obembet: I believe everyone has a picture of their dream husband/ wife in their head but sometimes destiny and journey through life might change everything.
It’s always good to marry a wo-man with a good job, but the nature of the job will also determine how effective the woman will be as a wife and as a mother to the children, also how responsible the husband will be.
If you are to marry based on a person's profession, who will you want to marry?
I married a doctor I was very careful and intentional about my choice of a spouse,I view of japa things. I am also a medical doctor.
MuslimIgbo: Of course, I expect girls that have lost count of their bodycount to fume like this...
The interesting thing about this life is that, you can't eat your cake and have it. YOUR PAST WILL ALWAYS COME BACK TO BITE YOU IN YOUR ASS... You can't have double digits bodycount and expect to end up with a rich, handsome and GODLY man (mumu) to marry you in the end. If you've slept with married men, you can't expect to enjoy your marriage and your husband to yourself alone. NEVER!
A WHORÈ DOESN'T DESERVE LOVE. A WHORÈ DOESN'T DESERVE FIDELITY.
INFACT, A WHORÈ DOESN'T DESERVE A HONORABLE MARRIAGE. WHY SHOULD A USED PRODUCT AND LEFTOVER OVER BE HONOURED? Bodycount should always be divided by number of BODYCOUNT.
If your bride price is 100k and your body is 10, your bride price should 100,000/10. So your father is supposed to only get 10k for raising someone like you.
What's the difference between sleeping with a married man and sleeping with a bachelor?
As a single lady,once you are having sex with a man who is not your husband,you are a fool if you don't do it for good favour.
anigbajumo: Apart from opening a domns acct, Which reliable way is good to save in dollars. I’m not cool with bank exchange rate that’s why I don’t want to open a doms acct.
I don't operate a dom account but I have colleagues who do,for the purpose of relocation. I'm based in the UK
Ilekokonit: Once husband and wife sleep in different beds or in different rooms, the marriage is almost over and may not last for very long
Husband and wife have no business sleeping in different beds or in different rooms.
The excuse some women give is that they are nursing a baby who must breast feed through the night and thats a fair point but at some point, the baby will stop feeding on breast milk and at that point, the baby can go and sleep in his or her cot and not in the parents marital bed and after some time he or she or they if twins have to go and sleep in their own room and let Mum and Dad have the needed private time so that they can bond if their young marriage is to survive long after their children have left home (which they will someday).
But the mistake a lot of women make is to over prioritize their time with their baby / toddler to the detriment of their marriage. Why go into a marriage when at the first sign of a baby, the wife imports the baby permanently into her marital bed under the guise of breastfeeding and in some cases even when the child is more than 3 years old, he or she is still sleeping beside the mum at night and often times the man has been stylishly shunted to sleeping in another room and even if chairman wan nack during the day, the 3 year old child is furiously banging on the door for the parents to open the door because the child has been made to always feel he or she has to be beside the Mum.
But wives who want their marriage to last will know where to draw the line and give unto Caesar what is Caesar's in a TIMELY manner.
A word is enough for the wise woman who wants her marriage to last way past when the kids will have left home to start their own families.
That's your opinion.
It's not the general rule.
I and my husband have different bedrooms and sleep in different rooms...Marriage doesn't mean one cannot have his or her privacy and quiet time.
Preciousgirl: What is wrong with men? Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again Knowing very well that I am married Should I tell my husband? Should I block him? Please how do I handle it?
I am never interested in him
Block him..you know you should... The moment he started contacting you... But you won't.. because it's a matter of time,you will start sleeping with him again. Umu nwanyi
Gabless: I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.
I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.
We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.
He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.
The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.
So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.
So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.
Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.
Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.
If the guy don fvck you..Sorry
If he didn't smash your pusi... Congratulations..and move on.
Festus30: I and this girl have been dating over a year. I took her serious, I've sacrifice a lot for her and it made me so heart broken when I noticed she cheated on me reason I almost took her life.
My girlfriend and I live in the same city (Mowe) but I traveled out of the city 2 months ago for work things (ibadan), so around last month she called me that her phone screen (Samsung) is broken, that she's just managing her phone and to fix it is 35k but she already have 15k so she's in need of 20k to complete it. So I sent her 21k.
Fast forward to Friday when I came back to mowe, I went to see her, I saw her holding iphone Xmax. I was like who gave you iPhone? She was just telling me lies upon lies. At first she said she swapped it, then I was like why didn't you tell me you bought iPhone and who gave you money to swap it becus you'll need over 190k to swap. To cut the long story short..
I later found out that a guy bought the phone for her. The 21k I sent to repair her phone, she repaired it and gave it to her younger sis.
I was so heartbroken. For a guy to buy her iphone that means she have been dating and having sex with the guy secretly without me knowing. She has been begging me, calling & texting since Friday but i didn't reply.
She texted me she was coming to my house yesterday. The only word I said to her since on Friday was to meet me in a uncompleted building close to my house yesterday, I have this machanic slege hammer, it's one of my tools I use for working, so I held it while waiting for her.
