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Shiloh here and there..

Yet advise them to stop indulging in fornication,they will raise points to support it.

Ndi ara.
Hypocrites

UniqRight:
Please don't be insensitive to the plight of the people. Things are really very rough with some people.

Lolz..
Who send you message?

UniqRight:
This one tough.

Nigerians please help me as a fellow Nigerian. Someone should please help me as I'm helpless at the moment due to circumstances. I really need help for food for my little kids. It's shameful doing this but life has left me with no choice. They've been seriously hungry please. Any amount please. It shall be well with anyone sending us anything at all. Thanks.

31800_09871, Ecobank, U. Felix

Thanks.

Una never tire for this format?

inumidun2010:
Madam Doctor, Are you trying to say it's only a rich Guy that can catch your attention.... Please be LOYAL to your HUSBAND, Cos i know guys Wey their blood dey hot oooooo, Married and Single, dem dey run am... Money no be their PROBLEM.... You have a tendency to have an ENTANGLEMENT... Na Apoptosis be that ooooo

What do you mean by rich guys?
So for a guy to be educated and have a steady source of income to take care of his needs means he is rich?
My husband is my colleague.
We are not rich but we are comfortable.
Rich or poor,a woman who wants to have an affair will.

You act broke and poor when you are running after a broke and poor lady.

So you will meet a woman who is doing well for herself,say a medical doctor(like myself) and you start acting broke and poor...You are funny.
I won't even look at you twice.
Am I broke?

PS: I'm married with kids.
Just used myself as an example.

Nigerians n religion..
God no do anything.
Its not the child's time and destiny.
When its his time,he will die
And nothing una God can do about it

TruthSeeker1:
As a "moralist", what will you teach your kids about God and life after death?

There is no God.
There is no life after death.
Do what is good according to your conscience.
Do what gives you a good name,high self esteem and makes you proud of yourself,fulfilled and happy.
The day you die,you go into oblivion..Unaware of anything, same way you were before you were conceived and born..Even while in your mother's womb.

EVILFOREST:
Next FEBRUARY will make it my 13years Anniversary of staying away from Church and its related activities.
Join me as I mark such an adorable feat.

I prefer teaching my KIDS, standard Morals than enrolling them into "speaking in tongues" classes which they completely know nothing about.
CHURCH isn't the only place wia morals can be taught.
In Fact the teaching of MORALS usually stems from the home and the way we do things.
AFRICAN TRADITIONAL HOMES were birthed on morals even before the WHITES came.
KIDS respected their parents and assisted.
WIVES honoured their husbands.
Husbands were really heads and not now.

Well Said!
Congratulations Sir.

I stopped attending church 3 years ago.
I'm glad I did.

I am a moralist and that is how I will bring up my kids.

cfree14:
So today(Sunday) I decided to stay at home because of yesterday's wedding I attended. Not that I don't go to church but I came back home yesterday feeling very tired, even till this morning.

A neighbour saw me this morning and was like "Bros, you no go church today?" I tried to make him understand why but he kept on telling me how it's wrong not to go to church and stuff.

So the question on my mind today is, why do people tag others who "miss" Sunday service as sinners?

For 3 years plus,I have not stepped foot in a church.
Your neighbour is a typical hypocrite.

Before and After church service,he will fvck ashewo

Naija men.

On social media,they talk(type) tough.
They brag about kicking out a suspected cheating wife..with "I go send am packing,back to her papa house,marry new wife"

But in reality,see him..
Fighting his fellow man.
And dem beat am join.

Social media and reality are different anyway.
Shame!

If Emmanuella was a teenager or young adult,Nigerian men would have said she got the money to build the house via hoeing ,hawking pusi to highets bidders.
Questions like "How does she make money? Who watches her comedy video? Why is it only ladies that are balling while the guys are struggling?"

For now,its Congratulations because they dont see the possibility of her making the money via sleeping around.

In 10 years times,the reaction will be different.

Decolonel:
Lol.. You are so funny. Did I mention anything like she got pregnant and removed it?. Why do you like assuming crazy things. My fiancee never did abortion for me and I'm proud to say it

Pls don't mind the toxic comments here.
Bitter males full this platform.

