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Thanks.

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I actually ignored some people

Thanks anyways

Prettyhurts:
My dear is enough ok, even when you're mentioned just ignore. You can also ignore my mention.

Chumzypinky please don't reply back. Can you gimme (us) another update on Tradition.

Pamelb read her critics from another angle please and don't go all mad on your readers. I know I hardly/ comment but your story is very interesting. I was like 'ahh, nawa oo Michael self he's really incorrigible' but I can't jump to conclusions yet cos I'm not the writer.

PLEASE NOBODY SHOULD DERAIL THIS THREAD AGAIN

I hate life because of what is going on this earth like the recent Manchester bombing and insurgencies around the world. If you are intelligent enough, you will agree with me that it is enough to hate life...It could have been me, my friends or my family.....I was that close to mourning someone I care about.

But I don't think you really are that intelligent because if you were, you would agree with me that the writer have raised topical issues and you would have known that it is not uncommon to criticique art, and also you would have seen my apology and realized that there was no need to mention me. My issues were with the writer and not you and they have been resolved.

However, talking about my personal life, trust me the envy will kill you when you take just a peep....Just a wee peap


I am not going to reply you again. Please go take care of your mental health for your sake and your family's. Thanks for signing attendance. You have been noted.


Please can we not derail this thread further? Thanks

Chumzypinky:
wow babe. This is becoming something else.
You're so bitter and i think you need help. Even your signature says "i hate life"
Bae, i do not know what you maybe passing through in life but i just want you to know that life screws us all.
Take a chill pill and if its not helping, i suggest you meet a counsellor. Like i said earlier, you need help, no offences please.
Thanks. Pls can i have your number so i can contact you? We really need to talk

Notice to all...PLEASE DO NOT quote me again


Thanks.

Tgold1:
Oh My Jesus.... This dearie is in my thought.....


Had to read some pages to know what really happened....
Well, different people with different opinion....

Pamelb, something like this must happen, and once you open your mind to the person, either in explanation or warning and the person still try to exhibit his/her stupidity, pls just move on and ignore, don't even think of quitting.

Sterope
I feel what you've said and from your perspective you are right, no one is promoting violence(rape, domestic violence, woman battery, infidelity and d likes) but try and understand the reader b4 drawing a conclusion.

Stay blessed y'all I mean no harm here and I love y'all.

Out of peace.

Good work dear.

I don't think someone like Michael deserves a second chance

Timson01:
okay i dont know whst to tell u again u dont think anyone deserves a secound chance huh?

Who is talking to this one? I am done with you and I have apologised. I am not doing more than that but I won't let some unserious elements attack me. You are a writer and you need to learn to take criticisms.

PamelB:
imagination or not abi, then kukuma get out of here.
You concluded my story for me and I'm quiet about it but this is enough. There's a limit to all nonsense.
Wat if this story doesn't end d way you're thinking it would end? Please eh, go and construct a story and I'll gladly come and read, derail the thread, confuse the readers and make sure u clap for me.

I didn't stir anything. One cannot advocate against something again abi what....Imagine action fuels reality and such imagination that will encourage such vices which are already prevalent in our society should not be encouraged whatsoever. I don't need to be a victim to feel for victims. H

Abi should do you want to wait till you or some you know experience these things before you advocate against them....Because that is exactly why you are trying to tell me. I am not you.



There are people on this thread who have wished for a wife like Claire and those who have urged the writer to make Claire stay and build her home and those who choose to overlook Michael's attitudes because it is his weaknesses and he was not like that before so Claire should forgive him OR is it not on this same forum people support domestic abuse, rape and infidelity? And I also know this imagination is exactly what goes in in real life therefore I have every right and duty to speak against it imagination or not. Imagination that encourages such vices should be criticized and I will do my best when I have the time and energy for it.





I have apologised to the writer, I hope you didn't miss that. Biko, don't stir things up again.



The guy I quoted said I was too bitter about this story. I didn't even take it as an offenc because it is not. It is a good compliment which I am proud of. I don't mind being bitter about domestic abuse, infidelity and rape. Bitterness for such vices is a good trait.

purityval:
Sooooooo... I had to go down a couple of pages to get a hang on what is happening.


PamelB... Honey you are damn good, guess I have told you this a million times . Thinking of stopping this story is 'haram' Thank God you didn't after all.

Know this, readers opinion varies. Some are awesomly encouraging while others are not. Sometimes a story stirs up a readers emotions especially when the story strays from an already constructed plot in his/her head. This can lead the reader to vent out anger and frustration, not against you but against the story. The funny thing is, this people don't leave the story, they still check up on it continuosly showing that they love you but the story dey make them vex

Sterope bae... Aunty you dey para oo. Your vex for micheal full basket Hey this world (thread) is someone's imagination ok, lets not be too serious about it rather lets enjoy it as it unfolds. I don't know if this particular story stirred up something within or its just you dissatisfied with the turn of events, either ways just like Pamela said, she is neither a supporter of domestic voilence nor rape. Who called you bitter again? I don't think you are.

Soooo why don't we allow the OP to trill us again instead of killing the vibe? Negative vibes can kill a writers urge believe me..

Oluwa yungzee is sighted in high places


#shalom

Sorry about what I have written earlier.

PamelB:
Please guys, I understand we all must not have same thoughts about an issue. I also understand you guys are trying to keep the thread lively but see, some people are already taking it personal.

I'm a woman so I can't encourage wife battery or r@pe. I write as the inspiration comes.