My plan was the moment she enter the building, just a powerful whiplash on her head and she's dead, I felt so cold inside of me, I was also shaking while holding the hammer and feeling so heartbroken. Then I heard a deep voice inside of me saying "YOU WILL REGRET YOUR ACTIONS" (twice)
Then she called me that she's there, I already sighted her through the window, I came out and I told her to run away and never come back anywhere around me again. She was still begging that she's sorry. And I said if only you know what I'm about to do, you will run.
She left, I just sat on the floor feeling so heartbroken.
You wanted to kill a lady because of to.to A lady that is not even your wife owes you no faithfulness. If you feel you have right to fvck her because of things you do for her,No be only you go do things for her. Flee fornication
Coolbreeze1988: Congratulations to you, I can imagine the pain and the reproach she went through and kudus to the husband for standing by her against his family members. May God provide for the family to take care of the child.
Lol. And you don't even know if it was a male factor infertility issue..which is very likely,it was..they probably went for IVF
dosage150: I got a job in another company, which I am currently employed.
My start date for the next job is on 10-10-2022. I have given my current employer my notice of resignation through the HR on 24-9-2022, stating that my last day of work will be on 4-10-2022.(Two weeks)
My colleague was telling me yesterday that the company will not pay me since they have seen my resignation letter.
I should have collected my salary and leave impromptu.
I have to be cleared from the company,that's why I gave them notice Even though they treated me bad I want to end everything so we part ways peacefully
I can't wait for my salary because they pay on 15th of next month and I need to relax before taking up another job hence giving them notice for resignation.
NB: 1)I have been coming to work since that 24-10-2022 2) The HR have not approved my resignation 3) I worked from the 1-09-2022 till 4-10-2022
I believe that I should be paid
Please is there any reason why this company shouldn't pay me ? How do I follow this up to know my stand, because if they won't pay me, no need coming to work or even giving them notice
You should have been patient...collect your salary and disappear
Judybash93: Because most women marry those who are ready and not those they're in love with
Those they are in love with likely keep them for free knacking for years,then dump them and marry another.. Some women have decided to be wise. Some are still foolish. Any relationship more than 6 months or 1 year max ..Cancel.
Stephen2324: My then girlfriend is happily married to the man that told her to leave me and marry him
His reasons was I was still young that I will still be able to love again
Bruh na man dey do man
Congratulations to the lady
She applied wisdom and married a man who was ready,and not continuing to serve illicit sex to boyfriend who may turn around tomorrow to slut and single shame her after years of knacking.
Agbebakun22: Are u guys teenagers? Cux no one cant tell an adult till marriage. So what are u now doing in the goddamn relationship
It takes self worth and discipline to abstain from sexual immorality and it's rare. Adults can...if they so wish My husband and I had a "no sex relationship ". We got married within few months.
Dalnadoni: What d Bleep are you saying...you think all this shit happen abroad? Try leave naija and see how real doctors treat people.
Lol..The government of "abroad" is responsible..while the government of Nigeria is irresponsible.thats why.
I am a Nigerian doctor in the UK . The difference is clear... It's a society where the system is programmed to work unlike Naija,nothing good can work.
Look at the little children he has left to suffer in this cold world. How does his commiting suicide solve the problem? Rather,it will worsen it . Even the psychological trauma and stigma his family will suffer is a big problem.
IMO, people who end their lives are selfish people
joyH: Please guys I need your help. @mod pls help me move to appropriate section.
I am confuse, needs advice on what step to take next.
The whole thing begins on 25th July when i had unprotected sex with my bf. before then my last period came on the 17th of July. so i had sex just about a week after.
Since then uptil now i have not seen my period. Initially I worried i may be pregnant but after several urine and blood test it all turns out negetive. what could be wrong here? This is the first time i am experiencing this.
I have done 4 test myself using pt test strips. but all came negative. Yesterday I went to a private lab an de used my blood and urine sample for pregnancy test, it still came out negative.
Abeg any medical expert or any one with past experience should assist with advice on next step please.
Note, my boyfriend is aware of the whole situation. he himself is confused. plus I am 23 yrs old just incase my age will aid in the diagnosis.
Likely PCOS
Unfortunately,Nigerians don't like going to the hospital.
Ndibunna: The only people celebrating her are IPOBs which of course we know Ipobs are nothing but demented group of recycled criminals and sadist, Uju Anya been one of the sadist in them.
They have being looking for another savior since the other albino is currently cooling off in DSS custody.
Bribri: Short and simple God bless you for this. You get bolder to say NO if you aren't a leech. Till adies hold honour tight hands no man will take you serious. Make all the Bros too dey fear God oo.
The main reason many ladies cannot say NO is because they are leeches. They see relationship as a business/job opportunity.Hence,many of them sleep around with men.. Plan A,B,C etc, hoping that one will marry them
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