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assamu1122:
Please post for me ASAP

My girlfriend of two years just informed me that she got pregnant with another man. That she has just done a test and it's positive. This is a woman I have gone to her family with my people and have collected and argued list. I have started buying marriage stuff on this list and now, this happened. I am confused.


What should I do please?

Switch to your other plans.. B, C, etc.

Afterall, you people always brag about 7 women rushing one man..
Why are you perturbed about 1 woman.
You are a disappointment

philanthropic:
Hope you are not lying..

If you are saying the truth, then you don't need a prophecy to tell you that your fiance is no more your fiance, except you are a Major General in SIMPING.

Many or most girls of this generation like sex, and one of the reasons is because they sleep around and get possessed with the spirit of immorality.....

"Those days, many women cheat because of lack of love and attention, today, many women cheat because of the sweetness of Fornication and Adultery"

Yeah... And they are cheating with animals.. Goats, Dogs and Pigs in the shape of men.

DannyG8:
When we started dating everything was cool, she do call me, we chat everything was ok. She comes to my place but just all of a sudden she changed, stopped picking up my calls, stopped replying my messages or sometimes it takes her days to reply me

I don't understand her and I don't know what to do either. I need your advice please no insult.

SIMP!

How can you use innocent and police in the same sentence?

No responsible and reasonable woman joins the NPF.

She got served..

This happened to me.

I met this cool guy and we were about starting a relationship... along the line, I found out he slept with one of my friends.The lady had gotten pregnant and they aborted it.
It was the relationship he was just coming out from.
I stopped seeing him after that knowledge.
I couldn't have been involved with my friend's leftover.
If table turned, he would leave me too.
Cased closed!

Mozegee:
Not only 34 years ,you would have write 15. Old woman claiming 34.

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Is 34 a young woman?
I thought old women start from 30 in Africa

Her faith encourages Fornication and discourages abortion.. That's interesting

Hausa Muslim , wealthy man..
3 daughters..
Quietly adopted a son.

Meanwhile , a wretched jobless man with no properties will continue birthing kids searching for a male child who has nothing to inherit except poverty.

8 children? And expecting the 9th?

Children are free gifts from God.
It's the Lord's doing...

Nonsense.
Poor people are just plainly Stu. Pid

Premium tears for the lady.

Guy will make money now and suddenly remember she is fat and dark complexioned.

Racoon:
It is so unfortunate the poor lady may have died from mental fatigue given that she just finished her exams but all these senseless statements by the university authority are uncalled for @ present.RIP girl!

Mental fatigue studying Animal science.
Wonder how those who study/studied Medicine and Surgery cope(d)

Yoighaman:
I sense the pain and regrets in your comment, but thank God you have moved on, just find a place in your heart to totally forgive him.

It is well with you, I wish you a blissful marriage.

Never in my entire life have I felt so much pain and regret like with this incident.
Along the line, so many guys rejected me because I maintained No sex.
I couldn't imagine sleeping with 2nd man and then he dumps me .
No way!
I have totally forgiven him..
But it will never be the same.

Gentlebuka:
If you get addicted, na sorry be your case. Your story go change. The guy was very wrong, what he did to you. Infact, if a man did that to my sister, i wont be happy at all. However, i think that you've got to understand that masturbation is very addicting and not easy to be free from. If no one has ever told you the consequences of getting addicted to something, especially something as sweet as that, you've got to find them for yourself before it gets too late. Checkout Nofap on google and see what people are going through as a result of being addicted. I know you might not be addicted yet, but you've got to apply caution and know what you are dealing with. Since you now have a husband, I'd advice you quit completely. This time around, you do not have any excuse not to. Even if you do, trust me, you won't think twice before quitting if you get addicted eventually and the consequences set in as a result. By that time, you will abandon every excuse you have. Anything done too much always has its side effects.

I rather get addicted to masturbation than have sex with a guy I'm not married to.
Masturbation over premarital sex and adultery.
Thank you for your preaching.

Karleb:
Your first sex experience actually changed your perspective about sexx. It is alright.

I hope you don't deny your spouse his rights tho.

I'm glad it did.

I don't but I am not crazy about it.

I can always masturbate

Karleb:
O boy! This is saddening!

I don't get why you ladies form abstinence only to masturbate.

I mean, why not just have the sex with your boyfriend and enjoy it rather than seeing your body as the price for the highest bidder?

Not as if you give the sex as often as possible in marriages.

I would rather masturbate 100 times than have sex outside the confines of matrimony.
This was my vow after that incident.