It's not fair how you guys concluded on this story without allowing me to finish it.

I can't end this story giving people the idea that karma doesn't exist or that people can go about doing whatever evil they wanna do. Sterope, please calm down.

Ehe! Those that said critism, biko, I allow them because I'm not perfect and I need you guys to aid in making me close to perfect. But there's a very big difference between criticizing my mistakes and running conclusions on a story.
I've written two stories here before this one and the flow has been beautiful, critics and encouragements that led me to continue.


But if you guys version of criticism is to conclude on someone's story, biko, hold your critics abeg.

And note, I've got bad mouth. A very bad one. So anyone who tries to tell me "what should have been" in this story, let me not talk.


Happy Sunday y'all

You haven't answered my questions?


Hmmm, please tell me you will pray for someone to rape your two months baby and you must forgive that person because babies are his weakness. He is just a human being who is sexually vulnerable to them.


Sorry about that example....But it had to be used. That o exactly what you sound like when you ask people to forgive beasts.

You see when people treat others like trash it doesnt come from a place of weakness. It comes from a place of seeing yourself above that person or a place of envy to the extent you don't care about the humanity in them. That is exactly how predators reason. Pray tell why anyone should care about those who don't care about hurting you? They don't deserve it and when you see their actions as weaknesses, you are basically encouraging them and you are part of them because at the end of the day, they shou xo tiniest to hurt others, it is not their fault. It is their weaknesses.


Michael raped Gertrude. He almost killed Claire. Read the story again please

Timson01:
hmmm these is impressive lets look at these like these micheal has strength and weaknesses u can see the way he reacts wen he is being seduced he's vulnerable but does dat mean he is bad 4 life nope,i am not saying micheal is a gud person no i am saying dat if he has truly realized his mistake she should forgive him rape please amra was not rape she seduced him to get him dat might not be enough justification for him but don't say raping there was no raping rather claire should not allow amra in their live anymore

Sorry sir, being called a better woman on this matter is not an insult. I am bitter and proudly so.

Well, you could pray that either of the unfortunate situation befall your sisters. Afterwards, tell them that they should forgive because others have done something worse and they were forgiven.

Perhaps you are one of those people who consciously and willfully hurt others and seek forgiveness because they must forgive na, they have no choice what is done is done. They must move on by force or by fire. So tell me, what are you? A murderer? Rapist? Violent man? Paedophile? Oya tell me, so that we can tell your victims to forgive.

If you can think, you would know that given our society where rape, domestic abuse and infidelity are seen as normal, it is paramount that every human try as much as possible to show how inhumane these acts are especially doestoc abuse and rape. People die everyday from both. There are for victims whose lives have been destroyed because of their experience and the silent culture our society encourages. Many victims of domestic abuse die everyday all over the world, if 2 women die every week from domestic abuse in UK, can you imagine what for on Nigeria? Do you know why most of them stayed. They stayed because of people like you, because they are women and their primary role in life is to build the home no matter what.

I am happy you call me bitter. It basically shows that I am doing something right. Thanks.

xaviercasmir:
please forgive my rude comment. You are being too bitter about this story. Some have done worst sin than this but still be forgiven by does they hurt. And why already drawn into conclusion on the story that you have not read till the end? You are so bitter as if you has undergo the same ordeal. If so, i advice you to seek the help of a therapist. And stop all this your bitter concept about life.

Let someone rape your sister, or put your sister in intensive care unit or f.u.ck one sister while married to another....Doing everything consciously without a gun to his head. Then we shall not talk about emotions.

Don't forget to forgive him once he prostrates on the floor..You hear

Every human being is emotional, man and woman. That emotional line iis stu.pid and sta.le. . Being a woman does not mean being stu.pid. I am not stu.pid, don't even try to insinuate such.

Given that Michael is man, shouldn't he have handles it logically instead of emotionally. The fist time Sarah seduced him, he didn't end up acting sex with her because Claire entered. He was the one that carried his two left legs to Sarah to fix appointment. Sarah did not hold a gun to his head. After he pushed his wife and she lost her pregnancy, his first issue, he never tried to set things straight and reevaluate his circumstances. Sarah didn't tell him to not to mistreat his wife, did she? All that she offered was sex. Did Sarah ask him to rape Getrude, their maid too? Did Sarah asked him to have sex with his wife's sister when he could have avoided it?

Bad things start small, yes... But infidelity is not the same thing as rape. Infidelity does not lead to rape. Infidelity also get level, sleeping with an outsider is different from sleeping with your wife's sister. Infidelity is also not the same thing as domestic abuse. Claire could have does if she hasn't gotten through to Phillips. Micheal is a beast that do not care about Claire. Simple as a ABC, stop trying to justify what is not. Claire would be a foolish woman to wish things well with such a beast. I bet you would ask her to forgive him if he is found sleeping with their child too, after all bad things start small. Perhaps you are one of these people who treat others like trash with the hope of forgiveness when you tire.


Sorry sir, revenge is not a weakness and forgiveness is not strength....Let people so what will satisfy them.

Timson01:
the reason why u are saying these is because
probably you are a lady and dats understandable
i get,u are speaking emotionally many women
will say the same thing too,dont't forget micheal
was carried by sarah seduction by a woman it
was never his intention frm the start but u knw one thing with doing badthings is dat it all start
small but as a man give himself to onething to
another again he continues until he comes to his
senses micheal had his flaws dats ok but claire
should forgive him or better still ignore if dats
possible we show our weaknesses wen we revenge our strength wen we forgive.