps-uncontrollably-as-she-pours-sand-into-his-grave-at-his-funeral-video/

Nonsense..
Women and drama.
A man will not be this foolish...acting drama at his late wife's graveside
Guy man will stand still with straight face,thinking which of his side chics he will wife next.

matm:
Older woman with a young boy!
Psychologically, it's incompatible.
After the guy has seen your unclothedness, you will become nauseating to him.Remember he will equally be discussing the affair with his peers and they will be giving him advice on what to do to you for taking advantage of him.
His peers would be asking him what he is doing with old mama rotten vjay when fresh girls are out there Just dupe or kill her, and have the best enjoyment of life with ur choicest of girls.
It's terrible dt some adult women think with their anus b/c of sex.
Allowing a 22year old to mount on you as an older adult is degrading.Its a self inflicted destruction

You have said it all.

I have 2 younger brothers..I am older than them by 2 and 4 years.
I was very conscious not to have anything to do with guys their age..to give myself some respect

Some women are just careless

Stu.pid woman frolicking with a boy who is your supposed to be her last born. A whole 10 years gap..that's what lack of sleep control can cause...
Imagine 32 year old woman opening legs for small boy.
Tueh

Gossipninja:
Watch the video

Kebbi State Women Leader of @NgLabour restaurant was raised down after we refuse one political party offer. We tour the LGAs 2gether with her, if we tell you what happened to us you won't believe it. Enough is Enough! pic.twitter.com/fNT60Crbyi

— Jamilu Sufi 🇳🇬 (@JamiluSufi) December 9, 2022

This attack is coming few days after the Kaduna women leader was assassinated in her home.

The old guard are really fighting dirty now

If you people love your mothers,better advise them to wash hands off politics and stay at home...at most, go out and vote on election Day.

All these women leader this and that will only send more of them to the graves.

The same people who relegated women in politics now using them for their personal gains and killing them in the process.

Be warned!

Women can be so unreasonable and carried away.
Because of a proposed new marriage(husband),a mother becomes hostile to her child and even wants to kick the child out of her house.

It's pathetic.

Preeq that will come and go?

Damn

Lies...
In Nigeria,a man can maltreat his wife and get away with it.
It has no spiritual inclination or consequences.
There is no law in Nigeria against spousal abuse

Oga preacher,rest!

VULCAN:
Have skimmed through some of your posts and these are my observations.

1. You have psychological issues. 25-35% of your posts reveal your misandry. You have a hatred of the male gender.

2. You are a tribalist. You hate Igbos

3. You are either a Yoruba Muslim, a Christian who has fallen from the faith or an atheist. Your negativity towards things that have to do with Christ says it all.

3. Although you claim to be a medical doctor I have serious reservations about that because your vocabulary is just above secondary school level. Doctors are amongst the most well read individuals. Probably only your husband is a doctor but you have claimed his certificate as your own on Nairaland. LOL

You say you wanted to marry a doctor for Japa things. Why would a doctor be looking to marry another doctor for Japa things. Couldnt you get to UK with your own certificate? Abi you were so certain you were incapable of passing PLAB yourself?

4. You are a deceiver who did not tell your poor husband that you hate sex while courting. Now you masturbate to get satisfaction. Perhaps you were raped as a teen which might explain your hatred for men and sex. Who knows?

5. Deep down you are hoping your husband does something to end the marriage so you will be free. You don't want to end it yourself cos you don't want to look like a bad person.

But you are a bad person so do the needful and let the man find a woman who will love him for himself and not for his certificate and japa..

There are more observations but let me stop here for now.

Are you done?

Jobless you!

StoneLucifer:
Your husband must be dying in silence. Hope he has side chicks...

That's his business.
His side chic..his headache.

phemmyfour:
You are a threat to your marriage already. Masturbation withdrawals you from the love ones

The marriage can go to hell anytime.
The most important thing is I have kids and a source of income.
I don't enjoy sex..that's it

apache22b:
Sent you a PM

What for?

You think you have seen a foolish woman?

Smh

BarrElChapo:
Why ? Cos he sucks at it or you just grew distant?

None of the above.