Congratulations Dr.Enoch O.
I remember you and this your babe from clinical hostel and yes,the plaited hair.lolz.

lugzii:
Congrats. God bless the union.

Please get a job fast if you have not so that the marriage can be sweeter.

Please send us IV make we come eat Rice and Turkey with meat,fish and bottles of champagne

He is already working as a house officer..
I knew him in medical school.
I remember the day I saw him with plaited hair and he said his babe did it.lolz

Enoch Enoch

uche87:
Being the Director of Communications at Helping Ordinary Lives, HOL Foundation is challenging. Every day of your life, you feel the gas left in your tank would dry up and then your race will end before the finish line. Every day is a battle to put at least short smiles on the faces of people, who hope for reason to express genuine happiness. The biggest or funniest jokes by the best clown or comedians in town can't move them as their pains are bigger than them all.

It is easy to read about the spate of poverty in Nigeria and Africa on the pages of newspapers or journals. It is harder to get a full picture of poverty and stand to look at it in reality. You not only fight to hold your tears, you also fight for the strength to stand on your feet. 89 million Nigerians are living in extreme poverty in Nigeria despite the yardstick for the measurement of poverty is being below spending $2 (N684) on food per day. The figures are simple to look past as a headline, but it is a different ball game when you see the people living in extreme poverty physically as well as listening to their stories. I wish the people could be granted free passage into heaven on judgement because the planet earth has been hell for them.

I will never forget the 27th of June, 2020. It was the day I saw the image of poverty and believe me, poverty is ugly and scary. My Managing Director had contacted me to prepare for a regular field exercise which entailed sharing of relief materials amongst residents of vulnerable communities. It was a hard decision to make considering the menace of the coronavirus pandemic, which had ruined businesses and plundered the financial resources of many. For the first time, I felt it was over for the foundation. I saw myself joining the vulnerable people we swore to bring succour and hope to. The director wasn't going to let Covid-19 deter him from a cause he has dedicated his life to. He gathered funds here and there and even went as far as borrowing, to purchase food materials for the vulnerable people, whose conditions have been made worse by the infectious and deadly disease.

We arrived at one of the shanties at the Agbado Ijaiye area of Lagos State to share relief materials. We had arranged portions of rice, beans, noodles, vegetable oil and others in sizeable quantities for a targeted section of the population living there. They were happy to see us. Most of them lamented the failure of the government to share its highly publicized Covid-19 palliatives amongst them. They argued that they need them the most in Nigeria. We pacified them with soothing words and in no time, the smiles on their faces almost overpowered the rays of the sun. It was a beautiful sight.

Our relief materials were not enough as news spread around town that we were around and the number of people on the ground kept doubling. We soon took our leave and promised to return at a future date. We felt fulfilled to a large extent as we journeyed back to our various homes. Then the rain began to fall; as Africans, we regarded this as showers of blessings. We assumed that Providence was happy with our efforts and was trying to part us on the backs. The business of the day seemed done and dusted but that wasn't all, something that would mark the beginning of another landmark story was developing.

As we negotiated excruciatingly with the potholes around the Agbado-Ijaiye axis, we spotted a middle-aged man who was physically-challenged. He was only moving around with a makeshift wooden wheeler. It was quite small and low. It is commonly used by crippled beggars. He sat on it and used a pair of bathroom slippers worn on his hands to move it around. Everywhere was flooded. The vehicle we came in was already crying for help as the bad roads had the best of it. This man was navigating around the potholes by the roadside energetically. Some of the potholes at times looked as if they were going to take his life.

The director was moved as he stared at him from the car. He ordered that the car should be parked and he approached the man. For once, I felt he had wanted to heal him like Jesus Christ as he alighted from the vehicle and gazed at him. When he got close, he bent and said 'Please gentleman, what is your name?'

