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CrimeRe: A Guy Raped My Sister by spiceadole(f): 1:17pm On Jul 04, 2022
Just look at how men are fuming because a man reported this incident... If the victim has spoken up here about being rape, these same men would have blamed her while making excuses for the rapist.

See how pained they are.

The same men that rape are feeling bad.

Wonders
HealthRe: Lady Commits Suicide After Losing Her 5-Year Old Daughter by spiceadole(f): 1:10pm On Jul 04, 2022
NaijaCoverBlog:
A Lady has Committed Suicide after losing her five-year-old daughter, her only child.

According to her friend @Abdvlhafeez_, the young lady committed suicide at her parents home where she was advised to stay following the loss.



https://twitter.com/Abdvlhafeez_/status/1543522530488614920?t=cIeTSzJGGmT3v7-0GLyG6g&s=19[/quote]Women and extreme emotional attachment.

Whose loss?

Better for the man.
He is free to remarry and move on.
FoodRe: Ogbono Soup With Step By Step Pics by spiceadole(f): 2:01pm On Jul 03, 2022
Kingpele:
I hate this soup with passion especially when I was younger but now as my wife and kids like the soup very well , I had to manage ,I know go throw feast with my own Money and won't participate in the merry
I can relate..
I used to detest this soup seriously growing up and alone... But it's my husband favorite, also affordable to prepare here in UK.
We don't lack Ogbono soup at home.
Hubby makes it most times and I have adapted to enjoy it
PoliticsRe: Youths In Kaduna Mount Peter Obi Billboards (Photos) by spiceadole(f): 8:24pm On Jul 01, 2022
LIKe for Peter OBI
Share for Atiku & Tinubu
FamilyRe: Nigerian Couple Welcome Twins After Over 12 Years Of Waiting by spiceadole(f): 4:22pm On Jun 30, 2022
pafestula:
All thanks to IVF.
Congratulations
IVF as a result of male factor infertility
CrimeRe: Zimbabwean Makeup Artist Killed Her Husband And Hung His Body On A Tree by spiceadole(f): 9:50am On Jun 26, 2022
Baawaa:
This is what you get when you married a harlot
They like the se.xy raunchy looking ladies.

See a fine man wasted
CrimeRe: Family Suspects Foul Play As Akwa Ibom Man Dies After Meal With Lover by spiceadole(f): 6:02am On Jun 26, 2022
Cypress042:
The only thing i understand here is that spendour is his ex girlfriend.

And what the fu*k was he doing with his ex girlfriend huh

Common sense is common. sad
It's actually very easy to lure Nigerian men to their death.
The thought of being with the lady in her house ... In his mind, he will get to chop her again...
CrimeRe: Police Arrest 30-Year-Old Man For Raping 75-Year-Old Woman In Anambra (Photo) by spiceadole(f): 5:44am On Jun 26, 2022
Igbo men and disrespect..
Even raping their mothers and grandmother's.
CelebritiesRe: Final Burial Of Late Singer, Osinachi Holds Today (pix/video) by spiceadole(f): 5:41am On Jun 26, 2022
phemmyfour:
Honestly, it's uncalled for, especially with the manner the young lady died. The show off is unreasonable
I'm surprised... A funeral that few close family and friends should gather , mourn and express sadness.
Very young lady.. who died under such circumstances.
I'm amazed
CelebritiesRe: Final Burial Of Late Singer, Osinachi Holds Today (pix/video) by spiceadole(f): 7:27pm On Jun 25, 2022
Africa and burial paparazzi madness.. tueh!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Experience In A Mortuary by spiceadole(f): 1:06pm On Jun 24, 2022
Devilagentcap:
If you are giving a chance to work in mortuary you take it or not for 100k



If it happens that I want to take a mortuary work, what are the things that I should prepare for to avoid all those experiences about the Dead or are they just fairy tales
Hardly will anybody working in a mortuary even earn that much.
FashionRe: Social Media Ladies Show Us Their Faces Before And After Makeup by spiceadole(f): 4:50pm On Jun 22, 2022
Abuashman1:
Makeup has taken over the world and some men are afraid of dating new women because of the power of makeup. Makeup has made most women's dreams come true as they can use makeup to achieve any look they want.

