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0truthseeker:
I just complement my Typhoid/Malaria treatment only drug no drip, used the last tab this morning. But before then, I frequently urinate, at most an hour after drinking water, I assume it may be of Typhoid or Season, I worried less for my physician(nurse) to do.

Forward to this night i had expect the frequent urinating to have reduced but negative. I was scared it my be symptoms of Diabetics, out curiosity i had a taste from finger touch, the urine taste just like ordinary water, i wasn't convince so i pee in me had to have a lick, the was the same pure water.

Could this be result of previous medication or I should see doctor

A nurse cannot be a physician.

A physician is a MEDICAL DOCTOR,who specializes in managing medical ailments,not surgical cases.

Take Note!

AmazonTopaz:
And the married man nkor that vowed to be faithful but cheated what happens to him?
You are a big time hypocrite if you think you can blame the woman alone and leave the man.

Whose loss?

The married man who fvcked her,got her pregnant ,had her abort it and returned to his wife and 3 kids...

OR The lady?


Who is the loser?

Married men will always cheat because single ladies don't have sense.

Don't have respect for yourself oh.
Keep opening your legs carelessly.
And be waiting for married men to be blamed.
You are a joker!

cococandy:
we know your type. Selective decency.

Stop sleeping around..Preserve your dignity as a woman.

Shoooowkey..Ehen
Shooowkey..Shoowww ooo Shoooowww ooo key.

Somebody call my name..Showkey
Childhood memories.

Happy Birthday, AJ City Daddy.
Happy Birthday Sir

dominique:
Yes she deserves to be angry but going as far as threatening to murder his wife and kids is not ok. She has to be called to order before she ruins her life in the name of exerting revenge. A woman like herself is sitting on death row after she killed her lover's son.

If we look at this matter critically, this woman probably knew the man was married. I'm 90% certain of this. They always play the "I didn't know he was married" victim card after they get dumped. She stupidly dated a man without doing any background research on him and agreed to abort pregnancies for him now she's crying victim. Whatever did the innocent wife and kids do to her that she wants to take them down? Try this with me and I'll personally see that you die in jail

Thank you very much.

I believe 99% she knew he was married.

How does a lady not do background checks on a mam she intends to date?

Social media has made this CID work very easy.

DexterousOne:
Why is the married man sleeping around outside his marriage

The man bears the blame 100% here

Who is lamenting now?
Who is pained now?
Imagine if she "lost her womb" during the 2md abortion..while the man has 3 kids.


The man's wife will not divorce him.
But if this lady exposes herself,many men will avoid her.

Whose loss?

You have exams tomorrow morning,your friends who finished their exams last month ask you to join them for an all night flexing... And you went with them,had so much fun,you overslept and missed your exam..
Who will cry?

Chii59:
You done?

Done..
Next time,you come for more schooling.
You are not wise

Chii59:
They won't listen. As greedy as they are, they don't go for wild ladies who don't mind having sex with married men. They go for decent ladies who they have to lie to.

A decent lady does not indulge in premarital sex..Its not something to be proud of.
Premarital sex and decency are not related.

Chii59:
It takes two to tango aunty. If you've never been deceived by a man you loved whom you thought was single but was married, you'll talk the way you're talking.
Incase you didn't read in depth, the abortion is by the side, her main anger is a man she loved and really enjoyed fvcking has been married all along.
Even you, aunty do-good, would get angry.

Lol..
The wages of sin is death.
Let her continue enjoying premarital sex.
Whose loss las las?
Foolish lady!

Angelfrost:
Well, the man messed up big time and deserves to be dragged all over the cyberspace!!! However, a line must be drawn when it comes to family!!!

She has no right whatsoever to bring in the innocent wife and kids... This is beyond witchcraft and insanity! That lady needs to be arrested, convicted and committed to psychiatry care.

Background checks have become far easier now with social media and internet... She could have easily confirmed this long ago! Come to even think of it... Was she coerced into having unprotected sex??! Abortion was also partly her choice.

Well scripted..

With social media,connections,mutual friends..a man will meet a lady,they will start a relationship and she makes no attempts to find out stuff about him?
She is not a serious person.