He struggled to respond as he could barely speak the English language. From his intonation, it was clear that he was Hausa. One of the workers who understood the language perfectly interjected and communicated with him. It was then that he gave his name as Ayuba. The middle-aged man whose looks tell the gory stories and wicked challenges of life revealed he begs for a living. The boss ransacked the vehicle for some palliatives. Luckily, we found some. He also handed some cash gifts to him. He explained he is a married father of 4. His wife is crippled too. We all abandoned our trip temporarily and followed Ayuba to his home. Ayuba's life was a true image of poverty. His first child was about 10 years old. All of them have never seen the four walls of a school. They were not only malnourished with their bodies covered by tattered clothes, they also had no future to bank on. Tears flowed down on the cheeks of everybody as Ayuba narrated what it takes to put the cheapest meal on the family table every day. If the tears weren't controlled, the imminent flood around his house could have been fastened by the collection of tears from our eyes. One could only peep through Ayuba's house with fear. It was dark and looked like a dungeon from which the next pandemic could emerge. The door was so low and small that a fat animal might be discouraged from entering.

"I want my children to go to school. I want a better future for them. I don't want them to end up like me. Life is hard, life is just too hard" he said with the tears been seamlessly unleashed.

"I can't afford a wheelchair. It is so difficult for my wife and i to move around during the rainy season. I can't count the number of times I have fallen into deep gutters. Going out is a risk. I feel I could die anytime but the well-being of my family means a lot to me. I just have to go out and make something no matter how little" he added.

The boss looked up and signalled to everybody that it was time to leave. Ayuba looked at the relief materials again and thanked us. He wished we could stay longer and eat with his family but we respectfully declined.

For the first time in a very long time, the boss was quiet all through the trip home. We all knew he was touched by the story of Ayuba. We were all moved too. When I got to the junction of my street, the car parked and I came down with my bag containing my personal effects. The boss looked at me and said, Ayuba is our new project now. He is part of our family. His children are our responsibility and we have to make the sun shine on that home. I nodded my head in acceptance. Waved him goodbye and left for my home. I was troubled all night and restless due to the day's experience.

HOL Foundation has struggled to solve the structural challenges of Ayuba but we are very hopeful and will never forget him. The boss ordered the logistics team to dispatch some relief materials to his home recently. Life seems the same for Ayuba but we are very sure things will soon take a U-turn in his life as we continue to gather the needed resources to make the promised change.

***
George Osayimwen is the Director of Communications at HOL Foundation

Source: https://www.tori.ng/news/158431/my-facetoface-encounter-with-poverty-and-his-four.html

No pity for them.

You are crippled..
Your wife is crippled.

Both of you are poor and have no source of income.
Yet you have children..not one,not two..FOUR!
Its the unfortunate children I pity

GreatInRock:
Lol. This election has entered k-leg

Good evening all.
It's not easy but I have to do this. Please I'm typing this with tears in my eyes. Someone should please help me with any amount to manage and get food stuff and some drugs for my baby. Please show us mercy I beg you. We are really hungry and starving due to situation of things. May God bless those who bless us, amen. It's well with us.

62365.41002, Fidelity bank, Esther O.

You don't have money..yet you are getting pregnant.
Some of you ladies like to complicate your already complicated life.

BTW, where is your husband or baby papa?

WorkTheTalk:
True hypocrisy is when a man battered his wife and children at home, but forms marriage counselor to his colleagues in the office.


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This is exactly my father.

Terrorist at home..PhD in Wife battering,MSc in maltreating his children... Chairman,Marriage Committee in the Church.
Chairman of many wedding occasions.


Hypocrisy!

BiggyB242:
But I regretted not studying medicine if my Dad would spend just a little money and had me enrolled in pre-degree. I'm still angry at him anytime I see my doctor friends. I know where them they now as doctors, one is presently a flying officer(doctor) in the military,same guy when I dey teach then, success in life isn't based on academic excellence. After missing it the first year I switched to engineering because I was good at maths and physics but I actually wanted medicine the fear of writing jamb 5 times is the beginning of wisdom.

I wrote JAMB 5 times because I wanted medicine or nothing.

I spent 8 frustrating years in medical school.

Immediately, housemanship started..I had no regrets at all.