If it wasn't for YouTube and social media, we probably wouldn't know the real secret to looking perfect....which is makeup! With makeup names like foundation, primer, concealer, contouring, bronzer, eyelashes and lipstick to name a few shows you how serious the makeup game is. It can transform any woman to look the way they desire and sadly for some men, they fall inlove with makeup and not the lady's true self.
If women use make up to deceive men, serves them right.
The same men will see ladies with little or no make up but regard them as not being flashy
CelebritiesRe: Obituary Of Late Gospel Singer Osinachi Nwachukwu (Photo) by spiceadole(f): 11:29am On Jun 22, 2022
Fahdiga:
Rip to her. God will comfort the children you left behind and if your husband has a hand in your death may he never know peace again
Taaah.. he will know peace.
Remarry and have new children.

If women like, let them leave abusive marriages.
If they like, let them remain there.

I wish the man will be acquitted.

Yeye woman who killed herself
CrimeRe: Anyone Who Commits Abortion In Nigeria Is Liable To Imprisonment — Police by spiceadole(f): 10:48am On Jun 22, 2022
FutureIsFemale:
What happens to men who impregnate? What punishment is given to irresponsible fathers and boyfriends who impregnate and deny?
What punishment is given to rapists?
Nigeria law is made to keep women in bondage but we will all prevail
It's not everything you blame men for.

What happens to abstinence and safe sex(barrier and contraceptives)?

Even in the case of rape, pregnancy can be prevented
PoliticsRe: Your State And Who You Are Supporting For The 2023 Election by spiceadole(f): 10:25am On Jun 18, 2022
SeaTrade:
From Anambra,supporting Tinubu.
Reason?I am one person that believes so much in track record and don't get sweet talked easily.
You are already a cu.r.se.d person
PoliticsRe: Your State And Who You Are Supporting For The 2023 Election by spiceadole(f): 10:23am On Jun 18, 2022
I'm from Akwa Ibom but based in UK.

I am supporting Peter Obi .

Planning to take my annual leave during the time of election so I can vote and also encourage my family and friends to be OBIDIENT
RomanceRe: Man Apologizes to His Lover With A Benz After Breaking Up With Her (Pix, Video) by spiceadole(f): 8:02am On Jun 11, 2022
Amotekun777:
I wonder how many times he's bought a car to apologize to his mother. angry

Foolish Simp! angry
He can't fvck his mother.... A lot of men can't take care of their mothers because they ain't getting se.x from her.
CrimeRe: Owo: Dozens Killed as Terrorists Attack Church During Service In Ondo State by spiceadole(f): 5:07pm On Jun 05, 2022
BennyDGreat:
There's a saviour.
Man's wickedness to man is what you have seen in full display.

Enough people in light must rise to fight the darkness in our nation. Without that, darkness and wickedness will keep controlling things
A sleeping or dead savious.
Savior indeed

I stopped attending church some years ago and my life has been beautiful since then
CrimeRe: Owo: Dozens Killed as Terrorists Attack Church During Service In Ondo State by spiceadole(f): 5:05pm On Jun 05, 2022
J3susFr3ak:
The same thing the Jews must have said when 6 million of them were put into Gas Chambers and killed off....

....yet where is Israel today?

One thing you do fail to understand is the overwhelming Wisdom and Power this same God you so want to belittle has. He always has a way of warning or sending very strong signals before anything happens. The wise ones who are able to decode will heed to the warnings and take action immediately.

One thing Israel cannot afford today is "complacency". They know their enemy is plotting 24/7 to wipe them off --so they make every active measure to stop that before it even happens.