I don't enjoy se.x
Would have preferred to have my kids via IVF with a donor sperm and be a single mother,by choice..
But here I am..stuck in marriage and having to pretend to enjoy sex because of societal expectations

The gender that brags about 7 adult women running after them at once ..Raping underaged girls and killing witnesses..
Rape and murder!

Masturbation...

I don't even enjoy my husband touching me.

I prefer to touch myself

Stuff like this are very common in the east.. because of jealousy and bitterness

This tribe and maltreating their underaged maids na 5&6

In Nigeria, a date is assumed to mean..Get to meet ,then go home/hotel to have se.x.

So the ladies make Outrageous orders so they can eat well before the guys will eat them well.


Na Una sabi!

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

You want to marry evening newspaper?
Your guys will not be happy with you

Menclothing:
Be deceiving urself men who marry bitchss divorce after few years

Good women are in marriage for life

Hahahahaha...The joke is on you
Divorce has nothing to do with good or bad women.
Who patronises these hook up babes,to start with?
Animals , definitely

Creditalerts:
Our girls are now potential olosho


Show of shame

Lol..Las LA's,they marry good men..while the so called decent girls are left behind..

Men love bitch.es

Godsownfc:
Sorry for disturbing you ma, please come to my aid ma, I am really for real, I can show you my school ID card, let me find favor in your eyes pls.

Sorry,I don't give my money to men.

Ask your fellow men who take delight in abusing and insulting women,calling us Greedy,Leeches..Attaching our source of income to hook up.

Loveisnotenough:
Wait o! How do people cope in a relationship? I swear being Single has more liberty. I've hooked myself to a big Jezebel.

How we met: At a friend's house. She liked me instantly and asked my friend for my number through WhatsApp. Then we started chatting.

Note: We had sex twice the day after we met but now she's forming CATWOMAN.

Pros:

Ability to speak English fluently
Has some Gangster babe vibes.

CONS:

Cannot Submit - She'll forever be right.

- She turns little discussion to arguments and anger.

- cannot care for a home. cannot do basic things in the house except when forced, like sweeping, laying of bed after sleep, this beach cannot fry egg or cook anything other than rice.

- Someone we had sex last week now Find faults when I touch her. always talking that I'm forceful, I'm afraid of being accused of rape.

- She is rude but very jealous.

- She wants me to stop speaking our native language. We're same tribe from North region.

- she always want to identify as the most intelligent and richest in the room. Person way I day send even 500 for POS.

Can someone command get this thing outta my bed, She's sleeps till 10am everyday.

Una day try for relationship o.

Na God know when I go marry for this life.

Lol..You don fvck am finish .
Your Body don calm down.

YourBestWriter:
Guys good morrow to you all.

So it's going to be my 39th birthday next year and I still don't have one Kobo in my bank account. Still under my parents roof and no job. In a scale of 1 to 10, what are my chances of making it in life?

Lol... You have 1 year to go.
Afterall,you remain a f.o.o.l forever

onatisi:
Very very sad o.
This is just too much, if davido can bounce back from this ,then he deserves an award ,that guy has seen a lot that would have made many quit long time ago

Lol.. Someone who will soon impregnate another baby mama,that's if he hasn't already.
If irresponsibility was a person..

EBMedia:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CkYFEwgNQHY/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Lol... Same gender that do not regard women.
Same gender who brag .Na dem dey rush us.

Very funny

taylor88:
Even me wey be Wizkid fan no sleep last night


No matter our different parties and favorite celebrity Stans nobody should die Abeg


E go better make we just dey fight for mouth than see one another die


How can Chioma survive this?

She will survive
She is a young girl ..she will have other children.
You will be surprised how quickly she will move on.
The whole thing looks fishy to me.
Davido and Chioma may just KNOW what happened

marlow1962:
So God go cun dy stupid gv u another pikin na?
Cus the one wer em gv dem na trash na, na em make dem throway a whole human bein wer just come dis world for River.
Sometimes na evil wer women dy do make dem no dy see piking born again, abortion follow o but everything no be abortion.
Ppl dy pray for pikin, she cun manage get one per Gods blessing, na em she trash d blessing for river.
So now why u tink say that person go born again.

God doesn't give children....A fertile man and a fertile woman produce children.
And they can have as many kids as they want to,as long as they are fertile.

So calm down.
Religion don blind you