Chii59:
Who's talking about r.ape?
Some ladies will never date a married man. Yes I said it because I'm one of them. Do you know how painful it is to have invested time and everything in a relationship only to find out he has been married all along? Don't even talk about her digging through to find out his status. You know some men are extremely crafty.
Bottomline: that greedy man has stirred the hornets nest. Anything he sees, na him sabi.

Clearly,you don't understand my point.

Close your legs..Even with a bachelor.

Apart from time(which will not be wasted when sex is not involved as a man who is out for sex will leave when he is not getting it)..what is the other everything's that ladies are investing in relationship?

If only ladies close their legs and keep their bodies until they are married,stories of heart break,he used and dumped me,he deceived me ,etc will drastically reduce.

No matter how crafty a man is,if you wanna find out anything about him,you will..
Only if you want to.

Bottmline..Close your legs!
No loss!

Chii59:
It takes two to make a baby. Two

Yes..If she closes her legs,the 2nd person will not enter.
She wasn't raped.

Chii59:
Greedy men will not stop bringing problems to their family members. How can you ask a woman to abort twice that you're not ready only to be married with kids? Whatever happens to him and his family, he caused it.

Why is she indulging in premarital sex ,unprotected for that matter?


Women,first of all,owe themselves the duty of being decent,having respect for their bodies and regards for their lives.

Its not possible that a lady will not know her boyfriend is married.
Only that people just meet and jump into bed,start having sex and claiming to be in a relationship..Without being acquaintances ,establishing friendship first and doing adequate background findings about a prospective partner.

When you tell them to close their legs,they will say they want to be know his size and prowess.
When the matter cast,they start lamenting.

Premarital sex,no matter how it sweet it feels ,when it backfires,its the ladies that feel the bitterness.

Julibet:
The OP too by blurring the name of the pharmacy is contributing to the problem. Expose it and let people go for their head.

Ebus Pharmacy,Eastern bypass,Port Harcourt

ufotty2001:
Why are actors not buying a mansion it is only actress .. guys don't be depressed these people are using there puss.y very well

Your sister is not a virgin.
Why is she not using her puss.y very well?

Nigerian men be vexing,attributing ladies wealth to her having sex with men.

Meanwhile,their mothers,sisters,wives,girlfriends,daughters are not virgins..
Yet nothing come out!

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Too bad
She died of childbirth complications in the US

Una hear am....all these people that are fast to lambaste Nigeria assuming say na Nigeria he for happen


Overrated Moda fuckkking America

God has vindicated Nigerian doctors

unofficialmadman:
There's nothing you can tell me.
A sugar daddy somewhere sponsored this.

Happy birthday to her.

Its the same services your sisters offer their boyfriends but come home empty handed and heart broken!

bizzibodi:
How can a sane woman marry a naija policeman.

God bless you!

No reasonable woman marries a Nigerian policeman.
The women who are wives of policemen have mental problems ..same as their husbands..only in different degrees.

The woman head no correct!

Both of them suit each other

manuel4real:
I can't imagine myself as woman getting married to a police officer

When I was single..I avoided military and paramilitary men,including police.

I wonder how sane women marry them.

louiziana:
She relocated out of Lagos, not that I left her. She has self respect and she is well behaved but does not like turning me down. I also see that as a sign of respect, veejay no slack na elastic.

A woman who has self respect and value for her body does not indulge in sexual intercourse outside the confines of a matrimony..Pre and Extra marital affairs.

Veejay dey slack.
There is something called elastic limit.
It can be exceeded.

She is so beautiful... Black beauty.

Looks so young at almost 40.

Wow!

louiziana:
Ewww! Low drive or what? As at last year, I used to bleep my ex like 3-4 times within 8 hours whenever she visits.

And after slacking her veejay,you didnt marry her.
What was her gain?

I am not a sex freak.
When I was single,I practised "No sex relationships" till I got married.
Women should learn how to respect their bodies.
If an ordinary boyfriend can bleep a lady 3.4 times within 8 hours,its a pity

Shukusheka:
You have given us little information to work with to give an advice.