The Nigerian Church and Christendom in general are relatively too "complacent". There is a monster at the door in the form of a Murderous Radical Islam --yet they seem to want to be "yoked" with this beast to be able to negotiate their status in a very transient political hierarchy. This is not God's fault. This is the fault of those power-brokers who have surrendered the lives of their subjects in the name of seeking "national power".

Sensing a gradual change or shift in power--those Open Grazing Fulani Terrorist want to make a firm bloody statement and also turn around to blame you as the Terrorist.

Either you start protecting worshipers by arming a group who would look out for any attackers--or the surprise attacks will persist in the most annoying and gruesome way.
Oga, leave epistles..
There is no supernatural being that protects or averts danger.
CrimeRe: Owo: Dozens Killed as Terrorists Attack Church During Service In Ondo State by spiceadole(f): 3:46pm On Jun 05, 2022
There is no saviour , no Messiah anywhere.

Even inside the so-called house of their father, evil met them and nothing their father could do about it.

No miracle... No protection.
Keep believing in the existence of a supernatural being who is all knowing and protecting.. the joke is on you.
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Eke Fires Back At Those Mocking Her Accent, I Lived & Schooled In Owerri by spiceadole(f): 1:59pm On Jun 04, 2022
English is your first language, you should do better
RomanceRe: Should I Shoot My Shot Or Let Her Be? by spiceadole(f): 1:56pm On Jun 04, 2022
Prick on rampage

Hit and run.

Kontunu
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by spiceadole(f): 8:57am On May 31, 2022
Beautygoddesss:
wat happened
I grew up seeing my father always beating my mum.
It was impossible for my parents to stay for 24 hours without a fight.
If he is not physically abusive, he is verbally abusing her.
I don't think I saw my parents gist and laugh up to 3 times in all the years I lived with them.

My dad did the most unimaginable things to my mum.. Sometimes, she landed in hospital.

In 2015,he stabbed her with a bottle and I spent my savings to save her life.
After which, I relocated her.. rented an apartment for her and started a business for her..and we stayed together with my younger siblings there.
I later got a job outside our state and relocated.

Within a year, my mum started getting in contact with her husband.. before I knew it, she left the house and went back to him.

She made me her enemy now
We have not seen in the past 4 years and we hardly talk.
The story she is telling people now is that she never divorced her husband. They never separated.. It was me who tried to destroy her marriage by taking her away and renting another place for her.


The man still abuses her, though more verbally since old age has humbled him, somewhat.

I learnt my lesson oooh
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by spiceadole(f): 12:22am On May 31, 2022
Funkyswagzz:
One of the things i regret up till today is that i didnt study in a private university. I have my personal reasons for saying that. Also i regret helping my cousin when he needed me cos i later found out that he around me to gain what ever he can. This dude stopped calling me because he is making his money. So i had to keep my distance.

Feel free to share yours. Its the only way u can let go of those regret.
Ever taking sides with my mother while she suffered DV in the hands of my father.

I regret all the care and protection I gave her.
If I had known, I would have ignored her and allow him continue to beat her
FamilyRe: I Had A Fight With My Married Younger Brother, I refused to Apologise by spiceadole(f): 1:49pm On May 30, 2022
Barrister026:
It's so annoying children of nowadays think because they got baby mamas up and down they got no respect for their elders, infact once they notice you haven't had a child yet no matter how old you are, they start looking at you like their age mates or even older than.

My kid bro who I single handedly passed down wears to back then has the audacity to talk to me anyhow just because he is a father of a 5 year old boy and another one is on the way. Well that's how he's been reason he toke a lot of beatings from me back in the days...

The recent happenings happened this morning after so many years, I came home for a very close relative's burial same with our eldest bro whose in his mid 30s. Discussion we were having, one thing led to another... this kid bro of mine flared up shouting at the top of his voice to my elder bro...mom telling him to shut up he's still talking...I immediately pounce on him in the presence of his wife and kid, I gave him the beating of his life, squeezed that his lip he was using to insult our eldest bro, not minding his wife watching.