Its been 4 years post graduation and I am glad I persevered

Obviously, she wasn't married.

I wonder how ladies think.

No money,no source of income.
You are so poor that you can't afford delivery fee in a govt facility yet you will spread your legs for a man who has not even married you and get pregnant..

Give her 3 months now,another belle go enter.
They never learn

That increases your risk!

Favy1235:
If you meet guys that never takes NO for an answer you will understand.
Back then in school i dated one guy,when the love wasn't there any longer i plainly told him.
The next day i was still sleeping he came over and refused to agree to my 'NO'. stayed with till evening,same thing happened the next day.
I had to pack my bags and travel home that weekend because of ASUU strike.
Even uptil today he still reminds me i'm his gf.

Because you opened your door for him,entertained him and still in contact with him till today.

Nobody can hang around anybody except they are given the opportunity to do so.

Nemesis is catching up with evil men.
The sins of the fathers will be visited on the children.

Never condole with Nigerian policemen.
Never pity them.
Evil men

Nigerians and different dates of birth.
Even men lie about their ages too

Lawyer Vs Lawyer.

chinchonglee:
When I was 14-22, i was thinking how pple who committed suicide are fools and idiots. But wen I became a full grown adult, I began to see reasons with dem, I began to see the real cause of heart attack and HBP. Mehn adulthood nor easy at all.

R.I.P man! Everywhere rough

Mine is the opposite.
When I was growing up,I contemplated suicide on 2 occasions..In secondary school & in the university.

Adulthood(post graduation) has been kind to me.
Suicide is never an option

virginprincess:
Sometime ago, i had this close friend actually a guy, i rarely trust people but i trusted this guy to the extent i usually tell him about my personal life, i never knew this guy serectly admired me but never told me anyday so i just took him like a friend, the day this guy broke my trust for him was the day he tried to rape me i was shocked, if not for God that guy almost had his way the luck i had was that his mum just returned from work and so she was looking for him, he had to leave through our backdoor, since i was the only one at home, na God save me that day i almost became a victim of rape, since then i hardly trust anyone even my own brothers.

A man who admires you will not rape or attempt to rape you.
He never admired you.
He only lusted after you.

chatinent:
Is being rich all there is?

Money answereth all

chatinent:
And females who play football be looking like men!

It doesn't matter.

Being rich,famous and successful above looking feminine and being a prey to men.

Ehya!
He did the "normal" thing in the "abnormal" place.
Next time,return home to Nigeria and sexually molest women.
Nobody will arrest you.
Instead,they will shame and blame the victim while making excuses for you.
For now,Sorry oh

pozehnani:
Happy baiday to him.

He's not looking bad for a 38yr old. He looks 30. Evidence of good leaving though.

Leaving to where?

Strict Christian man...But he will cheat on his wife

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

I need to meet your ex and give her a bottle of her favorite drink...She sure deserves an award.
I hope ladies learn from her .How to totally break up ,off and treat an ex boyfriend .complete oblivion.He never existed.

@Op..You thought you would be given the opportunity to get mushy n fvck once in a while under the context of Okafor's law so you can come online to brag about it and get cheers from your fellow guys while backlashing ladies.
You are disappointed.
Your ex is a Correct Babe.

Chef2000:
Please doctors in the house is there a cure for nocturnal epilepsy?

I have a pretty girl, we started dating 8 months ago, this girl is everything I need in a woman, she is neat, cooks well and humble, so perfect to my taste but she is epileptic.

I have been inviting her to my house for over 5months for her to sleep over in my apartment but she keeps refusing, telling me she has a problem then I later promised her whatever the problem is that I wouldn't abadon her.

She finally came on friday, we ate together and later in the night at 22:38 she started having epilepsy and after about 45mins she woke up and started crying, she told me she has been suffering from epilepsy since Feb 2019 but she hasn't been to the hospital due to financial issues.

So please can we find drug for nocturnal epilepsy, it happens to her only at night like 30 to 35mins in her sleep.

There is no cure for epilepsy. It can only be controlled
If I were you,I will end the relationship immediately.

PS: I'm a lady