₦airaland Forum

Chioma4eva:
So What can be done about this ugly trend. Going into relationship this days is tiring to be honest.

Keep your legs closed.
Don't collect monetary or material gift.
Define your relationship.
Know what you want.
I dated my husband for few months and we got married.No Sex .we are 5 years and counting with 3 children.
A man can marry you without seeing your pant first .

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Unfortunately,ladies have refused to learn.
The main reason a man approaches a woman is to have sex with her .
After which,it's only natural that he loses interest in her because she has been conquered ,her value reduces.
If they are married,he is "forced" to remain married for obvious reasons but Continues to sleep with other ladies outside.

Advise single ladies to keep their legs closed..NO..
Hunger,greed for material things and peanuts, laziness and inherent promiscuity wont allow many ladies say NO to premarital sex

Before opening the thread,I suspected they will be yeebos trying to develop Ogun state,by force

Just like a typical Nigerian man thinks...Every single lady, especially matured and seemingly well to do,is desperate for a man and is an easy lay.
Hence he wanted to use the opportunity to bang her,come online and brag about bashing his lecturer, insulting all women including his mother in the process of gaining likes on SM.

He must have even staked a bet with his friends that he was going to lay the lady.

He was lucky he didn't get an outright fail for his stupidity.

Disrespectful unserious student.

Many married women are low-key lesbians.
They only get married to bear children and for societal respect.
Most don't enjoy preeks...Reason why a lot of married man complain their wives deny them sex

God1000:
Too bad, she's shameless

No sane lady will brag about her promiscuity.

Telling the whole world that she's a strumpet is beyond my understanding.

This generation of young people doesn't have shame at all, we cannot normalize debauchery, it's wrong.


Who will marry such a person?

A good man will marry her.

Such is life

Rozross:
She enter market with her brains at it’s full capacity. Very wise girl

I dey tell you.
Whoever advised her did well and should be appreciated.

Elidrisy20:
Marriage wea no reach 2yrs you don born 2 children already

It's not a crime.
Let her add a daughter next year

Righteousness2:
Regina my Beloved sister, we Thank God for the handsome and wonderful kids, but we won't stop to tell you the truth.

It is one thing to be happy for the Blessings but it is more important to follow and obey the Owner and giver of the Blessings.

You are not in a right marriage.
Let no one Deceive you. You are marrying someone else husband. GOD is not happy with that. It is Adultery. It is Sin.
Do the needful so as to save your soul in Eternity, Eternity is a Personal Race. Everyone will give account for himself/herself.

Wee you keep kwayet?

You are ment and you don't have anybody to tell you.

Folks like you be preaching but in secret,you are deep into fornication and other atrocities...

Rozross:
� See as she’s enjoying her life and happy, thank God she didn’t marry all these small boys with testosterone issues she would have been looking pale by now as a result of all forms of abuse. God where my Ned?

Ah swear
.she chose wisely oooh

On Sunday, they will be in church.. shameless ladies

edorhe14:
Must you be a Full?

Coming from a gender that brags about sleeping around while their wives still breath.

Anyway,I'm not responsible for your inability to spell F.O.O.L,of course..that's what you are

LOVEGINO:
My Her gentle soul rest in perfect peace

Side chics warming up!

Check their girlfriends ' houses.

They may have gone to release sperm there

The female gender is an endangered specie in Nigeria...Any chance a man gets,he will rape a lady.
That's their own way of humiliating women

BigIyanga:
It’s Naija women that are hung up on age diff.

Who calls matured single ladies," evening newspapers"?

Age matters to me .
I was careful not to be involved with any man younger than I am,even if by one day.

Age was one of the first things I tried to find out about a prospective suitor .

I once ghosted a guy who I later found out was 12 days younger than me.

Nigerian men and age shaming women...I couldn't deal ooh

Congratulations to her
.

Better than being a baby mama to a Nigerian man,for that matter

Rozross:
Sexual activities between couples require some form of skills and energy no doubt. Women hold down jobs, being moms, being a wife and this can be overwhelming and highly desexualising making it difficult to shift into romantic modes with worn out energies.

With all these put together, should women worry over not being good in bed to meet up with their partners' fantasies?

Do men really care about their partner’s bedroom skills? As a man, will you leave your woman because of her poor bedroom skills?

I'm a woman and I'm not bothered.
I can't stress myself over sex..No matter what,he will still cheat

fman:
I swear...
My head don scatter
With leftist reasoning:
Courtesy of the Nigerian factor.
I wish u the best in your endeavors
To save lives.

Try and change your mentality.
There are many legit lucrative jobs and businesses.
Every seemingly successful woman is not into prostitution.

By the way,thank you!

fman:
But wait oh.
Na olosho work u dey do
Asin hookups.
Tinder play.
No worry we know the matter

I'm a medical doctor.

It's unfortunate you don't know any lucrative profession other than prostitution.
It's a pity.

fman:
Audio money.
300k yearly or monthly or daily
Or hourly?

Lol..Some Months ,it was more than 300K...As I did multiple jobs...Yet it was so difficult to survive,I had to relocate to UK.

Like I typed earlier,calm down!

fman:
You!!
How much u dey make?

About 300K before I left Nigeria in 2019.

Calm down.Every lady is not poor.

The poster said she earns more than the guy

Nigerians and over expression of fake emotions when someone dies.

See long epistles....

Some will be inwardly happy the deceased is no more....But will be writing jargons on social media.

Fake! All Fake!!

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

Your wife is into women.
In other words,she is a Lez.
Many women get married to cover up this part of them.
But low-key ,they don't really enjoy preeq.
They use fingers ,tongue and vibrators to satisfy themselves

Na wa ooh.

But Nigerians say married women are responsible.
How come a married woman is indulging in lesbianism?
Nigerian men brag about their sexual prowess but a house wife left gbola to be rubbing pusi with pusi.


This life no balance ooo

Reader530:
Good day my people. I want to marry a girl. She respects me so much. She is very intelligent and hardworking. She is productive. She has many talents.

In fact, during rainy season, she will leave city for her village and go to farm that is where she spens her annual leave. She cooks well, she can plait hair all styles and she can plait her hair herself of all styles. She is God fearing, always from work, church, domestic chores and other things at home that earns her money.

She is beautiful but has a curved back. My challenge is curved back, how can I overcome this challenge. Matured advice please.

Nigerian ladies can easily marry men with any type of deformities but men? They will screen and check for faults even if the good part outweighs /overshadows the bad part.

@Op... leave the lady alone.
She is too much for you.
Na slay queen fit you

sotall:
Damn!

What parents go through for their children

Wicked parents...
None of their other children or relatives was a match for their daughter?

eebraa:
Nigeria is just training Doctors for UK and other western countries. Government should start issuing bond to all Nigeria trained doctors. They must work for at least 15 years in Nigeria before they Japa.

Lol

Your irresponsible government, you mean?

They don't care

Good news..
The best decision I made was to relocate to UK when I did.
Best wishes to my colleagues planning to japa.
Nigeria is not for us.

JoshTrillions:
When I saw “Ebenezer”, “Obey” and “Dead” in one sentence, my mind reflexively constructed the sentence in a different way from what the article actually reads..Nonetheless, it’s a very tragic incident.
RIP to the young man, and fortitude to his father and family

Indomie generation