After enjoying with your boyfriend, he dumps you, you move to another guy and the cycle continues.What sort of life is that??

. Masturbation is bae . I will not disrespect, slutshame or dump myself after the act.. I won't go about bragging to my friends how I used and dumped me.. no risk of unwanted pregnancy, abortions, heartbreak, STDs

I was 22.
3rd year in medical school.
I had my first boyfriend.
He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.

I thought I had found love... Finally.

He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating.
I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.

3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.

I grew to love and adore him.
Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.

I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.

Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me.
He barely responded to my messages.

He gave excuses as being too busy at work.
I returned from home and he wouldn't see me ..
Continued same way for about 2 weeks.

Then,I visited him unannounced .

He told me he was no longer interested.

He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.

That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.

He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.

He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).


That broke me!

That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.

It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure
Sex was never involved.

Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.


I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.

Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE

I am thankful your act shaped me.
You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons.
I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body.

He is now A STAR.

Inside Life!

I masturbated for many years..
Instead of rendering myself to men to use and dump, I found solace and peace in giving myself sexual pleasure.
My relationship with the opposite sex was strictly NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.
Masturbation helped me maintain it that way.

I'm married now...
But once in a while, like this morning, before getting out of bed, I have played with my bo.obs n stroke my cl.it.ori.s enough.

I see nothing wrong with masturbation especially when you are single.
Better than hoping on a pe.nis.

chronian:
In this era of everyone being serious with one issue or the other.
We're all hustling to make ends meet and no one as it stands now has time for fun anymore.

Aside clubbing, hiking and partying,

what other outdoor or indoor activities can you suggest one engage in so as to have a little bit of fun??

Sleep

Hahahahahaha..
What a SIMP.

On social media, they are bragging how they are the ones doing women favour by dating and marrying them, how women are rushing them, how desperate women are,how they dump cheating partners, bla bla bla

In reality, the story is different.


What a waste of manhood.

confirmedniggae:
Good evenning all.

I have been having this thought of quitting my job to learn driving in order to pick up an UBER or BOLT job but the fear of getting a car on hire purchase is always coming as an hindrance.

I am a family man whose salary of just #85,000 is not even enough to cater for the family .Before the salary even comes in, there are always debts that have been incurred.

Most times,I dont even get up to #20,000 as a result of debts and seriously I am fed up. Infact , I think of suicide sometimes because i am so depressed right now. I have rent of #140,000 hanging on my neck too.

Please will it be wise to quit to learn driving for purpose of commercial driving job?

85K... And you are married.

I'm sure you were listening to motivational speakers..

I can bet your wife does nothing.

Men Sha.. Una like to suffer.

englishmart:
My ex invited me for her wedding. I knew it was to spite me. But whatever be the case, I'm not attending even for $200,000 voucher.

What about you?

Seriously?
So men feel this way?

I thought you should go there and brag about fvcking her and dumping her...that she is a left over
You are a SIMP

When Naija girls say "Tall, Dark & Handsome",they are referring to Paul Onuachu

"His name Hubby"

1.15M?

1.2M

He is right .. 100%.

The best relationship remains.. No spending, no sexing.
Everybody hold your money and your body.

That way, true love is expressed.
No scam

Reminds me of my childhood.
If my Papa beat you, you no land for hospital, be grateful.. he didn't touch you at all

openmine:
Can you prove that all Nigerian husbands Bleep housemaids?

The comment of men on social media on issues like this, especially on this platform and in this thread has proved it

Nigerian husbands and fvcking housemaids is like bread and butter, 5&6 .
They can never disappoint

pocohantas:
The irony of it all...
Has been happening, keeps happening. I don’t take their rants on liabilities serious anymore. If I am a liability, I wouldn’t even be bothered. Naija men have me covered.

This is all the truth.
The whole rant about preferring women who are financially independent is a big fat lie.
Starts and ends on social media.
In reality, they prefer women who have no source of income, the ones they label leeches and liabilities.
The ones they can blackmail, manipulate and maltreat because they are feeding them and providing everything for them, thus massaging their ego.

The few that come around well to do women , are mostly there for her money.. after sucking and milking her dry, they will move to another lady.. the one wey no get shishi.
I learnt this early enough and made sure I never gave out a dime, in any form.
Make everybody hustle and hold him money.

MufasaLion:
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Bolded tho . Madam said it with confidence

I made money early..
So I was very conscious .. Let Nigerian men not chop my money ,go flex with ladies who have nothing, their so called liabilities.