We do not know your career aspiration, what job you got, distance of workplace to your home, what you studied in school, when you finished school.

Personally, if I made a 2.1 and still freshly out of school, I am not taking a 30k job.

Honestly..
30K salary is way too poor.

Nigerian men will kneel and propose to a woman..marry her with their hard earned money ,yet maltreat and rubbish her.

How much more when a lady proposed to a man.

Try this at your own risk in Nigeria.

Bye bye!

Who is going to pay bride price?

Ochason:
I wanted to post my story for advise and opinions on this matter.

My wife and I have been married for 8 years and we really have not had any issues until now. The whole situation started about 5 months ago. I think it was early January. We just launched our second business branch and my wife threw a party for us.I am into real estate and other strings of businesses. Last year was a good year for us. Our business grew and we expanded by opening one more branch office here in Port Harcourt (not real location). My wife,who is our Business development strategist came up with an office opening party so we can invite dignitaries and celebrities to come and even invest more in our businesses. My wife decided to engage her friend that is a top event planner to handle the event. The event was successful no doubt,everything was just glamorous. Then,there was another part of the event that moved to the club that night. We were all having fun. And then,my wife’s friend who planned the earlier event showed up looking really well dressed..more like very s*xy outfit. Of course,lot of people were dressed to kill at the party. In a lit party like this,one should expect some serious drinking and some inappropriate behaviors. It was clear,my wife’s friend was getting a little more than tipsy. She was doing a little too much and my wife was concerned. I tried to call my Driver to come take her home but the foolish guy was drinking somewhere and didnt pick my call. My wife agreed that I escort her friend to go sleep in our SUV until the Driver shows up. I guided her friend to our car and tried to get her inside to sleep but things took a different turn. She was drunk and started to pull me to kiss her. she was rubbing on me and telling me she wants me. I knew it was the alcohol talking but she kept on and on. Begging me to kiss her so she can sleep. No one was looking and I gave her a small kiss just to let her feel she got what she wanted. Of course she wanted more but I didn’t oblige her. I put on the AC for her and pulled the seat back for her to rest. As I walked away,I finally got through the Driver and he came to take her home. I thought that was the last I would hear of what just happened but I was wrong. Two days later,this lady starts to chat me and saying she wants to see me. I thought it was a joke. She said things like she knows I want her too cos I kissed her at the club 2 days ago. She kept confessing her love for me and how she cannot control herself. To be honest,this is not the first time women would throw themselves at me but this is the first time,a friend of my wife would do such a thing. I asked her what if my wife finds out and she replied me with a bomb: she said..she does not care because my wife is also not a saint. What?!!!!..what did she mean by that? I asked her to explain and she said she cannot tell me because she swore never to tell anyone but that my wife has definitely been with someone else but me.At this time,I was getting really worked up. I told her she was bluffing and she said I was being naive. I told her I would ask my wife…she said she would deny but that does not mean its not true. She would deny because she swore to keep my wife’s secret.
So,in order to play her game,I told her I would sleep with her if she told me who my wife was cheating with. She agreed. She sent me lots dirty messages and told me to meet her at a hotel that night. And then,I asked her: how do I know you are not trying to set me up and walking into a trap? My wife’s friend then gave details. She said my wife and I were having issues just a few months before our wedding,I said yes!…she said because of the issues…my wife was doubting my loyalty and she went back to her ex and slept with him. And that they were seeing each other even after we got married until like 4 months after marriage.
I knew this woman is desperate but this information she just released scattered my brain. I drove straight to see my wife and straight up told her what her friend just told me. My wife began to act shocked and pretend that her friend was lying so I told her, I have recorded conversations (which I really didn’t have)and if she pushed me to release these conversations, it would be over between us.
At that point,my wife broke down and started crying. She then confessed to having gone back to her ex when we were having issues weeks before our wedding. But she swore on her children’s’ lives that it did not continue after we got married.
However,her ex went to tell her friend that they were seeing each other which was a lie. That her ex wanted her back by all means and was telling lies that I was not treating her well and that she misses her ex and wants to come back but she is stuck in the marriage.
All these revelation was too much for me to bear. I told my wife to leave our home but she refused so I took a my things and went to the company guest house where I have been. I have been so angry and betrayed that I do not know what to do.
I never planned to be a divorcee. I love my wife. She is very instrumental to the success of my business …but how do we work through this when she has betrayed me like this? And she is insisting the affair ended when we got married….the affair before marriage is hurtful because we were still engaged even at that time but if it continued after…I cannot live like this.