Yes I'm angry with him, the day his wife gave birth out of wedlock, he was jubilating that he the last born first us to give our parent's a grand child. I say see this one, if I wanted to have kids I would have, how many ladies has tried to trap pregnancy on me all through this years. it's just man not yet ready yet, and been married don't Just freak me yet.

Mom been gingering me to apologise to him, but I refused? Why would I?

Yes I was wrong for beating him in the presence of his pregnant wife and kid, I didn't mean to embarrass him...I felt bad myself after the whole thing.. but before he was a husband he was first my kid bro.
Dont apologise to him.
Give him space, blank him.

Except, well.. he is feeding you now
RomanceRe: Lady Swears On Her Mother's Life As A Proof Of Love (Video) by spiceadole(f): 9:23am On May 28, 2022
Such stupid.ity because of pe.nis

Young ladies of nowadays and their lack of common sense
RomanceRe: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by spiceadole(f): 11:48pm On May 27, 2022
Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.
Premarital sex has its consequences..
But woke generation will not listen.

Nothing makes a woman feel worthless than being dumped after series of premarital sex and abortions.

Hope you have learnt your lessons.

Close your legs and stop having sex outside the confines of marriage
Give yourself some dignity.

Uncu has moved on.
You will be alright Las las
HealthRe: Vaginal Tear Or Cut During Childbirth by spiceadole(f): 1:25pm On May 23, 2022
omegafeetal:
Opinion Poll: Vaginal Tear Or Cut During Childbirth. A Dream Or A Dread.

A wonderful day to everyone.

In the course of my discussion with a group of women on childbirth experiences and associated issues including vaginal tear or cut during child delivery and its management. Someone stated that she dread having a Tear or Episiotomy again after the ugly experience at the birth of her first child which almost cost her life after being poorly managed by the healthcare workers.

Almost immediately after that, another woman expressed her desire to have a tear at delivery, cos she had learnt that the place gets tightened more as the sutured wound heals, giving more pleasure during intercourse.

I'm now seeking members' opinion, especially mothers, on this issue.

Do/Would you Desire for a Tear or Cut During Childbirth or you Dread it.

Thanks ahead for your responses
This is not in the patient's place to decide.

If you don't get an episiotomy, you may have a perineal tear, the latter being worse.
Both require suturing.

The doctor or nurse, attending to the delivery makes this decision
EventsRe: Why I Won't Attend My Cousin Brother's Wedding Ceremony Today by spiceadole(f): 7:34pm On May 21, 2022
Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too
Your attendance doesn't matter..
Lesser crowd, better ceremony..
Rest! HML to the couple
RomanceRe: Man Set To Marry Two Wives From Same Community In Abia State (Photo) by spiceadole(f): 7:13am On May 20, 2022
Welcomed development.

Since it seems like a taboo for Abiriba women to marry outsiders.

I have a colleague from Abiriba who is approaching 36 years.. She is still waiting for Abiriba man or nothing.

Once a man is not from Abiriba, mission abort.
Baffles me.. at almost 36 ,she is still so adamant and selective.

Na wetin go fit her be this
HealthRe: Pregnant Abuja Lady Dies Weeks After Her Baby Shower (Photo) by spiceadole(f): 3:48am On May 19, 2022
Badguy77:
So na everybody wey dey abuja kow her abi....Which one be u cant live in abuja without knowing her or her shop? Anywayz may God rest her soul...Rip princess
Don't mind her.

Na to dey write non.sense in a bid to sound and appear sympathetic
PoliticsRe: Kano Explosion: 9 Bodies Recovered From The Rubble Of Collapsed Building by spiceadole(f): 7:00pm On May 17, 2022
Anybody who Is not a Northerner and a Muslim especially Igbos but still resident in the North, has no value for his or her life.

I wonder wetin una see for North.

Tueh!

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