How then,do I believe she may be telling the truth? Trust has been thrown out of the window. Our families have been trying to reconcile us but as a man,I have never been so hurt and emotional in all my life. I trusted my wife with all my life.

I finally agreed for us to see our Pastor last week to counsel us but it ended up in a disaster. I recognize I was still angry and I was shouting and my wife was crying uncontrollably saying I do not believe her but I believe a woman who is trying to ruin our marriage.

Well,if her friend is trying to ruin our marriage…she caused it..she allowed it. We both left distraught and later that night,the friend showed up in my guest house. She told me that she came to beg for me to forgive her friend. But you should have seen what she wore. The most see through outfit and as soon as I allowed her to sit down,she came hard on me.
Pushing her away was my first thought. But I felt so angry that I also wanted to revenge my wife and I started responding to her. I was ready to make love to this woman but I stopped and told her to leave. Since then,she has been determined to make me sleep with her.

I felt I needed space but the more space I need,the more s*xual temptations are coming my way. And yes,I would be justified if I give in right? After all…my wife did it first? Maybe if I did…I would feel better and maybe be able to forgive her after we are even.

I miss my wife but how do I trust her….I feel tempted to sleep with someone else. Its not that hard for men…I do not know how much more I can resist the temptation. How can I be sure that my wife is telling the truth? How do I know the affair ended after our marriage?

Will I be able to trust her again? Is there any hope for our marriage?

Men shaa.

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"small cheating " from a woman and you wanna die.
Meanwhile,you lots will be sleeping around with numerous side Chics and your wives will swallow it

alaribe1992:
I am an undergraduate of a high institution in Owerri, so I've been home due to the closure of schools Nationwide.

There's this girl whose mom owns a drinking bar somewhere around my street, she's an undergraduate too, but she's been home too during this lockdown. I've been seeing this girl for years but started developing feelings for her suddenly.

I approached her as a sharp guy and collected her number. She wasn't using a smart phone then, so we communicate through phone calls.
At first our conversations was smooth and sweet, and it was like a match made in heaven, we haven't gone out for a date due to she always stays in her mom's shop and her mom is a very strict woman. Her dad is late. I told this girl my mind, that I'd like us to date and she agreed.

To cut the story short

After a week she started acting strange, sometimes she wouldn't pick my calls and she won't call back, she got a smart phone and was back on WhatsApp. She replies my text late after seeing them.

On Sunday afternoon I called her and she busied my call, a friend of mine who lives opposite their shop called me on phone telling me the girl was outside their shop and was over the phone with someone for a long time. I called her again and she busied my call again, I texted her on WhatsApp to ask her what her problem was.

After a day, she replied on WhatsApp that she's sorry. Well today she just texted me that she's no longer interested in the relationship that she just wants to be left alone. Note that we haven't even had a time together all this while due to the fact I didn't want to rush things with her and she was always at her mom's shop.

I want to know how someone that likes you before just wakes up and all of a sudden no longer interested in you again without any provocation.

Thank you

The only reason why her sudden attitude bothers you is because you didnt fvck her

If only ladies know how premarital sex makes them lose value.they will close their legs

Elock1:
girlfriend kwa?


As what exactly?
Somebody that will still go and LA.sh another guy

Rip to ifeanyi
He dy pay him babe even in death

Lol...
Wonder how the thought of a woman with another man kills men..Same people who brag about their unfaithfulness.

Well,he is dead.
They were never married.
Even if they were,she doesn't owe the dead anything.
Life goes on.
Congratulations to her.

Fragility6:
The girlfriend chilling in one spot knowing anoda nigga go don dey maintain d engine

There is nothing wrong with that.
Even a wife would move on.